Infidelity Therapists in Saint Paul, MN
With couples and families this may look like: infidelity, lack of intimacy, sexual concerns, parenting challenges, broken trust, lack of communication, difficult transitions and not feeling validated.
I work with men who are struggling with shame, confidence, and finding purpose. You will learn tools and we will practice them. I will support you by sifting through the crap that is weighing you down and honor your strength. I will encourage you to embrace connection, within yourself and with your peers, partners, and family. I love supporting Modern Men!
With couples and families this may look like: infidelity, lack of intimacy, sexual concerns, parenting challenges, broken trust, lack of communication, difficult transitions and not feeling validated.
I work with men who are struggling with shame, confidence, and finding purpose. You will learn tools and we will practice them. I will support you by sifting through the crap that is weighing you down and honor your strength. I will encourage you to embrace connection, within yourself and with your peers, partners, and family. I love supporting Modern Men!
Despite being a professional by day, you have no idea how your life at home started feeling so chaotic and out of control. You and your partner don’t communicate like you used to and you certainly don’t have fun together anymore. Life is consumed by kids, sports, work, and errands. You aren’t having as much sex as you used to either. It feels like you lost yourself along the way and you don’t feel heard or understood by your partner when you try to talk. Things always end up in a fight. You’re exhausted and irritable and you feel alone. Friends and family mean well but they don’t get it. Not really. You need help.
Despite being a professional by day, you have no idea how your life at home started feeling so chaotic and out of control. You and your partner don’t communicate like you used to and you certainly don’t have fun together anymore. Life is consumed by kids, sports, work, and errands. You aren’t having as much sex as you used to either. It feels like you lost yourself along the way and you don’t feel heard or understood by your partner when you try to talk. Things always end up in a fight. You’re exhausted and irritable and you feel alone. Friends and family mean well but they don’t get it. Not really. You need help.
At The Relationship Therapy Center (RTC), our mission is to help people grow in health and happiness in their important relationships! With over 30 dedicated therapists specializing in relationships, we are proud to be the largest couples therapy practice in the Midwest. Our team integrates empirically informed methods, exceptional care, and a genuine passion for helping people reconnect and heal. Every therapist at RTC takes the time to understand your unique story, tailoring therapy to meet the needs of each individual, couple, and family we serve.
At The Relationship Therapy Center (RTC), our mission is to help people grow in health and happiness in their important relationships! With over 30 dedicated therapists specializing in relationships, we are proud to be the largest couples therapy practice in the Midwest. Our team integrates empirically informed methods, exceptional care, and a genuine passion for helping people reconnect and heal. Every therapist at RTC takes the time to understand your unique story, tailoring therapy to meet the needs of each individual, couple, and family we serve.
If your relationship feels like a group project and you’re doing all the work, keep reading. Somewhere between bills, dishes, and “what do you want for dinner” your marriage turned into two stressed adults sharing a house and a nervous system. The smallest thing, the way your partner is breathing, can feel like a personal attack. Sex becomes pressure or avoidance. One chases, one shuts down. And the scariest part? “Are we okay?” is no longer dramatic. It’s real. The resentment is growing and you’re both exhausted.
If your relationship feels like a group project and you’re doing all the work, keep reading. Somewhere between bills, dishes, and “what do you want for dinner” your marriage turned into two stressed adults sharing a house and a nervous system. The smallest thing, the way your partner is breathing, can feel like a personal attack. Sex becomes pressure or avoidance. One chases, one shuts down. And the scariest part? “Are we okay?” is no longer dramatic. It’s real. The resentment is growing and you’re both exhausted.
You may be in a difficult place right now, struggling in a relationship with your partner or another family member, or wrestling with personal challenges. You are taking a step forward by finding a therapist who can help you navigate through it. I create a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental space where, together, we can explore your challenges and hopes and collaborate to work through them. My style is warm, compassionate, curious and direct. I am invested in your healing. Ofrezco mis services en español.
You may be in a difficult place right now, struggling in a relationship with your partner or another family member, or wrestling with personal challenges. You are taking a step forward by finding a therapist who can help you navigate through it. I create a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental space where, together, we can explore your challenges and hopes and collaborate to work through them. My style is warm, compassionate, curious and direct. I am invested in your healing. Ofrezco mis services en español.
He helps couples learn more about their partners world, build fondness and admiration, help couples turn towards each other and build trust, build a positive prospective and appreciation for one another, help couples manage conflict, make life dreams come true, create shared meaning and help couples recover from infidelity.
Worry and sadness are a normal part of life, at some points, sadness and worry can be hard to manage on your own, during those times, having someone to talk to can be very helpful. I help individuals manage mental health symptoms. I provide Christian counseling. I have completed level 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy. I help couples learn more about their partners world, build fondness and admiration, help couples turn towards one another and build trust, build a positive prospective and appreciation for one another, help couples manage conflict, create shared meaning and rebuild their relationship after an affair.
He helps couples learn more about their partners world, build fondness and admiration, help couples turn towards each other and build trust, build a positive prospective and appreciation for one another, help couples manage conflict, make life dreams come true, create shared meaning and help couples recover from infidelity.
Worry and sadness are a normal part of life, at some points, sadness and worry can be hard to manage on your own, during those times, having someone to talk to can be very helpful. I help individuals manage mental health symptoms. I provide Christian counseling. I have completed level 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy. I help couples learn more about their partners world, build fondness and admiration, help couples turn towards one another and build trust, build a positive prospective and appreciation for one another, help couples manage conflict, create shared meaning and rebuild their relationship after an affair.
Beginning counseling for the first time can be frightening. The journey to emotional health takes courage. Sometimes you don't realize your own strength until you come face to face with your greatest challenges. Owning our own story and loving ourselves through that process is one of the bravest things that you will ever do. Your courageous journey in counseling is a way to reach personal goals, reduce suffering, and get more joy out of life. We have an unlimited capacity to heal ourselves, despite the pain we've suffered.
Beginning counseling for the first time can be frightening. The journey to emotional health takes courage. Sometimes you don't realize your own strength until you come face to face with your greatest challenges. Owning our own story and loving ourselves through that process is one of the bravest things that you will ever do. Your courageous journey in counseling is a way to reach personal goals, reduce suffering, and get more joy out of life. We have an unlimited capacity to heal ourselves, despite the pain we've suffered.
My office is a warm and comforting place for you to tell your story, deal with life's stressors, treat depression and anxiety, work on healthy relationships, or heal old wounds. I provide a more holistic perspective in my appraoch to therapy, looking at the total needs you might have to best help you to heal and grow. It is very important to me that you feel heard and well cared for in your therapy process.
We will work together to help you to make changes and to feel stronger.
My office is a warm and comforting place for you to tell your story, deal with life's stressors, treat depression and anxiety, work on healthy relationships, or heal old wounds. I provide a more holistic perspective in my appraoch to therapy, looking at the total needs you might have to best help you to heal and grow. It is very important to me that you feel heard and well cared for in your therapy process.
We will work together to help you to make changes and to feel stronger.
Helping women heal from trauma, reconnect with their inner strength, and feel empowered in their lives.
Do you feel disconnected from yourself, unsure of your voice, or stuck in patterns that leave you feeling small and powerless? Many women carry the effects of trauma quietly-functioning on the outside while feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or disconnected on the inside.
Helping women heal from trauma, reconnect with their inner strength, and feel empowered in their lives.
Do you feel disconnected from yourself, unsure of your voice, or stuck in patterns that leave you feeling small and powerless? Many women carry the effects of trauma quietly-functioning on the outside while feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or disconnected on the inside.
On the journey to finding our authentic selves, we must learn to ground and connect before we can grown and flourish. This is exactly what Root & Rise Psychotherapy wishes to do. Let us help you on your own journey of running into yourself, making choices that honor your values, and moving forward in life with conscious awareness and confidence.
On the journey to finding our authentic selves, we must learn to ground and connect before we can grown and flourish. This is exactly what Root & Rise Psychotherapy wishes to do. Let us help you on your own journey of running into yourself, making choices that honor your values, and moving forward in life with conscious awareness and confidence.
Bonnie Brae Psychotherapy LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
2 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55114
My name is Michael and I'm a psychotherapist based in Saint Paul, Minnesota. You're probably visiting my page because something isn’t working in your life and you are considering making a change. I work with individual clients that are 18+ who desire their lives to be different. I consider myself to be a generalist, but I do specialize in men’s issues, life transitions, grieving fathers, mood and trauma disorders, relationship distress, and other medical providers seeking support. I see a lot of people who have some ambivalence to meeting with a therapist, but have been “encouraged” by their partners to seek help.
My name is Michael and I'm a psychotherapist based in Saint Paul, Minnesota. You're probably visiting my page because something isn’t working in your life and you are considering making a change. I work with individual clients that are 18+ who desire their lives to be different. I consider myself to be a generalist, but I do specialize in men’s issues, life transitions, grieving fathers, mood and trauma disorders, relationship distress, and other medical providers seeking support. I see a lot of people who have some ambivalence to meeting with a therapist, but have been “encouraged” by their partners to seek help.
Seeking out therapy can be an overwhelming step to take and I am so glad you are here! I strive to meet individual adults and couples with compassionate curiosity in an effort to address concerns such as those that come with anxiety, stress, life transitions, relational challenges, communication issues, career exploration/transition, chronic illness, aging, and grief.
Seeking out therapy can be an overwhelming step to take and I am so glad you are here! I strive to meet individual adults and couples with compassionate curiosity in an effort to address concerns such as those that come with anxiety, stress, life transitions, relational challenges, communication issues, career exploration/transition, chronic illness, aging, and grief.
I am committed to your health and well-being through the delivery of evidence based therapeutic approaches. As a Mental Health Practitioner, I work with adults addressing a variety of concerns including addictions, eating disorders, emotion regulation, mood disorders, anxiety, stress management, depression, self-esteem, life transitions, grief/loss and relationship issues.
I am committed to your health and well-being through the delivery of evidence based therapeutic approaches. As a Mental Health Practitioner, I work with adults addressing a variety of concerns including addictions, eating disorders, emotion regulation, mood disorders, anxiety, stress management, depression, self-esteem, life transitions, grief/loss and relationship issues.
Rafael Cohen
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, ATR-BC, LPCC
5 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55114
Some people go through life believing they know what they want and yet find a deep sense of dissatisfaction when they get it. Others self-sabotage and seem to keep a safe distance from their conscious goals. Naturally there are no quick fixes to challenges like these, but psychoanalytic work offers the possibility of taking the whole person into account. In order to do this I remain invested in the full complexity of each individual and I avoid reducing patients to a symptom or a diagnosis. With time, hard work, and an unprejudiced space to speak, new perspectives are possible, as are new relationships with self and with others.
Some people go through life believing they know what they want and yet find a deep sense of dissatisfaction when they get it. Others self-sabotage and seem to keep a safe distance from their conscious goals. Naturally there are no quick fixes to challenges like these, but psychoanalytic work offers the possibility of taking the whole person into account. In order to do this I remain invested in the full complexity of each individual and I avoid reducing patients to a symptom or a diagnosis. With time, hard work, and an unprejudiced space to speak, new perspectives are possible, as are new relationships with self and with others.
I am eager to support adults who want to explore challenges related to anxiety, depression, shame, identity or self-esteem, and relationship patterns influenced by family history and cultural expectations. I work with individuals impacted by intergenerational trauma and those navigating identity and belonging across cultural differences. My approach is relational and collaborative. I believe change is often nonlinear and can feel overwhelming, but meaningful change occurs when clients feel motivated, supported, and encouraged to trust themselves while remaining committed to the therapeutic process.
I am eager to support adults who want to explore challenges related to anxiety, depression, shame, identity or self-esteem, and relationship patterns influenced by family history and cultural expectations. I work with individuals impacted by intergenerational trauma and those navigating identity and belonging across cultural differences. My approach is relational and collaborative. I believe change is often nonlinear and can feel overwhelming, but meaningful change occurs when clients feel motivated, supported, and encouraged to trust themselves while remaining committed to the therapeutic process.
Accepting new clients! Families, couples, and individuals I work with come to therapy looking to improve their relationships. They want to break out of unhelpful patterns, seek support for their anxiety, depression, improve their relationship with substances, and to work through loss, grief, or traumatic experiences. Some are navigating through challenges with identity, culture, power, and privilege at their schools, works, and communities. They are brave, caring individuals who want to use therapy as a support to get to where they want to be. If these feel relatable, I’m here for you and we will work through it together.
Accepting new clients! Families, couples, and individuals I work with come to therapy looking to improve their relationships. They want to break out of unhelpful patterns, seek support for their anxiety, depression, improve their relationship with substances, and to work through loss, grief, or traumatic experiences. Some are navigating through challenges with identity, culture, power, and privilege at their schools, works, and communities. They are brave, caring individuals who want to use therapy as a support to get to where they want to be. If these feel relatable, I’m here for you and we will work through it together.
You are likely seeking therapy because of distress and confusion around difficult emotional experiences that you are struggling to understand and resolve. This distress and confusion can result in anxiety, relationship issues and depression. Through our work together, we can help resolve these struggles by building an understanding of where they come from and how to respond to them.
You are likely seeking therapy because of distress and confusion around difficult emotional experiences that you are struggling to understand and resolve. This distress and confusion can result in anxiety, relationship issues and depression. Through our work together, we can help resolve these struggles by building an understanding of where they come from and how to respond to them.
Hello. My name is Kelsey, and I have been practicing as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist since 2016. I believe our relationships, connections, and past experiences greatly shape our lives. I meet clients from a strength-based, relational-focused approach that is systemic in nature. I strive to create a warm, collaborative space for clients to walk their healing journey. It is one of the great honors of my life to walk alongside clients through therapy. I am passionate about highlighting and utilizing client’s and families’ strengths, and honoring each family’s cultural values in the healing process.
Hello. My name is Kelsey, and I have been practicing as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist since 2016. I believe our relationships, connections, and past experiences greatly shape our lives. I meet clients from a strength-based, relational-focused approach that is systemic in nature. I strive to create a warm, collaborative space for clients to walk their healing journey. It is one of the great honors of my life to walk alongside clients through therapy. I am passionate about highlighting and utilizing client’s and families’ strengths, and honoring each family’s cultural values in the healing process.
Life can feel overwhelming at times—especially when you're carrying the weight of trauma, struggling with depression or anxiety, facing challenges with substance use, or trying to manage the demands of life. I work with individuals who are seeking real, meaningful change—whether that means healing from past wounds, building coping strategies, or learning to live with more clarity and intention. I offer a collaborative, non-judgmental, grounded, and supportive space where you can explore what’s getting in the way and start to reconnect with your strengths. I'm here to support you with empathy and a belief in your capacity to grow.
Life can feel overwhelming at times—especially when you're carrying the weight of trauma, struggling with depression or anxiety, facing challenges with substance use, or trying to manage the demands of life. I work with individuals who are seeking real, meaningful change—whether that means healing from past wounds, building coping strategies, or learning to live with more clarity and intention. I offer a collaborative, non-judgmental, grounded, and supportive space where you can explore what’s getting in the way and start to reconnect with your strengths. I'm here to support you with empathy and a belief in your capacity to grow.
I have a lifelong passion for serving others and a deep curiosity about the world around me. This curiosity has driven me to explore the many ways I can contribute to meaningful change. Throughout my life, I have dedicated myself to learning about politics and global health to better understand the systems that shape our communities and influence how we experience them.
In my work, I draw from feminist and person-centered theories, grounding my practice in respect, empathy, and collaboration. I believe in tailoring my approach to align with where each client is on their healing journey.
I have a lifelong passion for serving others and a deep curiosity about the world around me. This curiosity has driven me to explore the many ways I can contribute to meaningful change. Throughout my life, I have dedicated myself to learning about politics and global health to better understand the systems that shape our communities and influence how we experience them.
In my work, I draw from feminist and person-centered theories, grounding my practice in respect, empathy, and collaboration. I believe in tailoring my approach to align with where each client is on their healing journey.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.