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MA, MSW, LMSW
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Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing

MA, MSW, LMSW (she, her)

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18 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001
Let's Connect (929) 600-7537
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Wherever you are in life, we will create an intentional space to explore your struggles, your inner emotional world, and the parts of yourself that are seeking clarity, care, and growth. As an immigrant and Third Culture Kid (TCK), I believe our identities are intricate and multifaceted. To truly comprehend ourselves and lead a fulfilling life, we must consider the diverse contexts that shape us. My past careers as a journalist and teacher have shown me that while our narratives are unique, we all share a desire for self-understanding, insight into the human experience, and meaningful connections.
I support individuals and couples through relational conflicts, depression, anxiety, loneliness, life transitions, and grief. I am IFS-trained, and my relational, strength-focused, culturally sensitive approach integrates Western and Eastern schools of thoughts, also drawing from modalities such as psychodynamic, EFT, and existential psychotherapy.
I view therapy not only as a space for temporary relief, but also for existential exploration and connection, believing that the therapeutic relationship is fundamental to the healing process. You don’t have to be in crisis to seek therapy; it can simply be a safe place for you to unload, experiment, and grow. I’d be privileged to walk this journey with you.
Call or Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing now for a free 15 minute consultation - (929) 600-7537

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

New York, NY 10001

(929) 600-7537

Jersey City, NJ 07305

My website
I offer telehealth therapy using a secure platform, and am available weekdays. I'm accepting new clients.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Depression and Life Transitions 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and groups  
Let's Connect (929) 600-7537
Photo of Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing, MA, MSW, LMSW

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

New York, NY 10001

(929) 600-7537

Jersey City, NJ 07305

My website
I offer telehealth therapy using a secure platform, and am available weekdays. I'm accepting new clients.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Depression and Life Transitions 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and groups  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $150
  • Couple Sessions $150
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Meritain Health
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Wellfleet
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I am in-network with Aetna, Cigna, Wellfleet, Meritain Health, and UHC. However, everyone's financial situation is different, so we offer a sliding scale for self-pay clients. Please contact us with any questions about your needs. Note that inquiries may be directed to our intake coordinator.
Photo of Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing, MA, MSW, LMSW
Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing
MA, MSW, LMSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (929) 600-7537
"
I am in-network with Aetna, Cigna, Wellfleet, Meritain Health, and UHC. However, everyone's financial situation is different, so we offer a sliding scale for self-pay clients. Please contact us with any questions about your needs. Note that inquiries may be directed to our intake coordinator.
Photo of Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing, MA, MSW, LMSW
Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing
MA, MSW, LMSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (929) 600-7537

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 124309 Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 4 years
  • Attended New York University, Master's of Social Work, Graduated 2024
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from McGill University Bachelor of Arts
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Licensed in NY & NJ, I've worked with adults, parents, children, couples, and families. I am dedicated to fostering a space that embraces diversity, inclusivity, and the richness of life!
Photo of Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing, MA, MSW, LMSW
Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing
MA, MSW, LMSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (929) 600-7537
"
Licensed in NY & NJ, I've worked with adults, parents, children, couples, and families. I am dedicated to fostering a space that embraces diversity, inclusivity, and the richness of life!
Photo of Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing, MA, MSW, LMSW
Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing
MA, MSW, LMSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (929) 600-7537

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Depression
  • Life Transitions

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Life Coaching
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Peer Relationships
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Racial Identity
  • Self Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
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We often seek therapy for a variety of reasons, and we will partner to identify your goals and tailor the work to support your needs with care, flexibility, reflection, and creativity.
Photo of Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing, MA, MSW, LMSW
Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing
MA, MSW, LMSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (929) 600-7537
"
We often seek therapy for a variety of reasons, and we will partner to identify your goals and tailor the work to support your needs with care, flexibility, reflection, and creativity.
Photo of Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing, MA, MSW, LMSW
Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing
MA, MSW, LMSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (929) 600-7537

18 Endorsements

Sabine Paul
Sabine Paul
LCSW
Mirabel is attuned, compassionate, and a breath of fresh air. She's an empathetic listener who walks alongside you through each moment. She creates a space for you to come authentically as you are through her relational and nonjudgmental approach.
Natalya Bowen
Natalya Bowen
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLMSWLSWMSW
I love collaborating with Mirabel on client care! She is a compassionate, attuned, and wise therapist with expertise in grief, cross-cultural transitions, and relationship issues. Her warm presence helps clients feel safe to explore and heal on deep level.
Jesse Berkowitz
Jesse Berkowitz
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLMSW
Mirabel is a compassionate, warm, and lively therapist specializing in immigrant/cross-cultural experiences, life transitions, grief, and relationships. She skillfully supports individuals and couples, and offers services in English and Mandarin.
Kevin Goldwater
Kevin Goldwater
CounselorLMHCLPCNCC
Mirabel's dedication and warmth is clear right when you meet her. Her combination of lived and professional experiences created a humanizing, safe and transformative space. She is a wonderful choice for a therapist, and I believe a remarkable one!
Michelle Chan
Michelle Chan
Licensed Master Social WorkerLMSW
Mirabel, whose background as an immigrant and TCK provides a unique, cross-cultural perspective to her work. Combined with her Mandarin language skills, Mirabel connects with a diverse range of clients, inclusive of diverse relationship styles.
Adam Stern
Adam Stern
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Mirabel is a wise and generous therapist whose counsel I have appreciated regarding my clients. I'd highly recommend her to anyone seeking compassionate and healing psychotherapy!
Dr. Aishwarya Nambiar
Dr. Aishwarya Nambiar
Licensed Professional CounselorPhDLPCNCC
Mirabel's compassionate, down to earth, and open-minded nature makes it easy to open up in session, be your authentic self, and feel seen. Trained together in IFS, her passion and knowledge for working with Global Majority clients is felt in session.
Jennifer Shoemaker
Jennifer Shoemaker
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLMSWCCM
I wholeheartedly recommend Mirabel for anyone seeking a supportive, compassionate therapist. Whether working with individuals or couples navigating transitions, grief, or relationships, Mirabel brings gentle kindness and wisdom, making her a trusted guide.
Kate Papacosma
Kate Papacosma
Clinical Social Work/TherapistMALCSW
Mirabel understands the complex identities, emotions, and desires of each client, providing compassionate, personalized care. She is particularly attuned to nuance while also seeing the larger picture. She is also a caring, knowledgeable colleague!
Holly Ferrell
Holly Ferrell
Licensed Master Social WorkerLMSW
Mirabel is an incredibly compassionate and empathic therapist. She has a beautiful ability to create culturally sensitive, supportive spaces for clients' healing. She compassionately assists clients with kind gentleness, fostering healing and self-growth.
Meryl Breidbart
Meryl Breidbart
Licensed Master Social WorkerLMSW
Mirabel is a warm, knowledgeable therapist who creates a trusting space for individuals and couples. She specializes in life transitions, grief, and relationships, offering culturally sensitive support, especially for immigrants and Mandarin speakers.
Jessy Dong
Jessy Dong
MALMHC-LP
I highly recommend Mirabel Xing for her outstanding work with international students and expertise in grief counseling. Her warmth and openness create a welcoming environment for anyone seeking guidance.
Andi Chen
Andi Chen
CounselorMALMHC
Mirabel is open, warm, and nonjudgemental. With Mirabel, you will find a relational, supportive, and culturally sensitive space, where you will be encouraged to explore yourself deeply.
Amber Lust
Amber Lust
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Mirabel is a warm and compassionate therapist who brings a wealth of knowledge and lived experienced to her practice. She is collaborative, compassionate, and affirming of all identities. I highly recommend working with Mirabel!
Stephanie Maria Peña
Stephanie Maria Peña
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Mirabel brings a wealth of lived and professional experience to her practice. Her style is warm and approachable. She creates a safe space for exploration and reflection.
Fire Island Pines Psychotherapy PLLC
Fire Island Pines Psychotherapy PLLC
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSWSIFI
I highly recommend Mirabel to anyone looking for a therapist. Her relational and wholistic approach to care makes therapy with her personalized and person centered. She creates safe affirming spaces to come as you are and work on healing
Dr. LA McCrae
Dr. LA McCrae
Drug & Alcohol CounselorLCADCFOTCCTSACCTP
Mirable is compassionate and creative. Her intentional and eclectic approaches allow clients to tap into the deep healing spaces we all crave and deserve. She is committed to holding space for couples and adults ripe for doing this work we call healing.
Siva Lan Chen
Siva Lan Chen
CounselorLPC-A
Mirabel is gentle, sincere, and open. I met her during IFS training and was struck by her warmth and insight. She holds space with compassion and authenticity-clients will feel safe and supported by her empathy, honesty, and non-assuming nature.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Mandarin

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Mandarin

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Existential
  • Humanistic
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Multicultural
  • Narrative
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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I am a relational therapist that is culturally sensitive, trauma-informed, strength-focused, and existentially minded. Trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS), I am curious to explore and understand the many parts of each client — their needs, fears, and inner wisdom. We will work together to build a strong therapeutic relationship and utilize modalities that suit your specific needs and goals.
Photo of Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing, MA, MSW, LMSW
Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing
MA, MSW, LMSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (929) 600-7537
"
I am a relational therapist that is culturally sensitive, trauma-informed, strength-focused, and existentially minded. Trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS), I am curious to explore and understand the many parts of each client — their needs, fears, and inner wisdom. We will work together to build a strong therapeutic relationship and utilize modalities that suit your specific needs and goals.
Photo of Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing, MA, MSW, LMSW
Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing
MA, MSW, LMSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (929) 600-7537

Location

Primary Location

New York, NY 10001

(929) 600-7537

Additional Location

Jersey City, NJ 07305

(929) 600-7537
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I offer telehealth therapy using a secure platform, and am available weekdays. I'm accepting new clients.
Photo of Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing, MA, MSW, LMSW
Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing
MA, MSW, LMSW
Call for a free consultation now - (929) 600-7537
"
I offer telehealth therapy using a secure platform, and am available weekdays. I'm accepting new clients.
Photo of Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing, MA, MSW, LMSW
Mirabel Xiao-Ou Xing
MA, MSW, LMSW
Call for a free consultation now - (929) 600-7537