LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapists in Grand Rapids, MN
Many of the people I work with feel like they’ve been holding everything together on the outside while quietly falling apart on the inside. They’re carrying the weight of old experiences, navigating relationship stress, or feeling overwhelmed by emotions that seem too big to manage. They often feel stuck in patterns they can’t name or disconnected from themselves and the people they care about. My approach is warm, steady, and collaborative—focused on helping you understand your patterns and reconnect with yourself.
Many of the people I work with feel like they’ve been holding everything together on the outside while quietly falling apart on the inside. They’re carrying the weight of old experiences, navigating relationship stress, or feeling overwhelmed by emotions that seem too big to manage. They often feel stuck in patterns they can’t name or disconnected from themselves and the people they care about. My approach is warm, steady, and collaborative—focused on helping you understand your patterns and reconnect with yourself.
More than just a way to capture attention, the spelling of Inner Fōkus also carries a personal meaning to the founders. The name is a nod to the German heritage shared by both Dr. Lori and Dr. Patrick, since “fōkus” is the correct spelling of “focus” in German. Our heritage, culture, and environment can have great impacts in shaping who we are. Our name, Inner Fōkus, also serves as a prominent reminder of the importance to occasionally break from current patterns and try new things.
More than just a way to capture attention, the spelling of Inner Fōkus also carries a personal meaning to the founders. The name is a nod to the German heritage shared by both Dr. Lori and Dr. Patrick, since “fōkus” is the correct spelling of “focus” in German. Our heritage, culture, and environment can have great impacts in shaping who we are. Our name, Inner Fōkus, also serves as a prominent reminder of the importance to occasionally break from current patterns and try new things.
From the outside, you look completely put together and on-top of it: showing up for work, parenting, answering emails, doing “all the things.” But inside, you’re exhausted. You’re constantly overthinking, second-guessing, and running on fumes. You might wonder if ADHD or Autism is part of the picture or if you’re just burned out from juggling too much for too long. You don't have to struggle alone.
From the outside, you look completely put together and on-top of it: showing up for work, parenting, answering emails, doing “all the things.” But inside, you’re exhausted. You’re constantly overthinking, second-guessing, and running on fumes. You might wonder if ADHD or Autism is part of the picture or if you’re just burned out from juggling too much for too long. You don't have to struggle alone.
My work is socially informed and responsive to the systemic and community factors shaping the experiences of BIPOC, immigrant, and LGBTQIA+ individuals.
I support clients facing trauma, PTSD, grief, attachment challenges, personality issues, and neurodivergence. Using holistic, trauma-informed, strengths-based, and person-centered approaches, I provide guidance and support for all clients, fostering healing, resilience, and self-awareness.
My work is socially informed and responsive to the systemic and community factors shaping the experiences of BIPOC, immigrant, and LGBTQIA+ individuals.
I support clients facing trauma, PTSD, grief, attachment challenges, personality issues, and neurodivergence. Using holistic, trauma-informed, strengths-based, and person-centered approaches, I provide guidance and support for all clients, fostering healing, resilience, and self-awareness.
My ideal clients are women, young adults, parents, and caregivers who feel stuck in patterns that no longer serve them, especially in relationships. Often, they come to therapy feeling exhausted by repeating the same cycles, unsure how to move forward, or disconnected from themselves and their needs. They may be leaving or healing from difficult relationships, adjusting to life transitions, or trying to better understand why they feel the way they do. In our work together, we will focus on building insight, increasing self-awareness, and gently working through the emotions and patterns that feel hard to shift.
My ideal clients are women, young adults, parents, and caregivers who feel stuck in patterns that no longer serve them, especially in relationships. Often, they come to therapy feeling exhausted by repeating the same cycles, unsure how to move forward, or disconnected from themselves and their needs. They may be leaving or healing from difficult relationships, adjusting to life transitions, or trying to better understand why they feel the way they do. In our work together, we will focus on building insight, increasing self-awareness, and gently working through the emotions and patterns that feel hard to shift.
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I have felt honored to serve individuals (teens/adult men/adult women) and families (specifically children and parents from birth-5, adoptive/foster caregivers, families working with county based services, or grandparents raising grandchildren) who are experiencing or have experienced traumas that have left them with feelings of attachment disconnect in relationships, struggles with their sense of identity, worth, value or self compassion, difficult/painful life transitions, or the isolation/loneliness that can come with that awful question we sometimes hear our brain ask our hearts: is it just me?
I have felt honored to serve individuals (teens/adult men/adult women) and families (specifically children and parents from birth-5, adoptive/foster caregivers, families working with county based services, or grandparents raising grandchildren) who are experiencing or have experienced traumas that have left them with feelings of attachment disconnect in relationships, struggles with their sense of identity, worth, value or self compassion, difficult/painful life transitions, or the isolation/loneliness that can come with that awful question we sometimes hear our brain ask our hearts: is it just me?
In the last 27 years I have worked with clients who have sought to make changes in their lives. I have extensive experience in the areas of depression, anxiety, trauma, life transitions, relationship issues and grief and loss. My passion is helping individuals, families and couples find ways which support the desired growth and change they are seeking. I focus on individual, couple or family strengths brought into sessions as a building place for the onset of healing and change to take place. My collaborative and straightforward approach with clients has empowered them to take needed steps to achieve their goals.
In the last 27 years I have worked with clients who have sought to make changes in their lives. I have extensive experience in the areas of depression, anxiety, trauma, life transitions, relationship issues and grief and loss. My passion is helping individuals, families and couples find ways which support the desired growth and change they are seeking. I focus on individual, couple or family strengths brought into sessions as a building place for the onset of healing and change to take place. My collaborative and straightforward approach with clients has empowered them to take needed steps to achieve their goals.
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At our clinic, we offer clinical settings for services over a lifetime. Our adolescent and adult program considers it a privilege to partner with clients in processing and moving through their journey to healing, well-being, and self-actualization. Keeping an open mind and being utterly nonjudgmental while working with others is important. Our style is very open and fluid. We respect each person as unique and feel excited by the many facets of human diversity daily. We are comfortable working with individuals, children, and families dealing with various stressors and/or presenting with different mental concerns.
At our clinic, we offer clinical settings for services over a lifetime. Our adolescent and adult program considers it a privilege to partner with clients in processing and moving through their journey to healing, well-being, and self-actualization. Keeping an open mind and being utterly nonjudgmental while working with others is important. Our style is very open and fluid. We respect each person as unique and feel excited by the many facets of human diversity daily. We are comfortable working with individuals, children, and families dealing with various stressors and/or presenting with different mental concerns.
I'm a strengths-based therapist that loves working collaboratively with LGBTQIA2S+ teens or adults struggling with identity issues, depression, past trauma, general or social anxiety, socially or medically transitioning, or the ways in which others perceive them. I also find my relationship work to be meaningful, whether it is working with individuals who are trying to be better communicators, or with monogamous/ethically non-monogamous couples who are trying to improve communication, manage conflict in more effective and conducive ways, or reignite the romance and intimacy in their relationship.
I'm a strengths-based therapist that loves working collaboratively with LGBTQIA2S+ teens or adults struggling with identity issues, depression, past trauma, general or social anxiety, socially or medically transitioning, or the ways in which others perceive them. I also find my relationship work to be meaningful, whether it is working with individuals who are trying to be better communicators, or with monogamous/ethically non-monogamous couples who are trying to improve communication, manage conflict in more effective and conducive ways, or reignite the romance and intimacy in their relationship.
Many of my clients are accomplished people — individuals, couples, and families — who find themselves quietly unsettled despite doing everything right. Not in crisis. Just aware that something beneath the surface is asking for attention.
They come in carrying burnout, strained relationships, significant life transitions, or experiences that have left lasting marks. Together we slow things down, look honestly at what's driving the experience, and build a path forward that's genuinely theirs — not just the next logical step. Good therapy is rarely about fixing something. It's about seeing more clearly.
Many of my clients are accomplished people — individuals, couples, and families — who find themselves quietly unsettled despite doing everything right. Not in crisis. Just aware that something beneath the surface is asking for attention.
They come in carrying burnout, strained relationships, significant life transitions, or experiences that have left lasting marks. Together we slow things down, look honestly at what's driving the experience, and build a path forward that's genuinely theirs — not just the next logical step. Good therapy is rarely about fixing something. It's about seeing more clearly.
As a therapist and licensed Methodist clergy, I believe in a holistic approach to healing—caring for the mind, soul, and body.
I specialize in supporting individuals through grief, anxiety, and depression, as well as those navigating the journey of having a disability (I'm fluent in ASL). LGBTQI+ identity and expression is a specialty of mine, parenting frustrations, adjustment disorders, adoption or just navigating the times we live in.
I also enjoy working in the area of religion, spirituality or deconstructing a faith tradition which no longer serves you.
Give me a call! See if we are a good fit!
As a therapist and licensed Methodist clergy, I believe in a holistic approach to healing—caring for the mind, soul, and body.
I specialize in supporting individuals through grief, anxiety, and depression, as well as those navigating the journey of having a disability (I'm fluent in ASL). LGBTQI+ identity and expression is a specialty of mine, parenting frustrations, adjustment disorders, adoption or just navigating the times we live in.
I also enjoy working in the area of religion, spirituality or deconstructing a faith tradition which no longer serves you.
Give me a call! See if we are a good fit!
I am a queer therapist and love working with those with diverse cultural backgrounds, sexual and gender orientations, and religious preferences.
I have experience in working with individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, ADHD, and working through difficult life transitions. I am passionate about working with those in the LGBTQIA+ community and utilize cognitive behavioral therapy, multigenerational family systems and feminist therapeutic approaches.
I am a queer therapist and love working with those with diverse cultural backgrounds, sexual and gender orientations, and religious preferences.
I have experience in working with individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, ADHD, and working through difficult life transitions. I am passionate about working with those in the LGBTQIA+ community and utilize cognitive behavioral therapy, multigenerational family systems and feminist therapeutic approaches.
As a person centered therapist Hannah strives to integrate evidence-based practices using a compassionate and a trauma-informed approach. Her goal is to create a safe non-judgemental environment to address areas of concern for her clients. She believes that each individual deserves respect, dignity, and the opportunity for growth and healing regardless of their background. She is passionate about advocating for the LGBTQ+ community and helping individuals navigate the complexities of identity and societal stigma.
As a person centered therapist Hannah strives to integrate evidence-based practices using a compassionate and a trauma-informed approach. Her goal is to create a safe non-judgemental environment to address areas of concern for her clients. She believes that each individual deserves respect, dignity, and the opportunity for growth and healing regardless of their background. She is passionate about advocating for the LGBTQ+ community and helping individuals navigate the complexities of identity and societal stigma.
Welcome! My name is Leah DeBoer (they/she pronouns), and I am happy to congratulate you on making a big step towards healing and wellness! As a therapist, I strongly believe in personalizing my approach to your specific needs, personality, and preferences. I believe in building a strong relationship because truthfully sharing vulnerable information requires trust. This is especially true for working through trauma and trauma responses - I do not expect you to share your entire trauma history day one of working together. I believe in judgement free practice where you come exactly as you are, and I will meet you where you are at.
Welcome! My name is Leah DeBoer (they/she pronouns), and I am happy to congratulate you on making a big step towards healing and wellness! As a therapist, I strongly believe in personalizing my approach to your specific needs, personality, and preferences. I believe in building a strong relationship because truthfully sharing vulnerable information requires trust. This is especially true for working through trauma and trauma responses - I do not expect you to share your entire trauma history day one of working together. I believe in judgement free practice where you come exactly as you are, and I will meet you where you are at.
Thank you for arriving here with me. Whether you are experiencing past trauma that is resurfacing, the weight of burnout, or the quiet exhaustion that comes from always being the strong one, you deserve a space to slow down and reconnect with yourself. I help adults (18+) explore their inner worlds with compassion and curiosity. Clients often come to me navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, burnout, self-esteem challenges, self-identity or major life transitions like loss of a loved one, breakup/divorce or perimenopause/menopause. My intention is to provide safe space to land.
Thank you for arriving here with me. Whether you are experiencing past trauma that is resurfacing, the weight of burnout, or the quiet exhaustion that comes from always being the strong one, you deserve a space to slow down and reconnect with yourself. I help adults (18+) explore their inner worlds with compassion and curiosity. Clients often come to me navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, burnout, self-esteem challenges, self-identity or major life transitions like loss of a loved one, breakup/divorce or perimenopause/menopause. My intention is to provide safe space to land.
Hello, I am Gretchen Kafer, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Most of my clients state they start therapy because they are feeling inadequate, having relationship problems, and/or feeling exhausted from hiding how much they’re struggling inside with the complexities of anxiety, depression, parenting challenges, multiple stressors, or feeling dissatisfied with themselves or life circumstances. My job as a therapist is to help you identify and access your internal strength and power to accomplish your goals. I provide a supportive, non-judgmental, and encouraging space to work through emotions, overcome challenges, and move forward.
Hello, I am Gretchen Kafer, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Most of my clients state they start therapy because they are feeling inadequate, having relationship problems, and/or feeling exhausted from hiding how much they’re struggling inside with the complexities of anxiety, depression, parenting challenges, multiple stressors, or feeling dissatisfied with themselves or life circumstances. My job as a therapist is to help you identify and access your internal strength and power to accomplish your goals. I provide a supportive, non-judgmental, and encouraging space to work through emotions, overcome challenges, and move forward.
I am deeply committed to supporting individuals and families on their journey toward healing and self-discovery. Therapy is a way to identify positive and negative patterns in your life, discover your strengths, learn new coping skills, and feel empowered to overcome hardships. Setting goals is important for achieving new milestones, helping identify what is important in your life, and creating an overall sense of direction for your future. I strive to provide a warm, safe, supportive, and non-judgmental environment for self-discovery to reach your goals.
I am deeply committed to supporting individuals and families on their journey toward healing and self-discovery. Therapy is a way to identify positive and negative patterns in your life, discover your strengths, learn new coping skills, and feel empowered to overcome hardships. Setting goals is important for achieving new milestones, helping identify what is important in your life, and creating an overall sense of direction for your future. I strive to provide a warm, safe, supportive, and non-judgmental environment for self-discovery to reach your goals.
My ideal client is someone navigating challenges in their relationships, personal identity, or life transitions. They may be struggling with feelings of disconnection, grief, or unresolved family dynamics. This client seeks a safe, supportive space to explore their emotions, understand their patterns, and rebuild healthier connections with themselves and others. Their goals might include improving communication, strengthening emotional bonds, processing trauma, or redefining personal narratives. They are motivated to grow and open to exploring themselves.
My ideal client is someone navigating challenges in their relationships, personal identity, or life transitions. They may be struggling with feelings of disconnection, grief, or unresolved family dynamics. This client seeks a safe, supportive space to explore their emotions, understand their patterns, and rebuild healthier connections with themselves and others. Their goals might include improving communication, strengthening emotional bonds, processing trauma, or redefining personal narratives. They are motivated to grow and open to exploring themselves.
Currently only have openings on Fridays, please reach out for times.
Many of the people I work with are thoughtful, capable individuals who feel stuck. On the outside their lives may look stable, but internally they may struggle with anxiety, past trauma, relationship difficulties, or substance use. Many are used to being the strong one for others and have spent years trying to manage things on their own. Over time this can lead to exhaustion or disconnection. My clients want to understand themselves more deeply, improve relationships, and create lasting change so their lives feel more aligned with who they truly are.
Currently only have openings on Fridays, please reach out for times.
Many of the people I work with are thoughtful, capable individuals who feel stuck. On the outside their lives may look stable, but internally they may struggle with anxiety, past trauma, relationship difficulties, or substance use. Many are used to being the strong one for others and have spent years trying to manage things on their own. Over time this can lead to exhaustion or disconnection. My clients want to understand themselves more deeply, improve relationships, and create lasting change so their lives feel more aligned with who they truly are.
My approach to therapy is compassionate, non-judgmental, and client-centered. I believe in creating a safe and supportive environment where clients can explore their thoughts and feelings without fear of criticism or shame. I am dedicated to fostering a collaborative and supportive therapeutic relationship, empowering my clients to embark on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. Whether you're seeking support for anxiety, depression, trauma, phase of life changes, or navigating life transitions, I am here to help you find resilience and healing.
My approach to therapy is compassionate, non-judgmental, and client-centered. I believe in creating a safe and supportive environment where clients can explore their thoughts and feelings without fear of criticism or shame. I am dedicated to fostering a collaborative and supportive therapeutic relationship, empowering my clients to embark on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. Whether you're seeking support for anxiety, depression, trauma, phase of life changes, or navigating life transitions, I am here to help you find resilience and healing.
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LGBTQ+ Therapists
Do LGBTQ-affirmative therapists receive special training?
Yes. Many therapists who practice LGBTQ-affirmative therapy have completed specialized training, either during their degree program or as continuing education, to learn the core principles of affirmative therapy and how to best support their LGBTQ clients; some have received certifications in LGBTQ-affirmative therapy. Prospective clients should inquire as to a clinician’s background and training to ensure a good fit.
Why might I want to see an LGBTQ-affirming or LGBTQ-friendly therapist?
Queer and gender-non-conforming individuals frequently experience bias and marginalization in day-to-day life. Working with a therapist who understands these unique challenges, as well as accepts and affirms their identity, can help LGBTQ clients feel safe and supported during therapy—allowing them to better navigate their relationships, mental health, and anything else that they wish to explore during therapy. It is important to note that many therapists can be effective in their work with LGBTQ+ individuals, even in the absence of specific training or background knowledge. The most important component in therapy is the alliance between therapist and client, and this alliance can exist between individuals with very different backgrounds.
How can I find an LGBTQ-friendly therapist?
You may wish to inquire about a therapist’s expertise with your specific challenges or concerns—depression, for example, or relationship strife—as well as their past experiences treating LGBTQ+ clients. Prospective clients may also ask whether a therapist has obtained additional training and/or certification in LGBTQ-affirmative techniques.
How can I inquire about a therapist’s experience with LGBTQ issues?
Prospective clients should feel empowered to directly ask therapists whether they have received training or been certified in LGBTQ-affirming therapy; competent therapists will be happy to explain their educational background and preferred approach(es) to help a client find the best match for them. Clients may also wish to ask how a therapist has treated clients with their particular challenges in the past and what they expect treatment to look like.
Are all the therapists listed in the LGBTQ directory themselves members of the LGBTQ community?
While therapists may choose to disclose their sexual orientation or gender identity in their profiles, the LGBTQ directory features not only those who have shared this information but also those who assert specialized training or experience in providing support to queer individuals, couples or families.