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Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

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Hartford, CT 06107
CT & VT residents: Are you an outsider or misfit? Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+, kinky, or otherwise living life outside the box? Welcome to Two Torches Therapy! I offer you a warm, affirming, trauma-informed space to grapple with big feelings and questions, explore values and desires, disrupt unhelpful patterns, and move toward greater authenticity and stronger connection with others and yourself. My professional and personal experience as a queer, neurodivergent, kink-allied clinician inform my work: you don't need to explain your existence or justify your lifestyle—we can focus instead on your goals and your process, at your own pace.
Work with me is grounded, collaborative, and very human! In relational psychodynamic therapy we'll explore how past and present "attachments" (important relationships) affect you, work through ruptures and conflict, and test-drive new ways of relating. You'll develop insight and blueprints for healthy, meaningful relationships (and skills for keeping them!).
What was hurt in relationship, heals in relationship, starting with the therapy relationship: you and me. Healing means safety, liberation, authenticity, joy... and I'm here to help you get there. It's time to embrace those shadows and to be authentic and curious, not pathologizing. So laugh, cry, rage, lean into your "Tower moment"—bring your full self!
Call or Molly Toomey now for a free 15 minute consultation - (959) 500-6014

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Hartford, CT 06107

(959) 500-6014

Burlington, VT 05401

My website
Dear night owls & early risers: I offer sessions very early in the morning (or late at night, depending!). Sessions available starting 5 AM.
I specialize in LGBTQ+, Trauma and PTSD and Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly 
$175 Per Session  
Individual one-on-one therapy 
A warm, awkward video-welcome! Bloopers unfortunately not included due to time limit. - NOTE: Serving clients in both Connecticut & Vermont!
Molly Toomey
Let's Connect (959) 500-6014
Photo of Molly Toomey, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Hartford, CT 06107

(959) 500-6014

Burlington, VT 05401

My website
Dear night owls & early risers: I offer sessions very early in the morning (or late at night, depending!). Sessions available starting 5 AM.
I specialize in LGBTQ+, Trauma and PTSD and Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly 
$175 Per Session  
Individual one-on-one therapy 
A warm, awkward video-welcome! Bloopers unfortunately not included due to time limit. - NOTE: Serving clients in both Connecticut & Vermont!
Molly Toomey

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $175

Payment Methods

ACH Bank transfer, Mastercard, Visa, Wire

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I am private pay only and do not work with insurance. I'm very privacy-focused and don't want to share your personal info with insurance companies. Private pay means YOU decide how/for how long we'll work together based on your wants and needs. I also offer some reduced fee slots (please inquire!).
Photo of Molly Toomey, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Molly Toomey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (959) 500-6014
"
I am private pay only and do not work with insurance. I'm very privacy-focused and don't want to share your personal info with insurance companies. Private pay means YOU decide how/for how long we'll work together based on your wants and needs. I also offer some reduced fee slots (please inquire!).
Photo of Molly Toomey, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Molly Toomey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (959) 500-6014

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Connecticut / 15933 Molly Toomey
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 9 years
  • Attended Smith College School for Social Work, Master of Social Work (Clinical), Graduated 2016
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: State of Vermont 089.0137218TELE / 2026
  • Degree/Diploma from Amherst College B.A. Sociology / 2010
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I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker providing queer-friendly, neuro-affirming, trauma-informed mental health care in Connecticut and Vermont. Over the past 15 years I've served hundreds of individuals in diverse ways, from individual therapy and group counseling to sexuality education.
Photo of Molly Toomey, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Molly Toomey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (959) 500-6014
"
I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker providing queer-friendly, neuro-affirming, trauma-informed mental health care in Connecticut and Vermont. Over the past 15 years I've served hundreds of individuals in diverse ways, from individual therapy and group counseling to sexuality education.
Photo of Molly Toomey, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Molly Toomey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (959) 500-6014

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • LGBTQ+
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Autism
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Bisexual
  • Caregivers
  • Codependency
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Emotional Regulation
  • Gay
  • Lesbian
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Peer Relationships
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Self-Harming
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Spirituality
  • Transgender
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I offer affirming, trauma-informed care specializing in LGBTQIA and neurodivergent folks. In relational psychodynamic therapy and parts work, we'll explore past and present hurts, gain insight, feel big feelings, gently disrupt unhelpful cycles, make mistakes, and find healing and joy in authentic connection—with someone who embraces your complex identities and experiences as strengths, not flaws.
Photo of Molly Toomey, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Molly Toomey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (959) 500-6014
"
I offer affirming, trauma-informed care specializing in LGBTQIA and neurodivergent folks. In relational psychodynamic therapy and parts work, we'll explore past and present hurts, gain insight, feel big feelings, gently disrupt unhelpful cycles, make mistakes, and find healing and joy in authentic connection—with someone who embraces your complex identities and experiences as strengths, not flaws.
Photo of Molly Toomey, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Molly Toomey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (959) 500-6014


Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Hispanic and Latino

I also speak

German
Spanish

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Hispanic and Latino

I also speak

German
Spanish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • EMDR
  • Existential
  • Feminist
  • Humanistic
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Multicultural
  • Person-Centered
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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Relational psychodynamic therapy and parts work are about healing through connection with others and yourself. We'll build a genuine, trusting alliance where you feel safe enough to dig into the tough stuff at your own pace. We'll explore past and present relationships and build a blueprint for safety and more fulfilling relationships with others and with yourself—starting in the therapy room.
Photo of Molly Toomey, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Molly Toomey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (959) 500-6014
"
Relational psychodynamic therapy and parts work are about healing through connection with others and yourself. We'll build a genuine, trusting alliance where you feel safe enough to dig into the tough stuff at your own pace. We'll explore past and present relationships and build a blueprint for safety and more fulfilling relationships with others and with yourself—starting in the therapy room.
Photo of Molly Toomey, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Molly Toomey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (959) 500-6014

Location

Primary Location

Hartford, CT 06107

(959) 500-6014

Additional Location

Burlington, VT 05401

(959) 500-6014
"
Dear night owls & early risers: I offer sessions very early in the morning (or late at night, depending!). Sessions available starting 5 AM.
Photo of Molly Toomey, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Molly Toomey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (959) 500-6014
"
Dear night owls & early risers: I offer sessions very early in the morning (or late at night, depending!). Sessions available starting 5 AM.
Photo of Molly Toomey, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Molly Toomey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (959) 500-6014