Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Creve Coeur, MO
I aim to provide an exceptionally safe space for all queer identities, neurodivergence, kink practicing and ethically non-monogamous individuals & couples+.
Sex is cool but what if you were able to speak about it freely in an authentically genuine, identity affirming, non-judgmental and empathetic space. Perhaps you're trying to combat your internalized shame and societal beliefs of what sex “should” look like. Maybe you're seeking more self-pleasure and awareness. Are you navigating a new relationship dynamic or trying to combat intrusive thoughts around past sexual trauma? Let's find solutions and make achievable goals together.
I aim to provide an exceptionally safe space for all queer identities, neurodivergence, kink practicing and ethically non-monogamous individuals & couples+.
Sex is cool but what if you were able to speak about it freely in an authentically genuine, identity affirming, non-judgmental and empathetic space. Perhaps you're trying to combat your internalized shame and societal beliefs of what sex “should” look like. Maybe you're seeking more self-pleasure and awareness. Are you navigating a new relationship dynamic or trying to combat intrusive thoughts around past sexual trauma? Let's find solutions and make achievable goals together.
In person and virtual! Challenging times and unforeseen life deviations happen. Relationships struggle and sometimes end. Hurt, stress, grief, depression and anxiety are often a result. Counseling is a powerful benefit to help you navigate your journey to reach healing and growth. You do not have to walk through it alone. I can help you to understand your situation, cope, and move through life productively.
In person and virtual! Challenging times and unforeseen life deviations happen. Relationships struggle and sometimes end. Hurt, stress, grief, depression and anxiety are often a result. Counseling is a powerful benefit to help you navigate your journey to reach healing and growth. You do not have to walk through it alone. I can help you to understand your situation, cope, and move through life productively.
Are you tired of having the same arguments with your significant other? Do you want to figure out what is preventing you from creating the kind of life you desire? Is anxiety, depression, self doubt or addiction keeping you "stuck"? I will provide the tools you can use to improve the quality of your life and relationships. Together, we will deal with the issues that are negatively impacting your life and identify solutions to create real change, now.
Are you tired of having the same arguments with your significant other? Do you want to figure out what is preventing you from creating the kind of life you desire? Is anxiety, depression, self doubt or addiction keeping you "stuck"? I will provide the tools you can use to improve the quality of your life and relationships. Together, we will deal with the issues that are negatively impacting your life and identify solutions to create real change, now.
Are you feeling overwhelmed already this year? Feeling like you don't know how you will keep everything organized or that the transition might be hard on you? Overwhelming feelings are causing you to shut down because you just don't know where to start, and then it makes the problem worse because things are piling up. It feels like no matter what you have tried, nothing seems to be sticking! Now you're getting frustrated, anxious, and starting to doubt yourself and your abilities. If this sounds like you, you ARE NOT alone!
Are you feeling overwhelmed already this year? Feeling like you don't know how you will keep everything organized or that the transition might be hard on you? Overwhelming feelings are causing you to shut down because you just don't know where to start, and then it makes the problem worse because things are piling up. It feels like no matter what you have tried, nothing seems to be sticking! Now you're getting frustrated, anxious, and starting to doubt yourself and your abilities. If this sounds like you, you ARE NOT alone!
I work with adult clients of diverse backgrounds, with a particular passion for supporting those who feel like societal outcasts or that they just don’t quite “fit.” My practice is a nonjudgmental space for individuals to shed the labels others have placed on them and explore their true values. Whether confronting childhood emotional neglect, redefining their identity, or unpacking religious trauma, I aim to support clients in achieving their unique goals.
I work with adult clients of diverse backgrounds, with a particular passion for supporting those who feel like societal outcasts or that they just don’t quite “fit.” My practice is a nonjudgmental space for individuals to shed the labels others have placed on them and explore their true values. Whether confronting childhood emotional neglect, redefining their identity, or unpacking religious trauma, I aim to support clients in achieving their unique goals.
Seeking mental health support is a brave and empowering step. True growth often comes through embracing our vulnerabilities. Conditions like depression, anxiety, and trauma can feel overwhelming, making it hard to imagine ever feeling okay again. You might feel like you've tried everything but still struggle with persistent anxiety and depression. Despite your desire to overcome these challenging times, you may feel stuck. Finding the right therapist can be daunting, especially if you're uncertain about the potential benefits of therapy. You deserve a therapist who meets you where you are and guides you through your healing journey
Seeking mental health support is a brave and empowering step. True growth often comes through embracing our vulnerabilities. Conditions like depression, anxiety, and trauma can feel overwhelming, making it hard to imagine ever feeling okay again. You might feel like you've tried everything but still struggle with persistent anxiety and depression. Despite your desire to overcome these challenging times, you may feel stuck. Finding the right therapist can be daunting, especially if you're uncertain about the potential benefits of therapy. You deserve a therapist who meets you where you are and guides you through your healing journey
I work with individuals ages 11 and up, couples, and families. My areas of focus include anxiety, attachment issues, burnout, depression, family and relationship conflict, gender and sexual identity, racial identity, life transitions, life stressors, mood and personality disorders, and self-harm. I am well-versed in supporting individuals from diverse backgrounds and experiences.
I work with individuals ages 11 and up, couples, and families. My areas of focus include anxiety, attachment issues, burnout, depression, family and relationship conflict, gender and sexual identity, racial identity, life transitions, life stressors, mood and personality disorders, and self-harm. I am well-versed in supporting individuals from diverse backgrounds and experiences.
I am a LGBTQ+, ENM, kink, and geek affirming therapist.
I work with folks on a multitude of concerns including (but not limited to) depression, anxiety, relationship issues, codependency, stress management, communication, life transitions, and grief. Therapy is about working together as active collaborators in making the changes that you want for your life.
I am a LGBTQ+, ENM, kink, and geek affirming therapist.
I work with folks on a multitude of concerns including (but not limited to) depression, anxiety, relationship issues, codependency, stress management, communication, life transitions, and grief. Therapy is about working together as active collaborators in making the changes that you want for your life.
Stuck? People-Pleasing? Burnt out by life? Almost like no matter what you try to change or improve, those wheels just keep spinning, and you are exhausted. My ideal client is someone who is just ready to feel better. You may not exactly know what is going on or why these feelings are coming up all of a sudden. That's okay! You deserve someone who will collaborate with you no matter what you are dealing with. I believe connection and authenticity is the most vital part of the therapy process. Therapy is not just for fears and tears, but laughter and smiles too :) Let's tackle this together! (I hope you enjoy analogies!)
Stuck? People-Pleasing? Burnt out by life? Almost like no matter what you try to change or improve, those wheels just keep spinning, and you are exhausted. My ideal client is someone who is just ready to feel better. You may not exactly know what is going on or why these feelings are coming up all of a sudden. That's okay! You deserve someone who will collaborate with you no matter what you are dealing with. I believe connection and authenticity is the most vital part of the therapy process. Therapy is not just for fears and tears, but laughter and smiles too :) Let's tackle this together! (I hope you enjoy analogies!)
I believe in the importance of getting to know ourselves to our best ability, as this is key in overcoming life's obstacles and healing from past and present pain. One of the biggest joys in my life is having the privilege of getting to know my clients and helping them access their full potentials to get through difficult times. I'm dedicated to forming a strong and caring therapeutic alliance. Your goals will always be my priority in treatment, and I am genuine and straight-forward in my approach. I'm here to be your biggest ally!
I believe in the importance of getting to know ourselves to our best ability, as this is key in overcoming life's obstacles and healing from past and present pain. One of the biggest joys in my life is having the privilege of getting to know my clients and helping them access their full potentials to get through difficult times. I'm dedicated to forming a strong and caring therapeutic alliance. Your goals will always be my priority in treatment, and I am genuine and straight-forward in my approach. I'm here to be your biggest ally!
KINETIC counseling specializes in trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship issues, familial stress, and parenting. With 20 years of experience in social work, Carly provides private counseling services which focus on a comprehensive appreciation of the complexity of people's lives and choices. She utilizes IFS, Somatic Techniques, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Processing Therapy, Stress Reduction techniques, Mindfulness strategies, and EMDR. Carly works to incorporate a holistic approach embracing each person's interests, hobbies, educational background and belief system.
KINETIC counseling specializes in trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship issues, familial stress, and parenting. With 20 years of experience in social work, Carly provides private counseling services which focus on a comprehensive appreciation of the complexity of people's lives and choices. She utilizes IFS, Somatic Techniques, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Processing Therapy, Stress Reduction techniques, Mindfulness strategies, and EMDR. Carly works to incorporate a holistic approach embracing each person's interests, hobbies, educational background and belief system.
In today’s world, mental health is essential to overall well-being. I invite you to take the first step toward healing. As a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist trained in Family Systems therapy, I work with individuals & families by recognizing how each person’s experiences impact the whole system.
My ideal client is someone who is willing to show up, work hard, & face challenges with honesty & courage. They are open to self-reflection & committed to bettering themselves—not only as an individual, but also within their relationships. Even when the work feels uncomfortable, they value growth, accountability, & meaningful change.
In today’s world, mental health is essential to overall well-being. I invite you to take the first step toward healing. As a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist trained in Family Systems therapy, I work with individuals & families by recognizing how each person’s experiences impact the whole system.
My ideal client is someone who is willing to show up, work hard, & face challenges with honesty & courage. They are open to self-reflection & committed to bettering themselves—not only as an individual, but also within their relationships. Even when the work feels uncomfortable, they value growth, accountability, & meaningful change.
I help people pleasers - exhausted by the endless pursuit of perfection - find their version of good enough. I am the right counselor for you if you are doing everything you can to achieve, follow the rules, and do well...yet you do not feel good enough, seen, or valued. Are you ready to stop sacrificing your needs, thoughts, and feelings for the comfort of others?
I help people pleasers - exhausted by the endless pursuit of perfection - find their version of good enough. I am the right counselor for you if you are doing everything you can to achieve, follow the rules, and do well...yet you do not feel good enough, seen, or valued. Are you ready to stop sacrificing your needs, thoughts, and feelings for the comfort of others?
Sabrina May Heidemann-Wells
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-S, LCPC, NCC
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
It is important to me to build an open, inclusive, and non-judge mental environment through focusing on your whole self. Creating a safe and supportive space is my first priority. From there we can process stressors, explore growth points, and pursue goals. I am a gentle and compassionate listener who works hard to understand you and your concerns. I can help you sort through your thoughts and feelings so that you can make sense of the past and implement a plan for the future which includes clarity and compassion for yourself and others.
It is important to me to build an open, inclusive, and non-judge mental environment through focusing on your whole self. Creating a safe and supportive space is my first priority. From there we can process stressors, explore growth points, and pursue goals. I am a gentle and compassionate listener who works hard to understand you and your concerns. I can help you sort through your thoughts and feelings so that you can make sense of the past and implement a plan for the future which includes clarity and compassion for yourself and others.
Are you just f-ing exhausted? A car accident left you emotionally paralyzed. An assault shook up your life. A recent medical diagnosis or crisis has you questioning what's next. All the "why" questions are flying through your head and the constant noise drives you nuts. You want things to make sense. You want to feel like yourself again. Most of all, you want to go back in time to the thing that changed your body or your life and do everything in your power to prevent it from happening. The problem is that no one prepared you for this or understands how to help.
Are you just f-ing exhausted? A car accident left you emotionally paralyzed. An assault shook up your life. A recent medical diagnosis or crisis has you questioning what's next. All the "why" questions are flying through your head and the constant noise drives you nuts. You want things to make sense. You want to feel like yourself again. Most of all, you want to go back in time to the thing that changed your body or your life and do everything in your power to prevent it from happening. The problem is that no one prepared you for this or understands how to help.
I work with clients 12+ who may feel anxious, overwhelmed, or like life’s weight is too heavy—whether navigating transitions, caregiver or parenting challenges, or struggles with self-esteem and confidence. Together, we’ll build clarity, resilience, and healthy boundaries using CBT, DBT, ACT, Solution-Focused, and mindfulness techniques, with practical tools and “homework” to continue growth outside of therapy, helping you feel supported, understood, and less isolated.
I work with clients 12+ who may feel anxious, overwhelmed, or like life’s weight is too heavy—whether navigating transitions, caregiver or parenting challenges, or struggles with self-esteem and confidence. Together, we’ll build clarity, resilience, and healthy boundaries using CBT, DBT, ACT, Solution-Focused, and mindfulness techniques, with practical tools and “homework” to continue growth outside of therapy, helping you feel supported, understood, and less isolated.
Are negative events, unhealthy relationship patterns, self-destructive behaviors and an overall sense of feeling "stuck" holding you back?Through customized and collaborative therapy, we will explore current issues of concern and relevant past experiences to help put the missing pieces of the puzzle back together for a happier, healthier you. The overall plan is to work together towards your goals with honesty, vulnerability and commitment.
Are negative events, unhealthy relationship patterns, self-destructive behaviors and an overall sense of feeling "stuck" holding you back?Through customized and collaborative therapy, we will explore current issues of concern and relevant past experiences to help put the missing pieces of the puzzle back together for a happier, healthier you. The overall plan is to work together towards your goals with honesty, vulnerability and commitment.
Hi! If you’re ready to process your experiences, explore your thoughts & feelings, and learn ways to cope with life's stressors, then I’m your gal! I aim to provide a comfortable, supportive space for you to work through the difficult stuff. Together, we’ll explore your life experiences, work to understand your emotions, change negative thinking patterns, address unwanted behaviors, and help you build skills necessary to meet your goals. I use a blend of techniques and interventions and I enjoy providing exploration, challenge, guidance, and support.
Hi! If you’re ready to process your experiences, explore your thoughts & feelings, and learn ways to cope with life's stressors, then I’m your gal! I aim to provide a comfortable, supportive space for you to work through the difficult stuff. Together, we’ll explore your life experiences, work to understand your emotions, change negative thinking patterns, address unwanted behaviors, and help you build skills necessary to meet your goals. I use a blend of techniques and interventions and I enjoy providing exploration, challenge, guidance, and support.
Christine Filonow
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Creve Coeur, MO 63141
Not accepting new clients
My goal is for people to live their life optimally. My objective is help people adjust to and cope with whatever they have to deal with, external or internal, and make the changes they need to feel better. I have experience addressing mild to severe anxiety and depression in adolescents and adults, as well as general stress and life transitions. I hope to help you move forward and regain a more positive outlook. I have served in this field for nearly 20 years and am familiar and comfortable working with a very wide range of life stressors, relationship challenges, and mental health issues. Everyone is welcome.
My goal is for people to live their life optimally. My objective is help people adjust to and cope with whatever they have to deal with, external or internal, and make the changes they need to feel better. I have experience addressing mild to severe anxiety and depression in adolescents and adults, as well as general stress and life transitions. I hope to help you move forward and regain a more positive outlook. I have served in this field for nearly 20 years and am familiar and comfortable working with a very wide range of life stressors, relationship challenges, and mental health issues. Everyone is welcome.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.


