Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
11 Endorsed
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Imagine that you are holding a bottle of soda. Now imagine yourself shaking that bottle. What happens if you open the top? It explodes everywhere! Now, if you take that same shaken up bottle and carefully turn the lid to let a little amount of air out at a time, it will settle. This is how I view therapy, with each shake representing a negative experience, relationship, and/or trauma. Good therapy demands being careful with and sensitive to those shakes, and eventually walking out the door with a mind, a relationship, and a life ... settled.
I specialize in working with individuals, couples and families. I often utilize a great deal of humor in doing so, but recognize when humor serves more as a defense mechanism than a healthy attitude about life, love, and other mysteries.
I have also trained budding therapists on their pursuit toward full licensure for the last fifteen years. I have been married since 2003 to another therapist, Ashley, so we never have any issues. We have two perfect children who never do anything questionable. (Those last two sentences may not be entirely accurate).
Take the first step to help. Call or Email Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens now - (210) 460-7987
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $175
- Couple Sessions $175
Payment Methods
American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
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Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S
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Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Texas / 4937 Nicholas Todd Wilkens
- In Practice for 29 years
- Attended St. Mary's University, Graduated 2001
- Certificate from TX Board of Examiners of LPS 17068 / 2001
Education and Years In Practice
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Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. Email or (210) 460-7987
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Relationship Issues
- Infidelity
- Anxiety
Expertise
- Bisexual
- Divorce
- Family Conflict
- Lesbian
- LGBTQ+
- Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
- Should we stay together?
- Therapy for guys who don't want to be in therapy.
Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S
Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (210) 460-7987
11 Endorsements
Client Focus
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Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Age
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Emotionally Focused
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
- Gottman Method
- Narrative
- Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (210) 460-7987
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Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S
Take the first step to help. Call now - (210) 460-7987