Imago Therapists in Saint Paul, MN
Carol L Hornbeck
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55114
Waitlist for new clients
I work with couples, individuals, families and children online, via teletherapy, as well as in person. I support my clients across the life span to heal from losses and improve their relationships. I have extensive experience with LGBTQ issues, child development, adoption, sexual abuse, parenting challenges, divorce, suicide, and life transitions. My specialized training includes play therapy, couples therapy, and experience in infant and pregnancy loss, complicated or unplanned pregnancies, and infant/toddler mental health.
I work with couples, individuals, families and children online, via teletherapy, as well as in person. I support my clients across the life span to heal from losses and improve their relationships. I have extensive experience with LGBTQ issues, child development, adoption, sexual abuse, parenting challenges, divorce, suicide, and life transitions. My specialized training includes play therapy, couples therapy, and experience in infant and pregnancy loss, complicated or unplanned pregnancies, and infant/toddler mental health.
Cornerstone Therapy and Recovery Center
Psychologist, MA, LP
7 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55104
Waitlist for new clients
I've been counseling men and couples for over 40 years. My specialties are men with compulsive/addictive sexual behaviors, unresolved childhood abuse/trauma/neglect, anxiety/depression, relationship problems and intimacy issues. I also do couple's therapy teaching and helping couples in good communication and conflict management and how to heal from infidelity. Cornerstone has 5 outpatient treatment groups for men with sexual addiction. We also have very skilled therapist who treat childhood trauma and neglect with very highly regarded therapeutic methods and approaches including EMDR, Sensorimotor and Pesso Psychomotor Therapy.
I've been counseling men and couples for over 40 years. My specialties are men with compulsive/addictive sexual behaviors, unresolved childhood abuse/trauma/neglect, anxiety/depression, relationship problems and intimacy issues. I also do couple's therapy teaching and helping couples in good communication and conflict management and how to heal from infidelity. Cornerstone has 5 outpatient treatment groups for men with sexual addiction. We also have very skilled therapist who treat childhood trauma and neglect with very highly regarded therapeutic methods and approaches including EMDR, Sensorimotor and Pesso Psychomotor Therapy.
With couples and partnerships, I draw most heavily from EFT, Gottman, and Imago techniques.
Are you seeking adult, couple/partnership, or family therapy? With warmth, humor and “real talk,” I will support you in navigating personal and inter-personal challenges, and creating an authentic life that's in integrity with your values. I hold a safe space where you can get curious about how your history, behaviors, and thought patterns impact your life. I work to ensure clients feel heard, validated, cared for and respected, and you'll likely find me both kind and direct. You can expect our work to feel informal and collaborative - you are the expert on your life. So, let's work together to create the life you want!
With couples and partnerships, I draw most heavily from EFT, Gottman, and Imago techniques.
Are you seeking adult, couple/partnership, or family therapy? With warmth, humor and “real talk,” I will support you in navigating personal and inter-personal challenges, and creating an authentic life that's in integrity with your values. I hold a safe space where you can get curious about how your history, behaviors, and thought patterns impact your life. I work to ensure clients feel heard, validated, cared for and respected, and you'll likely find me both kind and direct. You can expect our work to feel informal and collaborative - you are the expert on your life. So, let's work together to create the life you want!
Drawing from mindfulness, Unified Protocol, Relational Life Therapy, and Imago therapy, I tailor each session to you.
You’re a dedicated, driven professional. On the outside, you have it together, but inside, you're exhausted—burnt out, overwhelmed, and unsure why things feel so off. Maybe you’re at a turning point in your life or relationships, scared of your emotions, or frustrated that you keep getting in your own way. You want change, but you're not sure where to start. You long to feel solid, confident, and clear. To trust yourself, set boundaries without guilt, and navigate life with curiosity rather than fear.
You want to stop repeating old patterns, understand your emotions (without being ruled by them), and move forward with purpose.
Drawing from mindfulness, Unified Protocol, Relational Life Therapy, and Imago therapy, I tailor each session to you.
You’re a dedicated, driven professional. On the outside, you have it together, but inside, you're exhausted—burnt out, overwhelmed, and unsure why things feel so off. Maybe you’re at a turning point in your life or relationships, scared of your emotions, or frustrated that you keep getting in your own way. You want change, but you're not sure where to start. You long to feel solid, confident, and clear. To trust yourself, set boundaries without guilt, and navigate life with curiosity rather than fear.
You want to stop repeating old patterns, understand your emotions (without being ruled by them), and move forward with purpose.
Hello, I am Gretchen Kafer, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Most of my clients state they start therapy because they are feeling inadequate, having relationship problems, and/or feeling exhausted from hiding how much they’re struggling inside with the complexities of anxiety, depression, parenting challenges, multiple stressors, or feeling dissatisfied with themselves or life circumstances. My job as a therapist is to help you identify and access your internal strength and power to accomplish your goals. I provide a supportive, non-judgmental, and encouraging space to work through emotions, overcome challenges, and move forward.
Hello, I am Gretchen Kafer, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Most of my clients state they start therapy because they are feeling inadequate, having relationship problems, and/or feeling exhausted from hiding how much they’re struggling inside with the complexities of anxiety, depression, parenting challenges, multiple stressors, or feeling dissatisfied with themselves or life circumstances. My job as a therapist is to help you identify and access your internal strength and power to accomplish your goals. I provide a supportive, non-judgmental, and encouraging space to work through emotions, overcome challenges, and move forward.
I work with individuals and couples experiencing issues related to sex, traditional gender roles, desire, grief, and self image to support you in building the life you want. Couples/partners may struggle with communication related to sex, desire discrepancy, or unhelpful relationship dynamics. Individuals may wish to explore their sexual identity, process grief and loss, unpack past traumas or family patterns that cause distress in present relationships, create new expressions of masculinity or femininity, or learn how to prioritize pleasure.
I work with individuals and couples experiencing issues related to sex, traditional gender roles, desire, grief, and self image to support you in building the life you want. Couples/partners may struggle with communication related to sex, desire discrepancy, or unhelpful relationship dynamics. Individuals may wish to explore their sexual identity, process grief and loss, unpack past traumas or family patterns that cause distress in present relationships, create new expressions of masculinity or femininity, or learn how to prioritize pleasure.
The foundation of growth begins within the relationship between individual and therapist. The desire to feel seen, heard, and understood is universal and is an essential part of our overall well-being. I celebrate the courage of individuals who take steps into healing by engaging in the therapeutic process to manifest the life they desire. I am passionate about working together to ensure that you become an expert on yourself and believe in your own insight, strength, and self awareness. I believe that humor and laughter bring out our authentic selves and utilize this philosophy in my work.
The foundation of growth begins within the relationship between individual and therapist. The desire to feel seen, heard, and understood is universal and is an essential part of our overall well-being. I celebrate the courage of individuals who take steps into healing by engaging in the therapeutic process to manifest the life they desire. I am passionate about working together to ensure that you become an expert on yourself and believe in your own insight, strength, and self awareness. I believe that humor and laughter bring out our authentic selves and utilize this philosophy in my work.
As a therapist my first step is to listen to your concerns, goals and aspirations. Together we can explore ways to resolve stress, anxiety, life challenges and relationship difficulties. If you are having difficulty with communication, intimacy, or resolving conflict in your relationship, I can help you as a couple communicate more effectively, gain mutual understanding, and find a pathway together that supports your relationship, For Parents who are in the divorce process or afterward, I offer Co-Parent Coaching Services so that as parents you can establish new ways of working together and supporting your children.
As a therapist my first step is to listen to your concerns, goals and aspirations. Together we can explore ways to resolve stress, anxiety, life challenges and relationship difficulties. If you are having difficulty with communication, intimacy, or resolving conflict in your relationship, I can help you as a couple communicate more effectively, gain mutual understanding, and find a pathway together that supports your relationship, For Parents who are in the divorce process or afterward, I offer Co-Parent Coaching Services so that as parents you can establish new ways of working together and supporting your children.
If you are reading this, you're probably experiencing significant pain. Perhaps you're facing a break-up, or you realize your new partner is very much like the previous one. You may be scared, uncertain of the next step. Perhaps you are single, asking what it might take to find the right partner, or you may feel stuck in your marriage. You'll come in, plop yourself down, and ask me to fix you. I'll say: "I cannot do that." "All right," you say, "then, what is the point?" I'll respond: "I can help you be curious."
If you are reading this, you're probably experiencing significant pain. Perhaps you're facing a break-up, or you realize your new partner is very much like the previous one. You may be scared, uncertain of the next step. Perhaps you are single, asking what it might take to find the right partner, or you may feel stuck in your marriage. You'll come in, plop yourself down, and ask me to fix you. I'll say: "I cannot do that." "All right," you say, "then, what is the point?" I'll respond: "I can help you be curious."
My approach is grounded in Imago relational therapy and I incorporate elements of Non-Violent Communication into sessions.
I work with individuals who are looking for support around processing anxiety, depression, grief, and trauma. I work from an attachment lens and draw on Jungian psychology, mindfulness, and evidence-based modalities such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy to help clients explore their inner worlds. I have a particular interest in dreams, shadow work, and the mind-body connection and often incorporate these elements into sessions.
My approach is grounded in Imago relational therapy and I incorporate elements of Non-Violent Communication into sessions.
I work with individuals who are looking for support around processing anxiety, depression, grief, and trauma. I work from an attachment lens and draw on Jungian psychology, mindfulness, and evidence-based modalities such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy to help clients explore their inner worlds. I have a particular interest in dreams, shadow work, and the mind-body connection and often incorporate these elements into sessions.
If you're a guy that is struggling or have a guy in your life that seems to be facing some challenges, please read on. While I do work with all sorts of clients, my specialty is men's issues and relationship challenges. This includes relationship issues, discernment counseling, separation, divorce, rebuilding after divorce, co-parenting and managing relationships with your children as a divorced Dad. I also specialize in healthy connection, intimacy issues and communication. I realize I won't be a perfect fit for everyone, however, I'm here to help if you'd like to talk more.
If you're a guy that is struggling or have a guy in your life that seems to be facing some challenges, please read on. While I do work with all sorts of clients, my specialty is men's issues and relationship challenges. This includes relationship issues, discernment counseling, separation, divorce, rebuilding after divorce, co-parenting and managing relationships with your children as a divorced Dad. I also specialize in healthy connection, intimacy issues and communication. I realize I won't be a perfect fit for everyone, however, I'm here to help if you'd like to talk more.
At The Relationship Therapy Center (RTC), our mission is to help people grow in health and happiness in their important relationships! With over 30 dedicated therapists specializing in relationships, we are proud to be the largest couples therapy practice in the Midwest. Our team integrates empirically informed methods, exceptional care, and a genuine passion for helping people reconnect and heal. Every therapist at RTC takes the time to understand your unique story, tailoring therapy to meet the needs of each individual, couple, and family we serve.
At The Relationship Therapy Center (RTC), our mission is to help people grow in health and happiness in their important relationships! With over 30 dedicated therapists specializing in relationships, we are proud to be the largest couples therapy practice in the Midwest. Our team integrates empirically informed methods, exceptional care, and a genuine passion for helping people reconnect and heal. Every therapist at RTC takes the time to understand your unique story, tailoring therapy to meet the needs of each individual, couple, and family we serve.
Illuminate your path, Awaken your life! Who you are at your core matters and deserves to be seen by the world. I am driven by a desire to make a difference in the lives of others and to positively impact the world. I actively seek to live a life guided by a sense of purpose and meaning. My goal is to help you do the same with a highly personalized approach that addresses your needs and meets your criteria for personal success. This includes finding and solidifying the essential relationships in your life! I also utilize the Enneagram in my practice as a way to help you have more generosity for yourself and other in your life.
Illuminate your path, Awaken your life! Who you are at your core matters and deserves to be seen by the world. I am driven by a desire to make a difference in the lives of others and to positively impact the world. I actively seek to live a life guided by a sense of purpose and meaning. My goal is to help you do the same with a highly personalized approach that addresses your needs and meets your criteria for personal success. This includes finding and solidifying the essential relationships in your life! I also utilize the Enneagram in my practice as a way to help you have more generosity for yourself and other in your life.
We all need someone to lean on especially when times get tough. I’m excited to explore and reflect on challenges to living your best life so we can plan strategies to jump over different barriers to live a more value based life.
We all need someone to lean on especially when times get tough. I’m excited to explore and reflect on challenges to living your best life so we can plan strategies to jump over different barriers to live a more value based life.
I work with couples, families, individual adults and teens struggling with ADD/ADHD, the effects of anxiety, self-esteem, adjustment difficulties, depression, bipolar, and trauma.
I also work with individuals and families struggling with strained relationships, as well as job-related stressors and life transitions, such as college, job and career change, retirement, divorce, cohabitation, remarriage, step-parenting and taking care of aging parents.
I work with couples, families, individual adults and teens struggling with ADD/ADHD, the effects of anxiety, self-esteem, adjustment difficulties, depression, bipolar, and trauma.
I also work with individuals and families struggling with strained relationships, as well as job-related stressors and life transitions, such as college, job and career change, retirement, divorce, cohabitation, remarriage, step-parenting and taking care of aging parents.
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Emily Hahn-Carlson
Pre-Licensed Professional, LAMFT
1 Endorsed
Robbinsdale, MN 55422
Waitlist for new clients
Life is messy. Relationships can be challenging, family can be overwhelming, demands of daily obligations can drain, or sometimes the path forward may feel uncertain. Therapy can be a way to clarify your situation and restore a sense of control. As your therapist, my role is to make you feel safe, heard, and challenged as needed. Every person is capable, they may just need to learn more effective skills to reach their goals and break free from past cycles. “You’ve always had the power my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself” – Glinda
Life is messy. Relationships can be challenging, family can be overwhelming, demands of daily obligations can drain, or sometimes the path forward may feel uncertain. Therapy can be a way to clarify your situation and restore a sense of control. As your therapist, my role is to make you feel safe, heard, and challenged as needed. Every person is capable, they may just need to learn more effective skills to reach their goals and break free from past cycles. “You’ve always had the power my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself” – Glinda
I specialize in helping couples, families, and other kinds of relationships repair after ruptures, find harmony, and figure out how to make sustainable, enjoyable changes in their lives. I especially enjoy working with individuals, couples, and family dynamics (such as parent-adult children and adult sibling relationships). I help folks get unstuck by identifying unhelpful patterns, exploring stuckness, and helping people learn new ways of connecting to one another.
I specialize in helping couples, families, and other kinds of relationships repair after ruptures, find harmony, and figure out how to make sustainable, enjoyable changes in their lives. I especially enjoy working with individuals, couples, and family dynamics (such as parent-adult children and adult sibling relationships). I help folks get unstuck by identifying unhelpful patterns, exploring stuckness, and helping people learn new ways of connecting to one another.
One goal together in therapy is to raise your awareness about why you do what you do. As we become more conscious we can make better choices and we function better in our lives. I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor and have practiced for the past 5 years. Most of my clients struggle with anxiety, depression, or where they are in their lives. I believe our adult behaviors are guided by things we can be unconscious about.
One goal together in therapy is to raise your awareness about why you do what you do. As we become more conscious we can make better choices and we function better in our lives. I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor and have practiced for the past 5 years. Most of my clients struggle with anxiety, depression, or where they are in their lives. I believe our adult behaviors are guided by things we can be unconscious about.
Using a feminist, anti-racist, trauma-informed, gender & sexuality affirming lens, I empower individuals and couples struggling with anxiety, shame, low self-esteem & communication issues to find deep, wholehearted contentedness and inner-freedom. My goal is to help you grow in love with yourself and your people. You are deserving of your love, and contentment and joy in your relationships is absolutely attainable.
Using a feminist, anti-racist, trauma-informed, gender & sexuality affirming lens, I empower individuals and couples struggling with anxiety, shame, low self-esteem & communication issues to find deep, wholehearted contentedness and inner-freedom. My goal is to help you grow in love with yourself and your people. You are deserving of your love, and contentment and joy in your relationships is absolutely attainable.
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How does Imago therapy work?
Imago relationship therapy is a form of couples counseling meant to help partners address conflict, communication problems, and related issues. Imago sessions typically involve couples sitting facing each other and participating in guided conversations. Therapy will also involve exercises such as re-imagining one’s partner as a wounded child; re-romanticizing a relationship through appreciation, surprises, and even gift-giving and restructuring frustrations by transforming complaints into requests. The ultimate goal is to re-envision the relationship as a source of safety and happiness.
What is the Imago method?
A core technique of Imago therapy is the Imago dialogue, in which partners learn to avoid hurtful statements and establish ways to interact based on each having equal space and power. In the dialogue, partners take turns as the “sender,” who shares their thoughts, and the “receiver.” The receiver is asked to “mirror,” or paraphrase, what their partner has said, without response or rebuttal, and then validate their statements, acknowledging understanding even if they do not personally agree with it. Finally, the receiver displays empathy by stating what they imagine the other is feeling, and showing appreciation for it.
How long does Imago therapy take?
As with most forms of talk therapy, there is no set duration or end point for Imago therapy. After becoming comfortable with a therapist and the core techniques of Imago coaching, some couples quickly make progress, but most should expect sessions to extend for months, encompassing at least 12 to 20 sessions, along with extensive “homework” from their therapist.
Does Imago therapy work?
There is limited empirical evidence to support the benefits of Imago therapy, but some smaller studies suggest that it does help couples, at least in the short-term. A 2017 study found that marital satisfaction increased significantly after couples completed 12 sessions of Imago therapy, and remained higher for some time after that, but did not always result in “complete recovery.” Other studies found greater empathy and fewer feelings of relationship burnout in couples after therapy. Some research suggests that Imago therapy can aid individuals as well as couples; people with ADHD in particular may benefit from the development of communication, self-control, and listening skills that form the basis of the technique.