Infidelity Therapists in Charlotte, NC
Chris A. Matthews
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT-S, LCAS, SAP, CCS
6 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28270
It is my job to be a co-pilot to help guide you and your partner through the storms of conflict, infidelity, grief, trauma, and life’s transitions such as parenting, employment, and blended family issues.
My approach is genuine, and I value the opportunity to be a part of your change process in order to create peace, insight, and tranquility between you and your intimate partner. In addition to implementing best practice treatment modalities, I rely on my ability to establish deep rooted connections with the couples I work with.
It is my job to be a co-pilot to help guide you and your partner through the storms of conflict, infidelity, grief, trauma, and life’s transitions such as parenting, employment, and blended family issues.
My approach is genuine, and I value the opportunity to be a part of your change process in order to create peace, insight, and tranquility between you and your intimate partner. In addition to implementing best practice treatment modalities, I rely on my ability to establish deep rooted connections with the couples I work with.
I have experience with concerns including trauma, anxiety, depression, boundaries, grief, infidelity, sexuality, sexual orientation, non-monogamy, and life transitions.
Life is full of transitions and challenges that can lead to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, and family problems. You may feel frustrated, anxious, and disappointed leading to your desire to seek help. I believe everyone needs a person that supports, advocates, and listens to them. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I strive to build a space of acceptance to promote your growth and honor your strengths. I believe everyone has their own unique experiences and therefore, I adapt my approach to fit your needs and goals.
I have experience with concerns including trauma, anxiety, depression, boundaries, grief, infidelity, sexuality, sexual orientation, non-monogamy, and life transitions.
Life is full of transitions and challenges that can lead to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, and family problems. You may feel frustrated, anxious, and disappointed leading to your desire to seek help. I believe everyone needs a person that supports, advocates, and listens to them. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I strive to build a space of acceptance to promote your growth and honor your strengths. I believe everyone has their own unique experiences and therefore, I adapt my approach to fit your needs and goals.
Scott Alan Smith
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHC, CSAT, CPTT
5 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28226
I have been working as a therapist since 2012, specializing in helping couples and individuals with sex addiction, betrayal trauma, relationships, and mental health problems, including anxiety, depression, grief and loss.
I feel comfortable working with people from a variety of ministry contexts, as well as people with no spiritual training or background. I take a respectful, holistic, and empathetic approach to my work, which values each person as a unique individual, created by God with a purpose for their life.
I have been working as a therapist since 2012, specializing in helping couples and individuals with sex addiction, betrayal trauma, relationships, and mental health problems, including anxiety, depression, grief and loss.
I feel comfortable working with people from a variety of ministry contexts, as well as people with no spiritual training or background. I take a respectful, holistic, and empathetic approach to my work, which values each person as a unique individual, created by God with a purpose for their life.
Aundrea DeJonge
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, MA, LCMHC-A
2 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28277
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in working with individuals and couples who have experienced betrayal, infidelity, abuse (emotional, verbal, physical), and compulsive sexual behaviors.
Are you feeling overwhelmed in the place you find yourself? Does life often feel out of control? Have you worked hard to keep it together so that it looks good on the outside, but on the inside, your gut is telling you otherwise? Or, maybe you're not even sure why you feel the way you do. You are not alone! Trying to "do it all" can certainly take a toll. You likely desire to better understand yourself and your relationships in this current season. Coming alongside you, meeting you where you are, and collaborating with you as you clarify what it is that you want for yourself is the approach I'll take.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples who have experienced betrayal, infidelity, abuse (emotional, verbal, physical), and compulsive sexual behaviors.
Are you feeling overwhelmed in the place you find yourself? Does life often feel out of control? Have you worked hard to keep it together so that it looks good on the outside, but on the inside, your gut is telling you otherwise? Or, maybe you're not even sure why you feel the way you do. You are not alone! Trying to "do it all" can certainly take a toll. You likely desire to better understand yourself and your relationships in this current season. Coming alongside you, meeting you where you are, and collaborating with you as you clarify what it is that you want for yourself is the approach I'll take.
Heinz with two decades of experience, specializing in sex and relationship counseling, on topics such as: treating affairs, infidelity, porn addiction, sexual desire, sexual pain, ED, fast ejaculation, communication, intimacy, and sex in long-term relationships.
I am a seasoned sexologist certified by AASECT and other certifications and training in neuro-psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, NLP, Erotology, sexual trauma, treating affairs, and pornography addiction, specializing in sexual desire, sexual issues, and intimacy and relationships. PhD. Masters in Sexology & Couples Counseling. BS in Psychology and Family Science.
Heinz with two decades of experience, specializing in sex and relationship counseling, on topics such as: treating affairs, infidelity, porn addiction, sexual desire, sexual pain, ED, fast ejaculation, communication, intimacy, and sex in long-term relationships.
I am a seasoned sexologist certified by AASECT and other certifications and training in neuro-psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, NLP, Erotology, sexual trauma, treating affairs, and pornography addiction, specializing in sexual desire, sexual issues, and intimacy and relationships. PhD. Masters in Sexology & Couples Counseling. BS in Psychology and Family Science.
I specialize in helping successful but unhappy adults struggling with relationships, infidelity, connection, anxiety and discontent.
Life and love can be messy. Our 24/7 world can make otherwise successful people get out of balance in their lives and in their relationships. The good news is: quality, research-based counseling works for couples and individuals. Together, we can help you and/or your relationship feel better.
I specialize in helping successful but unhappy adults struggling with relationships, infidelity, connection, anxiety and discontent.
Life and love can be messy. Our 24/7 world can make otherwise successful people get out of balance in their lives and in their relationships. The good news is: quality, research-based counseling works for couples and individuals. Together, we can help you and/or your relationship feel better.
Jessica McCall
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT-S, CSAT, CPTT, EMDR
16 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28210
I help individuals and couples struggling with infidelity, betrayal, trust, intimacy, sex, process addictions (sex/porn, love, work, etc.), communication, and complex or attachment-oriented trauma.
I see therapy as a true balance of art and science, and my practice is energized by my passion for people, healing and growth. I help clients work through emotional wounds and destructive coping strategies so that they can discover themselves, live with integrity, find balance in their lives and attach to those they love in a new, healthy way.
I help individuals and couples struggling with infidelity, betrayal, trust, intimacy, sex, process addictions (sex/porn, love, work, etc.), communication, and complex or attachment-oriented trauma.
I see therapy as a true balance of art and science, and my practice is energized by my passion for people, healing and growth. I help clients work through emotional wounds and destructive coping strategies so that they can discover themselves, live with integrity, find balance in their lives and attach to those they love in a new, healthy way.
I also assist couples and individuals looking to heal from infidelity and betrayal, navigate life transitions such as new motherhood/parenting, as well as self-esteem and identity exploration.
My approach is systemic, emotion focused and narrative in nature, as I believe authenticity in our daily lives leads to the creation of secure bonds and relationships with others. My educational background and counseling experiences have prepared me to assist others in restoring relationships with self and others.
I also assist couples and individuals looking to heal from infidelity and betrayal, navigate life transitions such as new motherhood/parenting, as well as self-esteem and identity exploration.
My approach is systemic, emotion focused and narrative in nature, as I believe authenticity in our daily lives leads to the creation of secure bonds and relationships with others. My educational background and counseling experiences have prepared me to assist others in restoring relationships with self and others.
Michelle Holleman
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MS, LCAS, CSAT, CPTT, CMAT
1 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28226
Sex/love/pornography addiction often includes an element of betrayal and the trauma accompanying this is real and significant.
It is my honor to be a part of your healing journey and recovery. Nothing is really a problem, until it becomes a problem. My mission is to guide people to heal and find their authentic selves via an exceptional therapeutic process and experience. As a Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, I specialize in supporting teens, adults, and their loved ones recover from sex/love, pornography, internet/gaming, mental health issues, and drug and alcohol addiction/dependency. There is no judgement and I welcome all. I am sex+, kink/fetish, ENM/poly, & LGBTQIA+-affirming.This is a safe place to heal.
Sex/love/pornography addiction often includes an element of betrayal and the trauma accompanying this is real and significant.
It is my honor to be a part of your healing journey and recovery. Nothing is really a problem, until it becomes a problem. My mission is to guide people to heal and find their authentic selves via an exceptional therapeutic process and experience. As a Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, I specialize in supporting teens, adults, and their loved ones recover from sex/love, pornography, internet/gaming, mental health issues, and drug and alcohol addiction/dependency. There is no judgement and I welcome all. I am sex+, kink/fetish, ENM/poly, & LGBTQIA+-affirming.This is a safe place to heal.
I am passionate about working with couples and individuals dealing with infidelity, low self-esteem, cultural concerns, marital/relational issues, dating, life transitions, stress management, grief, and more.
If you are someone who's life seems out of balance and you're ready for a change, you are exactly where you need to be. Becoming the person you want to be and healing from the person you once were can be a difficult task. The good news is that you don't have to do it alone. I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate and I help couples and individuals who are ready to take the steps to transform their lives in a way they didn't believe was possible.
I am passionate about working with couples and individuals dealing with infidelity, low self-esteem, cultural concerns, marital/relational issues, dating, life transitions, stress management, grief, and more.
If you are someone who's life seems out of balance and you're ready for a change, you are exactly where you need to be. Becoming the person you want to be and healing from the person you once were can be a difficult task. The good news is that you don't have to do it alone. I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate and I help couples and individuals who are ready to take the steps to transform their lives in a way they didn't believe was possible.
Regardless of your background, I offer support for issues like depression, regular or existential anxiety, perfectionism and burnout, sexual problems, infidelity, grief and loss, and chronic and terminal illness.
I act as a "communication translator," helping you and your partner(s) gain insight into where you miss each other so you stop repeating harmful patterns. My goal is to create a space where you feel safe enough to laugh, cry, and develop meaningful connections with your selves, each other, your family, and your world.
Regardless of your background, I offer support for issues like depression, regular or existential anxiety, perfectionism and burnout, sexual problems, infidelity, grief and loss, and chronic and terminal illness.
I act as a "communication translator," helping you and your partner(s) gain insight into where you miss each other so you stop repeating harmful patterns. My goal is to create a space where you feel safe enough to laugh, cry, and develop meaningful connections with your selves, each other, your family, and your world.
The most successful couples I work with have struggled with infidelity, considered divorce, or lost the fireworks in their marriage.
My specialties include guiding couples to work through conflict, pending separation, infidelity, intimacy issues, and co-parenting after divorce. I specialize in addiction treatment including family empowerment before/after rehab. I enjoy working with people wrestling with anxiety, bereavement, ADHD, sexual orientation issues, and spiritual disconnection.
The most successful couples I work with have struggled with infidelity, considered divorce, or lost the fireworks in their marriage.
My specialties include guiding couples to work through conflict, pending separation, infidelity, intimacy issues, and co-parenting after divorce. I specialize in addiction treatment including family empowerment before/after rehab. I enjoy working with people wrestling with anxiety, bereavement, ADHD, sexual orientation issues, and spiritual disconnection.
I specialize in supporting individuals and couples navigating infertility, healing from infidelity, and managing the unique stressors educators face.
Allelia "Lia" Zalvin believes in meeting people exactly where they are. Lia sees therapy as a collaborative journey, grounded in empathy, compassion, and a touch of humor to lighten the load. Whether you're navigating relationships, disappointments, or personal growth, Lia is here to support you in becoming the fullest version of yourself. Lia values creating a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can feel heard, understood, and empowered. Lia believes strongly that it’s an honor to walk alongside you as you explore, heal, and thrive. If you're looking for someone who truly sees you & is committed to your growth, she's here for you.
I specialize in supporting individuals and couples navigating infertility, healing from infidelity, and managing the unique stressors educators face.
Allelia "Lia" Zalvin believes in meeting people exactly where they are. Lia sees therapy as a collaborative journey, grounded in empathy, compassion, and a touch of humor to lighten the load. Whether you're navigating relationships, disappointments, or personal growth, Lia is here to support you in becoming the fullest version of yourself. Lia values creating a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can feel heard, understood, and empowered. Lia believes strongly that it’s an honor to walk alongside you as you explore, heal, and thrive. If you're looking for someone who truly sees you & is committed to your growth, she's here for you.
As a trauma therapist, I help people with childhood trauma, PTSD, CPTSD, betrayal trauma, and relationship issues, including infidelity and intimate partner abuse.
I'm an open-minded, relatable human who likes to cuss and laugh at dark humor. I primarily use Internal Family Systems (IFS) and EMDR to help people work through their challenges, and I have specialized training in treating childhood trauma, domestic violence, intimate partner abuse, PTSD, and betrayal trauma stemming from infidelity.
As a trauma therapist, I help people with childhood trauma, PTSD, CPTSD, betrayal trauma, and relationship issues, including infidelity and intimate partner abuse.
I'm an open-minded, relatable human who likes to cuss and laugh at dark humor. I primarily use Internal Family Systems (IFS) and EMDR to help people work through their challenges, and I have specialized training in treating childhood trauma, domestic violence, intimate partner abuse, PTSD, and betrayal trauma stemming from infidelity.
Hope & Freedom specializes in treating sexual addiction recovery therapy, betrayal trauma treatment for betrayed partners, and provides top quality couples recovery treatment for couples hoping to restore after betrayal.
I have over 500 hours of specialized treatment training within the field of Professional Trauma and Addiction Recovery. I currently hold the following Certifications - CSAT-S, CPTT-S, CCBRT (candidate), CHFP, and I am also trained in all levels of Gottman Method Couples Therapy, EMDR with FSAP, ERCEM, and skilled in 12-step therapy.
Hope & Freedom specializes in treating sexual addiction recovery therapy, betrayal trauma treatment for betrayed partners, and provides top quality couples recovery treatment for couples hoping to restore after betrayal.
I have over 500 hours of specialized treatment training within the field of Professional Trauma and Addiction Recovery. I currently hold the following Certifications - CSAT-S, CPTT-S, CCBRT (candidate), CHFP, and I am also trained in all levels of Gottman Method Couples Therapy, EMDR with FSAP, ERCEM, and skilled in 12-step therapy.
Clients book sessions when relational negative cycles of communication and disagreements are noticed, holistic effects of infidelity/adultery are unbearable, and when client’s seek mental and emotional peace.
Personal, relational, and professional responsibilities at times seem to collide and overwhelm you leaving you with the realization, “this is to much”. With a therapeutic approach tailored specifically for you, we work towards uncovering the foundation of your reasons for seeking therapy, understanding emotions, and learning coping skills.
Clients book sessions when relational negative cycles of communication and disagreements are noticed, holistic effects of infidelity/adultery are unbearable, and when client’s seek mental and emotional peace.
Personal, relational, and professional responsibilities at times seem to collide and overwhelm you leaving you with the realization, “this is to much”. With a therapeutic approach tailored specifically for you, we work towards uncovering the foundation of your reasons for seeking therapy, understanding emotions, and learning coping skills.
Donisa J Hammond
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
My name is Donisa and I help couples and individuals heal after trauma and betrayal.
We utilize evidenced-based, empirically sound research, with nuts and bolts approach to help you learn more about the things in your relationship that are causing it to deteriorate and for each of you to grow apart. You will take an assessment that measures your areas of growth and areas of concern to be strengthened. We specialize in couples care!
My name is Donisa and I help couples and individuals heal after trauma and betrayal.
We utilize evidenced-based, empirically sound research, with nuts and bolts approach to help you learn more about the things in your relationship that are causing it to deteriorate and for each of you to grow apart. You will take an assessment that measures your areas of growth and areas of concern to be strengthened. We specialize in couples care!
Infidelity?
I also specialize in sexual problems, affairs, rebuilding romance, and emotional and sexual intimacy. I have advanced training in sexual addiction treatment. If clients are open to it, I often give them handouts or homework to do during the week. I don't believe in forcing the client to do something that isn't working. Together, we'll figure things out.
Infidelity?
I also specialize in sexual problems, affairs, rebuilding romance, and emotional and sexual intimacy. I have advanced training in sexual addiction treatment. If clients are open to it, I often give them handouts or homework to do during the week. I don't believe in forcing the client to do something that isn't working. Together, we'll figure things out.
I specialize in working with couples who have experienced infidelity, postpartum and other relational issues, young adults going through life transitions such as starting college, a new job or a family, and adults experiencing, anxiety, depression and/or trauma as a result of unhealthy relationship dynamics with romantic partners, friends, children and parents.
As a therapist, I believe in creating a non-judgmental, safe place for any individual(s) to express their emotions, thoughts, and experiences comfortably. I will listen intently to you and assist you in creating goals that are unique to you. In addition, I am certified Prepare & Enrich facilitator for couples in all stages of their relationship.
I specialize in working with couples who have experienced infidelity, postpartum and other relational issues, young adults going through life transitions such as starting college, a new job or a family, and adults experiencing, anxiety, depression and/or trauma as a result of unhealthy relationship dynamics with romantic partners, friends, children and parents.
As a therapist, I believe in creating a non-judgmental, safe place for any individual(s) to express their emotions, thoughts, and experiences comfortably. I will listen intently to you and assist you in creating goals that are unique to you. In addition, I am certified Prepare & Enrich facilitator for couples in all stages of their relationship.
I have worked with a variety of populations and culturally diverse ethnic groups managing attachment injuries, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, high functioning Autism, codependency, grief, marital/family conflict, infidelity, parenting issues, self-esteem concerns, life transitions, women/men’s issues, and day-to-day stressors.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I obtained my undergraduate degree in Clinical Psychology and graduate degree in Marriage and Family Therapy. My therapy approach is taken from an attachment theory and perspective. I believe humans are wired to feel connected, and that we all greatly benefit from healthy relationships. Without this connectedness, we may experience loneliness or isolation. I provide a safe, accepting space for individuals, couples, and families using a positive Existential Therapy Model to support self-awareness, meaningful relationships, and values of life.
I have worked with a variety of populations and culturally diverse ethnic groups managing attachment injuries, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, high functioning Autism, codependency, grief, marital/family conflict, infidelity, parenting issues, self-esteem concerns, life transitions, women/men’s issues, and day-to-day stressors.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I obtained my undergraduate degree in Clinical Psychology and graduate degree in Marriage and Family Therapy. My therapy approach is taken from an attachment theory and perspective. I believe humans are wired to feel connected, and that we all greatly benefit from healthy relationships. Without this connectedness, we may experience loneliness or isolation. I provide a safe, accepting space for individuals, couples, and families using a positive Existential Therapy Model to support self-awareness, meaningful relationships, and values of life.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.