Infidelity Therapists in Minnetonka, MN

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Chase Claflin
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC, CSAT
1 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55345
Do you find yourself hiding infidelity, compulsively using pornography, shutting down and getting defensive in conflict, or struggling being open and honest in your relationships?
You may have been in therapy in the past, feeling like the therapist doesn't get you or you can't be fully honest. I utilize specialty trainings in sex addiction and intimacy disorders and we will work together to rebuild trust in relationships, address underlying factors that contribute to your pain, and open yourself up to intimacy.
Do you find yourself hiding infidelity, compulsively using pornography, shutting down and getting defensive in conflict, or struggling being open and honest in your relationships?
You may have been in therapy in the past, feeling like the therapist doesn't get you or you can't be fully honest. I utilize specialty trainings in sex addiction and intimacy disorders and we will work together to rebuild trust in relationships, address underlying factors that contribute to your pain, and open yourself up to intimacy.
(952) 230-1677 View (952) 230-1677
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Lindsay Johnson
Pre-Licensed Professional
1 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55305
I hope to be a source of light, hope, and comfort to people walking through life's valleys. I believe fear, guilt, and shame often drive much of our suffering, and I delight in helping people break the chains of their false beliefs and identities and experience the truth and love that sets us free. I am here to assure you that you need not walk this road alone, you are not trapped, and you are not powerless in the face of the challenges life has thrown at you. For those willing, I love to bring Jesus into the healing process, as I believe He is the ultimate healer.
I hope to be a source of light, hope, and comfort to people walking through life's valleys. I believe fear, guilt, and shame often drive much of our suffering, and I delight in helping people break the chains of their false beliefs and identities and experience the truth and love that sets us free. I am here to assure you that you need not walk this road alone, you are not trapped, and you are not powerless in the face of the challenges life has thrown at you. For those willing, I love to bring Jesus into the healing process, as I believe He is the ultimate healer.
(952) 592-4965 View (952) 592-4965
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Heather Heide
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT
Minnetonka, MN 55345
Waitlist for new clients
The work is in the subtleties and nuances that many face with betrayal trauma and addictions.
Relationships are the guiding forces in our lives for connection and where we learn to create meaning. I have built my practice exploring the unique needs of people struggling with the complexities of trauma and addictions. I have learned to understand the nuances and struggles that couples and families face in the discovery process of addictions as well as the daily impacts of living with secrets. Moving beyond secrets can be a difficult, but I can help guide you through it in an efficient and thoughtful manner. I believe change is collaborative process where trust, laughter, and safety are essential to the therapeutic journey.
The work is in the subtleties and nuances that many face with betrayal trauma and addictions.
Relationships are the guiding forces in our lives for connection and where we learn to create meaning. I have built my practice exploring the unique needs of people struggling with the complexities of trauma and addictions. I have learned to understand the nuances and struggles that couples and families face in the discovery process of addictions as well as the daily impacts of living with secrets. Moving beyond secrets can be a difficult, but I can help guide you through it in an efficient and thoughtful manner. I believe change is collaborative process where trust, laughter, and safety are essential to the therapeutic journey.
(952) 260-9331 View (952) 260-9331
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Ben Hoogland
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Have you experienced the pain and betrayal of infidelity or cheating?
With over 15 years experience as an individual, couples and family therapist, I will guide you through the hard parts of your relationship and teach you skills to express your emotions, feel more connected, and tap into the hope and joy you once felt.
Have you experienced the pain and betrayal of infidelity or cheating?
With over 15 years experience as an individual, couples and family therapist, I will guide you through the hard parts of your relationship and teach you skills to express your emotions, feel more connected, and tap into the hope and joy you once felt.
(651) 321-0601 View (651) 321-0601
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Caroline Hoppmann
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Caroline is the perfect fit for clients that are looking for a more relaxed, new-age, and open-minded approach to therapy. She is not stuffy or dull at all. She’s a perfect blend of calming yogi, curious friend, and passionate professional.
Caroline is the perfect fit for clients that are looking for a more relaxed, new-age, and open-minded approach to therapy. She is not stuffy or dull at all. She’s a perfect blend of calming yogi, curious friend, and passionate professional.
(952) 658-7168 View (952) 658-7168
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Mark A. Glover
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
6 Endorsed
Serves Area
I'm Mark Glover. As someone who has benefited from the services that I now provide, I know that Relationship Counseling is hard work that involves courage as well as commitment. I have also observed how it can be a powerful impetus for hope and a tool to precipitate change, even in the middle of very challenging circumstances. In the context of working with couples, my goal is to help partners to connect more deeply to themselves and to each other through communication and caring.
I'm Mark Glover. As someone who has benefited from the services that I now provide, I know that Relationship Counseling is hard work that involves courage as well as commitment. I have also observed how it can be a powerful impetus for hope and a tool to precipitate change, even in the middle of very challenging circumstances. In the context of working with couples, my goal is to help partners to connect more deeply to themselves and to each other through communication and caring.
(612) 260-4551 View (612) 260-4551
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Kerin Logstrom
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Serves Area
I help couples heal from infidelity.
I believe that the key to a successful therapeutic experience is the strength and quality of the relationship between the client and the therapist. Building trust and rapport is where we start. My experience as a psychotherapist has affirmed my belief that each of us has a great capacity to change and grow. I specialize in working with clients to process emotional pain that has resulted from different stressors that occur through the life cycle. Developing one's emotional awareness can result in more intimate, loving relationships.
I help couples heal from infidelity.
I believe that the key to a successful therapeutic experience is the strength and quality of the relationship between the client and the therapist. Building trust and rapport is where we start. My experience as a psychotherapist has affirmed my belief that each of us has a great capacity to change and grow. I specialize in working with clients to process emotional pain that has resulted from different stressors that occur through the life cycle. Developing one's emotional awareness can result in more intimate, loving relationships.
(612) 354-8932 View (612) 354-8932
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Andrew Charles Hey
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPCC
Minnetonka, MN 55345
Hello! My name is Andrew and thanks for considering my profile. Reaching out to a therapist can be intimidating, especially when you are feeling stressed or unhappy. The first thing you should know about me is that I am laid-back, informal, and nonjudgmental; I just refuse to be the cold, clinical therapist-type! I will work hard to establish a real connection with you and to create a truly safe and compassionate environment for new insight, growth and healing. I believe the most important part of therapy is the alliance between therapist and client; if we don’t have a strong connection, sessions aren’t as effective.
Hello! My name is Andrew and thanks for considering my profile. Reaching out to a therapist can be intimidating, especially when you are feeling stressed or unhappy. The first thing you should know about me is that I am laid-back, informal, and nonjudgmental; I just refuse to be the cold, clinical therapist-type! I will work hard to establish a real connection with you and to create a truly safe and compassionate environment for new insight, growth and healing. I believe the most important part of therapy is the alliance between therapist and client; if we don’t have a strong connection, sessions aren’t as effective.
(763) 575-8189 View (763) 575-8189
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Birch Counseling Walk-In Clinic
Verified Verified
Minnetonka, MN 55343
You struggle in your relationship, or your doctor handed you a terrible diagnosis. Maybe there is something important you need to talk about, but you don't know who you can trust. On some days, it may feel your mind is spiraling out of control. Getting out of bed may have become so much more difficult lately. You experience dread too much of the time. You feel alone and sometimes wonder "what is the point?" You can't seem to get around to doing what needs to get done. People are constantly on your case. You seem to be your own worst enemy. You don't want your friends or partner to know this one bad thing about you.
You struggle in your relationship, or your doctor handed you a terrible diagnosis. Maybe there is something important you need to talk about, but you don't know who you can trust. On some days, it may feel your mind is spiraling out of control. Getting out of bed may have become so much more difficult lately. You experience dread too much of the time. You feel alone and sometimes wonder "what is the point?" You can't seem to get around to doing what needs to get done. People are constantly on your case. You seem to be your own worst enemy. You don't want your friends or partner to know this one bad thing about you.
(952) 800-7920 View (952) 800-7920
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Ira Shai
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55305
People say you are a good person with a perfect life, yet you don't feel like it. People say it will work out, yet nothing changes. Some people even say you should wait it out, pray it off, or let it be, yet your heart is not letting you forget about it. In the end, you feel alone. You may feel afraid or ashamed to even talk about it with people close to you. You wonder if others will truly understand you and your situation. You struggle to open up because you do not want to be judged. And I get it.
People say you are a good person with a perfect life, yet you don't feel like it. People say it will work out, yet nothing changes. Some people even say you should wait it out, pray it off, or let it be, yet your heart is not letting you forget about it. In the end, you feel alone. You may feel afraid or ashamed to even talk about it with people close to you. You wonder if others will truly understand you and your situation. You struggle to open up because you do not want to be judged. And I get it.
(651) 927-4414 View (651) 927-4414
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Sheri Solheim VanderZwaag
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
If you’re struggling to get a good night’s rest, feeling disconnected from your life, worrying about everything under the sun, or feeling nervous about normal daily activities, you are not alone. These are just a few of the common struggles that many people deal with on a daily basis. Humans have an amazing ability to heal. It is possible to make changes that lead you to living your personal best life.
If you’re struggling to get a good night’s rest, feeling disconnected from your life, worrying about everything under the sun, or feeling nervous about normal daily activities, you are not alone. These are just a few of the common struggles that many people deal with on a daily basis. Humans have an amazing ability to heal. It is possible to make changes that lead you to living your personal best life.
(952) 522-2334 View (952) 522-2334
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Brooke A Topalof
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Whether you're faced with relationship concerns or individual issues, I will help you work through them. I believe you have the answers within you and my role is to help you tap into them. You know yourself best but sometimes it's hard to sort through problems, especially when they're causing stress or depression. I use a collaborative approach to counseling and teach clients strategies to improve their outlook on life. The duration of therapy will depend on the goals identified and your motivation to make changes. I will walk alongside you and encourage your progress without pressuring.
Whether you're faced with relationship concerns or individual issues, I will help you work through them. I believe you have the answers within you and my role is to help you tap into them. You know yourself best but sometimes it's hard to sort through problems, especially when they're causing stress or depression. I use a collaborative approach to counseling and teach clients strategies to improve their outlook on life. The duration of therapy will depend on the goals identified and your motivation to make changes. I will walk alongside you and encourage your progress without pressuring.
(651) 964-0985 View (651) 964-0985
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Lois Fischer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Minnetonka, MN 55305
I’m a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 20 years of experience helping individuals, couples, and families navigate life’s challenges. Reaching out for support doesn’t mean you’re “sick, bad, stupid, or crazy.” It means you’re human. We all feel stuck at times, and those moments can bring on feelings of hopelessness or overwhelm. You don’t have to face that alone. I offer a safe, nonjudgmental, and trauma-informed space where you can explore what’s holding you back and begin to move toward the change you desire. Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or seeking deeper connection, I’m here to help you find clarity,
I’m a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 20 years of experience helping individuals, couples, and families navigate life’s challenges. Reaching out for support doesn’t mean you’re “sick, bad, stupid, or crazy.” It means you’re human. We all feel stuck at times, and those moments can bring on feelings of hopelessness or overwhelm. You don’t have to face that alone. I offer a safe, nonjudgmental, and trauma-informed space where you can explore what’s holding you back and begin to move toward the change you desire. Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or seeking deeper connection, I’m here to help you find clarity,
(952) 592-9736 x103 View (952) 592-9736 x103
Photo of Sara Schilplin - Sonder Behavioral Health & Wellness, Psychologist
We believe emotional wellness matters (a lot), and that everyone has the right to make it a priority. Unfortunately, it’s not always that simple. So many questions can get in the way. Maybe you’ve even asked them yourself: Is this normal? Can talking to someone really help me? What is therapy all about, anyway? What would people say if they knew I was going? How do I find the right therapist? Will I be comfortable there? When will I find the time? Will my insurance pay for this? If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. And we can help. To learn more, visit www.sonderwellness.com
We believe emotional wellness matters (a lot), and that everyone has the right to make it a priority. Unfortunately, it’s not always that simple. So many questions can get in the way. Maybe you’ve even asked them yourself: Is this normal? Can talking to someone really help me? What is therapy all about, anyway? What would people say if they knew I was going? How do I find the right therapist? Will I be comfortable there? When will I find the time? Will my insurance pay for this? If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. And we can help. To learn more, visit www.sonderwellness.com
(952) 260-8673 View (952) 260-8673
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Valerie Marsh
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Online Only
The worry and sadness that you may be experiencing in dealing with anxiety, depression, emotionally abusive relationships, infidelity, divorce, grief, and or loss can be alleviated.
As a positive psychology based therapist, I am committed to supporting you with intuitive guidance, so that you can heal from past and feel joyful about life again! I am confident that with my down-to-earth and uplifting approach, we can work together to empower you to achieve your own personal goals for change, with individual and/or couple's counseling.
The worry and sadness that you may be experiencing in dealing with anxiety, depression, emotionally abusive relationships, infidelity, divorce, grief, and or loss can be alleviated.
As a positive psychology based therapist, I am committed to supporting you with intuitive guidance, so that you can heal from past and feel joyful about life again! I am confident that with my down-to-earth and uplifting approach, we can work together to empower you to achieve your own personal goals for change, with individual and/or couple's counseling.
(763) 325-9785 View (763) 325-9785
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David S Alter
Psychologist, PhD, ABPP, ABPH, LP
Minnetonka, MN 55305
Are you interested in how to use the connections between your mind, brain and body to improve your health, enrich your relationships, and increase your overall life? Working with these connections has been the focus of my 35 years of practice as a psychologist. Since every client's presenting concern in some way or another impacts upon their brain, their mind and their body - whether that involves depression, anxiety, pain, sleep, relationship challenges, or digestive concerns - my orientation to therapy is well positioned to help people get better now and to be better positioned to stay healthier in the future.
Are you interested in how to use the connections between your mind, brain and body to improve your health, enrich your relationships, and increase your overall life? Working with these connections has been the focus of my 35 years of practice as a psychologist. Since every client's presenting concern in some way or another impacts upon their brain, their mind and their body - whether that involves depression, anxiety, pain, sleep, relationship challenges, or digestive concerns - my orientation to therapy is well positioned to help people get better now and to be better positioned to stay healthier in the future.
(763) 400-5950 View (763) 400-5950
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Melissa Kokales
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC
Online Only
Navigating life’s challenges can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to do it alone. I specialize in working with adults (18+) and couples who are seeking to create a richer, more meaningful life. Starting therapy is a courageous first step and I am here to provide a safe, supportive space for you to explore what is holding you back. Whether you’re struggling with depression, anxiety, relationship issues, life transitions, or simply feeling stuck, I’m here to help you reconnect with your values and find more peace, purpose, and joy in your daily life.
Navigating life’s challenges can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to do it alone. I specialize in working with adults (18+) and couples who are seeking to create a richer, more meaningful life. Starting therapy is a courageous first step and I am here to provide a safe, supportive space for you to explore what is holding you back. Whether you’re struggling with depression, anxiety, relationship issues, life transitions, or simply feeling stuck, I’m here to help you reconnect with your values and find more peace, purpose, and joy in your daily life.
(612) 482-2524 View (612) 482-2524
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Callie Papa
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Minnetonka, MN 55345
You want to feel confident in yourself and in your relationships. You want the past to stay in the past so that you can live a more fulfilling life today and tomorrow - you’re ready to STOP the patterns that hurt you most and feel like your authentic self once again. You don't have to feel stuck in relationships any more - You deserve relationships that feel good!
You want to feel confident in yourself and in your relationships. You want the past to stay in the past so that you can live a more fulfilling life today and tomorrow - you’re ready to STOP the patterns that hurt you most and feel like your authentic self once again. You don't have to feel stuck in relationships any more - You deserve relationships that feel good!
(952) 230-0709 View (952) 230-0709
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Kerri Shear
Psychologist, MA, LP, PhD
Online Only
Accepting new clients. I have over 25 years of experience in providing therapy for individuals and couples, career counseling, and executive coaching. Life can feel overwhelming. It’s easy to feel isolated, anxious, or depressed—bombarded by nonstop information, carrying unresolved pain, or triggered by past experiences that still affect your present. I help you sort through the confusion so you can better understand yourself, heal, and develop practical tools to manage what you’re facing. I use EMDR to support trauma recovery.
Accepting new clients. I have over 25 years of experience in providing therapy for individuals and couples, career counseling, and executive coaching. Life can feel overwhelming. It’s easy to feel isolated, anxious, or depressed—bombarded by nonstop information, carrying unresolved pain, or triggered by past experiences that still affect your present. I help you sort through the confusion so you can better understand yourself, heal, and develop practical tools to manage what you’re facing. I use EMDR to support trauma recovery.
(612) 223-7589 View (612) 223-7589
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Laura Martha Hanley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Minnetonka, MN 55345
You're looking for a therapist who doesn't have pat answers, who knows how to listen, and who doesn't have a profile written by ChatGPT. Certified trauma therapist. Keenly interested in your wild backstory as well as the protective factors that have gotten you this far. I work Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays and offer in-person as well as online options. Evening appointments are available on a first-come, first-serve basis.
You're looking for a therapist who doesn't have pat answers, who knows how to listen, and who doesn't have a profile written by ChatGPT. Certified trauma therapist. Keenly interested in your wild backstory as well as the protective factors that have gotten you this far. I work Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays and offer in-person as well as online options. Evening appointments are available on a first-come, first-serve basis.
(320) 373-6137 x100 View (320) 373-6137 x100

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.