Infidelity Therapists in Saint Louis, MO

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Kathryn Louise Manley
Licensed Professional Counselor, MSEd, LPC, CST
Saint Louis, MO 63122
Sex therapy can include the many physiological and emotional aspects of intimacy encountered during seasons of life including but not limited to postpartum depression, differences in sexual desire, infidelity, betrayal trauma, erectile dysfunction, pain, sexless marriage and difficulty with orgasm.
In addition to relationship and sex therapy, Kathryn has a strong background in the treatment of disordered eating, anxiety and OCD. For couples, Kathryn provides research based Gottman techniques to teach conflict management, increase friendship, and shared goals. She has also been trained under Dr. David Schnarch, author of The Passionate Marriage.
Sex therapy can include the many physiological and emotional aspects of intimacy encountered during seasons of life including but not limited to postpartum depression, differences in sexual desire, infidelity, betrayal trauma, erectile dysfunction, pain, sexless marriage and difficulty with orgasm.
In addition to relationship and sex therapy, Kathryn has a strong background in the treatment of disordered eating, anxiety and OCD. For couples, Kathryn provides research based Gottman techniques to teach conflict management, increase friendship, and shared goals. She has also been trained under Dr. David Schnarch, author of The Passionate Marriage.
(636) 205-1296 View (636) 205-1296
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Lily Pernoud Maison Fleur
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC, NCC, CST
Saint Louis, MO 63131
Perhaps something has shifted— betrayal, secrecy, or emotional distance—and you're trying to understand what it means and how to move forward.
As a Certified Sex Therapist, I work with adults and couples navigating intimacy concerns, sexual challenges, sexual addictions, relational conflict, and betrayal trauma. Clients also seek sex therapy for desire differences, intimacy concerns, and challenges communicating about sexuality within their relationships.
Perhaps something has shifted— betrayal, secrecy, or emotional distance—and you're trying to understand what it means and how to move forward.
As a Certified Sex Therapist, I work with adults and couples navigating intimacy concerns, sexual challenges, sexual addictions, relational conflict, and betrayal trauma. Clients also seek sex therapy for desire differences, intimacy concerns, and challenges communicating about sexuality within their relationships.
(314) 934-2787 View (314) 934-2787
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Lauren McCoy
Marriage & Family Therapist, BS, MS, LMFT
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Partners navigating infidelity, trust issues, or emotional distance.
Individual, Couples & Family Therapist - Emotionally Focused Therapy - Telehealth in AR, MO, NV and TX. Relationships can feel overwhelming when communication breaks down, trust has been strained, or conflict becomes the norm. If you and your partner or family feel stuck in the same painful patterns, you’re not alone, change is possible. I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist with over 12 years of experience helping couples and families strengthen connection, improve communication, and navigate difficult transitions. I specialize in relationship-focused work and provide telehealth via secure HIPAA compliant video sessions.
Partners navigating infidelity, trust issues, or emotional distance.
Individual, Couples & Family Therapist - Emotionally Focused Therapy - Telehealth in AR, MO, NV and TX. Relationships can feel overwhelming when communication breaks down, trust has been strained, or conflict becomes the norm. If you and your partner or family feel stuck in the same painful patterns, you’re not alone, change is possible. I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist with over 12 years of experience helping couples and families strengthen connection, improve communication, and navigate difficult transitions. I specialize in relationship-focused work and provide telehealth via secure HIPAA compliant video sessions.
(479) 239-8940 View (479) 239-8940
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Linda Weiner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Saint Louis, MO 63117
Waitlist for new clients
As a sex positive Diplomate in Sex Therapy (AASECT) I know your sexuality is a legitimate concern and believe that it's your right to receive expert help for sexuality concerns and relationship difficulties. I offer individual therapy, relationship coaching, couples' counseling and couples intensives as well as educational opportunities for professionals and groups. My individual and couples' therapy is designed to meet your goals and is a mutual undertaking between us. My goal is to support sexual health and intimacy in your relationship through mind/body connection and heart-centered relationship skills.
As a sex positive Diplomate in Sex Therapy (AASECT) I know your sexuality is a legitimate concern and believe that it's your right to receive expert help for sexuality concerns and relationship difficulties. I offer individual therapy, relationship coaching, couples' counseling and couples intensives as well as educational opportunities for professionals and groups. My individual and couples' therapy is designed to meet your goals and is a mutual undertaking between us. My goal is to support sexual health and intimacy in your relationship through mind/body connection and heart-centered relationship skills.
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Raber Hamad, IFS and Couples Therapy, St. Louis
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC
13 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63141
You’re tired of the same fights, the distance growing between you, and wondering if things can actually get better. Maybe you're feeling stuck in a cycle of hurt and miscommunication, unsure if your relationship can heal or if something needs to change. You’re here because you don’t want to give up just yet. I help couples work through tough conflicts, rebuild trust, and find clarity, whether that means moving forward together or figuring out how to continue with the relationship.
You’re tired of the same fights, the distance growing between you, and wondering if things can actually get better. Maybe you're feeling stuck in a cycle of hurt and miscommunication, unsure if your relationship can heal or if something needs to change. You’re here because you don’t want to give up just yet. I help couples work through tough conflicts, rebuild trust, and find clarity, whether that means moving forward together or figuring out how to continue with the relationship.
(314) 804-2164 View (314) 804-2164
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Stacy Blassingame
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
2 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63139
It's plain to see that world bombards us with ample reason to live in fear, doubt, and negativity. Yet, we all possess the ability to change, and to make good on the hope toward a rich, full, and confident life. We can't erase our pasts, but we can work together in the present to find new ways of thinking and being that produce the lives we want.
It's plain to see that world bombards us with ample reason to live in fear, doubt, and negativity. Yet, we all possess the ability to change, and to make good on the hope toward a rich, full, and confident life. We can't erase our pasts, but we can work together in the present to find new ways of thinking and being that produce the lives we want.
(314) 462-2626 View (314) 462-2626
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Dr. Sandra Shachar, Ph.D.
Psychologist, PhD
Online Only
I specialize in working with individuals and couples experiencing crisis due to infidelity, sex and porn addiction, and other challenges.
Relationships are my expertise, especially issues of broken trust, communication, intimacy and addiction. Perfect partners don't exist, but intimate partnerships should be a safe haven of affection and support. Whether you are dating or engaged, married or contemplating divorce, "straight" or LGBTQIA, monogamous, poly, kinky or vanilla, Millenial or retired, you CAN restore safety, trust and joyful connection! With 40+ years of clinical experience, my toolbox is full of skills and concepts to take your relationship from struggling to strong! Telehealth only. No insurance accepted, but receipts are provided for OON use.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples experiencing crisis due to infidelity, sex and porn addiction, and other challenges.
Relationships are my expertise, especially issues of broken trust, communication, intimacy and addiction. Perfect partners don't exist, but intimate partnerships should be a safe haven of affection and support. Whether you are dating or engaged, married or contemplating divorce, "straight" or LGBTQIA, monogamous, poly, kinky or vanilla, Millenial or retired, you CAN restore safety, trust and joyful connection! With 40+ years of clinical experience, my toolbox is full of skills and concepts to take your relationship from struggling to strong! Telehealth only. No insurance accepted, but receipts are provided for OON use.
(215) 461-3604 View (215) 461-3604
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Lacey Wallace
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, CST
3 Endorsed
Online Only
At Bravely Refined Counseling we take time to get to know each client and understand the life experiences that have shaped them. I believe the way people see themselves, their relationships, and the world is influenced by those experiences, and that healing begins with a safe and trusting therapeutic connection. I find great joy in walking alongside individuals and couples as they courageously take steps toward refining their lives and relationships. With advanced training in trauma recovery and sexual healing, my goal is to provide a space where you can feel seen, supported, and cared for as you walk through healing and growth.
At Bravely Refined Counseling we take time to get to know each client and understand the life experiences that have shaped them. I believe the way people see themselves, their relationships, and the world is influenced by those experiences, and that healing begins with a safe and trusting therapeutic connection. I find great joy in walking alongside individuals and couples as they courageously take steps toward refining their lives and relationships. With advanced training in trauma recovery and sexual healing, my goal is to provide a space where you can feel seen, supported, and cared for as you walk through healing and growth.
(417) 473-3057 View (417) 473-3057
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Rachelle Weger
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CCPS, CCES
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS) and treat betrayal trauma using the Multi-Dimensional Partner Trauma Model.
In order to provide my clients dealing with trauma with the best possible clinical care, I have been certified in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy by EMDRIA.
I am a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS) and treat betrayal trauma using the Multi-Dimensional Partner Trauma Model.
In order to provide my clients dealing with trauma with the best possible clinical care, I have been certified in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy by EMDRIA.
(636) 245-0268 View (636) 245-0268
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Nicole Otis
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
Online Only
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
(320) 300-9473 View (320) 300-9473
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Writers' BloQ Therapeutic Solutions, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, CFT
Saint Louis, MO 63110
As we live, we write the stories of our lives. Sometimes the pen gets too heavy. Sometimes we don’t know where to start… or how to continue. And then there’s writer’s block, the faltering of the creative process somewhere in our hearts, our minds, our bodies producing dis-orders and dis-eases. Maybe you have lost a Loved one. Maybe you’re starting a new relationship. Maybe you want a new job. Maybe you just want change. I believe the remedy is in the beliefs/feelings, thoughts, and behaviors fueling the writer’s block or dis-ease, and I am a dis-ease specialist.
As we live, we write the stories of our lives. Sometimes the pen gets too heavy. Sometimes we don’t know where to start… or how to continue. And then there’s writer’s block, the faltering of the creative process somewhere in our hearts, our minds, our bodies producing dis-orders and dis-eases. Maybe you have lost a Loved one. Maybe you’re starting a new relationship. Maybe you want a new job. Maybe you just want change. I believe the remedy is in the beliefs/feelings, thoughts, and behaviors fueling the writer’s block or dis-ease, and I am a dis-ease specialist.
(314) 931-1931 View (314) 931-1931
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Valerie Sisson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Online Only
Thankfully, I consider myself blessed to have never “worked” a day in my life. I started over 25 years ago providing clinical social work to abused and neglected children and adolescents. Over the years, I have worked with multiple populations in rural and urban settings with low and high incomes. I diagnose and provide therapy to all age ranges, children to seniors. The diversity of the populations I work with include children, adolescents, adults, couples, LGBTQIA, veterans, and families.
Thankfully, I consider myself blessed to have never “worked” a day in my life. I started over 25 years ago providing clinical social work to abused and neglected children and adolescents. Over the years, I have worked with multiple populations in rural and urban settings with low and high incomes. I diagnose and provide therapy to all age ranges, children to seniors. The diversity of the populations I work with include children, adolescents, adults, couples, LGBTQIA, veterans, and families.
(234) 540-2081 View (234) 540-2081
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Diane Kohm
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63141
Do you want to live more fully in the present moment making choices based on your life values and goals, rather than a life of negative thoughts and maladaptive behavior leading to anxiety, depression or conflict in your intimate, work, and family relationships?
Do you want to live more fully in the present moment making choices based on your life values and goals, rather than a life of negative thoughts and maladaptive behavior leading to anxiety, depression or conflict in your intimate, work, and family relationships?
(314) 582-2549 View (314) 582-2549
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Eric Lindhorst M.S.W., L.C.S.W.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Saint Louis, MO 63141
I offer appointments from 4:30 pm to 9:30 pm to work with your schedule. I work to find the strengths people have within themselves. Individuals, couples, and families who are struggling with a variety of issues, including Anger, Depression, and Anxiety. Clients who benefit from my services appreciate my delicate sense of humor while confronting complex issues. The use of humor can be an uplifting experience in treatment.
I offer appointments from 4:30 pm to 9:30 pm to work with your schedule. I work to find the strengths people have within themselves. Individuals, couples, and families who are struggling with a variety of issues, including Anger, Depression, and Anxiety. Clients who benefit from my services appreciate my delicate sense of humor while confronting complex issues. The use of humor can be an uplifting experience in treatment.
(314) 394-8630 View (314) 394-8630
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Yvette Hamilton-Hawkins
Licensed Professional Counselor, MBA, MA, LPC, NCC
2 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63105
Relationships are at the heart of our lives—and sometimes they need extra care. I specialize in helping couples, families, and individuals strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and rediscover connection. Whether you’re navigating conflict, preparing for marriage, or exploring the dating world, I provide a safe, supportive space where your relationships can find their way.
Relationships are at the heart of our lives—and sometimes they need extra care. I specialize in helping couples, families, and individuals strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and rediscover connection. Whether you’re navigating conflict, preparing for marriage, or exploring the dating world, I provide a safe, supportive space where your relationships can find their way.
(314) 665-1714 View (314) 665-1714
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Ingrid Smith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Therapy should be a place where you feel safe to divulge your darkest secrets while knowing that the person that you confide in, will not only support your journey of self-improvement and healing but help guide you like a beacon in the sea or a flashlight when it’s dark. And because of this, we think that finding the RIGHT therapist is one of the most crucial parts of the therapeutic process... I work to help you solve a variety of issues and welcome and host safe spaces for active duty /retired veterans and their dependents, college students, LGBTQ+, POC, and older adults.
Therapy should be a place where you feel safe to divulge your darkest secrets while knowing that the person that you confide in, will not only support your journey of self-improvement and healing but help guide you like a beacon in the sea or a flashlight when it’s dark. And because of this, we think that finding the RIGHT therapist is one of the most crucial parts of the therapeutic process... I work to help you solve a variety of issues and welcome and host safe spaces for active duty /retired veterans and their dependents, college students, LGBTQ+, POC, and older adults.
(314) 207-5183 View (314) 207-5183
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Vivian McCollum
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Saint Louis, MO 63143
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in Missouri with 33 years of experience. My work has included serving as a college professor of counseling and providing therapy to individuals, couples, and families. I specialize in multicultural counseling and have supported clients facing depression, anxiety, self-esteem challenges, relationship struggles, and communication issues.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in Missouri with 33 years of experience. My work has included serving as a college professor of counseling and providing therapy to individuals, couples, and families. I specialize in multicultural counseling and have supported clients facing depression, anxiety, self-esteem challenges, relationship struggles, and communication issues.
(314) 366-9732 View (314) 366-9732
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Jacqueline Fay Langley
Psychologist, PhD
Saint Louis, MO 63117
I have been treating all age groups in the St. Louis area for over 35 years. My in depth training as both a psychologist and psychoanalyst for children and adults provides a full spectrum of skills to treat short and long term issues for all age groups. I am highly skilled at meeting a person where they are to help them, through connection with me and my understanding of them, reach new and emotionally healthier places in their life. In addition to the areas of specialties listed I work with mother/infant dyads and children who are adopted and their parents achieve more satisfying attachments.
I have been treating all age groups in the St. Louis area for over 35 years. My in depth training as both a psychologist and psychoanalyst for children and adults provides a full spectrum of skills to treat short and long term issues for all age groups. I am highly skilled at meeting a person where they are to help them, through connection with me and my understanding of them, reach new and emotionally healthier places in their life. In addition to the areas of specialties listed I work with mother/infant dyads and children who are adopted and their parents achieve more satisfying attachments.
(314) 527-1227 View (314) 527-1227
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Maria Kuhn
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC, RSAP
Saint Louis, MO 63105
I started to work in the Psychology field in 1989. I have experience in counseling many different clients from several different backgrounds. I provided personal counseling for employees, individual and group counseling for adolescents an adults. Currently, I provide Couples/Marriage Counseling and Individual Counseling for adults. I hold a BA in Psychology, and earned my Masters degree in Community Counseling from the University of Missouri-St.Louis.
I started to work in the Psychology field in 1989. I have experience in counseling many different clients from several different backgrounds. I provided personal counseling for employees, individual and group counseling for adolescents an adults. Currently, I provide Couples/Marriage Counseling and Individual Counseling for adults. I hold a BA in Psychology, and earned my Masters degree in Community Counseling from the University of Missouri-St.Louis.
(636) 486-3608 View (636) 486-3608
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Therapy Nest Accepting New Clients!
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC , LCSW, LMFT, CSAT, LMT
1 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63132
Accepting new clients! We are a diverse group of licensed wellness professionals that have come together to help those in need. We are knowledgeable, compassionate and honored to help Individuals, couples and families. If you are a practicum internship student looking for a site inquire today!
Accepting new clients! We are a diverse group of licensed wellness professionals that have come together to help those in need. We are knowledgeable, compassionate and honored to help Individuals, couples and families. If you are a practicum internship student looking for a site inquire today!
(636) 577-2397 View (636) 577-2397

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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.