Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Wilmington, NC

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Eric Guendner
Psychological Associate, LPA, LCAS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28405
Waitlist for new clients
I use the specialist rather than the generalist model of care. I am board certified in Dialectical Behavior Therapy and certified in Prolonged Exposure for PTSD and maintain up to date continuing education, seek any needed supervision, and keep up with relevant research findings in those areas. As such, I am particularly qualified to work with clients who seek treatment for issues related to Borderline Personality Disorder, Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Substance Use Disorders and PTSD.. I believe that if you are suffering from a specific issue, you deserve to receive the appropriate care for that issue.
I use the specialist rather than the generalist model of care. I am board certified in Dialectical Behavior Therapy and certified in Prolonged Exposure for PTSD and maintain up to date continuing education, seek any needed supervision, and keep up with relevant research findings in those areas. As such, I am particularly qualified to work with clients who seek treatment for issues related to Borderline Personality Disorder, Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Substance Use Disorders and PTSD.. I believe that if you are suffering from a specific issue, you deserve to receive the appropriate care for that issue.
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Shelley Bunn
Counselor, MA, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28401
Feeling misunderstood and unloved by those closest to us is living hell. Pain, hopelessness, and anger burrow deep as repair seems impossible. It's exhausting to cope with past trauma while trying to keep things together in the present. Any added stress, anxiety, or depression is overwhelming. Those of you with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) are struggling with these symptoms simultaneously and it's unbearable. I specialize in relationship repair and borderline personality disorder. In family, individual, or marriage counseling I can help you heal, connect, and once again find hope.
Feeling misunderstood and unloved by those closest to us is living hell. Pain, hopelessness, and anger burrow deep as repair seems impossible. It's exhausting to cope with past trauma while trying to keep things together in the present. Any added stress, anxiety, or depression is overwhelming. Those of you with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) are struggling with these symptoms simultaneously and it's unbearable. I specialize in relationship repair and borderline personality disorder. In family, individual, or marriage counseling I can help you heal, connect, and once again find hope.
(910) 708-4632 View (910) 708-4632
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Shi Nicole Klem
Psychological Associate, LPA, LCAS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28401
I have over 20 years of experience working with clients suffering from Trauma and PTSD, Borderline Personality D/O, OCD, Depression, Anxiety, Substance Abuse and other issues.
It is an honor for me to have the opportunity to help others work through personal, relationship and other life issues by way of developing a strong therapeutic relationship. My primary goal in therapy is to establish and maintain a safe, trusting and accepting environment. I work from primarily ACT and DBT frameworks. Both of these therapies use Mindfulness strategies and other skills to "get you out of your head" and into living life to the fullest. Mental health and physical health are intimately intertwined. I often incorporate mind-body connection practices into treatment. Combining these techniques can elicit powerful change.
I have over 20 years of experience working with clients suffering from Trauma and PTSD, Borderline Personality D/O, OCD, Depression, Anxiety, Substance Abuse and other issues.
It is an honor for me to have the opportunity to help others work through personal, relationship and other life issues by way of developing a strong therapeutic relationship. My primary goal in therapy is to establish and maintain a safe, trusting and accepting environment. I work from primarily ACT and DBT frameworks. Both of these therapies use Mindfulness strategies and other skills to "get you out of your head" and into living life to the fullest. Mental health and physical health are intimately intertwined. I often incorporate mind-body connection practices into treatment. Combining these techniques can elicit powerful change.
(910) 444-2409 x3006 View (910) 444-2409 x3006
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Elisabeth Troy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LCASA
Verified Verified
Wilmington, NC 28401
There are a lot of therapeutic modalities out there! My approach is to cater to what you need. I like to take time to get to know each of my clients and gain an understanding of what your needs are. I view my approach as collaborative, person centered and goal oriented. I have experience working with children, teenagers and adults. My specialties include using dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) to gain understanding and coping with intense emotions. I am also certified in providing eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy. This type of modality can help in processing experiences that might be holding you back!
There are a lot of therapeutic modalities out there! My approach is to cater to what you need. I like to take time to get to know each of my clients and gain an understanding of what your needs are. I view my approach as collaborative, person centered and goal oriented. I have experience working with children, teenagers and adults. My specialties include using dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) to gain understanding and coping with intense emotions. I am also certified in providing eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy. This type of modality can help in processing experiences that might be holding you back!
(910) 858-8663 x3007 View (910) 858-8663 x3007
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Megan L English
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28403
Currently accepting new clients! Hi! If you’re searching for a therapist, chances are you might be struggling with something in your life. I sure hope that whomever you choose to work with helps you feel better, think better, and ultimately process what’s happening with refined skills. You've got this! I specialize in the treatment of anxiety disorders and depressive disorders. I also value working with the LGBTQ population, including adolescents, families, and adults, as well as foster/adoptive families. Working with anyone who recognizes a need for change or is interested in making their life better is perfect for me!
Currently accepting new clients! Hi! If you’re searching for a therapist, chances are you might be struggling with something in your life. I sure hope that whomever you choose to work with helps you feel better, think better, and ultimately process what’s happening with refined skills. You've got this! I specialize in the treatment of anxiety disorders and depressive disorders. I also value working with the LGBTQ population, including adolescents, families, and adults, as well as foster/adoptive families. Working with anyone who recognizes a need for change or is interested in making their life better is perfect for me!
(910) 370-8927 View (910) 370-8927
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Ashley Hosey
Psychological Associate, LPA
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28401  (Online Only)
Out of network provider for all insurances You're tired. You have to carry BIG emotions all the damn time with no outlet to let them out. You cry when you’re alone, but put on a smile so the world can’t see you're hurting on the inside. There is no time to slow down because slowing down makes the inner critic grow louder about how awful you are. Perhaps you get some release through disordered eating, but ultimately, that voice comes right back again. The inner critic makes it hard for you to accept yourself and love your flaws. It makes it hard for you to live your life intentionally, with confidence in yourself to use your voice.
Out of network provider for all insurances You're tired. You have to carry BIG emotions all the damn time with no outlet to let them out. You cry when you’re alone, but put on a smile so the world can’t see you're hurting on the inside. There is no time to slow down because slowing down makes the inner critic grow louder about how awful you are. Perhaps you get some release through disordered eating, but ultimately, that voice comes right back again. The inner critic makes it hard for you to accept yourself and love your flaws. It makes it hard for you to live your life intentionally, with confidence in yourself to use your voice.
(828) 547-4358 View (828) 547-4358
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Jess Meyer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28403
Waitlist for new clients
Are you ready to see mental health and therapy in a new light? Do you wish for a better relationship with yourself and those around you? It is easy to get caught up in the day to day and expectations of today’s world. Taking time to work on yourself, talk it out, and find the best version of yourself is one of the most important things a person can do. Therapy doesn’t have to be hard or scary - and I am here to break down barriers and end the stigma of mental health and therapy!
Are you ready to see mental health and therapy in a new light? Do you wish for a better relationship with yourself and those around you? It is easy to get caught up in the day to day and expectations of today’s world. Taking time to work on yourself, talk it out, and find the best version of yourself is one of the most important things a person can do. Therapy doesn’t have to be hard or scary - and I am here to break down barriers and end the stigma of mental health and therapy!
(910) 629-5569 View (910) 629-5569
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Olivia Short
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSWA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28412
I believe that anyone willing to do the work is an ideal client. I am ready to address any issues that you bring to the table. The end goal is for my clients to find growth and support through the hard times. I cater to the client's goals to fit their needs and address the issues. I want you to know you are in a safe space when you work with me.
I believe that anyone willing to do the work is an ideal client. I am ready to address any issues that you bring to the table. The end goal is for my clients to find growth and support through the hard times. I cater to the client's goals to fit their needs and address the issues. I want you to know you are in a safe space when you work with me.
(910) 858-8099 View (910) 858-8099
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Jennifer Ann Rendleman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Wilmington, NC 28403
Thank you for visiting my profile. Trying to find a therapist that is a good fit can be a daunting process. Let me share a little bit about myself and my practice. I work with clients 5 years of age through adulthood for such things as anxiety, ADHD, depression, personality disorders, low self-esteem, tics, OCD. I use evidence based treatments that are practiced in session and used outside of therapy. I also offer "talk and walk therapy," an exciting new way to experience therapy! Too many benefits to list here!
Thank you for visiting my profile. Trying to find a therapist that is a good fit can be a daunting process. Let me share a little bit about myself and my practice. I work with clients 5 years of age through adulthood for such things as anxiety, ADHD, depression, personality disorders, low self-esteem, tics, OCD. I use evidence based treatments that are practiced in session and used outside of therapy. I also offer "talk and walk therapy," an exciting new way to experience therapy! Too many benefits to list here!
(910) 665-7856 View (910) 665-7856
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Carolyn Jackson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCAS
Verified Verified
Wilmington, NC 28403
I am an experience License Clinical Social Worker and License Clinical Addiction Specialist in private practice. I provide therapy to clients who are experiencing problems with depression, anxiety and substance use, due to their relational problems with self and with others. I will work with you to help you to connect and/or reconnect with loving yourself again, by overcoming guilt and shame. It is easy to lose your way on this journey called life, but with an understanding therapist you do not need to be on this journey alone.
I am an experience License Clinical Social Worker and License Clinical Addiction Specialist in private practice. I provide therapy to clients who are experiencing problems with depression, anxiety and substance use, due to their relational problems with self and with others. I will work with you to help you to connect and/or reconnect with loving yourself again, by overcoming guilt and shame. It is easy to lose your way on this journey called life, but with an understanding therapist you do not need to be on this journey alone.
(910) 601-2545 View (910) 601-2545
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Megan Fentross
Counselor, MAEd, LCMHC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28403
You deserve to LIVE your life fully! Are you stuck, merely existing, on autopilot, and just making it through your day? Pulled in too many directions and disconnected from yourself and the world? Life gets unbalanced and we shut down. Our emotions start taking control of us in the worst possible moments: we avoid with anxiety, isolate with sadness, and hide with guilt. What would you do if your thoughts and emotions didn’t hold you back? I want you to be free to live your life on YOUR terms and find meaning in all areas of life. Together we can work on your emotions, thoughts, and behaviors to build your life worth LIVING.
You deserve to LIVE your life fully! Are you stuck, merely existing, on autopilot, and just making it through your day? Pulled in too many directions and disconnected from yourself and the world? Life gets unbalanced and we shut down. Our emotions start taking control of us in the worst possible moments: we avoid with anxiety, isolate with sadness, and hide with guilt. What would you do if your thoughts and emotions didn’t hold you back? I want you to be free to live your life on YOUR terms and find meaning in all areas of life. Together we can work on your emotions, thoughts, and behaviors to build your life worth LIVING.
(910) 390-6277 View (910) 390-6277
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Insights-Center for Mindfulness and Psychotherapy
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC, LCAS-A
Verified Verified
Wilmington, NC 28411
Hello, my name is Stacey Gobins and I am a licensed mental health counselor and addiction and trauma specialist. I offer my clients a sacred space to share feelings about their worries, setbacks, relationship struggles and traumatic experiences that are difficult to talk about. I will support you as we identify the problem, collaborate on choosing your goals "what is your treasure", and work through specific barriers to change and healing during the process of therapy.
Hello, my name is Stacey Gobins and I am a licensed mental health counselor and addiction and trauma specialist. I offer my clients a sacred space to share feelings about their worries, setbacks, relationship struggles and traumatic experiences that are difficult to talk about. I will support you as we identify the problem, collaborate on choosing your goals "what is your treasure", and work through specific barriers to change and healing during the process of therapy.
(910) 725-5840 View (910) 725-5840
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Jayme Sampler
Counselor, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28403
I obtained my Bachelor’s degree and Master’s degree from Appalachian State University and am a proud Mountaineer. Still, I moved to Wilmington because the ocean reminds me that I am part of something bigger. I love working with children, teens, and young adults (ages 10-26 years of age).
I obtained my Bachelor’s degree and Master’s degree from Appalachian State University and am a proud Mountaineer. Still, I moved to Wilmington because the ocean reminds me that I am part of something bigger. I love working with children, teens, and young adults (ages 10-26 years of age).
(910) 407-9473 View (910) 407-9473
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Margaret Brice
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Wilmington, NC 28403
I work primarily with individual adults and couples who are experiencing difficulties ranging from major mental illness to situational problems that are interferring with their daily living. My work with clients is designed to determine the most effective approach to assist them in reaching their goals in developing a healthy and satisfying life. I am experienced in working with individuals with mood disorders, anxiety disorders and substance abuse. In couple's therapy I address communication patterns that cause roadblocks to the couple's ability to build a healthy and close relationship.
I work primarily with individual adults and couples who are experiencing difficulties ranging from major mental illness to situational problems that are interferring with their daily living. My work with clients is designed to determine the most effective approach to assist them in reaching their goals in developing a healthy and satisfying life. I am experienced in working with individuals with mood disorders, anxiety disorders and substance abuse. In couple's therapy I address communication patterns that cause roadblocks to the couple's ability to build a healthy and close relationship.
(910) 338-5813 View (910) 338-5813
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Wiley Thomas Pittman
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Wilmington, NC 28403
My desire is to be of assistance to those seeking recovery from substance abuse, dual diagnosis and trauma issues. I will certainly attempt to help anyone who seeks my help. I believe we all hold our own answers however we might need assistance admitting what the answers are.
My desire is to be of assistance to those seeking recovery from substance abuse, dual diagnosis and trauma issues. I will certainly attempt to help anyone who seeks my help. I believe we all hold our own answers however we might need assistance admitting what the answers are.
(910) 613-5781 View (910) 613-5781
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Cayleigh Metcalf
Counselor, MS, LCMHC-A, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28403
You have inherent value and my goal is to work collaboratively with you to find the best form of therapy to fit your needs. After all the suffering you’ve endured, you shouldn’t have to go through this alone. You deserve someone who will show you empathy and compassion, cheering you on, as you become your favorite version of yourself. Together, we can find a therapeutic method that works best for you. I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, specializing in trauma from childhood, depression, and relationship issues. I see clients 18+ who are navigating trauma and PTSD, relationship issues, and attachment struggles
You have inherent value and my goal is to work collaboratively with you to find the best form of therapy to fit your needs. After all the suffering you’ve endured, you shouldn’t have to go through this alone. You deserve someone who will show you empathy and compassion, cheering you on, as you become your favorite version of yourself. Together, we can find a therapeutic method that works best for you. I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, specializing in trauma from childhood, depression, and relationship issues. I see clients 18+ who are navigating trauma and PTSD, relationship issues, and attachment struggles
(910) 898-3359 View (910) 898-3359
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Anna Brinson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW-A
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28412
Hi there! My name is Anna, and I’m a supportive clinician who is unafraid to challenge you toward the change you are seeking in a warm environment where you feel comfortable being your authentic self. Accepting help is hard; however, I strive to create a space for you to work through your journey at your own pace and build on your unique qualities in a way that will improve your life.
Hi there! My name is Anna, and I’m a supportive clinician who is unafraid to challenge you toward the change you are seeking in a warm environment where you feel comfortable being your authentic self. Accepting help is hard; however, I strive to create a space for you to work through your journey at your own pace and build on your unique qualities in a way that will improve your life.
(910) 833-7122 View (910) 833-7122
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Salt and Cypress Counseling PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28403
We are a small group practice of down-to-Earth therapists, offering nature-based psychotherapy in Wilmington, NC. Our clients can choose to participate in therapy virtually, in our mid-town office, or outdoors. We understand that playing in the dirt isn't everyone's cup of tea, and that is ok! Our approach always considers the client's unique needs and therapeutic goals. We are able to offer clients individual therapy, couples counseling, family therapy, and group therapy. Have more questions about our services? Check out the website or reach out today to find out more.
We are a small group practice of down-to-Earth therapists, offering nature-based psychotherapy in Wilmington, NC. Our clients can choose to participate in therapy virtually, in our mid-town office, or outdoors. We understand that playing in the dirt isn't everyone's cup of tea, and that is ok! Our approach always considers the client's unique needs and therapeutic goals. We are able to offer clients individual therapy, couples counseling, family therapy, and group therapy. Have more questions about our services? Check out the website or reach out today to find out more.
(910) 782-5292 View (910) 782-5292
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Jennifer Myers
Psychological Associate, MA, LPA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28403
Waitlist for new clients
Do you wish your partner understood you better? Do you feel like you can't connect with your kids? Do you want to manage relationships better? You can! I work with clients of all ages to make relationships healthy and strong. Clients see me individually, or with loved ones to learn how to communicate better and diffuse conflict. When working with couples and families, I utilize John Gottman’s Marital Principles, as well as Sue Johnson’s Attachment Marital Therapies. I treat mood disorders, navigating life transitions, issues related to sexual functioning and trauma, as well as interpersonal conflict within close relationships.
Do you wish your partner understood you better? Do you feel like you can't connect with your kids? Do you want to manage relationships better? You can! I work with clients of all ages to make relationships healthy and strong. Clients see me individually, or with loved ones to learn how to communicate better and diffuse conflict. When working with couples and families, I utilize John Gottman’s Marital Principles, as well as Sue Johnson’s Attachment Marital Therapies. I treat mood disorders, navigating life transitions, issues related to sexual functioning and trauma, as well as interpersonal conflict within close relationships.
(910) 606-4771 View (910) 606-4771
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Christine A Still
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28403
Waitlist for new clients
Are you experiencing emotional roller coasters? Struggling to control racing thoughts? Looking to find balance? I offer those experiencing depression, anxiety, interpersonal issues, and trauma ways to build consistency in their lives. Happiness Comes In Waves, however, Peace is Consistent. I work with individuals and couples to identify their needs and take action to meet them. My therapeutic approach starts with building a strong relationship with the client in order to help identify these patterns to create lasting change. Together, we will find your resiliency, to rise with your strengths towards your own personal goals.
Are you experiencing emotional roller coasters? Struggling to control racing thoughts? Looking to find balance? I offer those experiencing depression, anxiety, interpersonal issues, and trauma ways to build consistency in their lives. Happiness Comes In Waves, however, Peace is Consistent. I work with individuals and couples to identify their needs and take action to meet them. My therapeutic approach starts with building a strong relationship with the client in order to help identify these patterns to create lasting change. Together, we will find your resiliency, to rise with your strengths towards your own personal goals.
(910) 613-5900 View (910) 613-5900

Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.