Bisexual Therapists in Saint Louis, MO
The struggles of life can become overwhelming, but change is possible. Stress, anxiety, and fear are just a few things you may be facing, but you do not have to face any of them alone. Reaching out for help is the first step towards restoration and growth.
The struggles of life can become overwhelming, but change is possible. Stress, anxiety, and fear are just a few things you may be facing, but you do not have to face any of them alone. Reaching out for help is the first step towards restoration and growth.
I know how hard it can be to show up for yourself when it feels like the planet is on fire and yet somehow still asking you for more. I’m here to help you think critically about the world and your place within it, and I’ll have your back when things get messy. My goal is to help you look inward so you can live in better alignment with your values and purpose. Together, we’ll build the self-acceptance, resilience, and skills to navigate whatever life hands you.I have experience supporting adolescents and adults with a variety of issues, including LGBTQIA+ identity exploration, trauma, grief, substance use, attachment, and body image.
I know how hard it can be to show up for yourself when it feels like the planet is on fire and yet somehow still asking you for more. I’m here to help you think critically about the world and your place within it, and I’ll have your back when things get messy. My goal is to help you look inward so you can live in better alignment with your values and purpose. Together, we’ll build the self-acceptance, resilience, and skills to navigate whatever life hands you.I have experience supporting adolescents and adults with a variety of issues, including LGBTQIA+ identity exploration, trauma, grief, substance use, attachment, and body image.
Hi, it's Joseph. Let’s talk! We’ll work together until that unsolvable problem is history, until that overwhelming pain is bearable, until you embrace the future (instead of escaping the past). You’ve always been strong, resourceful, and intuitive. I’m just going to help clear away the junk you’re trapped beneath so you can actually feel that way: false beliefs that make life seem harder than it is; old stories about you that have nothing to do with who you are now; distractions that keep you from deciding what is most meaningful to you; power imbalances that take away good things that are rightfully yours. This stuff has to go.
Hi, it's Joseph. Let’s talk! We’ll work together until that unsolvable problem is history, until that overwhelming pain is bearable, until you embrace the future (instead of escaping the past). You’ve always been strong, resourceful, and intuitive. I’m just going to help clear away the junk you’re trapped beneath so you can actually feel that way: false beliefs that make life seem harder than it is; old stories about you that have nothing to do with who you are now; distractions that keep you from deciding what is most meaningful to you; power imbalances that take away good things that are rightfully yours. This stuff has to go.
I specialize in supporting queer relational dyads/triads and individual clients who are facing challenges related to sexuality, relationships, identity, and self-esteem. My clients often reach out because they feel abandoned, unworthy, or stuck. They tell me they crave growth but feel unable to step out of harmful or unfulfilling roles that once protected them. They reach out because they are ready to step into relationships and roles that bring them joy and pleasure rather than anxiety or fear. My clients are ready to explore their relationships with their emotions, bodies, and attachments and discover their own agency.
I specialize in supporting queer relational dyads/triads and individual clients who are facing challenges related to sexuality, relationships, identity, and self-esteem. My clients often reach out because they feel abandoned, unworthy, or stuck. They tell me they crave growth but feel unable to step out of harmful or unfulfilling roles that once protected them. They reach out because they are ready to step into relationships and roles that bring them joy and pleasure rather than anxiety or fear. My clients are ready to explore their relationships with their emotions, bodies, and attachments and discover their own agency.
Welcome! I'm Sylvia Lawson-Cook, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. With over 25 years of experience, I am dedicated to helping individuals navigate life's challenges and heal from trauma. I am part of the LGBTQIA+ community and have lived experience with trauma, which allows me to connect deeply with my clients.
Welcome! I'm Sylvia Lawson-Cook, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. With over 25 years of experience, I am dedicated to helping individuals navigate life's challenges and heal from trauma. I am part of the LGBTQIA+ community and have lived experience with trauma, which allows me to connect deeply with my clients.
Accepting new clients! I help people with complex trauma navigate the world with less overwhelm. Reliving painful experiences and beliefs about ourselves on a loop makes relationships with ourselves and others difficult. I work with clients on resourcing their nervous system using a bottom-up approach in order to better integrate these painful experiences and shift from reliving to revisiting. I have worked with a range of diagnoses, though have advanced training in working with complex trauma, dissociation, and anxiety, in addition to equine-assisted psychotherapy.
Accepting new clients! I help people with complex trauma navigate the world with less overwhelm. Reliving painful experiences and beliefs about ourselves on a loop makes relationships with ourselves and others difficult. I work with clients on resourcing their nervous system using a bottom-up approach in order to better integrate these painful experiences and shift from reliving to revisiting. I have worked with a range of diagnoses, though have advanced training in working with complex trauma, dissociation, and anxiety, in addition to equine-assisted psychotherapy.
Tana Steffens
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63117
Waitlist for new clients
I frequently work with people who have a lot of moving parts in their lives. Whether you’re navigating traumatic experiences, exploring components of identity, or wading through overwhelming seasons of life in other ways, my goal is to help you sift through it all and provide support to process at your own pace. I'm comfortable navigating many of the other pieces that come with trauma work - mitigating anxiety, challenging intrusive thoughts, and creating spaces that make life feel worth living.
I frequently work with people who have a lot of moving parts in their lives. Whether you’re navigating traumatic experiences, exploring components of identity, or wading through overwhelming seasons of life in other ways, my goal is to help you sift through it all and provide support to process at your own pace. I'm comfortable navigating many of the other pieces that come with trauma work - mitigating anxiety, challenging intrusive thoughts, and creating spaces that make life feel worth living.
Have you ever wanted to begin counseling, but didn’t feel like your problems were big enough? Or, have you ever ghosted a therapist because you didn’t feel helped? Me too. So, we go it alone - doing everything to change ourselves and our relationships. We continuously find ourselves stuck between what we want to do and what we “should” do. This dilemma often shows up as anxiety, depression, and relationship problems. That’s why it’s my mission to provide approachable counseling that works.
Have you ever wanted to begin counseling, but didn’t feel like your problems were big enough? Or, have you ever ghosted a therapist because you didn’t feel helped? Me too. So, we go it alone - doing everything to change ourselves and our relationships. We continuously find ourselves stuck between what we want to do and what we “should” do. This dilemma often shows up as anxiety, depression, and relationship problems. That’s why it’s my mission to provide approachable counseling that works.
Our symptoms have something to say. Different symptoms bring people into psychotherapy: anxiousness, chronic sadness, creative and artistic block, loneliness, addictions, sexual obsessions. Symptoms are a language, and though they are often labeled as depression or anxiety, the meaning of a symptom is unique to the person who suffers with it. Symptoms are painful, but they are also startlingly creative, personal and specific. Sometimes the body is asked to express the scary, painful things that words cannot. When physical symptoms occur without a medical explanation, we can look to them to help us understand the mental and emotional landscape.
Our symptoms have something to say. Different symptoms bring people into psychotherapy: anxiousness, chronic sadness, creative and artistic block, loneliness, addictions, sexual obsessions. Symptoms are a language, and though they are often labeled as depression or anxiety, the meaning of a symptom is unique to the person who suffers with it. Symptoms are painful, but they are also startlingly creative, personal and specific. Sometimes the body is asked to express the scary, painful things that words cannot. When physical symptoms occur without a medical explanation, we can look to them to help us understand the mental and emotional landscape.
Do you feel stuck, anxious, overwhelmed, or disconnected? Living in survival mode can make you lose touch with yourself. You may notice old patterns in relationships, feel frozen, or struggle with past trauma. You’re not broken. Your nervous system learned to protect you. In therapy I will support you to slow down, build safety, and reconnect with your strengths, resilience, and voice. Together, we can create a space for change to happen naturally. Over time, you may feel more grounded, confident, and able to set boundaries, manage emotions, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Do you feel stuck, anxious, overwhelmed, or disconnected? Living in survival mode can make you lose touch with yourself. You may notice old patterns in relationships, feel frozen, or struggle with past trauma. You’re not broken. Your nervous system learned to protect you. In therapy I will support you to slow down, build safety, and reconnect with your strengths, resilience, and voice. Together, we can create a space for change to happen naturally. Over time, you may feel more grounded, confident, and able to set boundaries, manage emotions, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
As a proud bisexual, trans man, I love to work with my LGBT communities.
As a therapist, I practice Internal Family Systems, social justice-informed approach, using Motivational Interviewing, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy tools/techniques. I am trained in Internal Family Systems(level 1), and I am using it dominantly, because has worked so well to heal and affirm my clients with so much stigma.
As a proud bisexual, trans man, I love to work with my LGBT communities.
As a therapist, I practice Internal Family Systems, social justice-informed approach, using Motivational Interviewing, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy tools/techniques. I am trained in Internal Family Systems(level 1), and I am using it dominantly, because has worked so well to heal and affirm my clients with so much stigma.
Being a person is hard af. That's the first thing to acknowledge when you consider reaching out for support; I promise you: everyone is struggling in some way or another, despite what their social media might suggest.
Sorting through your shit and figuring out what to toss and what to keep is a journey, and you may need different things at different times.
If you're at point where what you need is less "and how does that make you feel" and more "wow that sucks have you tried this other thing" - I might just be the right fit for you. I like people who want to really dig in and see what's underneath the layers you may be avoiding.
Being a person is hard af. That's the first thing to acknowledge when you consider reaching out for support; I promise you: everyone is struggling in some way or another, despite what their social media might suggest.
Sorting through your shit and figuring out what to toss and what to keep is a journey, and you may need different things at different times.
If you're at point where what you need is less "and how does that make you feel" and more "wow that sucks have you tried this other thing" - I might just be the right fit for you. I like people who want to really dig in and see what's underneath the layers you may be avoiding.
Do you want to understand yourself & your relationships better? Are you interested in personalized coping skills to improve your life? Do you feel chronically disempowered from society & need an open, supportive space to express yourself? If so, lets talk!
Do you want to understand yourself & your relationships better? Are you interested in personalized coping skills to improve your life? Do you feel chronically disempowered from society & need an open, supportive space to express yourself? If so, lets talk!
Hi there! Thanks for taking the time to reach out for support. I know it's not easy. I’d love to connect to help you learn to manage emotions and identify coping skills that work for you. I’m an unbiased space that gives you room to explore, gain insight and process challenges. Together we can figure out what’s not working and what can help you feel better. I want to see you improve and help you feel like yourself again. I treat therapy as a conversation and discussion about your anxieties, worries, stress and whatever else feels important. This can help to untangle, reorganize and make sense of your thoughts.
Hi there! Thanks for taking the time to reach out for support. I know it's not easy. I’d love to connect to help you learn to manage emotions and identify coping skills that work for you. I’m an unbiased space that gives you room to explore, gain insight and process challenges. Together we can figure out what’s not working and what can help you feel better. I want to see you improve and help you feel like yourself again. I treat therapy as a conversation and discussion about your anxieties, worries, stress and whatever else feels important. This can help to untangle, reorganize and make sense of your thoughts.
Melissa T Scolaro
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, MA
1 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63117
Waitlist for new clients
When the challenges of life and relationship present you with complex dilemmas and create painful or uncomfortable symptoms, therapy offers an opportunity for healing and long-lasting psychological change.
The power of therapy is in the way it expands your choice in behaviors or ways of seeing others, yourself and your life circumstances.
Through a compassionate journey of self-exploration I will help you work toward a fuller understanding of yourself which will lead to greater choice in how you live, love, work and play.
It is a privilege to join you on your journey of self-discovery and healing.
When the challenges of life and relationship present you with complex dilemmas and create painful or uncomfortable symptoms, therapy offers an opportunity for healing and long-lasting psychological change.
The power of therapy is in the way it expands your choice in behaviors or ways of seeing others, yourself and your life circumstances.
Through a compassionate journey of self-exploration I will help you work toward a fuller understanding of yourself which will lead to greater choice in how you live, love, work and play.
It is a privilege to join you on your journey of self-discovery and healing.
Self-discovery, self-identity, self-expression, and life transitions can be scary to navigate alone; sometimes, a safe space to explore and an opportunity to imagine something different for ourselves is all we need. I typically work with pre-teens, teens, and young adults who fall under the umbrellas of LGBTQIA+ and Neurodivergence. I have a background in school social work and am familiar with the IEP/504 process, best-interest determination, students in transition, and student re-entry. I have experience in child and adolescent development, family dynamics, & children with ADHD and Autism.
Self-discovery, self-identity, self-expression, and life transitions can be scary to navigate alone; sometimes, a safe space to explore and an opportunity to imagine something different for ourselves is all we need. I typically work with pre-teens, teens, and young adults who fall under the umbrellas of LGBTQIA+ and Neurodivergence. I have a background in school social work and am familiar with the IEP/504 process, best-interest determination, students in transition, and student re-entry. I have experience in child and adolescent development, family dynamics, & children with ADHD and Autism.
I’m Dr. Cal Spinks, and together with my dedicated team, we provide compassionate, culturally affirming, trauma-informed care designed for your unique journey. At Quantum, we proudly serve BIPOC communities, LGBTQ+ individuals, veterans, those with disabilities, and helping professionals. Whether you’re facing workplace stress, compassion fatigue, identity challenges, or seeking care that truly reflects who you are—we’re here for you. Through mindfulness, resilience-building, and flexible telehealth options, we make healing accessible and inclusive. Let’s find clarity, strength, and peace—together, one step at a time.
I’m Dr. Cal Spinks, and together with my dedicated team, we provide compassionate, culturally affirming, trauma-informed care designed for your unique journey. At Quantum, we proudly serve BIPOC communities, LGBTQ+ individuals, veterans, those with disabilities, and helping professionals. Whether you’re facing workplace stress, compassion fatigue, identity challenges, or seeking care that truly reflects who you are—we’re here for you. Through mindfulness, resilience-building, and flexible telehealth options, we make healing accessible and inclusive. Let’s find clarity, strength, and peace—together, one step at a time.
Hi! I'm Ann. I enjoy working with people who are open-minded, inquisitive and who like to challenge norms. Part of the therapeutic process is about confronting the parts of ourselves that we tend to hide and feel a bit less comfortable with. I'd like to help you get to know your whole self and walk beside you as you question some of the beliefs you've held, which may be in conflict with who you are now. Like you, I've been there and asked myself. "What do I want?" "Who am I?" and "What feels motivating and pleasurable in my life?" It's tough to feel ‘stuck’ and also, it's the start of something brand new.
Hi! I'm Ann. I enjoy working with people who are open-minded, inquisitive and who like to challenge norms. Part of the therapeutic process is about confronting the parts of ourselves that we tend to hide and feel a bit less comfortable with. I'd like to help you get to know your whole self and walk beside you as you question some of the beliefs you've held, which may be in conflict with who you are now. Like you, I've been there and asked myself. "What do I want?" "Who am I?" and "What feels motivating and pleasurable in my life?" It's tough to feel ‘stuck’ and also, it's the start of something brand new.
Is your life good on paper but still uncomfortable? Do you feel lonely, bored, different, or unsure of yourself? Have you lost your spark? Do you take care of everyone else first? I can help! I am a calm and sturdy guide to self-compassion, understanding, and empowerment. Your path forward exists! You don't have to find it alone.
Is your life good on paper but still uncomfortable? Do you feel lonely, bored, different, or unsure of yourself? Have you lost your spark? Do you take care of everyone else first? I can help! I am a calm and sturdy guide to self-compassion, understanding, and empowerment. Your path forward exists! You don't have to find it alone.
Lauren Komp
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Saint Louis, MO 63112
Waitlist for new clients
Hi and welcome! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and I have been providing therapy services for over 10 years. I have a background in treating individuals who have experienced trauma, are struggling with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and relationship issues. I can also help with life transitions, lack of motivation, and struggles with self-esteem. I have specialized experience working with the LGBTQIA+ community and those who identify as non-monogamous. I see individuals ranging in ages from 16 years old and up.
Hi and welcome! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and I have been providing therapy services for over 10 years. I have a background in treating individuals who have experienced trauma, are struggling with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and relationship issues. I can also help with life transitions, lack of motivation, and struggles with self-esteem. I have specialized experience working with the LGBTQIA+ community and those who identify as non-monogamous. I see individuals ranging in ages from 16 years old and up.
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Bisexual Therapists
What is bisexual-affirming therapy?
Bisexual-affirming therapy is a type of mental health support that fully affirms and reflects a client’s bisexual identity. It is rooted in acceptance and does not attempt to change or question an individual’s orientation. In this type of therapy, clients work with a therapist who understands the unique experiences of bisexual people. This support is especially important, as research shows that bisexual individuals face higher rates of anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation compared to other groups. Bisexual-affirming therapy acknowledges that bisexual individuals may encounter specific stressors—such as invalidation, relationship challenges, and minority stress—that require specialized understanding and intervention. Many therapists also provide couples therapy for bisexual partners, helping them navigate relationship dynamics, communication challenges, or external stressors that may impact their relationship. While not required, some clients prefer working with bisexual therapists who may bring personal insight to the therapeutic relationship. However, a non-bisexual therapist with strong training and a genuine commitment to affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who understands how identity impacts mental health and can create a space of trust and respect.
What can a bisexual therapist help with?
Bisexual-affirming therapists can provide support across a wide range of concerns relevant to bisexual individuals. Whether through personal or professional experience, they often have specialized knowledge in areas such as the coming out process, navigating stereotypes, and dealing with common stressors. Relationship support is another key area of focus, as bisexual clients may face unique challenge when dating or maintaining relationships across genders. Affirming therapists can also help clients build coping strategies for managing discrimination or stigma. Additionally, many bisexual-affirming therapists can connect clients to other providers or community-based resources—such as bisexual support groups or LGBTQ+ organizations—that offer additional affirming spaces for connection. It's important to note that therapists provide can talk therapy and counseling services but do not prescribe medication—if medication is needed for conditions like depression or anxiety, they will coordinate care with a psychiatrist or primary care physician who can provide psychiatric medication management alongside therapeutic support.
How do I find a bisexual therapist?
The Psychology Today online directory is a helpful tool for finding bisexual-affirming therapists. You can use search filters to identify therapists who specialize in LGBTQ+ care and work specifically with bisexual clients. You can also filter by clinical specialties, therapeutic approaches, accepted insurance, session costs, and languages spoken to find the right fit. During initial consultations or early sessions, ask potential therapists about their specific training in bisexual-affirming care, their experience with LGBTQ+ clients, and their therapeutic approach to identity-related concerns. An effective bisexual-affirming therapist will demonstrate genuine understanding of bisexual experiences, including awareness of the unique challenges facing bisexual individuals. You can also look for credentials or continuing education in areas such as LGBTQ+ mental health, trauma-informed care, and intersectionality.