Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Saint Louis, MO
I aim to provide an exceptionally safe space for all queer identities, neurodivergence, kink practicing and ethically non-monogamous individuals & couples+.
Sex is cool but what if you were able to speak about it freely in an authentically genuine, identity affirming, non-judgmental and empathetic space. Perhaps you're trying to combat your internalized shame and societal beliefs of what sex “should” look like. Maybe you're seeking more self-pleasure and awareness. Are you navigating a new relationship dynamic or trying to combat intrusive thoughts around past sexual trauma? Let's find solutions and make achievable goals together.
I aim to provide an exceptionally safe space for all queer identities, neurodivergence, kink practicing and ethically non-monogamous individuals & couples+.
Sex is cool but what if you were able to speak about it freely in an authentically genuine, identity affirming, non-judgmental and empathetic space. Perhaps you're trying to combat your internalized shame and societal beliefs of what sex “should” look like. Maybe you're seeking more self-pleasure and awareness. Are you navigating a new relationship dynamic or trying to combat intrusive thoughts around past sexual trauma? Let's find solutions and make achievable goals together.
Do you feel stuck in cycles of anxiety, disconnection, or overwhelm, unsure who you are beneath the stress? You’re not alone. Maybe intimacy feels hard to trust, trauma still lives in your body, or your relationships repeat old patterns that leave you feeling unseen. You want to feel calm, embodied, and free to live more fully but you don’t know where to begin. Therapy can be a space to slow down, listen inward, and begin healing the parts of you that have been silenced or forgotten.
Do you feel stuck in cycles of anxiety, disconnection, or overwhelm, unsure who you are beneath the stress? You’re not alone. Maybe intimacy feels hard to trust, trauma still lives in your body, or your relationships repeat old patterns that leave you feeling unseen. You want to feel calm, embodied, and free to live more fully but you don’t know where to begin. Therapy can be a space to slow down, listen inward, and begin healing the parts of you that have been silenced or forgotten.
Thank you for being here! My practice focuses on helping clients navigate anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, religious trauma, sexuality, and grief. I work with adults, with a particular emphasis on the LGBTQ+ community, young adults, and the aging population.
Thank you for being here! My practice focuses on helping clients navigate anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, religious trauma, sexuality, and grief. I work with adults, with a particular emphasis on the LGBTQ+ community, young adults, and the aging population.
Do you catch yourself overthinking or being too critical? Do you often wonder if you have accomplished “enough”? We keep trying to change how we think and feel about ourselves, but nothing seems to work for very long. However, this '“trying” can often lead to familiar reactions such as anxiety, depression, and relationship stress. So how does it get better?
Do you catch yourself overthinking or being too critical? Do you often wonder if you have accomplished “enough”? We keep trying to change how we think and feel about ourselves, but nothing seems to work for very long. However, this '“trying” can often lead to familiar reactions such as anxiety, depression, and relationship stress. So how does it get better?
Dr. A. P. Carmichael
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MEd, MA, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63108
Relationships are part of what makes us human. We thrive when connected with others. I am passionate about helping people create and maintain healthy and loving relationships. I work with couples, families, and individuals and have strong experience working with LGBTQ clients. I make it a priority to create a safe space for all of my clients. It is through this atmosphere of acceptance that we can work together to create true change and growth. I work with individuals, families and couples who are going through a crisis, or those who are simply looking to strengthen their relationships.
Relationships are part of what makes us human. We thrive when connected with others. I am passionate about helping people create and maintain healthy and loving relationships. I work with couples, families, and individuals and have strong experience working with LGBTQ clients. I make it a priority to create a safe space for all of my clients. It is through this atmosphere of acceptance that we can work together to create true change and growth. I work with individuals, families and couples who are going through a crisis, or those who are simply looking to strengthen their relationships.
Many people I work with have been in therapy before, but it didn't go deep enough. They still feel anxious, depressed, or unsure of themselves, and are stuck in old patterns in relationships with others and themselves. I work particularly well with people who have difficult relationships with a parent, those who experienced a lot of chaos as children, young adults, new parents and LGBTQ folks, but I work well with anyone who wants to understand themselves better. I can help you get to the root of your problems instead of only looking at the surface-level symptoms.
Many people I work with have been in therapy before, but it didn't go deep enough. They still feel anxious, depressed, or unsure of themselves, and are stuck in old patterns in relationships with others and themselves. I work particularly well with people who have difficult relationships with a parent, those who experienced a lot of chaos as children, young adults, new parents and LGBTQ folks, but I work well with anyone who wants to understand themselves better. I can help you get to the root of your problems instead of only looking at the surface-level symptoms.
Are you tired of the world going to hell around you while you keep telling everyone you’re “fine”? You deserve more than survival mode. I help high-achieving, big-hearted people stop faking okay and start living whole mind, body, and spirit. Whether it’s trauma, burnout, anxiety, or that quiet grief you don’t talk about, our work together helps you feel safe in your own skin again.
Are you tired of the world going to hell around you while you keep telling everyone you’re “fine”? You deserve more than survival mode. I help high-achieving, big-hearted people stop faking okay and start living whole mind, body, and spirit. Whether it’s trauma, burnout, anxiety, or that quiet grief you don’t talk about, our work together helps you feel safe in your own skin again.
As a Licenced Clinical Social Worker, I provide inclusive and affirming therapy for individuals, couples and groups. I understand that people carry unique experiences and I am here to offer a space where you can show up fully as yourself.
My approach is warm, collaborative and grounded in social justice. I work with clients navigating a wide range of challenges, including but not limited to anxiety, depression, identity exploration, coming out, transitions, relationship dynamics and the stress of living in a world that often is not welcoming or inclusive to all.
As a Licenced Clinical Social Worker, I provide inclusive and affirming therapy for individuals, couples and groups. I understand that people carry unique experiences and I am here to offer a space where you can show up fully as yourself.
My approach is warm, collaborative and grounded in social justice. I work with clients navigating a wide range of challenges, including but not limited to anxiety, depression, identity exploration, coming out, transitions, relationship dynamics and the stress of living in a world that often is not welcoming or inclusive to all.
KINETIC counseling specializes in trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship issues, familial stress, and parenting. With 20 years of experience in social work, Carly provides private counseling services which focus on a comprehensive appreciation of the complexity of people's lives and choices. She utilizes IFS, Somatic Techniques, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Processing Therapy, Stress Reduction techniques, Mindfulness strategies, and EMDR. Carly works to incorporate a holistic approach embracing each person's interests, hobbies, educational background and belief system.
KINETIC counseling specializes in trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship issues, familial stress, and parenting. With 20 years of experience in social work, Carly provides private counseling services which focus on a comprehensive appreciation of the complexity of people's lives and choices. She utilizes IFS, Somatic Techniques, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Processing Therapy, Stress Reduction techniques, Mindfulness strategies, and EMDR. Carly works to incorporate a holistic approach embracing each person's interests, hobbies, educational background and belief system.
Shameless Therapy
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Shame expert, Brené Brown, puts it like this: “Shame loves secrecy. The most dangerous thing to do after a shaming experience is hide or bury our story. When we bury our story, the shame metastasizes.” You’ve been told that your gender, your sexuality, and even your sexual desires and fantasies are shameful, leaving you feeling isolated and trapped and unsure where to turn. You experienced trauma that continues to affect you and your life making you feel weak, powerless, and ashamed. Let’s lift that weight to help you find freedom, connection, empowerment, and acceptance in your relationships, personal life, and with yourself.
Shame expert, Brené Brown, puts it like this: “Shame loves secrecy. The most dangerous thing to do after a shaming experience is hide or bury our story. When we bury our story, the shame metastasizes.” You’ve been told that your gender, your sexuality, and even your sexual desires and fantasies are shameful, leaving you feeling isolated and trapped and unsure where to turn. You experienced trauma that continues to affect you and your life making you feel weak, powerless, and ashamed. Let’s lift that weight to help you find freedom, connection, empowerment, and acceptance in your relationships, personal life, and with yourself.
Are negative events, unhealthy relationship patterns, self-destructive behaviors and an overall sense of feeling "stuck" holding you back?Through customized and collaborative therapy, we will explore current issues of concern and relevant past experiences to help put the missing pieces of the puzzle back together for a happier, healthier you. The overall plan is to work together towards your goals with honesty, vulnerability and commitment.
Are negative events, unhealthy relationship patterns, self-destructive behaviors and an overall sense of feeling "stuck" holding you back?Through customized and collaborative therapy, we will explore current issues of concern and relevant past experiences to help put the missing pieces of the puzzle back together for a happier, healthier you. The overall plan is to work together towards your goals with honesty, vulnerability and commitment.
I believe in a person-centered and holistic approach. I am passionate about leading clients through their pain to find their purpose and to lead an inspired life! My approach is a blending of Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Person Centered, and Trauma Informed Therapies. I am trained in EMDR as well.
I believe in a person-centered and holistic approach. I am passionate about leading clients through their pain to find their purpose and to lead an inspired life! My approach is a blending of Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Person Centered, and Trauma Informed Therapies. I am trained in EMDR as well.
Gary Schmidt | IFS Trained Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LSCSW
4 Endorsed
Online Only
Now Accepting Insurance (See Below)
When was the last time you truly felt like yourself? Has it been weeks, months, or even years? If you are navigating major life transitions, relationship challenges, unresolved conflicts within your family dynamics, or anything that holds you back from a sense of freedom, I offer unique path to moving forward. I am a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist and I'm here to support you on your journey back to the "Self" - That calm, clear, confident center that’s always been there. Hope isn’t just possible, it’s waiting. Let’s begin your journey back to wholeness.
Now Accepting Insurance (See Below)
When was the last time you truly felt like yourself? Has it been weeks, months, or even years? If you are navigating major life transitions, relationship challenges, unresolved conflicts within your family dynamics, or anything that holds you back from a sense of freedom, I offer unique path to moving forward. I am a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist and I'm here to support you on your journey back to the "Self" - That calm, clear, confident center that’s always been there. Hope isn’t just possible, it’s waiting. Let’s begin your journey back to wholeness.
Sometimes, you just need someone to talk to. Not your mom, not your hairstylist, and even your friends might not want to be your therapist. I have the degree, license, and training to be a therapist, sure, but where I excel is in forming a relationship with YOU so I'm someone you look forward to chatting with on a regular basis. I am not a fan of anything stuffy or inauthentic, and connecting with clients and seeing real, positive change is my favorite part of the job. So whether it's anxiety, depression, or issues surrounding life changes like career decisions or having kids (or so many more things!), I'm your girl. Let's connect!
Sometimes, you just need someone to talk to. Not your mom, not your hairstylist, and even your friends might not want to be your therapist. I have the degree, license, and training to be a therapist, sure, but where I excel is in forming a relationship with YOU so I'm someone you look forward to chatting with on a regular basis. I am not a fan of anything stuffy or inauthentic, and connecting with clients and seeing real, positive change is my favorite part of the job. So whether it's anxiety, depression, or issues surrounding life changes like career decisions or having kids (or so many more things!), I'm your girl. Let's connect!
I am a licensed clinical social worker who practices both individual and couples therapy. I have extensive experience working with client's from diverse backgrounds. My training as a social worker has given me the understanding of how both childhood and current life circumstances impact people. I work to assist client's in understanding how they deal with these problems. My goal is never to provide answers for people, but to help people to understand themselves so that they can function and operate independently of their conflicts and problems.
I am a licensed clinical social worker who practices both individual and couples therapy. I have extensive experience working with client's from diverse backgrounds. My training as a social worker has given me the understanding of how both childhood and current life circumstances impact people. I work to assist client's in understanding how they deal with these problems. My goal is never to provide answers for people, but to help people to understand themselves so that they can function and operate independently of their conflicts and problems.
Elizabeth A. Rastberger-Cavin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
1 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63139
This world is fucked up. Let’s talk about it. I work with adults navigating identity, relationships (romantic, platonic, and familial), attachment, anxiety, ethical non-monogamy, or pre/post-abortion experiences. Whether you're looking to unlearn old patterns, deepen self-acceptance, or redefine your connections with others, I offer a space that’s blunt, compassionate, and constructive without being judgmental.
This world is fucked up. Let’s talk about it. I work with adults navigating identity, relationships (romantic, platonic, and familial), attachment, anxiety, ethical non-monogamy, or pre/post-abortion experiences. Whether you're looking to unlearn old patterns, deepen self-acceptance, or redefine your connections with others, I offer a space that’s blunt, compassionate, and constructive without being judgmental.
Are you often told to “slow down,” that you're “too much,” or that you “need to relax”? Do you feel like you're always carrying the emotional weight for others—whether at home, at work, or in your relationships?
If you're stuck in a cycle of stress, self-doubt, or overwhelm, I want you to know you’re not broken—and you don’t have to go through it alone. Whether you're navigating anxiety, burnout, relationship tension, or a period of major transition, we’ll work together to uncover what’s beneath the surface and create new ways of being that feel more like you.
I help teens and adults explore identity, set boundaries, and develop e
Are you often told to “slow down,” that you're “too much,” or that you “need to relax”? Do you feel like you're always carrying the emotional weight for others—whether at home, at work, or in your relationships?
If you're stuck in a cycle of stress, self-doubt, or overwhelm, I want you to know you’re not broken—and you don’t have to go through it alone. Whether you're navigating anxiety, burnout, relationship tension, or a period of major transition, we’ll work together to uncover what’s beneath the surface and create new ways of being that feel more like you.
I help teens and adults explore identity, set boundaries, and develop e
My ideal client is someone ready to make a change that propels them to their next chapter in life. I believe that my clients most value my ability to remain optimistic while keeping a firm grasp on reality. We all want to reach the highest levels of self actualization, but if your anxiety, depression, or ADHD are making it hard to complete daily living tasks that may feel out of reach. My diverse experience helps me accurately empathize with a variety of life issues. I have previously worked as a primary grade teacher, residential eating disorder treatment, and assisting a psychiatrist specializing in ADHD treatment for adults.
My ideal client is someone ready to make a change that propels them to their next chapter in life. I believe that my clients most value my ability to remain optimistic while keeping a firm grasp on reality. We all want to reach the highest levels of self actualization, but if your anxiety, depression, or ADHD are making it hard to complete daily living tasks that may feel out of reach. My diverse experience helps me accurately empathize with a variety of life issues. I have previously worked as a primary grade teacher, residential eating disorder treatment, and assisting a psychiatrist specializing in ADHD treatment for adults.
Lauren Komp
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63112
Waitlist for new clients
Hi and welcome! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and I have been providing therapy services for over 10 years. I have a background in treating individuals who have experienced trauma, are struggling with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and relationship issues. I can also help with life transitions, lack of motivation, and struggles with self-esteem. I have specialized experience working with the LGBTQIA+ community and those who identify as non-monogamous. I see individuals ranging in ages from 16 years old and up.
Hi and welcome! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and I have been providing therapy services for over 10 years. I have a background in treating individuals who have experienced trauma, are struggling with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and relationship issues. I can also help with life transitions, lack of motivation, and struggles with self-esteem. I have specialized experience working with the LGBTQIA+ community and those who identify as non-monogamous. I see individuals ranging in ages from 16 years old and up.
Therapy is a partnership between the client and the therapist, and I feel honored when I am allowed to walk the path towards hope, empowerment and healing with another individual. You deserve someone who sees you, and will listen with an empathetic and non-judgmental ear. Life itself can be a struggle at times, and part of my role is to help you to recognize your strengths and assist you with concrete tools. For Black and Brown folks, as well as the LGBTQIA community, the stress can be overwhelming. It is ok, and at times necessary, to have that safe place, and safe person to hear you out. You are worth it!
Therapy is a partnership between the client and the therapist, and I feel honored when I am allowed to walk the path towards hope, empowerment and healing with another individual. You deserve someone who sees you, and will listen with an empathetic and non-judgmental ear. Life itself can be a struggle at times, and part of my role is to help you to recognize your strengths and assist you with concrete tools. For Black and Brown folks, as well as the LGBTQIA community, the stress can be overwhelming. It is ok, and at times necessary, to have that safe place, and safe person to hear you out. You are worth it!
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.