Michael C James
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR-IT, EFT-T
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Partner 1: "I reach for you, but it feels like you’re already gone. I’m left wondering if I matter to you at all." Partner 2: "When you come close, I feel the pressure to be perfect. I can’t get it right, so I pull back to protect us both." These unspoken messages live under the surface in many relationships. One partner is aching for connection, the other is protecting against pain—both are lonely, both are longing, both are stuck. I help couples break free from this anxious–avoidant cycle so they can feel safe, seen, and deeply connected again.
After nine years serving in the U.S. Coast Guard, I realized my deepest fulfillment came not from fixing electronics, but from walking with people. Leaving the military was not a departure from service—it was a continuation of it. I pursued social work and theological training to better support people in their most important relationships.
Today, my practice centers on helping couples rebuild what feels broken. Using EFT, I walk with partners past conflict and silence to the deeper longings underneath—Do you love me? Am I enough? Will you stay? I believe marriage is a covenant worth fighting for, and I bring advanced clinical training and a faith-grounded perspective to that fight.
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $150
- Couple Sessions $150
Payment Methods
American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa, ZelleInsurance
- Aetna
- Anthem
- Carelon Behavioral Health
- Cigna and Evernorth
- Government Employees Health Association (GEHA)
- Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield
- Independence Blue Cross
- Optum
- Oscar Health
- Oxford
- Quest Behavioral Health
- TRICARE
- United Medical Resources (UMR)
- UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
- Wellfleet
- Out of Network
Michael C James
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR-IT, EFT-T
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (804) 494-4725
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Expired Licensed by State of Florida / 0904019470 Michael C JamesLicense state differs from primary location state.
- Attended Florida Atlantic Univeristy, Master of Social Work
Education and Years In Practice
Michael C James
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR-IT, EFT-T
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (804) 494-4725
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Marital and Premarital
- Trauma and PTSD
- Anxiety
Expertise
- Anger Management
- Depression
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- Infidelity
- Men's Issues
- Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
- Self Esteem
- Stress
- Veterans
- Women's Issues
Michael C James
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR-IT, EFT-T
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (804) 494-4725
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Ethnicity
Black and African American ,
Hispanic and Latino
Religion
Christian
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Ethnicity
Black and African American ,
Hispanic and Latino
Religion
Christian
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Christian Counseling
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- EMDR
- Emotionally Focused
- Family / Marital
- Gottman Method
- Trauma Focused
Michael C James
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR-IT, EFT-T
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (804) 494-4725
Location
Nearby Areas
Cities
Counties
Neighborhoods
Michael C James
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR-IT, EFT-T
Call for a free consultation now - (804) 494-4725