Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Hillsborough, Raleigh, NC
Cassandra Calin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Hillsborough, Raleigh, NC 27603
In my relational work, I've offered tailored support to clients in polyamorous or kink-based relationship dynamics for five years.
Over the course of our lives, we are told stories about ourselves. Oftentimes those stories aren't true. Sometimes they're harmful. Usually they get in the way of us being able to truly understand ourselves and grow in the ways we want to. I work with clients to explore the stories they hold about themselves, their own definition of mental wellness, and the tools that might help them to move toward it. I am excited to offer individuals, partners, families, and friends a sacred, therapeutic space to sift through those stories, where they come from, and whether they serve you or block you from a fuller taste of joy.
In my relational work, I've offered tailored support to clients in polyamorous or kink-based relationship dynamics for five years.
Over the course of our lives, we are told stories about ourselves. Oftentimes those stories aren't true. Sometimes they're harmful. Usually they get in the way of us being able to truly understand ourselves and grow in the ways we want to. I work with clients to explore the stories they hold about themselves, their own definition of mental wellness, and the tools that might help them to move toward it. I am excited to offer individuals, partners, families, and friends a sacred, therapeutic space to sift through those stories, where they come from, and whether they serve you or block you from a fuller taste of joy.
I'm LGBTQ+/hetero/poly/monog/ENM/ace/ kink-friendly and am ever-working to recognize and overcome my racial blindspots to support BIPOC.
I draw from evidence-based methods to help clients build skills (e.g. mindfulness, communication, self-compassion, and managing difficult thoughts and feelings) while we build insight into patterns, understand their origins, and break out of them to live more fully. I use humor (appropriately, mostly) and give direct feedback with compassion.
I'm LGBTQ+/hetero/poly/monog/ENM/ace/ kink-friendly and am ever-working to recognize and overcome my racial blindspots to support BIPOC.
I draw from evidence-based methods to help clients build skills (e.g. mindfulness, communication, self-compassion, and managing difficult thoughts and feelings) while we build insight into patterns, understand their origins, and break out of them to live more fully. I use humor (appropriately, mostly) and give direct feedback with compassion.
Latoya Nelson Mason
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Become the architect of your future! You're not quite sure how your life got to this point and the fear of what lies ahead causes you to second guess your decisions. Your confidence has taken a hit but you are ready to find your happy place again, sleep easy at night and find the place of peace you crave. You are ready to find you again! I help women who are stressed and overwhelmed find their inner peace and calm. I work with you to discover what you want your life to look like and support you in developing that. I offer a safe place for you to vent, move past your fears and just BE.
Become the architect of your future! You're not quite sure how your life got to this point and the fear of what lies ahead causes you to second guess your decisions. Your confidence has taken a hit but you are ready to find your happy place again, sleep easy at night and find the place of peace you crave. You are ready to find you again! I help women who are stressed and overwhelmed find their inner peace and calm. I work with you to discover what you want your life to look like and support you in developing that. I offer a safe place for you to vent, move past your fears and just BE.
I believe that the client/counselor relationship is crucial - especially elements such as mutual respect, cooperation and confidentiality. We will work together to better understand your thoughts, feelings and behaviors, while empowering you to think about and communicate more clearly your wants, needs and expectations. I offer both long and short-term therapy to adult individuals using a confidential, practical, positive approach.
I believe that the client/counselor relationship is crucial - especially elements such as mutual respect, cooperation and confidentiality. We will work together to better understand your thoughts, feelings and behaviors, while empowering you to think about and communicate more clearly your wants, needs and expectations. I offer both long and short-term therapy to adult individuals using a confidential, practical, positive approach.
Shannon Draper, EMDR + Trauma Therapist
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC, QS, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hillsborough, Raleigh, NC 27603
Accepting new clients in NC + MA. More info at www.shannondraper.co - Therapy looks and feels differently now. That traditional head nodding, passive engagement, and ‘how does that make you feel?’ is a thing of the past. I enjoy actively supporting and challenging folks in their process of reflection, introspection and growth. My approach is compassionate and direct. I work best with people who are asking questions, shifting relationships with themselves or others, and who are committed to showing up and/or learning more about their authentic, vulnerable, and values focused self.
Accepting new clients in NC + MA. More info at www.shannondraper.co - Therapy looks and feels differently now. That traditional head nodding, passive engagement, and ‘how does that make you feel?’ is a thing of the past. I enjoy actively supporting and challenging folks in their process of reflection, introspection and growth. My approach is compassionate and direct. I work best with people who are asking questions, shifting relationships with themselves or others, and who are committed to showing up and/or learning more about their authentic, vulnerable, and values focused self.
Brianna Hicks
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor, MA, LCMHCS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Hillsborough, Raleigh, NC 27603
Waitlist for new clients
For over a decade, I’ve helped clients build meaningful, fulfilling lives. I specialize in working with LGBTQIA+ adults exploring their gender, sexuality, or relationship structure later in life. As a late bloomer myself, I understand how identity shifts can reshape your sense of self, relationships, & the life you envisioned. I provide a supportive, affirming space to navigate these changes with clarity & confidence. I also work with anxiety, OCD, trauma, & body image concerns. My approach is collaborative - you are the expert on your life, & I’m here to guide you toward deeper understanding, healing, & alignment with your values.
For over a decade, I’ve helped clients build meaningful, fulfilling lives. I specialize in working with LGBTQIA+ adults exploring their gender, sexuality, or relationship structure later in life. As a late bloomer myself, I understand how identity shifts can reshape your sense of self, relationships, & the life you envisioned. I provide a supportive, affirming space to navigate these changes with clarity & confidence. I also work with anxiety, OCD, trauma, & body image concerns. My approach is collaborative - you are the expert on your life, & I’m here to guide you toward deeper understanding, healing, & alignment with your values.
Marley Toben
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Hillsborough, Raleigh, NC 27603
Life has a way of molding us into the person we had to be instead of the person we actually are. If you grew up with emotionally immature parents, you likely learned to shrink yourself or become the “reasonable one” while the adults acted like toddlers. Now, you're stuck in old patterns—choosing relationships that feel eerily familiar, doubting your needs, saddling yourself with responsibility for everyone else's joy while feeling chronically inadequate. It’s frustrating as hell, especially when you know what’s happening but can’t seem to shift it. Therapy with me is about dismantling the old M.O. and consciously choosing YOU.
Life has a way of molding us into the person we had to be instead of the person we actually are. If you grew up with emotionally immature parents, you likely learned to shrink yourself or become the “reasonable one” while the adults acted like toddlers. Now, you're stuck in old patterns—choosing relationships that feel eerily familiar, doubting your needs, saddling yourself with responsibility for everyone else's joy while feeling chronically inadequate. It’s frustrating as hell, especially when you know what’s happening but can’t seem to shift it. Therapy with me is about dismantling the old M.O. and consciously choosing YOU.
A.r. Ditesheim
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSWA
Verified Verified
Hillsborough, Raleigh, NC 27603
Are you navigating a life transition that has you exploring your values, relationships, or upbringing? Perhaps you’re feeling disconnected, whether it’s from yourself, your partner, or your family, and are searching for ways to reconnect. Whatever brings you here, I believe everyone deserves a space to reconcile, grow, and redefine what it means to live a fulfilling life that truly resonates with them. Working with many individuals and couples in the LGBTQ+ community, my passion lies in helping clients confront the complexities of being human in a world that often pushes us into rigid molds of how we should live, feel, and act.
Are you navigating a life transition that has you exploring your values, relationships, or upbringing? Perhaps you’re feeling disconnected, whether it’s from yourself, your partner, or your family, and are searching for ways to reconnect. Whatever brings you here, I believe everyone deserves a space to reconcile, grow, and redefine what it means to live a fulfilling life that truly resonates with them. Working with many individuals and couples in the LGBTQ+ community, my passion lies in helping clients confront the complexities of being human in a world that often pushes us into rigid molds of how we should live, feel, and act.
Hi! My name is Amal I see therapy as a collaborative effort between myself and my clients. As a queer black woman, my goal is to provide space for those like me and others who have felt silenced and marginalized a majority of their lives. I have a passion for working with women of color and LGBTQIA+ identifying folks.
Hi! My name is Amal I see therapy as a collaborative effort between myself and my clients. As a queer black woman, my goal is to provide space for those like me and others who have felt silenced and marginalized a majority of their lives. I have a passion for working with women of color and LGBTQIA+ identifying folks.
Are you struggling with the heavy burden of relational difficulties, low self-esteem, depression, or anxiety? It's time to lighten that load. As a compassionate therapist, I offer a safe place to explore your experiences and embark on a journey of healing. I don't believe in a one-size-fits-all approach, which is why I tailor my evidence-based techniques to fit your unique needs.
Are you struggling with the heavy burden of relational difficulties, low self-esteem, depression, or anxiety? It's time to lighten that load. As a compassionate therapist, I offer a safe place to explore your experiences and embark on a journey of healing. I don't believe in a one-size-fits-all approach, which is why I tailor my evidence-based techniques to fit your unique needs.
Exhausted by your loud inner critic? Overwhelmed by your neverending to-do list? Despite looking like you have your sh!t together, internally you may feel like a scattered fraud cosplaying as a human. Trying to be the perfect friend, perfect professional, or perfect partner all at once is exhausting. Maybe there's a deeper wound that hasn't healed yet. Perhaps you dream of feeling fulfilled, calm, & confident. To say "no" and really mean it. To stop playing small & launch that creative idea. If you want to stress less & live authentically without fear or guilt, I’d love to help you step into your power.
Exhausted by your loud inner critic? Overwhelmed by your neverending to-do list? Despite looking like you have your sh!t together, internally you may feel like a scattered fraud cosplaying as a human. Trying to be the perfect friend, perfect professional, or perfect partner all at once is exhausting. Maybe there's a deeper wound that hasn't healed yet. Perhaps you dream of feeling fulfilled, calm, & confident. To say "no" and really mean it. To stop playing small & launch that creative idea. If you want to stress less & live authentically without fear or guilt, I’d love to help you step into your power.
Tom Adams
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Online Only
It's difficult, if not impossible, to really thrive in life when you are suffering. Whether you're experiencing anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or feeling abused, neglected, or misunderstood, having a regular time and place to talk about these issues in a safe and confidential space is essential to working through them. Those who commit to this process discover that, over time, their suffering is more manageable than they thought, and that living a more fulfilling life is well within their grasp.
It's difficult, if not impossible, to really thrive in life when you are suffering. Whether you're experiencing anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or feeling abused, neglected, or misunderstood, having a regular time and place to talk about these issues in a safe and confidential space is essential to working through them. Those who commit to this process discover that, over time, their suffering is more manageable than they thought, and that living a more fulfilling life is well within their grasp.
Jennifer Moynihan Wynn
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Hillsborough, Raleigh, NC 27605
Not accepting new clients
I specialize in relationship counseling and I want to help you feel more connected to the important people in your life. You do not need to be married to benefit from relationship counseling, and I am happy to work with you where you are in your relationship. I tend to work from an emotionally focused and experiential perspective, which means that I want to help you and your partner create an experience in which you can both feel seen, heard, and more connected.
I specialize in relationship counseling and I want to help you feel more connected to the important people in your life. You do not need to be married to benefit from relationship counseling, and I am happy to work with you where you are in your relationship. I tend to work from an emotionally focused and experiential perspective, which means that I want to help you and your partner create an experience in which you can both feel seen, heard, and more connected.
Daniel A Goldstein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Not accepting new clients
As a somatically focused gestalt therapist, I believe there is wisdom and meaning in our suffering and that we need to be able to experience and listen to our bodies in order to feel whole and alive. Our relationship can help you create the change you are longing for by supporting you to get clearer about your needs, respond more flexibly and effectively to the world around you, and ultimately have a fuller and more fulfilling experience of yourself, your relationships, and your possibilities.
As a somatically focused gestalt therapist, I believe there is wisdom and meaning in our suffering and that we need to be able to experience and listen to our bodies in order to feel whole and alive. Our relationship can help you create the change you are longing for by supporting you to get clearer about your needs, respond more flexibly and effectively to the world around you, and ultimately have a fuller and more fulfilling experience of yourself, your relationships, and your possibilities.
Online Therapists
Dr. Sam Simon
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, PhD, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Hillsborough, Raleigh, NC 27607
Waitlist for new clients
I am a queer and trans inclusive, culturally sensitive, trauma-informed, sex positive, poly-positive, pro-BLM, and fat-positive clinician who honors each intersectional identity of my client.
I have extensive experience supporting clients dealing with anxiety, depression, mood disorders, and stress related to life changes. Additionally, I specialize in assisting individuals exploring their gender and sexual identities, values, and relationships. My approach is trauma-informed, focusing on collaboratively developing a personalized treatment plan that meets your specific needs. Together, we establish clear, achievable goals to enhance your overall well-being and self-awareness.
I am a queer and trans inclusive, culturally sensitive, trauma-informed, sex positive, poly-positive, pro-BLM, and fat-positive clinician who honors each intersectional identity of my client.
I have extensive experience supporting clients dealing with anxiety, depression, mood disorders, and stress related to life changes. Additionally, I specialize in assisting individuals exploring their gender and sexual identities, values, and relationships. My approach is trauma-informed, focusing on collaboratively developing a personalized treatment plan that meets your specific needs. Together, we establish clear, achievable goals to enhance your overall well-being and self-awareness.
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Hannah M. [Lbgtq+ Expert]
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Hillsborough, Raleigh, NC 27609
Waitlist for new clients
You haven’t had the space to safely explore the true vision of who you are, but I’m here to remind you that every part of you, every identity—LGBTQ+, transgender, sex/ kink-positive—is worthy of being seen, loved, and respected.
Empathic. Easygoing. Humorist. You’re the one who brings joy and laughter to others, always ready with a joke or a kind word. But beneath the surface, you find yourself struggling to connect with your own happiness. You’ve carried the role of the supportive, cheerful friend for so long that it’s hard to admit how exhausting it’s become. Always lifting others up is leaving you drained and unseen. You deserve more than just being the one who holds space for everyone else. Your joy, needs, and identity matter. In a world that tells you to shrink or perform, let's work on you taking up space and embracing every part of who YOU are!
You haven’t had the space to safely explore the true vision of who you are, but I’m here to remind you that every part of you, every identity—LGBTQ+, transgender, sex/ kink-positive—is worthy of being seen, loved, and respected.
Empathic. Easygoing. Humorist. You’re the one who brings joy and laughter to others, always ready with a joke or a kind word. But beneath the surface, you find yourself struggling to connect with your own happiness. You’ve carried the role of the supportive, cheerful friend for so long that it’s hard to admit how exhausting it’s become. Always lifting others up is leaving you drained and unseen. You deserve more than just being the one who holds space for everyone else. Your joy, needs, and identity matter. In a world that tells you to shrink or perform, let's work on you taking up space and embracing every part of who YOU are!
Mitchell Wright
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, MS, LCMHCA, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I am queer affirming, culturally sensitive, body positive, sex positive, ENM affirming, and more.
Creating a comfortable, supportive, and safe environment is essential for your therapeutic experience. I take a person-centered approach, fully embracing each client to foster healing through connection. Together, we'll explore the patterns in your thoughts, emotions, actions, and values to enhance your self-awareness and improve your relationships. I use an eclectic blend of CBT, DBT, family systems, and Narrative therapy to uncover unmet needs and find ways to fulfill them in line with your values. Healing is a journey filled with challenges, and my goal is to support you toward it while appreciating every step along the way.
I am queer affirming, culturally sensitive, body positive, sex positive, ENM affirming, and more.
Creating a comfortable, supportive, and safe environment is essential for your therapeutic experience. I take a person-centered approach, fully embracing each client to foster healing through connection. Together, we'll explore the patterns in your thoughts, emotions, actions, and values to enhance your self-awareness and improve your relationships. I use an eclectic blend of CBT, DBT, family systems, and Narrative therapy to uncover unmet needs and find ways to fulfill them in line with your values. Healing is a journey filled with challenges, and my goal is to support you toward it while appreciating every step along the way.
Kylie Peele
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hillsborough, Raleigh, NC 27615
It may be difficult to find a therapist who is well versed on being sex positive, kink friendly, non-monogamous allied, and informed on chronic illnesses.
I strive to be sex-positive and affirming for people of all races, sexual orientations, and gender identities. I use a collaborative and person-centered approach with clients to encourage self-autonomy. I pride myself on my strong empathetic response in the therapeutic relationship while focusing on clients’ strengths.
It may be difficult to find a therapist who is well versed on being sex positive, kink friendly, non-monogamous allied, and informed on chronic illnesses.
I strive to be sex-positive and affirming for people of all races, sexual orientations, and gender identities. I use a collaborative and person-centered approach with clients to encourage self-autonomy. I pride myself on my strong empathetic response in the therapeutic relationship while focusing on clients’ strengths.
Rebecca Ozment
Counselor, MAEd, LCMHC, LCAS, NCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I am LGBT-affirming, sex-positive, kink/BDSM friendly, and ENM/Poloyam welcoming.
Hey there! I'm Rebecca and I offer online sex therapy, individual, and couples/relationship counseling across all of North Carolina! Have you ever felt completely lost and stuck, wishing it was easier to talk to your partner, wanting to understand yourself more, or feeling isolated and disconnected? If so, you're definitely not alone. If we work together, we will create a space where you can feel fully empowered to dive deep. Through meaningful questions and genuine curiosity, we’ll explore what makes you tick. I’ll be there, holding space and helping you develop skills while also challenging any inconsistencies that arise!
I am LGBT-affirming, sex-positive, kink/BDSM friendly, and ENM/Poloyam welcoming.
Hey there! I'm Rebecca and I offer online sex therapy, individual, and couples/relationship counseling across all of North Carolina! Have you ever felt completely lost and stuck, wishing it was easier to talk to your partner, wanting to understand yourself more, or feeling isolated and disconnected? If so, you're definitely not alone. If we work together, we will create a space where you can feel fully empowered to dive deep. Through meaningful questions and genuine curiosity, we’ll explore what makes you tick. I’ll be there, holding space and helping you develop skills while also challenging any inconsistencies that arise!
Bethany Dement
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Hillsborough, Raleigh, NC 27615
Using a strength-based approach with CBT and DBT, I’m neurodiversity and kink-affirming, fostering resilience in a supportive environment.
Are you feeling feels stuck, overwhelmed, and uncertain, battling anxiety, depression, or both? Are you struggle with perfectionism, self-doubt, or navigating difficult relationships? Are you wanting to regain control over your emotions, find clarity, and reconnect with happiness and purpose? Do you crave deep connection but struggle to feel close or connected to your desires? Beneath it all, do you long to be yourseIf, feel confident, and let go of the fears holding you back? I help clients by providing safe space to feel understood, gain insight, and build resilience.
Using a strength-based approach with CBT and DBT, I’m neurodiversity and kink-affirming, fostering resilience in a supportive environment.
Are you feeling feels stuck, overwhelmed, and uncertain, battling anxiety, depression, or both? Are you struggle with perfectionism, self-doubt, or navigating difficult relationships? Are you wanting to regain control over your emotions, find clarity, and reconnect with happiness and purpose? Do you crave deep connection but struggle to feel close or connected to your desires? Beneath it all, do you long to be yourseIf, feel confident, and let go of the fears holding you back? I help clients by providing safe space to feel understood, gain insight, and build resilience.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.