Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Wilkes County, NC
Life asks a lot from us. How can we thrive in our lives, work and relationships in fulfilling, whole-hearted ways? We all occasionally feel blocked or frustrated and benefit from support that can connect us with our potential. You are deserving of purpose, meaning and joy in your life and we will work together to discover what your unique needs are so that you can live in closer alignment with your goals and values. I specialize in serving adults who are experiencing anxiety, depression, challenging life transitions, domestic and/or sexual violence as well as substance use and addiction.
Life asks a lot from us. How can we thrive in our lives, work and relationships in fulfilling, whole-hearted ways? We all occasionally feel blocked or frustrated and benefit from support that can connect us with our potential. You are deserving of purpose, meaning and joy in your life and we will work together to discover what your unique needs are so that you can live in closer alignment with your goals and values. I specialize in serving adults who are experiencing anxiety, depression, challenging life transitions, domestic and/or sexual violence as well as substance use and addiction.
My top priority is to provide a safe, supportive environment for anyone struggling with their identity, experiences, or beliefs in addition to other mental health concerns. I work with a variety of issues with a focus on PTSD, depression, anxiety, dissociation, trauma, gender identity, gender expression, sexual orientation, relationship difficulties, spirituality and/or religious trauma in addition to other concerns. I am especially passionate about work with anyone seeking a supportive space to heal, discover who they are, or navigate existential concerns, welcoming those of all beliefs in finding connection, hope, and peace.
My top priority is to provide a safe, supportive environment for anyone struggling with their identity, experiences, or beliefs in addition to other mental health concerns. I work with a variety of issues with a focus on PTSD, depression, anxiety, dissociation, trauma, gender identity, gender expression, sexual orientation, relationship difficulties, spirituality and/or religious trauma in addition to other concerns. I am especially passionate about work with anyone seeking a supportive space to heal, discover who they are, or navigate existential concerns, welcoming those of all beliefs in finding connection, hope, and peace.
Online Therapists
I'm open-minded, creative, understanding and use these facets of self to collaborate with clients to address relationship and communication issues, infidelity, depression, anxiety, body-image, sexual difficulties, low desire, trauma, as well as issues unique to poly, kink and alternative lifestyles & gender-identity.
Is your sex life causing issues between you and your partner? Would you benefit from better communication with the important people in your life? Are you experiencing a situation that has made it difficult to cope? Do you crave more intimacy and authenticity with others? I believe that anyone can benefit from support and a nonjudgmental perspective, to access the best version of themselves. I offer a high degree of respect for you, meet you where you are in your life, and work on what you consider to be important. Email me today to schedule a free 15 minute video consultation to explore possibilities and areas you can make headway.
I'm open-minded, creative, understanding and use these facets of self to collaborate with clients to address relationship and communication issues, infidelity, depression, anxiety, body-image, sexual difficulties, low desire, trauma, as well as issues unique to poly, kink and alternative lifestyles & gender-identity.
Is your sex life causing issues between you and your partner? Would you benefit from better communication with the important people in your life? Are you experiencing a situation that has made it difficult to cope? Do you crave more intimacy and authenticity with others? I believe that anyone can benefit from support and a nonjudgmental perspective, to access the best version of themselves. I offer a high degree of respect for you, meet you where you are in your life, and work on what you consider to be important. Email me today to schedule a free 15 minute video consultation to explore possibilities and areas you can make headway.
Jemma Battaglia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-A
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Asheville, NC 28801
Welcome to a space where Daria and Judith Butler meet at a 100 Gecs show. Navigating late stage capitalism is no easy task. I am here to serve as your doom doula. I am here to engage in a collaborative experience with teens and adults, utilizing an eclectic approach to provide you with meaningful support and deep care. My approach is intersectional, sex-positive, trauma informed, and centered in a constant pursuit for radical change. Various flavors of gentle and mean are offered to meet you where you are at. I am especially enthusiastic to work with individuals who are of a queer or transgender experience.
Welcome to a space where Daria and Judith Butler meet at a 100 Gecs show. Navigating late stage capitalism is no easy task. I am here to serve as your doom doula. I am here to engage in a collaborative experience with teens and adults, utilizing an eclectic approach to provide you with meaningful support and deep care. My approach is intersectional, sex-positive, trauma informed, and centered in a constant pursuit for radical change. Various flavors of gentle and mean are offered to meet you where you are at. I am especially enthusiastic to work with individuals who are of a queer or transgender experience.
I am an affirming CNM and kink practitioner.
I specialize in working with individuals who want to improve the quality of their relationships. This can be a relationship with yourself as well as with others. I do this in a variety of ways, always in a person centered approach. There is often humor as we examine the stressors in your life.
I am an affirming CNM and kink practitioner.
I specialize in working with individuals who want to improve the quality of their relationships. This can be a relationship with yourself as well as with others. I do this in a variety of ways, always in a person centered approach. There is often humor as we examine the stressors in your life.
I'm a sex work-positive, kink-aware therapist who's all in for racial justice.
My favorite clients are those who embrace the messy, non-linear journey of healing & show up anyway. They’re people who value gender-affirming, trauma-informed, attachment-based care, whether they're navigating PTSD, CPTSD, attachment issues, or working through gender dysphoria, BDD, or gender transitions. I love supporting LGBTQ folx, including those exploring their gender & sexual identities. I’m also passionate about helping with self-esteem, life transitions, body image struggles, & relationship stressors - whether it's monogamy, ENM, or poly. I meet my clients where they’re at & offer support with understanding & compassion.
I'm a sex work-positive, kink-aware therapist who's all in for racial justice.
My favorite clients are those who embrace the messy, non-linear journey of healing & show up anyway. They’re people who value gender-affirming, trauma-informed, attachment-based care, whether they're navigating PTSD, CPTSD, attachment issues, or working through gender dysphoria, BDD, or gender transitions. I love supporting LGBTQ folx, including those exploring their gender & sexual identities. I’m also passionate about helping with self-esteem, life transitions, body image struggles, & relationship stressors - whether it's monogamy, ENM, or poly. I meet my clients where they’re at & offer support with understanding & compassion.
I offer telehealth therapy across North Carolina and am here to support you. With extensive knowledge in mental health, relationships, and sexual issues, I’m committed to helping you navigate your unique challenges.
I offer telehealth therapy across North Carolina and am here to support you. With extensive knowledge in mental health, relationships, and sexual issues, I’m committed to helping you navigate your unique challenges.
I am LGBT+, kink, and sex work friendly.
I base my approach on you and your needs by utilizing a number of types of therapy, including but not limited to: EMDR, Gestalt, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Superhero Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, and I am Level 3 trained in Gottman Method Couples Counseling. I have a passion for couples counseling, working with trauma, and military life stressors.
I am LGBT+, kink, and sex work friendly.
I base my approach on you and your needs by utilizing a number of types of therapy, including but not limited to: EMDR, Gestalt, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Superhero Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, and I am Level 3 trained in Gottman Method Couples Counseling. I have a passion for couples counseling, working with trauma, and military life stressors.
Tia Hunter
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC, LPCC, CCPT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I am an LGBTQIA+ affirming, sex-positive, and kink-competent therapist who supports the healthy at any size and poly & ethical non-monogamy communities.
I help clients find their voice and embrace their true selves in a safe, supportive, and inclusive environment welcoming clients from all walks of life, especially those from Black & Brown, LGBTQIA+, chronic illness, and hidden disability communities. I offer Brainspotting, EMDR, and hypnotherapy to support clients looking for alternatives to “talk therapy.”
I am an LGBTQIA+ affirming, sex-positive, and kink-competent therapist who supports the healthy at any size and poly & ethical non-monogamy communities.
I help clients find their voice and embrace their true selves in a safe, supportive, and inclusive environment welcoming clients from all walks of life, especially those from Black & Brown, LGBTQIA+, chronic illness, and hidden disability communities. I offer Brainspotting, EMDR, and hypnotherapy to support clients looking for alternatives to “talk therapy.”
Katherine Sloan
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor, MA, LCMHCS, LCAS
Verified Verified
Asheville, NC 28805
I am LGBTQ+ affirming, radically inclusive, sex positive, and an anti-racist ally.
Taking new clients. I am a LCMHCS (Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor) who specializes in providing counseling to adults. During therapy sessions, I pull from trauma-informed approaches, cognitive behavioral therapy, EMDR, and mindfulness-based stress reduction to empower clients to embrace authentic self-expression and increase their feelings of self-worth and well-being. I also specialize in treating ADHD in adults. I am also a Licensed Supervisor with experience supervising interns. I have 20 years of counseling experience.
I am LGBTQ+ affirming, radically inclusive, sex positive, and an anti-racist ally.
Taking new clients. I am a LCMHCS (Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor) who specializes in providing counseling to adults. During therapy sessions, I pull from trauma-informed approaches, cognitive behavioral therapy, EMDR, and mindfulness-based stress reduction to empower clients to embrace authentic self-expression and increase their feelings of self-worth and well-being. I also specialize in treating ADHD in adults. I am also a Licensed Supervisor with experience supervising interns. I have 20 years of counseling experience.
Nicole M Locklear
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Asheville, NC 28801
I am a sex positive ally who welcomes adult clients of all ethnic, cultural, religious, and sexual orientations/identities.
Please email for a faster response.
As a mental health therapist, I understand that taking the first step toward seeking help can feel overwhelming. Trust and connection are the cornerstones of a successful therapeutic journey, and my primary goal is to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where you feel genuinely heard and understood. Everyone’s story is unique, and I am committed to honoring your individuality as we work together to navigate challenges and embrace your strengths.
I am a sex positive ally who welcomes adult clients of all ethnic, cultural, religious, and sexual orientations/identities.
Please email for a faster response.
As a mental health therapist, I understand that taking the first step toward seeking help can feel overwhelming. Trust and connection are the cornerstones of a successful therapeutic journey, and my primary goal is to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where you feel genuinely heard and understood. Everyone’s story is unique, and I am committed to honoring your individuality as we work together to navigate challenges and embrace your strengths.
I am LGBTQIA2S+, poly/ kink, and neurodiversity affirming, as well as passionate about anti racism, body neutrality, and social justice.
Clients I work with tend to be outsiders; some looking for community and some looking for clarity. They are people-pleasers struggling with self-esteem, anxiety, or depression. They are from families that lack boundaries, and might be adult children of substance users. They are couples navigating communication differences, life changes, or nontraditional relationships. They might be queer, neurodivergent, or questioning their gender. More often than not, they are looking for someone to support them without judgment, and help them feel less alone. If any of this sounds familiar, I'm glad you're here.
I am LGBTQIA2S+, poly/ kink, and neurodiversity affirming, as well as passionate about anti racism, body neutrality, and social justice.
Clients I work with tend to be outsiders; some looking for community and some looking for clarity. They are people-pleasers struggling with self-esteem, anxiety, or depression. They are from families that lack boundaries, and might be adult children of substance users. They are couples navigating communication differences, life changes, or nontraditional relationships. They might be queer, neurodivergent, or questioning their gender. More often than not, they are looking for someone to support them without judgment, and help them feel less alone. If any of this sounds familiar, I'm glad you're here.
Rachael Lastoff
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LCMHC, LMHC, LPCC
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Asheville, NC 28801
In couples counseling, I work with monogamous, open/poly, and kink relationships.
I have over 13 years of experience in the mental health field working with individuals, couples, and families. I come from a secular and humanistic background, utilizing DBT, CBT, humor, and reality-based therapy. I am a member of WPATH (World Professional Association for Transgender Health) and am LGBTQIA welcoming and affirming.
In couples counseling, I work with monogamous, open/poly, and kink relationships.
I have over 13 years of experience in the mental health field working with individuals, couples, and families. I come from a secular and humanistic background, utilizing DBT, CBT, humor, and reality-based therapy. I am a member of WPATH (World Professional Association for Transgender Health) and am LGBTQIA welcoming and affirming.
• LGBTQ • Mood Disorders(Depression, anxiety, etc) • ADD • Personality Disorders • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy • Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Mindfulness • Sex-positive & Kink-Allied
Hello there! Life can often be difficult and confusing. Have you been struggling with questions about your life, identity, relationships, spirituality, and/or sexuality? If you have questions, I have answers. And more questions. And I'm committed to helping you figure it it. So, give me a call and lets get to work! I look forward to hearing from you.
• LGBTQ • Mood Disorders(Depression, anxiety, etc) • ADD • Personality Disorders • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy • Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Mindfulness • Sex-positive & Kink-Allied
Hello there! Life can often be difficult and confusing. Have you been struggling with questions about your life, identity, relationships, spirituality, and/or sexuality? If you have questions, I have answers. And more questions. And I'm committed to helping you figure it it. So, give me a call and lets get to work! I look forward to hearing from you.
I affirm and support LGBTQIA+, BIPOC and undocumented individuals, and diverse sexual populations (including poly/ kink).
Are you afraid of what's beneath your surface?
Maybe family, religion, or society hurt you. Their expectations demanded that you to fit into an uncomfortable box.
Your recovery thus far feels futile. The advice— self-help books, mindfulness apps, and trendy affirmations— fall flat. You want to overcome your trauma, but you don't know how.
You deserve to thrive, and I believe you can. I'm here to help.
I specialize in trauma-informed mindfulness, goal-setting, and executive function coaching. I use tools from several therapeutic theories to meet YOUR needs. Your session is your space to be you.
I affirm and support LGBTQIA+, BIPOC and undocumented individuals, and diverse sexual populations (including poly/ kink).
Are you afraid of what's beneath your surface?
Maybe family, religion, or society hurt you. Their expectations demanded that you to fit into an uncomfortable box.
Your recovery thus far feels futile. The advice— self-help books, mindfulness apps, and trendy affirmations— fall flat. You want to overcome your trauma, but you don't know how.
You deserve to thrive, and I believe you can. I'm here to help.
I specialize in trauma-informed mindfulness, goal-setting, and executive function coaching. I use tools from several therapeutic theories to meet YOUR needs. Your session is your space to be you.
Gilded Peace Counseling, PLLC
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC, LPCC, CCTP
Verified Verified
Online Only
Gilded Peace Counseling is Black-owned/operated, LGBTQIA+ affirming, a supporter of the healthy at any size community, poly & ethical non-monogamy friendly, sex-positive, and kink-competent.
Sessions have a person-centered foundation interwoven with Narrative, ACT, Somatic, DBT, CBT, and Existential therapies as appropriate. Brainspotting EMDR, hypnotherapy, and restorative yoga are also offered as additional therapeutic outlets for those living with trauma, dissociation, compulsive behaviors, anxiety, and chronic pain.
Gilded Peace Counseling is Black-owned/operated, LGBTQIA+ affirming, a supporter of the healthy at any size community, poly & ethical non-monogamy friendly, sex-positive, and kink-competent.
Sessions have a person-centered foundation interwoven with Narrative, ACT, Somatic, DBT, CBT, and Existential therapies as appropriate. Brainspotting EMDR, hypnotherapy, and restorative yoga are also offered as additional therapeutic outlets for those living with trauma, dissociation, compulsive behaviors, anxiety, and chronic pain.
I provide a relational approach specializing in intergenerational healing, inner child healing from a nonjudgmental, sex positive, kink affirming, multicultural perspective.
Healing is remembering who you are. I work with individuals and couples ready to move beyond survival and into sacred embodiment. Together, we'll untangle old patterns, honor your inner truth, and awaken the deeper intelligence within. This space is for those seeking more than coping - for those called to wholeness, sovereignty and soul-aligned living. The work is gentle, but it's real. Come as you are - the rest will unfold. This is soul work, not symptom work.
I provide a relational approach specializing in intergenerational healing, inner child healing from a nonjudgmental, sex positive, kink affirming, multicultural perspective.
Healing is remembering who you are. I work with individuals and couples ready to move beyond survival and into sacred embodiment. Together, we'll untangle old patterns, honor your inner truth, and awaken the deeper intelligence within. This space is for those seeking more than coping - for those called to wholeness, sovereignty and soul-aligned living. The work is gentle, but it's real. Come as you are - the rest will unfold. This is soul work, not symptom work.
Areas of expertise include: substance use, process addictions, trauma, mood/anxiety concerns, relationship issues, non-monogamy, polyamory, kink affirming, gender & sexual identity, LGBTQI+ individuals, men's issues, and working with individual, couples, families.
Taking the step to seek out therapy takes tremendous courage and vulnerability. My approach in counseling is holistic and takes into account the whole body, mind, and spirit. As a therapist I treat individuals, couples, and families regardless of race, age, sexuality, gender, religion, or ethnicity. Both professionally and personally, I believe that we all have within us what is necessary for true growth and change. Join me on the journey of exploring your needs and goals to help you accomplish a desired outcome.
Areas of expertise include: substance use, process addictions, trauma, mood/anxiety concerns, relationship issues, non-monogamy, polyamory, kink affirming, gender & sexual identity, LGBTQI+ individuals, men's issues, and working with individual, couples, families.
Taking the step to seek out therapy takes tremendous courage and vulnerability. My approach in counseling is holistic and takes into account the whole body, mind, and spirit. As a therapist I treat individuals, couples, and families regardless of race, age, sexuality, gender, religion, or ethnicity. Both professionally and personally, I believe that we all have within us what is necessary for true growth and change. Join me on the journey of exploring your needs and goals to help you accomplish a desired outcome.
Dr. Cheyenne Carter
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, PhD, LCMHC, CST
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Winston Salem, NC 27103
I am an LGBTQ-affirming, sex-positive therapist (including kink, polyam) and, when desired, work within the spiritual belief system that is comfortable for my clients.
I am passionate about healthy relationships. For more than 20 years, I have worked with individuals and couples improving their connections with themselves and others. Clients often come to me desiring relief from relational disconnection, sexuality concerns, anxiety, infidelity, childhood trauma, financial concerns, and career indecision. It is my goal that you leave our first session feeling truly seen and heard and feeling a renewed sense of hope that healing is possible. Together we will create a plan to help you achieve the level of wellness you desire in all areas of your life.
I am an LGBTQ-affirming, sex-positive therapist (including kink, polyam) and, when desired, work within the spiritual belief system that is comfortable for my clients.
I am passionate about healthy relationships. For more than 20 years, I have worked with individuals and couples improving their connections with themselves and others. Clients often come to me desiring relief from relational disconnection, sexuality concerns, anxiety, infidelity, childhood trauma, financial concerns, and career indecision. It is my goal that you leave our first session feeling truly seen and heard and feeling a renewed sense of hope that healing is possible. Together we will create a plan to help you achieve the level of wellness you desire in all areas of your life.
Heather Shannon | Certified Sex Therapist
Counselor, LCPC, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28207
I help with things like: sex feeling like a chore, feeling like you're just friends or roommates, difficulty orgasming, erectile dysfunction, understanding your relationship with porn, navigating non-monogamy, being in your head during sex, mismatched libido, mismatched kink, etc.
Has sex started to feel like a chore? Maybe you've tried discussing it and have been to individual or couples counseling but still feel stuck. I specialize in helping people in committed relationships to get unstuck and get back to feeling close and passionate again. Along the way we build some amazing sexual communication skills and get a clear sense of turn-ons and turn-offs so you can initiate like a pro. Whether you have low libido, sex addiction, erectile dysfunction or trauma around sexuality, I can offer support and guidance.
I help with things like: sex feeling like a chore, feeling like you're just friends or roommates, difficulty orgasming, erectile dysfunction, understanding your relationship with porn, navigating non-monogamy, being in your head during sex, mismatched libido, mismatched kink, etc.
Has sex started to feel like a chore? Maybe you've tried discussing it and have been to individual or couples counseling but still feel stuck. I specialize in helping people in committed relationships to get unstuck and get back to feeling close and passionate again. Along the way we build some amazing sexual communication skills and get a clear sense of turn-ons and turn-offs so you can initiate like a pro. Whether you have low libido, sex addiction, erectile dysfunction or trauma around sexuality, I can offer support and guidance.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.