Nicole Barkhordari, Couples & Sex Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, CST, LMFT, MA
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
2 Endorsed
Westlake Village, CA 91362
Let's Connect (805) 919-8898
Fuck! Is this as good as it gets? I know the “happily ever after” thing is a bit of a fairy tale, but I never imagined that in marrying the person of my dreams I would one day be dreaming for someone/something more. Sex has become an obligation… a transaction to keep the peace. The desire for passion is imprisoned in my dreams and fantasies… it is not present in my relationship from either of us. We could keep going like this, raise our kids, take vacations once a year… I’m sure things will be fine! But is it bad to say…I want more than FINE! I want fucking Fantastic! This was a chat I had with a client during a recent consult call.
We are obsessed with the idea of love but not nearly as obsessed with investing in love. For the last decade I have made it my mission to support couples in undressing intimacy issues and creating a realistic approach to love in the modern world. Life is busy, so we focus on the micro moments of connection and work collaboratively to reignite that spark.
No couple gets married hoping for an “average” relationship. Reclaim your love and your life today. Don’t waste another second questioning if this is “as good as it gets”! I can help you pursue deep fulfillment and connection in every area of your life, with your relationship at the forefront. Contact me now for a free 20-minute consultation. I've got you.
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $225
- Couple Sessions $265
- Pay by Cash, Check, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa, Zelle
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Nicole Barkhordari, Couples & Sex Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, CST, LMFT, MA
Qualifications
- Marriage & Family Therapist: Nicole Barkhordari
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 111777 Nicole Barkhordari
- In Practice for 10 Years
- Membership with AASECT 1366028 / 2020
- Membership with CAMFT 2014
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 919-8898
Nicole Barkhordari, Couples & Sex Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, CST, LMFT, MA
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Marital and Premarital
- Relationship Issues
- Sex Therapy
Expertise
- Anxiety
- Codependency
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Divorce
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- Impulse Control Disorders
- Infidelity
- Lesbian
- Life Coaching
- Life Transitions
- Men's Issues
- Mood Disorders
- Parenting
- Peer Relationships
- Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
- Self Esteem
- Stress
- Thinking Disorders
- Women's Issues
Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (805) 919-8898
Nicole Barkhordari, Couples & Sex Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, CST, LMFT, MA
2 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Body Positivity ,
Gay Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Ethnicity
Other Racial or Ethnic Background
Religion
Jewish
Age
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Body Positivity ,
Gay Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Ethnicity
Other Racial or Ethnic Background
Religion
Jewish
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Art Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Culturally Sensitive
- Emotionally Focused
- Expressive Arts
- Family / Marital
- Gottman Method
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Multicultural
- Narrative
- Person-Centered
- Play Therapy
- Psychodynamic
- Schema Therapy
- Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
- Strength-Based
- Trauma Focused
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (805) 919-8898
Nicole Barkhordari, Couples & Sex Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, CST, LMFT, MA
Location
Nearby Areas
Call for a free consultation now - (805) 919-8898
Nicole Barkhordari, Couples & Sex Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, CST, LMFT, MA
Last Modified: 8 Jul 2023