Therapists in Clay County, MO

Kathy Costello has over 40 years experience delivering therapy in the Kansas City area. Her background includes extensive Inpatient and Outpatient Treatment with seniors, adults, and children.

You wonder how things got this way, you used to feel connected with your partner. You feel alone, confused, frustrated, misunderstood, rejected etc. You reach out, you are trying…it turns to an argument or distancing. It often seems like a blame game with defensive reactions. How do you turn this around and feel safe with your partner again, or other loved ones? You are concerned about the outcome, yet it’s not getting better. Something needs to change but you’re unsure how to approach things.

Im motivated to work with clients that want to improve an aspect of their life, to change a behavior, to adjust their way of thinking or to just talk about stressful or confusing things in their life. V

For many of us the hardest part about doing therapy is figuring out where to begin. The good news is that you don't have to know, all you have to do is start. One thing I've noticed in the time I've been doing this is that all roads seem to lead to the same place, so it doesn't matter where you start because eventually you will get wherever you need to go.

I am a Provisionally Licensed Counselor with a Masters degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. I have a passion for working with young adults and adults and helping them deal with all challenges in life including trauma, abuse, and loss. As a US Army veteran, I have a passion for working with veterans and first responders and the unique challenges they face as well as the impact those challenges have on their lives and those of their families. I specialize in trauma including but not limited to sexual trauma, trauma from divorce, and trauma stemming from the unique experiences of veterans and first responders.

If you are looking for a down-to-earth counselor to help you reach your goals, then that's me! I am passionate about helping people with their mental health and navigating life's uncertainties. There is much in this world we struggle with; depression, anxiety, fears, and shame. You deserve someone who listens and cares about your story. I want to help you succeed and find happiness, offering support and compassion as you find your way. If you are ready for a positive change, I am here to help.

Life can get messy. Our past experiences can impact our present lives and how we respond to the world around us. Maybe you've noticed feeling more on edge, disconnected from self and others around you. Or maybe you want to find a way to not let your past wounds hold you back from finding yourself and joy in life. No matter what your story has been so far, I am here to listen to you and help you re-discover yourself. Curious about taking the next step towards creating powerful changes in you life? Let's chat about it.

Are you overwhelmed by what you are going through? Are you or your teen in crisis? Do you feel unheard? Are you suicidal or have any type of trauma? Are you the parent of a tween, teen or young adult who is struggling with life or a challenging situation or maybe it is you? I can help! I specialize in helping people navigate their challenges, find new solutions to overcome life's difficulties and get you out of pain. Everyone deserves a safe place, to experience who they truly are, and uncover the issue at the root of the problem.

Hello there! Do you struggle with anxiety, ADHD, or something related to sexuality? Do you struggle with a behavior, or behaviors, almost as if driven, like an addiction? Perhaps you have questions about your sexuality or gender, concerns about sexual pain, or even concerns about your enjoyment of sex. These statements represent a few ideas of what I specialize in as a professional mental health counselor. Through working within my specializations, I also treat depression, OCD, PTSD, and various personality concerns.

Hello! As a counselor I work with children, adolescents, adults, families and couples. I am a Certified Play Therapist and an AutPlay Therapy Certified Provider. I am passionate about working with children and helping them succeed. It is difficult to admit when we need help. I offer a safe environment for all my clients to set goals and work to achieve them. Supporting my clients in becoming a better, stronger self is my goal. I look forward to being with you on your journey!

With 34 years of experience there is not one issue I have not dealt with. You feel life is harder than it should be. You are scared, overwhelmed, confused and tired. You have no idea which way to turn. You feel lonely, even in a room full of people. All you want right now is to just breathe, have fewer worries, relax, and sleep. You may be faced with; an out of control child, relationship issues, family issues, a job we hate, money issues, or aging parents. Our problems seem insurmountable. But most of all, you need answers, and a sense of direction. YOUR HARDEST ISSUE RIGHT NOW IS MAKING THE FIRST CALL TO A THERAPIST OR COACH.

I work with people who, as a result of their painful past, experience overwhelming emotions, frequent triggers and feel stuck in self-defeating behavior. I gently point to the healing of mind and spirit that frees them from their pasts, creates structure and confidence within themselves and promotes an intentional and personally satisfying life. My clinical experience over the last 17 years has given me the opportunity to stand in awe of how God heals individuals and couples, He brings beauty out of the chaos and pain and deepens our understanding of ourselves, each other and most importantly His grace in our lives.

There are many presenting issues that might bring you to counseling. Finding a therapist that you can connect with and build an alliance with is important to your success in therapy. I work very hard to create a relationship that will provide you the safety and warmth that you need to explore your experiences; I am very comfortable earning your trust. I use different treatment modalities, depending upon which is appropriate for you personally. Empathy is the primary tool used to give you the safety you need to explore your inner world while we begin to understand your experiences together.

Do you feel as though you lack confidence in your ability to express yourself in relationships? Are you having a hard time finding affirmation and support for your needs or desires? Maybe you feel inauthentic in your roles or relationships and uncertain in your ability to change these uncomfortable aspects of your life. The therapeutic relationship can provide an affirming space for you to build confidence in yourself. It can be a place to explore your needs and wants and develop strategies to align yourself with them.

Finding a therapist is a personal and often difficult choice. I provide a space for you to feel comfortable expressing your emotions and experiences, without fear of judgment. Whether you feel overwhelmed by anxiety or stress; struggle to get through the day; have experienced a recent loss; wrestle with traumatic memories; or just need help finding balance between life, work & relationships, I am here to help you.

There are times in everyone's life where they face uncertainty and a stirring in themselves for a different way of living. Whether you are facing a new chapter in your life that leads you unsure of the path forward, a parent seeking support for your child as they navigate their social and emotional world, or searching for ways to heal and grow in your relationships, there is a place to start. Therapy is a unique opportunity to further explore our self, our roles, and our interactions in relationships with others. Together, we will work to determine what changes will give you and your family resilience and a deeper connection.