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Dr. Nick Santo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
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Dr. Nick Santo

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW (he, him)

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Available both in-person and online
New York, NY 10016
You're living a life that looks good on paper. Great career. People who love you. A home you've built. And yet something feels off. There's a gap between who everyone seems to think you are and who you actually feel like on the inside. You've started to wonder if you've been performing a version of yourself for so long that you've lost track of the real one. For many of my clients, that gap has roots. It often traces back to years spent hiding — hiding who you loved, who you were, what you believed, or what was done to you. When you spend that long pretending, the pretending starts to feel like the truth.
I'm Nick Santo, a psychotherapist based in Manhattan. I specialize in complex trauma, religious harm, and the long aftermath of having to be someone you weren't. Much of my work is with LGBT+ adults, though people come to me from many different backgrounds. My approach is relational, affirming, and grounded in respect for this work.
This isn't about fixing you. You're not broken. It's about returning to who you actually are and building a life that reflects that. If something here resonates, I'd love to talk. Reach out for a free phone consultation.
Call or Dr. Nick Santo now for a free 15 minute consultation - (347) 380-7209

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

New York, NY 10016

(347) 380-7209
My website
Come for the tea, stay for the healing. :)
I specialize in Anxiety, Depression and Self Esteem 
$300 Per Session  
Individual one-on-one therapy 
There's a quiet kind of exhaustion that builds when you've been carrying too much for too long.
Dr. Nick Santo
Let's Connect (347) 380-7209
Photo of Dr. Nick Santo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

New York, NY 10016

(347) 380-7209
My website
Come for the tea, stay for the healing. :)
I specialize in Anxiety, Depression and Self Esteem 
$300 Per Session  
Individual one-on-one therapy 
There's a quiet kind of exhaustion that builds when you've been carrying too much for too long.
Dr. Nick Santo

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $300
  • Couple Sessions $400
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Venmo, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I am an out of network provider. I offer free benefits checks with consultation calls and will submit your out-of-network claims for your sessions.
Photo of Dr. Nick Santo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Dr. Nick Santo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (347) 380-7209
"
I am an out of network provider. I offer free benefits checks with consultation calls and will submit your out-of-network claims for your sessions.
Photo of Dr. Nick Santo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Dr. Nick Santo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (347) 380-7209

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 080057 Nick Santo
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 18 years
  • Attended Fordham University (MSW - 2008) & NYU (Doctorate - 2021), Doctorate in Clinical Social Work, Graduated 2021
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from New York University - Advanced Clinical Practice 2018
  • Certificate from Training Institute for Mental Health Foundations in Psychotherapy / 2011
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I have over 15 years of experience helping adults with histories of relational trauma. Together we work through the complex patterns of thought and behavior that feel limiting and tend to your emotional wounds. I am licensed in NY, NJ, & FL.
Photo of Dr. Nick Santo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Dr. Nick Santo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (347) 380-7209
"
I have over 15 years of experience helping adults with histories of relational trauma. Together we work through the complex patterns of thought and behavior that feel limiting and tend to your emotional wounds. I am licensed in NY, NJ, & FL.
Photo of Dr. Nick Santo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Dr. Nick Santo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (347) 380-7209

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Self Esteem

Expertise

  • Behavioral Issues
  • Bisexual
  • Coping Skills
  • Grief
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Men's Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Peer Relationships
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Relationship Issues
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I work with clients navigating complex trauma, religious harm, and the aftermath of years spent being someone you weren't. Whether working toward coming out, healing from family or religious trauma, or building healthier relationships and a stronger sense of self, we'll do that work together. I also support clients exploring their sexuality, identity, and open or nonmonogamous relationships.
Photo of Dr. Nick Santo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Dr. Nick Santo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (347) 380-7209
"
I work with clients navigating complex trauma, religious harm, and the aftermath of years spent being someone you weren't. Whether working toward coming out, healing from family or religious trauma, or building healthier relationships and a stronger sense of self, we'll do that work together. I also support clients exploring their sexuality, identity, and open or nonmonogamous relationships.
Photo of Dr. Nick Santo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Dr. Nick Santo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (347) 380-7209

8 Endorsements

Gabe Lopez
Gabe Lopez
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Nick is a compassionate, warm, and caring therapist. He offers a safe and nonjudgemental space for you to begin the self-discovery process. Nick's approachable personality along with his thoughtful insight make him a great partner on your therapy journey.
Ashley Leeds
Ashley Leeds
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Nick is a compassionate, kind and thoughtful therapist. I highly recommend him.
Elizabeth Candela
Elizabeth Candela
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LMSW, CASAC-T
Dr. Nick Santo infuses care, empathy, and transparency into his teaching and his therapeutic work. He was a thorough and insightful instructor and is a generous colleague. I would recommend his practice for expertise and compassion.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
HIV / AIDS Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Queer Allied , 
Sex Worker Allied , 
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
HIV / AIDS Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Queer Allied , 
Sex Worker Allied , 
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Psychodynamic
  • Strength-Based
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In our first session, we'll explore what brought you to therapy and what you're hoping to change. My approach is relational and grounded in an understanding of how past experiences — especially those around identity, belonging, and safety — shape who you are today. Together, we'll identify patterns holding you back and work toward reclaiming your authentic self and building the life you deserve.
Photo of Dr. Nick Santo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Dr. Nick Santo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (347) 380-7209
"
In our first session, we'll explore what brought you to therapy and what you're hoping to change. My approach is relational and grounded in an understanding of how past experiences — especially those around identity, belonging, and safety — shape who you are today. Together, we'll identify patterns holding you back and work toward reclaiming your authentic self and building the life you deserve.
Photo of Dr. Nick Santo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Dr. Nick Santo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (347) 380-7209

Location

Primary Location

New York, NY 10016

(347) 380-7209
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Come for the tea, stay for the healing. :)
Photo of Dr. Nick Santo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Dr. Nick Santo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Call for a free consultation now - (347) 380-7209
"
Come for the tea, stay for the healing. :)
Photo of Dr. Nick Santo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Dr. Nick Santo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DSW
Call for a free consultation now - (347) 380-7209