Personality Disorders Therapists in Saint Louis, MO

I work with individuals suffering from depression, anxiety, and personality disorders.
When working with individuals, I aim to help them through a collaborative process to understand the underlying issues that are causing them to not live up to their potential. The model which I employ assumes that many of our struggles are connected to conflicts within us of which we are not completely aware. I feel that therapy is most effective when the entire person's personality and history are considered instead of just focusing on current problematic behaviors. My work focuses on recognizing long standing relationship patterns that are troublesome as well as developing a more emotionally stable and adaptive personality.
I work with individuals suffering from depression, anxiety, and personality disorders.
When working with individuals, I aim to help them through a collaborative process to understand the underlying issues that are causing them to not live up to their potential. The model which I employ assumes that many of our struggles are connected to conflicts within us of which we are not completely aware. I feel that therapy is most effective when the entire person's personality and history are considered instead of just focusing on current problematic behaviors. My work focuses on recognizing long standing relationship patterns that are troublesome as well as developing a more emotionally stable and adaptive personality.

I have developed a niche for working with self-harm, mood disorders, personality disorders, and trauma.
I utilize DBT in a lot of my therapy. I only offer individual sessions at this time. In my office, you can find a safe, warm, and compassionate space to be able to work through life's challenges, and build a life worth living.
I have developed a niche for working with self-harm, mood disorders, personality disorders, and trauma.
I utilize DBT in a lot of my therapy. I only offer individual sessions at this time. In my office, you can find a safe, warm, and compassionate space to be able to work through life's challenges, and build a life worth living.

I work with a wide variety of issues and personality disorders.
In Psychotherapy, it is the relationship between the patient and the therapist that allows for the patient to search for understanding into the nature of their difficulties. It is within the safety, confidentiality and understanding acceptance that the patient is encouraged to reveal intimate parts of themselves that allow the therapist to identify characteristic problems and patterns of behavior. Seemingly unexplainable behavior, thought patterns and symptoms turn out to have identifiable meanings beyond the awareness of the patient. Psychodynamic psychotherapy is aimed at personality changing goals and symptom relieving efforts. The patient is always in control of the therapeutic process.
I work with a wide variety of issues and personality disorders.
In Psychotherapy, it is the relationship between the patient and the therapist that allows for the patient to search for understanding into the nature of their difficulties. It is within the safety, confidentiality and understanding acceptance that the patient is encouraged to reveal intimate parts of themselves that allow the therapist to identify characteristic problems and patterns of behavior. Seemingly unexplainable behavior, thought patterns and symptoms turn out to have identifiable meanings beyond the awareness of the patient. Psychodynamic psychotherapy is aimed at personality changing goals and symptom relieving efforts. The patient is always in control of the therapeutic process.

I work with numerous diagnoses including PTSD, depression, personality disorders, anxiety, anger, etc.
My name is Whitney O’Connor. I have my LCSW and a current certification in TF-CBT. I currently you use a client centered approach to therapy.
I work with numerous diagnoses including PTSD, depression, personality disorders, anxiety, anger, etc.
My name is Whitney O’Connor. I have my LCSW and a current certification in TF-CBT. I currently you use a client centered approach to therapy.

If you're struggling with self-harm, mood disorders, personality disorders, or trauma, I’m here to help you through it.
I offer individual therapy sessions focused on building trust and addressing life’s challenges. Using Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), I help clients manage mood disorders, trauma, and self-harm. My approach creates a safe, compassionate space where you can feel heard, validated, and supported as you work through your struggles.
If you're struggling with self-harm, mood disorders, personality disorders, or trauma, I’m here to help you through it.
I offer individual therapy sessions focused on building trust and addressing life’s challenges. Using Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), I help clients manage mood disorders, trauma, and self-harm. My approach creates a safe, compassionate space where you can feel heard, validated, and supported as you work through your struggles.

Specialities include: Autism, anxiety, depression, postpartum, mood and personality disorders, self-esteem, life transitions, substance abuse, eating disorders, personal relationships (family, friend, romantic), and social issues.
Can do in-person and virtual sessions; accepting new clients starting July 18th 2025. Sliding scale and some insurance; can be weekly or every other week sessions. My goals are to give clients and their families tools, and offer genuine support in daily and/or lifelong struggles. My belief is that change is possible for anyone, but the client and their loved ones need to have an open mind, and believe in love and support. Getting out of your comfort zone is a guarantee, and therapy is the first step. Therapy helps us make changes that lead to lifelong healthy habits of self care and thriving personal relationships.
Specialities include: Autism, anxiety, depression, postpartum, mood and personality disorders, self-esteem, life transitions, substance abuse, eating disorders, personal relationships (family, friend, romantic), and social issues.
Can do in-person and virtual sessions; accepting new clients starting July 18th 2025. Sliding scale and some insurance; can be weekly or every other week sessions. My goals are to give clients and their families tools, and offer genuine support in daily and/or lifelong struggles. My belief is that change is possible for anyone, but the client and their loved ones need to have an open mind, and believe in love and support. Getting out of your comfort zone is a guarantee, and therapy is the first step. Therapy helps us make changes that lead to lifelong healthy habits of self care and thriving personal relationships.

My experience spans across various mental health conditions, including depression, Bipolar disorders, schizophrenia, anxiety disorders, mood disorders, and personality disorders such as BPD.
Everyone deserves a voice! These days marginalized people face unprecedented challenges. Childhood memories propelled me to study exactly what it means to be responsible, aware, and conscious. And with that spirit I invite you to embark on your inner journey. With me as your guide, you will find your way through the swamp! My experience involves people living with anger, anxiety, frustration, irritability, and trauma. Training started 30 years ago, and with a degree from Washington University, I am now a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the state of Missouri. Please reach out to see if we might work well together!
My experience spans across various mental health conditions, including depression, Bipolar disorders, schizophrenia, anxiety disorders, mood disorders, and personality disorders such as BPD.
Everyone deserves a voice! These days marginalized people face unprecedented challenges. Childhood memories propelled me to study exactly what it means to be responsible, aware, and conscious. And with that spirit I invite you to embark on your inner journey. With me as your guide, you will find your way through the swamp! My experience involves people living with anger, anxiety, frustration, irritability, and trauma. Training started 30 years ago, and with a degree from Washington University, I am now a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the state of Missouri. Please reach out to see if we might work well together!

This can include depression, anxiety, mood disorders, personality disorders, and substance use and other addictions.
Navigating through this life can be a whirlwind of emotion! As someone who went through my own mental health and recovery journey, I know how important it can be to have the right support in place to help you navigate through life's rollercoaster. Please schedule a free 10 minute phone consult with me. I will respond within 24 business hours. If I can't help you, I will be sure to provide you with referrals!
This can include depression, anxiety, mood disorders, personality disorders, and substance use and other addictions.
Navigating through this life can be a whirlwind of emotion! As someone who went through my own mental health and recovery journey, I know how important it can be to have the right support in place to help you navigate through life's rollercoaster. Please schedule a free 10 minute phone consult with me. I will respond within 24 business hours. If I can't help you, I will be sure to provide you with referrals!

I am trauma-informed and often work with clients experiencing mood and personality disorders such as anxiety, depression, BPD, PTSD, and NPD recovery.
Every moment in life is an opportunity for us to know the world and ourselves more deeply. Unfortunately, it is often moments of great pain that can leave us feeling confused, angry, or grieved. Whether you are dealing with struggles in the present, grappling with trials from your past, or just looking for a safe space to process and grow, you are more than the pain you have endured, and Healing. Is. Possible. If this story feels all too familiar for you, I understand, and I am glad you are here.
I am trauma-informed and often work with clients experiencing mood and personality disorders such as anxiety, depression, BPD, PTSD, and NPD recovery.
Every moment in life is an opportunity for us to know the world and ourselves more deeply. Unfortunately, it is often moments of great pain that can leave us feeling confused, angry, or grieved. Whether you are dealing with struggles in the present, grappling with trials from your past, or just looking for a safe space to process and grow, you are more than the pain you have endured, and Healing. Is. Possible. If this story feels all too familiar for you, I understand, and I am glad you are here.

I work with numerous diagnoses including PTSD, depression, personality disorders, anxiety, anger, etc.
My name is Whitney O’Connor. I have my LCSW and a current certification in TF-CBT. I currently you use a client centered approach to therapy.
I work with numerous diagnoses including PTSD, depression, personality disorders, anxiety, anger, etc.
My name is Whitney O’Connor. I have my LCSW and a current certification in TF-CBT. I currently you use a client centered approach to therapy.

I am very comfortable treating addictive disorders, trauma, personality disorders, and attachment disorders.
I take an empathetic and supportive role in the sessions with clients. I provide feedback and assist clients in gaining self-efficacy. I encourage clients to set their own goals but will give feedback if they request it. During the first session I will ask about history of symptoms and goals for therapy.
I am very comfortable treating addictive disorders, trauma, personality disorders, and attachment disorders.
I take an empathetic and supportive role in the sessions with clients. I provide feedback and assist clients in gaining self-efficacy. I encourage clients to set their own goals but will give feedback if they request it. During the first session I will ask about history of symptoms and goals for therapy.

I have extensive experience with difficult relationships including relationship endings, narcissistic abuse, and navigating relationships with personality disordered or antagonistic people from partners to parents to co-workers, and these challenging dynamics.
My name is Lacey, and I am so glad you're here. I specialize in assisting people who are struggling with emotional distress, difficulty coping with daily life, stressful relationships, and pivotal moments. Are you wondering how to take the next steps in your life, questioning how you got where you are now? Are you ready to examine your life on a deeper level and make changes, or get more comfortable with who you already are? Are you longing for a person and space to explore any and all of yourself and your life with a supportive and objective person to help guide you through? If so, I look forward to starting our journey together.
I have extensive experience with difficult relationships including relationship endings, narcissistic abuse, and navigating relationships with personality disordered or antagonistic people from partners to parents to co-workers, and these challenging dynamics.
My name is Lacey, and I am so glad you're here. I specialize in assisting people who are struggling with emotional distress, difficulty coping with daily life, stressful relationships, and pivotal moments. Are you wondering how to take the next steps in your life, questioning how you got where you are now? Are you ready to examine your life on a deeper level and make changes, or get more comfortable with who you already are? Are you longing for a person and space to explore any and all of yourself and your life with a supportive and objective person to help guide you through? If so, I look forward to starting our journey together.

I also enjoy working with borderline personality disorder and people recovering from narcissistic personality disorder abuse.
I use an integrative approach with an attachment perspective and an interpersonal focus. Additionally, I utilize elements of dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT), EMDR, and emotionally focused therapy.
I also enjoy working with borderline personality disorder and people recovering from narcissistic personality disorder abuse.
I use an integrative approach with an attachment perspective and an interpersonal focus. Additionally, I utilize elements of dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT), EMDR, and emotionally focused therapy.

I am very comfortable treating addictive disorders, trauma, personality disorders, and attachment disorders.
I take an empathetic and supportive role in the sessions with clients. I provide feedback and assist clients in gaining self-efficacy. I encourage clients to set their own goals but will give feedback if they request it. During the first session I will ask about history of symptoms and goals for therapy.
I am very comfortable treating addictive disorders, trauma, personality disorders, and attachment disorders.
I take an empathetic and supportive role in the sessions with clients. I provide feedback and assist clients in gaining self-efficacy. I encourage clients to set their own goals but will give feedback if they request it. During the first session I will ask about history of symptoms and goals for therapy.

I treat depression, anxiety, personality disorders, eating disorders, and alcoholism, in addition to a wide range of other issues, including various addictive behaviors which involve forensic concerns.
I have over thirty-five years of experience treating individuals, couples, and families dealing with depression, anxiety disorders, marital discord, and family dysfunction. Changing oneself, therefore changing others around you, can lead to happier relationships. Understanding and insight can raise self-esteem. I provide a safe, confidential, and trusting environment to explore one's feelings and consider options to produce different and improved results. Video and telehealth sessions have been added to accommodate the COVID-19 safety protocols.
I treat depression, anxiety, personality disorders, eating disorders, and alcoholism, in addition to a wide range of other issues, including various addictive behaviors which involve forensic concerns.
I have over thirty-five years of experience treating individuals, couples, and families dealing with depression, anxiety disorders, marital discord, and family dysfunction. Changing oneself, therefore changing others around you, can lead to happier relationships. Understanding and insight can raise self-esteem. I provide a safe, confidential, and trusting environment to explore one's feelings and consider options to produce different and improved results. Video and telehealth sessions have been added to accommodate the COVID-19 safety protocols.

I have experience in helping clients with coping with LGBTQIA-related concerns, addictions, trauma, personality disorders, anxiety, bipolar disorder, depression and neurodivergent concerns.
You’re feeling overwhelmed by struggles with your sexuality, gender identity, addiction, depression, or anxiety, you might often feel misunderstood, isolated, or “other”. You want to feel seen, accepted, and safe while working through these challenges. Maybe you’re longing to rediscover joy, build confidence, and create a life where you can be your authentic self without fear or shame. You deserve a space where your unique experiences are honored and your goals are the focus every step of the way.
I have experience in helping clients with coping with LGBTQIA-related concerns, addictions, trauma, personality disorders, anxiety, bipolar disorder, depression and neurodivergent concerns.
You’re feeling overwhelmed by struggles with your sexuality, gender identity, addiction, depression, or anxiety, you might often feel misunderstood, isolated, or “other”. You want to feel seen, accepted, and safe while working through these challenges. Maybe you’re longing to rediscover joy, build confidence, and create a life where you can be your authentic self without fear or shame. You deserve a space where your unique experiences are honored and your goals are the focus every step of the way.

I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Multiple Addictions Therapist, and I completed certifications in treating trauma, and personality disorders.
I am honored that my clients share their deepest secrets with me every day. I am grateful for the trust they place in me and I value their need for confidentiality. I make an effort to listen to my clients and hear what they say to learn what they need to grow. Every client is a person who is much greater than their problem behavior or diagnosis. While I have extensive training in treating trauma and sexual behavior problems, I also have experience and training in treating other mental health problems such as: Depression, Anxiety, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Panic Disorder, ADHD, and chemical as well as process addictions.
I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Multiple Addictions Therapist, and I completed certifications in treating trauma, and personality disorders.
I am honored that my clients share their deepest secrets with me every day. I am grateful for the trust they place in me and I value their need for confidentiality. I make an effort to listen to my clients and hear what they say to learn what they need to grow. Every client is a person who is much greater than their problem behavior or diagnosis. While I have extensive training in treating trauma and sexual behavior problems, I also have experience and training in treating other mental health problems such as: Depression, Anxiety, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Panic Disorder, ADHD, and chemical as well as process addictions.

I am very comfortable treating addictive disorders, trauma, personality disorders, and attachment disorders.
I take an empathetic and supportive role in the sessions with clients. I provide feedback and assist clients in gaining self-efficacy. I encourage clients to set their own goals but will give feedback if they request it. During the first session I will ask about history of symptoms and goals for therapy.
I am very comfortable treating addictive disorders, trauma, personality disorders, and attachment disorders.
I take an empathetic and supportive role in the sessions with clients. I provide feedback and assist clients in gaining self-efficacy. I encourage clients to set their own goals but will give feedback if they request it. During the first session I will ask about history of symptoms and goals for therapy.

My areas of expertise include depression, anxiety, life transitions, trauma, infertility, borderline personality disorder, narcissistic abuse, stress management, parenting, divorce, LGBTQ+ concerns, identity issues, and PTSD.
Life is tough sometimes, there is no doubt about it. Are you ready to step into a life of empowerment over those difficult times? As a therapist, I am passionate about working with individuals like you who have dreams, aspirations, and a strong desire to overcome the challenges that may be hindering your progress. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or navigating significant life transitions, I am here to provide the support and guidance you need. Together, we can navigate through these obstacles and create a path toward a more fulfilling and joyful life.
My areas of expertise include depression, anxiety, life transitions, trauma, infertility, borderline personality disorder, narcissistic abuse, stress management, parenting, divorce, LGBTQ+ concerns, identity issues, and PTSD.
Life is tough sometimes, there is no doubt about it. Are you ready to step into a life of empowerment over those difficult times? As a therapist, I am passionate about working with individuals like you who have dreams, aspirations, and a strong desire to overcome the challenges that may be hindering your progress. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or navigating significant life transitions, I am here to provide the support and guidance you need. Together, we can navigate through these obstacles and create a path toward a more fulfilling and joyful life.

I worked for 7 years at the Harvard-affiliated McLean Hospital specializing in the treatment of trauma related disorders, mood disorders and personality disorders.
Making the decision to seek therapy is a sign of strength, not weakness. Getting help during a difficult time can ease the burdens one carries during times of high stress and transition. Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, Eating Disorders, Addiction and Self-Destructive Behaviors are real problems, yet with the right treatment you can expect to experience meaningful recovery and growth. In therapy, we work collaboratively to reduce the impact the symptoms or behaviors have on your life and build coping strategies and resiliency.
I worked for 7 years at the Harvard-affiliated McLean Hospital specializing in the treatment of trauma related disorders, mood disorders and personality disorders.
Making the decision to seek therapy is a sign of strength, not weakness. Getting help during a difficult time can ease the burdens one carries during times of high stress and transition. Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, Eating Disorders, Addiction and Self-Destructive Behaviors are real problems, yet with the right treatment you can expect to experience meaningful recovery and growth. In therapy, we work collaboratively to reduce the impact the symptoms or behaviors have on your life and build coping strategies and resiliency.
See more therapy options for Saint Louis
Personality Disorders Therapists
What are the common treatment options for personality disorders?
Personality disorders are typically treated with psychotherapy, sometimes in conjunction with medication. Therapy can help people with personality disorders develop skills to tolerate difficult emotions, navigate interpersonal relationships, and solidify their sense of self. Medications can treat symptoms that co-occur with the disorder, such as depression, anger, aggression, and impulsivity.
When to seek treatment for personality disorders?
Even though treatment for personality disorders can be an uphill battle, it’s best to seek help if you suspect that you or a loved one is struggling with one, because personality disorders can create substantial problems in life. Symptoms depend on the specific disorder, but overall signs of personality disorders include consistent difficulty maintaining close relationships, dramatic variations in self-esteem, and an unstable sense of identity.
How long does therapy take for personality disorders?
The timeline for treating personality disorders isn’t as clear-cut as it is for other disorders. Change can be difficult, taking from around one year to five, 10, or more. The key is finding a therapist who has extensive experience treating the relevant disorder. For example, a psychologist who specializes in narcissistic personality disorder has specific communication strategies that allow them to sustain the relationship and be more effective with narcissistic patients.
Can therapy help people with personality disorders?
Research suggests that for those who are motivated to address concerns or interpersonal conflict related to a personality disorder, therapy is far more effective than no treatment, and that most people in therapy see improvements. However, since personality disorders involve entrenched elements of identity, they are less responsive to treatment than are other mental health conditions. Finding an expert who has extensive experience working with a given personality disorder is one factor that increases the likelihood of successful treatment.