Infidelity Therapists in Saint Louis, MO
Kathryn Louise Manley
Licensed Professional Counselor, MSEd, LPC, CST
Verified Verified
Saint Louis, MO 63122
Sex therapy can include the many physiological and emotional aspects of intimacy encountered during seasons of life including postpartum depression, differences in sexual desire, infidelity, betrayal trauma, erectile dysfunction, pain, sexless marriage and difficulty with orgasm.
In addition to relationship and sex therapy, Kathryn treats a variety of concerns including depression, anxiety, anger, parenting struggles, codependent behavior, grief and life adjustments. She also has a strong background in the treatment of eating disorders and premarital counseling.
Sex therapy can include the many physiological and emotional aspects of intimacy encountered during seasons of life including postpartum depression, differences in sexual desire, infidelity, betrayal trauma, erectile dysfunction, pain, sexless marriage and difficulty with orgasm.
In addition to relationship and sex therapy, Kathryn treats a variety of concerns including depression, anxiety, anger, parenting struggles, codependent behavior, grief and life adjustments. She also has a strong background in the treatment of eating disorders and premarital counseling.
Whig Mullins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, BSN, RN, BS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63131
My work centers on clients who may be struggling with depression, anxiety, marital challenges, and infidelity.
Couples and individuals frequently struggle with both challenging emotions and the skills to work together through tough times. Learning effective management of your emotions and the relationship can both help couples. Together we can open doors to create a better more enjoyable life. People often come to our practice seeking relief from life's challenges and leave with both a new perspective and living happier than ever. I specialize in RO-DBT, Radically Open - Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and work with a variety of clients using DBT, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, Mindfulness skills, and a variety of other techniques and skills.
My work centers on clients who may be struggling with depression, anxiety, marital challenges, and infidelity.
Couples and individuals frequently struggle with both challenging emotions and the skills to work together through tough times. Learning effective management of your emotions and the relationship can both help couples. Together we can open doors to create a better more enjoyable life. People often come to our practice seeking relief from life's challenges and leave with both a new perspective and living happier than ever. I specialize in RO-DBT, Radically Open - Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and work with a variety of clients using DBT, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, Mindfulness skills, and a variety of other techniques and skills.
I currently see individuals across a broad spectrum of issues: infidelity, intimacy barriers, pornography, depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, communication challenges, , spiritual matters, etc.
I have worked with many couples who are trying to come back from infidelity. I also have worked with couples who are experiencing challenges with their intimacy. Finally, I can help individuals who struggle with depression, anxiety, porn addiction, etc. I utilize a Cognitive approach with targets "stinkin' thinkin'" which can help change the way we think.
I currently see individuals across a broad spectrum of issues: infidelity, intimacy barriers, pornography, depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, communication challenges, , spiritual matters, etc.
I have worked with many couples who are trying to come back from infidelity. I also have worked with couples who are experiencing challenges with their intimacy. Finally, I can help individuals who struggle with depression, anxiety, porn addiction, etc. I utilize a Cognitive approach with targets "stinkin' thinkin'" which can help change the way we think.
Betrayal, broken trust, and painful miscommunication have left you feeling lost, unseen, and unheard.
The Journey offers real change—guided by God, and walked out by both of you. Expect to confess, commit, and grow. It won’t always be easy, but it will be worth it. You’ll face challenges inside and outside of session, but each step rebuilds trust, establishes peace, and leads you into lasting harmony. The path is only as hard as you make it.
Betrayal, broken trust, and painful miscommunication have left you feeling lost, unseen, and unheard.
The Journey offers real change—guided by God, and walked out by both of you. Expect to confess, commit, and grow. It won’t always be easy, but it will be worth it. You’ll face challenges inside and outside of session, but each step rebuilds trust, establishes peace, and leads you into lasting harmony. The path is only as hard as you make it.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples experiencing trauma due to infidelity, sex and porn addiction, divorce and other stressful life events.
Relationships are my expertise, especially issues of broken trust, poor communication, intimacy and addiction. There is no "perfect partner", but intimate partnerships should be a source of joy, safety and support. Whether you are dating or engaged, married or contemplating divorce, "straight" or LGBTQIA, monogamous or poly, kinky or vanilla, Millenial or retired, you CAN feel understood by one another with deep, joyful connection! With over 40 years of experience, my clinical toolbox is full of skills and concepts that will move you forward together. (Telehealth only. Sorry, no insurance accepted but receipts provided OON.)
I specialize in working with individuals and couples experiencing trauma due to infidelity, sex and porn addiction, divorce and other stressful life events.
Relationships are my expertise, especially issues of broken trust, poor communication, intimacy and addiction. There is no "perfect partner", but intimate partnerships should be a source of joy, safety and support. Whether you are dating or engaged, married or contemplating divorce, "straight" or LGBTQIA, monogamous or poly, kinky or vanilla, Millenial or retired, you CAN feel understood by one another with deep, joyful connection! With over 40 years of experience, my clinical toolbox is full of skills and concepts that will move you forward together. (Telehealth only. Sorry, no insurance accepted but receipts provided OON.)
Sharí Montague
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MAC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63132
Waitlist for new clients
I have several years of experience and training in the field of sex addiction and betrayal trauma and am currently a Certified Sex Addiction Specialist (CSAT) through International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP).
I have several years of experience and training in the field of sex addiction and betrayal trauma and am currently a Certified Sex Addiction Specialist (CSAT) through International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP).
Elaine Krull
Pre-Licensed Professional, MEd, PLPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63104
Whether trying to navigate a relationship after children, working through infidelity, making a career change, or life transitions, I will be there with unconditional support.
My work is focused on creating a safe, warm, and inviting space for individuals and couples to receive therapy. Many of the couples I work with experience poor communication, lack of trust, and resistance to change. I believe those who are open to change and self-awareness are those who will benefit the most. I also enjoy working with individuals. You may be struggling with interpersonal issues. You may feel unsure of your identity and of the things you want in life. For both couples and individuals, my job is to walk with you on the path toward happiness and contentedness.
Whether trying to navigate a relationship after children, working through infidelity, making a career change, or life transitions, I will be there with unconditional support.
My work is focused on creating a safe, warm, and inviting space for individuals and couples to receive therapy. Many of the couples I work with experience poor communication, lack of trust, and resistance to change. I believe those who are open to change and self-awareness are those who will benefit the most. I also enjoy working with individuals. You may be struggling with interpersonal issues. You may feel unsure of your identity and of the things you want in life. For both couples and individuals, my job is to walk with you on the path toward happiness and contentedness.
Dr. Fatima La'Juan Muse
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, MedFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Have you found yourself struggling with life stressors such as fertility problems, chronic illness, marital discord, relationship infidelity, or even difficulty making major decisions?
Before we begin, I need to understand who you are. Our work will be individualized and based on your goals and values. Using my advanced clinical training and decade of experience, together we will process your areas of concern and navigate through your depression, grief, and relationship difficulties.
Have you found yourself struggling with life stressors such as fertility problems, chronic illness, marital discord, relationship infidelity, or even difficulty making major decisions?
Before we begin, I need to understand who you are. Our work will be individualized and based on your goals and values. Using my advanced clinical training and decade of experience, together we will process your areas of concern and navigate through your depression, grief, and relationship difficulties.
LaTonya Allen
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63132
If you have experienced betrayal trauma that accompanies your partners’ deceptive sexuality, contact me to find freedom to live a life filled with abundance, purpose, and joy.
LaTonya Allen, LPC is a Missouri Licensed Professional Counselor offering over 5 years of experience of specializing in addressing taboo topics in therapy and promoting mental wellness. LaTonya earned her Masters of Art in Counseling (2018) from Covenant Theological Seminary located in Saint Louis, Missouri. LaTonya Allen offers a safe and nonjudgmental space for clients to explore sensitive and often stigmatized issues such as sexuality, trauma, and addiction. She provides compassionate support and evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help individuals navigate these challenges and achieve emotional healing.
If you have experienced betrayal trauma that accompanies your partners’ deceptive sexuality, contact me to find freedom to live a life filled with abundance, purpose, and joy.
LaTonya Allen, LPC is a Missouri Licensed Professional Counselor offering over 5 years of experience of specializing in addressing taboo topics in therapy and promoting mental wellness. LaTonya earned her Masters of Art in Counseling (2018) from Covenant Theological Seminary located in Saint Louis, Missouri. LaTonya Allen offers a safe and nonjudgmental space for clients to explore sensitive and often stigmatized issues such as sexuality, trauma, and addiction. She provides compassionate support and evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help individuals navigate these challenges and achieve emotional healing.
Christina Thaier
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63104
I enjoy working with couples, adults, and adolescents to define and change their relationship with the problems in their lives including: anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, identity exploration (including LGBTQ+), existential questions, spiritual concerns, career concerns, and relational wounds (including betrayal, divorce, and attachment
I believe that each of us holds, within our hearts and minds, a deeply personal and intricate story of who we are and what is possible. Unfortunately, we are not always aware of what those stories are, or what we might want them to be.
I enjoy working with couples, adults, and adolescents to define and change their relationship with the problems in their lives including: anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, identity exploration (including LGBTQ+), existential questions, spiritual concerns, career concerns, and relational wounds (including betrayal, divorce, and attachment
I believe that each of us holds, within our hearts and minds, a deeply personal and intricate story of who we are and what is possible. Unfortunately, we are not always aware of what those stories are, or what we might want them to be.
I work with couples who want to improve communication skills, conflict resolution, parenting, recovery from addiction or infidelity, and more.
I learned a long time ago that the best way to help kids was to help their parents. I have worked with many couples and families over the past 30 years. The work we've done together has helped many of them successfully heal, recover, and reconnect with each other.
I work with couples who want to improve communication skills, conflict resolution, parenting, recovery from addiction or infidelity, and more.
I learned a long time ago that the best way to help kids was to help their parents. I have worked with many couples and families over the past 30 years. The work we've done together has helped many of them successfully heal, recover, and reconnect with each other.
Meet Our Infidelity Therapists
Dr. A. P. Carmichael
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MEd, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63108
I’m Gottman trained and experienced applying these skills to couples who are going through a relationship crisis ( infidelity).
Relationships are part of what makes us human. We thrive when connected with others. I am passionate about helping people create and maintain healthy and loving relationships. I work with couples, families, and individuals and have strong experience working with LGBTQ clients. I make it a priority to create a safe space for all of my clients. It is through this atmosphere of acceptance that we can work together to create true change and growth. I work with individuals, families and couples who are going through a crisis, or those who are simply looking to strengthen their relationships.
I’m Gottman trained and experienced applying these skills to couples who are going through a relationship crisis ( infidelity).
Relationships are part of what makes us human. We thrive when connected with others. I am passionate about helping people create and maintain healthy and loving relationships. I work with couples, families, and individuals and have strong experience working with LGBTQ clients. I make it a priority to create a safe space for all of my clients. It is through this atmosphere of acceptance that we can work together to create true change and growth. I work with individuals, families and couples who are going through a crisis, or those who are simply looking to strengthen their relationships.
Kelly S Diller
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MAC
Verified Verified
Saint Louis, MO 63131
Waitlist for new clients
She is passionate about helping women heal from abuse and betrayal, and she recognizes the importance of instilling hope for desired change with regard to relationships and other goals.
EMDR is a specialized form of therapy that Kelly has utilized in helping individuals experience healing from past hurt and fear that once plagued their life. Healing through EMDR has provided relief from symptoms of disturbing memories, sudden accidents and deaths, panic attacks, abuse, anxieties, pain disorders, and more.
She is passionate about helping women heal from abuse and betrayal, and she recognizes the importance of instilling hope for desired change with regard to relationships and other goals.
EMDR is a specialized form of therapy that Kelly has utilized in helping individuals experience healing from past hurt and fear that once plagued their life. Healing through EMDR has provided relief from symptoms of disturbing memories, sudden accidents and deaths, panic attacks, abuse, anxieties, pain disorders, and more.
Extensive experience working with couples dealing with infidelity.
I work with children, adolescents, adults, couples and families from a relational, trauma informed, attachment informed, developmental perspective. Trained in child psychotherapy, couples therapy and family therapy, I work to understand clients within the context of their primary and family relationships. I especially enjoy working with couples and families. I work to identify the emotional and interpersonal obstacles to further growth, and build on the strength and resilience of the individual, couple and family. .I have experience working with children and adolescents experiencing the full range of emotional, social and developmental difficulties.
Extensive experience working with couples dealing with infidelity.
I work with children, adolescents, adults, couples and families from a relational, trauma informed, attachment informed, developmental perspective. Trained in child psychotherapy, couples therapy and family therapy, I work to understand clients within the context of their primary and family relationships. I especially enjoy working with couples and families. I work to identify the emotional and interpersonal obstacles to further growth, and build on the strength and resilience of the individual, couple and family. .I have experience working with children and adolescents experiencing the full range of emotional, social and developmental difficulties.
I offer specialization specifically in sexual behaviors (low desire, infidelity, impulse control etc).
Sexual Behavior Analysis (SBA) is an evidence-based approach in which empirically-sound best practices from Sex Therapy, Sexuality Education, and Couple's Work are combined and presented within the simple, effective, and practical framework of Behavior Analysis (BA).
I offer specialization specifically in sexual behaviors (low desire, infidelity, impulse control etc).
Sexual Behavior Analysis (SBA) is an evidence-based approach in which empirically-sound best practices from Sex Therapy, Sexuality Education, and Couple's Work are combined and presented within the simple, effective, and practical framework of Behavior Analysis (BA).
Dealing with the aftermath of infidelity?
I work with families of all compositions, relationships of any nature (including couples and polyamorous dynamics), older teens and young adults facing life's transitions, and addressing women's issues to help women feel accepted and confident in their skin from ages 10 and up.
Dealing with the aftermath of infidelity?
I work with families of all compositions, relationships of any nature (including couples and polyamorous dynamics), older teens and young adults facing life's transitions, and addressing women's issues to help women feel accepted and confident in their skin from ages 10 and up.
Sam Buettner
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, SRT
Verified Verified
Saint Louis, MO 63132
Waitlist for new clients
I have completed Level 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy & specific training in sex addiction treatment and navigating relationships in recovery and through infidelity and addiction.
Today our lives are full of challenges and obstacles that can feel difficult to overcome. Are you feeling stuck and unsure which direction to turn? Entering counseling can feel scary but it is also a courageous step in the right direction. As your counselor, I will provide you with a safe, non-judgmental space to process what is preventing you from moving forward in life. My goal is to help you make the most of your life and find a sense of purpose and peace.
I have completed Level 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy & specific training in sex addiction treatment and navigating relationships in recovery and through infidelity and addiction.
Today our lives are full of challenges and obstacles that can feel difficult to overcome. Are you feeling stuck and unsure which direction to turn? Entering counseling can feel scary but it is also a courageous step in the right direction. As your counselor, I will provide you with a safe, non-judgmental space to process what is preventing you from moving forward in life. My goal is to help you make the most of your life and find a sense of purpose and peace.
Sue Verble
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63122
Whether you feel stuck in a negative cycle, feel distance from your partner, suffer from a betrayal or other unhealed wound, feel criticized, attacked, or misunderstood by your partner, I can provide an experience to help you heal your broken bonds and reconnect with the person that means the most to you!
I earned a MA in Professional Counseling from Lindenwood University in 2012. Prior to counseling, I spent 20 years in sales, management and recruiting as well as some time as a full time homemaker with my 4 children. In addition to couples, I enjoy working with parents dealing with children with ADHD, and individuals dealing with depression and anxiety.
Whether you feel stuck in a negative cycle, feel distance from your partner, suffer from a betrayal or other unhealed wound, feel criticized, attacked, or misunderstood by your partner, I can provide an experience to help you heal your broken bonds and reconnect with the person that means the most to you!
I earned a MA in Professional Counseling from Lindenwood University in 2012. Prior to counseling, I spent 20 years in sales, management and recruiting as well as some time as a full time homemaker with my 4 children. In addition to couples, I enjoy working with parents dealing with children with ADHD, and individuals dealing with depression and anxiety.
Linda Weiner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Saint Louis, MO 63130
Waitlist for new clients
As a sex positive Diplomate in Sex Therapy (AASECT) I know your sexuality is a legitimate concern and believe that it's your right to receive expert help when seeking assistance for sexuality concerns and relationship difficulties. I offer individual therapy, relationship coaching, couples' counseling and couples intensives as well as educational opportunities for professionals and groups. My individual and couples' therapy is designed to meet your goals and is a mutual undertaking between us. My goal is to support sexual health and intimacy in your relationship through mind/body connection and heart-centered relationship skills.
As a sex positive Diplomate in Sex Therapy (AASECT) I know your sexuality is a legitimate concern and believe that it's your right to receive expert help when seeking assistance for sexuality concerns and relationship difficulties. I offer individual therapy, relationship coaching, couples' counseling and couples intensives as well as educational opportunities for professionals and groups. My individual and couples' therapy is designed to meet your goals and is a mutual undertaking between us. My goal is to support sexual health and intimacy in your relationship through mind/body connection and heart-centered relationship skills.
Stacy Blassingame
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63139
It's plain to see that world bombards us with ample reason to live in fear, doubt, and negativity. Yet, we all possess the ability to change, and to make good on the hope toward a rich, full, and confident life. We can't erase our pasts, but we can work together in the present to find new ways of thinking and being that produce the lives we want.
It's plain to see that world bombards us with ample reason to live in fear, doubt, and negativity. Yet, we all possess the ability to change, and to make good on the hope toward a rich, full, and confident life. We can't erase our pasts, but we can work together in the present to find new ways of thinking and being that produce the lives we want.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.