Sex Therapists in Mendota Heights, MN

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Scharlemann Klapste
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Serves Area
Do you feel like it's hard to keep up? Our world is changing fast and dynamically. Does it feel hard to locate yourself in all of it? Do you feel like you ask yourself the same questions over and over: Is this the right relationship? Why does this always happen to me? Why am I anxious or feel depressed ? How am I going to handle this change? I can help you!
Do you feel like it's hard to keep up? Our world is changing fast and dynamically. Does it feel hard to locate yourself in all of it? Do you feel like you ask yourself the same questions over and over: Is this the right relationship? Why does this always happen to me? Why am I anxious or feel depressed ? How am I going to handle this change? I can help you!
(952) 314-5525 View (952) 314-5525
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Colleen Martin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LGSW
Online Only
Looking for a therapist who gets you? Finding the right fit makes all the difference, but what a daunting, exhausting task. So here's my pitch: I believe in meeting you where you are without judgment and remaining flexible in my approach. I prioritize straightforward communication so we can make adjustments that work for you. If you are navigating grief, anxiety, depression, burnout, low self-esteem, or are just feeling stuck, let's talk. But we are more than our issues, so here's who tends to connect well with my approach: animal lovers, child-free folks, secular thinkers, introverts, planners, and out-of-state transplants.
Looking for a therapist who gets you? Finding the right fit makes all the difference, but what a daunting, exhausting task. So here's my pitch: I believe in meeting you where you are without judgment and remaining flexible in my approach. I prioritize straightforward communication so we can make adjustments that work for you. If you are navigating grief, anxiety, depression, burnout, low self-esteem, or are just feeling stuck, let's talk. But we are more than our issues, so here's who tends to connect well with my approach: animal lovers, child-free folks, secular thinkers, introverts, planners, and out-of-state transplants.
(952) 295-4847 View (952) 295-4847
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Mel Day
Counselor, MA, LPCC
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Not accepting new clients
Tired of educating your therapist on your gender and sexuality?
I have experience working with clients through a range of therapeutic modalities, including DBT, EMDR, Attachment Theory, and Trauma-informed frameworks. These techniques help clients to uncover and process emotions, develop self-awareness, and achieve personal and emotional growth.
Tired of educating your therapist on your gender and sexuality?
I have experience working with clients through a range of therapeutic modalities, including DBT, EMDR, Attachment Theory, and Trauma-informed frameworks. These techniques help clients to uncover and process emotions, develop self-awareness, and achieve personal and emotional growth.
(952) 592-1722 View (952) 592-1722

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Adrienne Bendickson
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW, LGSW
1 Endorsed
Plymouth, MN 55441
Adie provides in-person sessions in Plymouth, MN. She has worked with diverse populations, including individuals with developmental and intellectual disabilities, eating disorders, complex trauma histories, and those in long-term care settings. She has a particular passion for supporting young adults and those navigating life transitions. Adie works with clients on relationship concerns, boundary-setting, processing relational and sexual trauma, building self-esteem, and strengthening emotional regulation. Greenhaven Therapy offers in-person services at three locations in Anoka, Lino Lakes, and Plymouth.
Adie provides in-person sessions in Plymouth, MN. She has worked with diverse populations, including individuals with developmental and intellectual disabilities, eating disorders, complex trauma histories, and those in long-term care settings. She has a particular passion for supporting young adults and those navigating life transitions. Adie works with clients on relationship concerns, boundary-setting, processing relational and sexual trauma, building self-esteem, and strengthening emotional regulation. Greenhaven Therapy offers in-person services at three locations in Anoka, Lino Lakes, and Plymouth.
(763) 325-1389 View (763) 325-1389
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Dr. Emma Schmidt
Counselor, PhD, LPCC-S, CST-S
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
I work with individuals and couples who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or worn down, often when sex or intimacy has become stressful instead of connecting.
I help by normalizing and humanizing what you’re experiencing while using evidence-based tools to guide our work. Together, we look at what’s getting in the way of connection and build patterns that fit your real life and relationship. Clients often leave feeling more hopeful, more connected, and better able to sustain intimacy over time.
I work with individuals and couples who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or worn down, often when sex or intimacy has become stressful instead of connecting.
I help by normalizing and humanizing what you’re experiencing while using evidence-based tools to guide our work. Together, we look at what’s getting in the way of connection and build patterns that fit your real life and relationship. Clients often leave feeling more hopeful, more connected, and better able to sustain intimacy over time.
(513) 866-2308 View (513) 866-2308
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Brynne Pass
Marriage & Family Therapist Intern
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
If you are seeking accessible, collaborative, and affirming therapy you're in the right place. I approach therapy from a systemic lens, recognizing that many mental health challenges emerge within the context of our relationships—with others, with ourselves, and with the world around us. Grounded in my experience of therapy's transformative potential, I work alongside clients to explore growth, healing, and connection. I believe that therapy is for everyone especially when approached with openness, curiosity, and a clear sense of purpose.
If you are seeking accessible, collaborative, and affirming therapy you're in the right place. I approach therapy from a systemic lens, recognizing that many mental health challenges emerge within the context of our relationships—with others, with ourselves, and with the world around us. Grounded in my experience of therapy's transformative potential, I work alongside clients to explore growth, healing, and connection. I believe that therapy is for everyone especially when approached with openness, curiosity, and a clear sense of purpose.
(218) 409-6456 View (218) 409-6456
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Eric Fawcett
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Saint Paul, MN 55104
Usually, the thing that brings us to therapy has us feeling stuck. We might feel paralyzed with indecision as parts of our internal selves compete with one another for attention. We might experience recurring conflict with people we care about. We might feel that our identity - our internal self-knowing - is somehow being prevented from fully expressing itself because of messages we receive from family or society. Most often, the reason we seek therapy is some combination of the above, and as a result of our “stuckness” we may feel sadness, despair, anxiety, anger, or an unnerving lack of feeling altogether.
Usually, the thing that brings us to therapy has us feeling stuck. We might feel paralyzed with indecision as parts of our internal selves compete with one another for attention. We might experience recurring conflict with people we care about. We might feel that our identity - our internal self-knowing - is somehow being prevented from fully expressing itself because of messages we receive from family or society. Most often, the reason we seek therapy is some combination of the above, and as a result of our “stuckness” we may feel sadness, despair, anxiety, anger, or an unnerving lack of feeling altogether.
(612) 295-0884 View (612) 295-0884
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Victoria Woodman
Pre-Licensed Professional
1 Endorsed
Plymouth, MN 55441
Life is hard. It's equally hard scrolling through hundreds of therapists trying desperately not to choose the wrong one. My goal is to alleviate some of your anxiety by de-stigmatizing the very real emotions that you are feeling in an authentic, non-judgmental and inclusive environment. I approach therapy with a patient, curious, friendly and emotionally focused lens.
Life is hard. It's equally hard scrolling through hundreds of therapists trying desperately not to choose the wrong one. My goal is to alleviate some of your anxiety by de-stigmatizing the very real emotions that you are feeling in an authentic, non-judgmental and inclusive environment. I approach therapy with a patient, curious, friendly and emotionally focused lens.
(651) 360-2943 x34 View (651) 360-2943 x34
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Joanna Diem
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Golden Valley, MN 55422
I empower couples and individuals to overcome personal obstacles. Areas of special interest include couples and individuals coping with chemical addictions, anxiety & depression, grief & loss, and intimate relationships. I assist my clients to find an understanding of themselves in order to strengthen their connections and their relationships. With deep compassion and no judgment, I welcome all.
I empower couples and individuals to overcome personal obstacles. Areas of special interest include couples and individuals coping with chemical addictions, anxiety & depression, grief & loss, and intimate relationships. I assist my clients to find an understanding of themselves in order to strengthen their connections and their relationships. With deep compassion and no judgment, I welcome all.
(612) 255-9163 View (612) 255-9163
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Finch Mica Houdek
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT-IT
1 Endorsed
Minneapolis, MN 55407
Waitlist for new clients
I work with couples, polycules, families, and individuals on issues including mental illness, identity, body image, sex, systemic barriers, the daily horrors of living under capitalism, and countless other things I can't fit into 640 characters.
Our work together will be warm, affirming, collaborative, and a little lovingly direct when need be. I will honor you as the expert in your own lived experiences. My main approaches are Internal Family Systems and Narrative therapy, which can help you understand and show kindness to young Parts of yourself and take charge of and rewrite your life story.
I work with couples, polycules, families, and individuals on issues including mental illness, identity, body image, sex, systemic barriers, the daily horrors of living under capitalism, and countless other things I can't fit into 640 characters.
Our work together will be warm, affirming, collaborative, and a little lovingly direct when need be. I will honor you as the expert in your own lived experiences. My main approaches are Internal Family Systems and Narrative therapy, which can help you understand and show kindness to young Parts of yourself and take charge of and rewrite your life story.
(715) 557-4476 View (715) 557-4476
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Renee Santoro
License Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC
Golden Valley, MN 55426
Ever feel like you are constantly using ineffective coping to feel better, such as using sex, substances, and mindless scrolling on your phone?
I prioritize creating a safe space in therapy where you feel heard, understood, and challenged to lead a more fulfilling life. I use a combination of strengths-based, skills-focused approaches to help you understand patterns in your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that are ineffective for you.
Ever feel like you are constantly using ineffective coping to feel better, such as using sex, substances, and mindless scrolling on your phone?
I prioritize creating a safe space in therapy where you feel heard, understood, and challenged to lead a more fulfilling life. I use a combination of strengths-based, skills-focused approaches to help you understand patterns in your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that are ineffective for you.
(651) 384-0389 View (651) 384-0389
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Julie E. Schmit
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
Minneapolis, MN 55406
As an AASECT certified sex therapist, RLT certified couples therapist, and Discernment Counselor, I know, relationship & sexual problems can deplete your ability to take pleasure in life.
I'm a twice-certified sex therapist, and certified couples therapist; dedicated to helping people untangle and heal their relationship problems. Clients come to me looking for a seasoned therapist who's skilled, with a compassionate, body-centered, experiential approach. Sessions with me are insightful, fulfilling and sometimes even fun & exhilarating.
As an AASECT certified sex therapist, RLT certified couples therapist, and Discernment Counselor, I know, relationship & sexual problems can deplete your ability to take pleasure in life.
I'm a twice-certified sex therapist, and certified couples therapist; dedicated to helping people untangle and heal their relationship problems. Clients come to me looking for a seasoned therapist who's skilled, with a compassionate, body-centered, experiential approach. Sessions with me are insightful, fulfilling and sometimes even fun & exhilarating.
(612) 324-1978 View (612) 324-1978
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Margaret Flaget-Greener
Psychologist, PsyD, MEd, LP, CST
2 Endorsed
Edina, MN 55424
Waitlist for new clients
I’m a licensed psychologist and an AASECT-certified sex therapist, and my passion is helping people understand and improve their sexual health and relationships.
Sexuality is connected to many areas of our lives—our relationships, self-esteem, stress levels, and overall well-being. I also work with people navigating life transitions, relationship challenges, anxiety, depression, co-dependency, and personal growth. I’m here to help you address these intersections of sexuality, life, and emotional well-being.
I’m a licensed psychologist and an AASECT-certified sex therapist, and my passion is helping people understand and improve their sexual health and relationships.
Sexuality is connected to many areas of our lives—our relationships, self-esteem, stress levels, and overall well-being. I also work with people navigating life transitions, relationship challenges, anxiety, depression, co-dependency, and personal growth. I’m here to help you address these intersections of sexuality, life, and emotional well-being.
(651) 424-1699 View (651) 424-1699
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Claudia Wood
Counselor, MA, LPCC, LMHC, PMH-C
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Meet Claudia, a sassy boss babe who survives off of memes, froyo, and dark humor. I am sassy, knowledgeable, and will be straight to the point with you. This is your time so I want you to use it the way you want. Most of my clients are in transitions, such as coming out as LGBTQIA+, having babies, or changing their relationship style (poly/ENM). I also work with clients who have religious trauma and have struggled with purity culture. I am neurodiverse-affirming and love helping find ways to make your brain work for you instead of against you.
Meet Claudia, a sassy boss babe who survives off of memes, froyo, and dark humor. I am sassy, knowledgeable, and will be straight to the point with you. This is your time so I want you to use it the way you want. Most of my clients are in transitions, such as coming out as LGBTQIA+, having babies, or changing their relationship style (poly/ENM). I also work with clients who have religious trauma and have struggled with purity culture. I am neurodiverse-affirming and love helping find ways to make your brain work for you instead of against you.
(612) 712-6584 View (612) 712-6584
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Amanda Ripley-Kayala
Counselor, MA, LPCC, LADC, EMDR
3 Endorsed
South Saint Paul, MN 55075
Waitlist for new clients
I am grounded in Trauma-Informed Care and Sex Therapy, while also drawing from Queer Theory and Intersectionality to understand how overlapping identities impact mental health and sexual well-being, creating a space that is both emotionally safe and nonjudgmental.
I help clients process traumatic memories using methods from psychotherapy such as somatic techniques, EMDR, or parts work; Address issues like low desire, pain during sex, shame, or difficulty with intimacy through a sex-positive, education-based lens; Support clients in reconnecting with their bodies, often emphasizing consent, agency, an pacing.
I am grounded in Trauma-Informed Care and Sex Therapy, while also drawing from Queer Theory and Intersectionality to understand how overlapping identities impact mental health and sexual well-being, creating a space that is both emotionally safe and nonjudgmental.
I help clients process traumatic memories using methods from psychotherapy such as somatic techniques, EMDR, or parts work; Address issues like low desire, pain during sex, shame, or difficulty with intimacy through a sex-positive, education-based lens; Support clients in reconnecting with their bodies, often emphasizing consent, agency, an pacing.
(952) 649-5978 View (952) 649-5978
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Paige Wegner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Minnetonka, MN 55345
Hey there! Life can be overwhelming, stressful, and just flat out HARD. So, let's talk (or maybe even yell) about it. I truly believe healing doesn’t have to be boring, intimidating, or filled with endless “how does that make you feel” questions (though I might throw in one or two). My passion is helping real people navigate real challenges. I pride myself on providing a safe and non-judgmental space for you to process life experiences and emotions. I believe in autonomy and will give you the space to flourish within sessions.
Hey there! Life can be overwhelming, stressful, and just flat out HARD. So, let's talk (or maybe even yell) about it. I truly believe healing doesn’t have to be boring, intimidating, or filled with endless “how does that make you feel” questions (though I might throw in one or two). My passion is helping real people navigate real challenges. I pride myself on providing a safe and non-judgmental space for you to process life experiences and emotions. I believe in autonomy and will give you the space to flourish within sessions.
(763) 373-6777 View (763) 373-6777
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Holly Nelson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Online Only
Maybe you grew up with shame around sex, never learned how to talk about your needs, or have been avoiding intimacy because of pain, anxiety, trauma, or pressure.
I help individuals and couples with sexual trauma, painful sex, low desire, erectile dysfunction, and sexual anxiety rebuild both emotional and physical intimacy. My approach is trauma-informed, queer-and kink-affirming, and tailored to your unique needs using EMDR, sex therapy-informed approaches, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and sensate focus.
Maybe you grew up with shame around sex, never learned how to talk about your needs, or have been avoiding intimacy because of pain, anxiety, trauma, or pressure.
I help individuals and couples with sexual trauma, painful sex, low desire, erectile dysfunction, and sexual anxiety rebuild both emotional and physical intimacy. My approach is trauma-informed, queer-and kink-affirming, and tailored to your unique needs using EMDR, sex therapy-informed approaches, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and sensate focus.
(612) 416-6223 View (612) 416-6223
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Calvin Hauer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
7 Endorsed
Minneapolis, MN 55408
My major focus in work relates to sex and sexuality.
I have worked with in sex education and sexuality for the past 15 years. My specialty is with small community concerns regarding sexuality as well as identity development with clients regarding sexuality. You don't need to educate me on the legitimacy of your sexuality, relationship, and/or relationship with kink.
My major focus in work relates to sex and sexuality.
I have worked with in sex education and sexuality for the past 15 years. My specialty is with small community concerns regarding sexuality as well as identity development with clients regarding sexuality. You don't need to educate me on the legitimacy of your sexuality, relationship, and/or relationship with kink.
(612) 808-0249 View (612) 808-0249
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Crystal Nesfield
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CST, SEP, EMDR
11 Endorsed
Serves Area
I'm a Certified Sex Therapist and trauma specialist in Phoenix, AZ.
I work with people of all genders, sexual identities, and relationship structures — including those navigating desire concerns after trauma, attachment wounds, and relational patterns that feel stuck no matter how much insight you have.
I'm a Certified Sex Therapist and trauma specialist in Phoenix, AZ.
I work with people of all genders, sexual identities, and relationship structures — including those navigating desire concerns after trauma, attachment wounds, and relational patterns that feel stuck no matter how much insight you have.
(602) 641-2913 View (602) 641-2913
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Rashida K. Fisher
Counselor, PhD, LPCC, LADC
1 Endorsed
Minneapolis, MN 55411
Waitlist for new clients
There are times when the tasks of life seem insurmountable and too much to bear. I take a practical approach to counseling that is grounded in honesty, humor, non-judgment, and personal reflection. Sankofa means "It is not forbidden to go back and fetch what you forgot". Our past experiences, family history, and beliefs and values contribute to how we manage life's challenges. Looking to your past uncovers valuable lessons. I believe that positive change occurs through building on the individual's strength and focusing on the power of relationship, and past success as the primary source of healing and personal growth.
There are times when the tasks of life seem insurmountable and too much to bear. I take a practical approach to counseling that is grounded in honesty, humor, non-judgment, and personal reflection. Sankofa means "It is not forbidden to go back and fetch what you forgot". Our past experiences, family history, and beliefs and values contribute to how we manage life's challenges. Looking to your past uncovers valuable lessons. I believe that positive change occurs through building on the individual's strength and focusing on the power of relationship, and past success as the primary source of healing and personal growth.
(612) 662-0347 View (612) 662-0347

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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.