Infidelity Therapists in Durham, NC
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Zhana Balaam
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSWA
Verified
Verified
With my services, I can guarantee a reduce chance of separation, divorce, and
infidelity
.
I am Zhana Balaam, MSW, LCSWA and the owner of Harkening. Harkening offers Christian and non-religious couples counseling as well as couples and individual sex therapy through affordable 60 minuet virtual sessions. I specialize in repairing broken/dysfunctional relationships that result from separation,
cheating
, distrust, and emotional disconnections. I also specialize in restoring sexual connections that make partners feel in sync with each other.

Robert Ferguson
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
My special focus is close relationships. I help couples rediscover positive feelings, communicate better, work through conflict cooperatively, and repair the relationship after tension or hurt. I can help heal the wounds of
infidelity
or other emotional injuries. If you disagree on something, I stay neutral while helping you learn how to communicate in a productive manner, and how to make decisions together. I take sides only when someone is doing something incompatible with a healthy, satisfying partnership, and then I take the side of the relationship. I do so by speaking directly to behaviors like addiction, hostility, dishonesty, etc.

Judith S Barnett
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
I have been working successfully with couples and individuals for 20+ years on a variety of topics including depression, relationship issues, and specializing in the areas of communication, extramarital
affairs
, online
infidelity
, couples conflict resolution, and divorce prevention. I am very client-centered and value teaming with my clients to work effectively at their comfort level, staying mindful of their wishes while using my clinical skills and modalities.
Waitlist for new clients

Liadainn (Lia) Gilmore
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified
Verified
Welcome. I am a psychotherapist with over 20 years of experience in helping people of all ages, nationalities, races, gender expressions and sexual identities. My clients find me easy to talk to and my style is warm, non-judgmental and relational. I have a particular expertise in helping couples with issues such as
infidelity
, arguments, lack of communication and connection and dwindling sexual expression. For this work I draw on Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy by Susan Johnson see "Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love." I also use the work of the Gottman Institute, Harville Hendrix and Stan Tatkin.

Jessica Miceli
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC, MSc
Verified
Verified
I work with adults, couples, and teens 14 and up, who struggle with mood disorders,
betrayal
, relationship/attachment issues, grief, and trauma issues.
Do you feel your life is on the wrong course? Do you feel stuck in an endless cycle of “rinse and repeat?” Are you lacking wisdom on how to get your life back on track? Coming from a place of genuineness and unconditional positive regard that you are wonderfully made to love and be loved; we will investigate the relationship you have with yourself and the connections you make in the world today. As we explore the depths of your story, we will begin the journey of excavating your authentic self. The process of healing will unearth how your greatest weaknesses can become your greatest strengths clearing the road for self-acceptance!

Courtney Contreras
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Other frequent areas of work include processing through grief, learning to set healthy boundaries, healing from abuse or
betrayal
in past relationships, and developing a wholehearted sense of self and identify in the world.
Looking for a therapist takes a lot of courage. Whatever it is that has motivated you to take this step, I'm glad you are here. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker specializing in anxiety, relationships and trauma. As a therapist I aim to create a safe and non-judgmental space for you to explore areas of pain and move towards integrative healing. With clients I spend time unpacking things like anger, shame, people-pleasing and perfectionism, processing how early childhood experiences and family dynamics impact current relationships, and exploring how to safely connect with, care for and communication emotions.

Rebecca Farrell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCS
Verified
Verified
I counsel those suffering from anxiety, depression, trauma, and individuals experiencing major life transitions (ie:
infidelity
, divorce, career change, and midlife). I have experience working with people with serious mental illness in a variety of settings, including inpatient psychiatric hospitals, psychiatric residential treatment facilities, outpatient clinics, and corrections. I am currently focusing primarily on late adolescents and adults who are focused on discovering the path to their best version of self.

Ken Clark
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I've got a special place in my heart for executives / top-performers who have no one to talk to, couples struggling with recently discovered
infidelity
, and marriages that contain love but need to "reboot the like.
I'm not for everyone and every situation... I specialize in therapy and coaching for executives, couples, and companies who are highly motivated to get unstuck by doing a lot of work in a short period of time through in-person intensives or by secure video. I focus primarily on helping stabilize situations, create clarity about next steps, and crafting an action plan that my clients will be responsible for executing outside of the therapy or coaching relationship.

Edie Campbell
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, LMFT, PLLC
Verified
Verified
I have experience working with couples who are looking to improve communication and intimacy, or those who are dealing with
infidelity
.
Now offering 90 minute couple sessions. I am an experienced, licensed marriage and family therapist working with couples, individuals and children. I can help put your history in its rightful place and create a healthy narrative that will allow you to flourish. Let's partner to gain insight on potential blockers and craft practical solutions to move you past them, creating harmony in your relationships. Call today to schedule a free 30 minute meet & greet.

Gillian Corzine
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, NCMFT, AAMFT
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
Couples may be undergoing difficulties with communication, conflict,
infidelity
or parenting issues.
I believe understanding how my client perceives the world is essential to successful treatment. For 25 years I have helped a multitude of individuals and family groupings to find peace, resolution and happiness in many areas of their lives. I am a dedicated therapist who is present in the session and highly committed to honoring and respecting the individuals who have allowed me to work with them. I draw inspiration from Pema Chodron, Virginia Satir and Esther Perel.
Christie Siegel Sobczak
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified
Verified
When working with couples, I address issues related to
infidelity
, separation, divorce, poor communication, conflict resolution and developing a more intimate relationship.
I believe therapy is about empowering individuals, couples, and families to resolve their unique issues by gaining a better understanding of themselves, others and their current situations. I also work with individuals to identify underlying issues that effect one's sense of self and unsatisfying relationships. Goals for many of my clients include identity development, increasing self-esteem, experiencing more meaningful relationships, gaining a stronger understanding of themselves, finding a sense of fulfillment and meaning in life, and resolving longstanding issues that keep them from achieving their desires and goals.

Ronald A Zumstein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CSAT
Verified
Verified
Issues I have helped couples with include: Premarital Counseling; Commitment Issues; couples on the verge of separation or divorce; Sexual Problems;
Affairs
; Rebuilding Romance; and Emotional and Sexual Intimacy.
Over 20 years of working with individuals and couples, I have developed expertise working with a variety of issues, including: low mood, low motivation, anxiety, creative blocks, feeling "stuck" (in any area of life), relationship issues, work or career issues, anger management, addictions, compulsive behavior, and personal growth. My approach is client-centered and collaborative. Together we will work to clarify your goals, and develop a plan that will help you achieve them as quickly as possible. To help you actualize those goals I utilize a variety of modalities, including mindfulness therapy, interpersonal therapy and psychoeducational approaches.

Awakenings Counseling for Couples and Sex Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LCMHC, AASECT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Do you need online couples counseling, online sex therapy or online marriage counseling near me? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Are you missing appreciation? Fighting over sexual frequency? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues because of
infidelity
? Relationships need both emotional connection, intimacy and sex to be happy. We help repair
affairs
. Stop the fighting. Stop the criticism and withdrawing. Build a deeper connection, trust, & better communication. Feel love again. We treat erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, anorgasmia, low libido, frequency discrepancy.
Waitlist for new clients

Barbara C Keyworth
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Also help with recovery from
affairs
and Discernment Marital focus.
I see the breakdown of communication as a primary problem in couples, stepfamilies and friends. Being able to really listen and understand and talk is critical to building good relationships. Knowing your own feelings, being able to express anger and hurt constructively- these are skills we often don't learn growing up but need to have for our own growth and for relationships. I have marital training from Terry Real Institute (Level I) and Gottman Institute (Level II)
Waitlist for new clients

Leslie Smith
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
Infidelity
and recovery are specialties.
I believe my role as a therapist is to provide a safe, supportive space where you can talk over your difficulties, and I in turn provide perspective, insight, and creative problem-solving strategies. With over 20 years of experience, I have many therapeutic approaches available. Past clients have told me that they appreciate my ability to listen reflectively but still provide active feedback and ideas that allow them to see a new angle on their problems and begin to change. I can be most helpful with relationship issues and with anxiety and depression. I have particular specialties in helping women with mid-life transition issues.

Taylor Anderson
Psychologist, PsyD, HSP-P
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
Couples who are struggling in their relationship with trust/
betrayal
, communication, and intimacy may often feel as if they are on a completely different page from their partner. My goal is to help you reconnect in your relationship, communicate better, and get back to a place of comfort and support. I also work with adult individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, life transitions/adjustment, poor interpersonal relationships, and stress. I strive to help you better understand your past experiences and the influence this is having on your life now. I balance process oriented work with skills needed to make changes now.

Anna K Smith
Psychologist, PsyD, MEd
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I am a Licensed Psychologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and I specialize in couples & sex therapy,
affairs
, trauma recovery, as well as depression, anxiety, bipolar, & other mental health issues.
I delight in working with couples to repair troubled relationships & find a deeper, more secure connection with one another by helping partners bring their needs into awareness, share those unmasked parts, and transform old patterns of communication & interaction. I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental space, whatever your orientation, identity, ethnicity, or sexual preference. I meet my clients where they are & am open, compassionate, and curious, whether we are discussing interpersonal conflicts, relationship issues, or other stressors. I am honored by the individuals & couples who have let me join them in those places.

Terri Williams-Whiteside
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, TFCBT
Verified
Verified
I'm Terri Williams-Whiteside, therapist with Home for Family Intimacy. Any challenges making your/your family's life difficult? I want to support to you! It is my goal to not take over, but to guide you without judgement in setting & meeting the goals you desire. You are the boss, I assist. Some of the areas we may work on are: blending families, challenges of parenting/caregiving,
cheating
/
infidelity
, children’s behavior, communication, co-parenting, divorce/separation, family-conflict, grief, homelessness/displacement, incarceration, living with a mental-health diagnosis, medical diagnosis, partner intimacy, trauma & violence.

Lisa Gist Walker
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Verified
5 Endorsed
Verified
5 Endorsed
I serve a range of client needs including recovery from abuse,
infidelity
, and impacts of addiction; individuals and families affected by birth differences, chronic health issues or terminal illnesses; attachment and trauma; aging and identity; women’s and men’s issues; and grief experiences in all forms.
Now working with clients via phone or video conference, with flexible frequency and duration that fit at-home schedules. I partner with adults, couples, and families navigating changes across the lifespan. I'm here to help you find and travel your unique path toward change. I am a generalist, curious and passionate about the breadth and depth of human experience. If I'm not the right partner for your work, I'm pleased to refer to other professionals who may be.
Waitlist for new clients

James McCracken
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, DCSW
Verified
6 Endorsed
Verified
6 Endorsed
I help clients walk the pathway back to emotional well-being and secure relationships, all while feeling supported and affirmed. Through the 15+ years of experience as a therapist, I provide state of the art therapy for couples, individuals and families, tailored to the situations and needs of clients. Depression, loneliness, divorce, frustration and despair isn't inevitable. Security with yourself and stable relationships with others are possible with help.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.