Polyamory and ENM Therapists in Hamilton, MI
I enjoy encouraging clients to take an active role in their own therapeutic journey. I believe that each client is the author of their story; and I have the honor and privilege to hear that story from the author. I am a compassionate and empathetic psychotherapist, passionate about diverse genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures. I am committed to creating a warm environment where clients feel safe to be vulnerable.
I enjoy encouraging clients to take an active role in their own therapeutic journey. I believe that each client is the author of their story; and I have the honor and privilege to hear that story from the author. I am a compassionate and empathetic psychotherapist, passionate about diverse genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures. I am committed to creating a warm environment where clients feel safe to be vulnerable.
Although I spend a lot of time conducting psychological assessments, I truly enjoy the time I get to spend as a therapist walking through life with my clients. At one point in time or another, all of us struggle with anxiety, depression, self-esteem, relationships, big-emotions and overall ineffectiveness in our life. In therapy, we not only spend time discussing ongoing issues and current difficulties, but we also focus on themes in our lives and the ways that our thinking patterns can inhibit our ability to create the unique life that we want to live.
Although I spend a lot of time conducting psychological assessments, I truly enjoy the time I get to spend as a therapist walking through life with my clients. At one point in time or another, all of us struggle with anxiety, depression, self-esteem, relationships, big-emotions and overall ineffectiveness in our life. In therapy, we not only spend time discussing ongoing issues and current difficulties, but we also focus on themes in our lives and the ways that our thinking patterns can inhibit our ability to create the unique life that we want to live.
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Do you feel like sometimes you're just not in the driver's seat of your own life? Maybe life has dealt you some hard blows lately, or thrown in some relationship twists and turns you didn't see coming. Perhaps it's some old trauma coming back demanding to be recognized, or a dance with depression and/or anxiety.
Do you feel like sometimes you're just not in the driver's seat of your own life? Maybe life has dealt you some hard blows lately, or thrown in some relationship twists and turns you didn't see coming. Perhaps it's some old trauma coming back demanding to be recognized, or a dance with depression and/or anxiety.
Megan Kelly
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LMHC, NCC
1 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49503
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in chronic pain, polyamory, CPTSD, and Brainspotting.
You feel like you're living two lives: in one, you're put-together, sociable, and accomplished. In the other, you're exhausted, overwhelmed, and swirling around relentless self-critical thoughts. It's been this way for a very long time. You can't quite grasp that inner peace you so desperately seek—instead, you're caught in patterns of perfectionism, over-functioning, and self-abandonment. No matter how you try to meld them, your logical mind and emotional mind always seem at odds with each other. But enough is enough. You're done holding up the mask. You're done running from the shadows.
I specialize in chronic pain, polyamory, CPTSD, and Brainspotting.
You feel like you're living two lives: in one, you're put-together, sociable, and accomplished. In the other, you're exhausted, overwhelmed, and swirling around relentless self-critical thoughts. It's been this way for a very long time. You can't quite grasp that inner peace you so desperately seek—instead, you're caught in patterns of perfectionism, over-functioning, and self-abandonment. No matter how you try to meld them, your logical mind and emotional mind always seem at odds with each other. But enough is enough. You're done holding up the mask. You're done running from the shadows.
Additionally, Sam enjoys working with clients who have experienced trauma, anxiety, monogamous and polyamorous relationship issues, family conflict, and life transitions.
Sam Darrow (they/them/theirs) is a nationally certified Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) They received their Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Western Michigan University. They provide counseling to individuals ages 16 and older, couples, and families.
Additionally, Sam enjoys working with clients who have experienced trauma, anxiety, monogamous and polyamorous relationship issues, family conflict, and life transitions.
Sam Darrow (they/them/theirs) is a nationally certified Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) They received their Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Western Michigan University. They provide counseling to individuals ages 16 and older, couples, and families.
Are you looking for a queer-friendly space where you can freely explore your gender, sexuality, or relationship style? Are you neurodivergent, managing trauma, or navigating conflict with people and institutions that don't understand or accept you? The state of the world is desperate, and finding the right therapist is more important than ever. While the prospect can be daunting at first, connecting with someone who can relate to your lived experience in meaningful ways makes all the difference when taking steps toward a brighter tomorrow.
Are you looking for a queer-friendly space where you can freely explore your gender, sexuality, or relationship style? Are you neurodivergent, managing trauma, or navigating conflict with people and institutions that don't understand or accept you? The state of the world is desperate, and finding the right therapist is more important than ever. While the prospect can be daunting at first, connecting with someone who can relate to your lived experience in meaningful ways makes all the difference when taking steps toward a brighter tomorrow.
As a polyamorous person, I know it's tough to find therapists who you don't have to explain yourself to.
I welcome clients of all backgrounds, but I specialize in working with individuals, couples and polycules who are navigating the unique issues that come up in nonmonogamous relationships. I take a trauma-informed approach to helping clients with anxiety, depression, stress and other mental health concerns.
As a polyamorous person, I know it's tough to find therapists who you don't have to explain yourself to.
I welcome clients of all backgrounds, but I specialize in working with individuals, couples and polycules who are navigating the unique issues that come up in nonmonogamous relationships. I take a trauma-informed approach to helping clients with anxiety, depression, stress and other mental health concerns.
You're someone who feels like there’s more to life, yet you're stuck—whether it’s in relationships, self-doubt, or a desire for deeper meaning. You want to feel empowered, aligned with your purpose, and create lasting change. Your goals are to connect with your authentic self, heal from past trauma, and embrace a life of fulfillment and growth. You’re seeking a holistic approach to your healing that incorporates mind, body, and spirit, recognizing that true wellness requires harmony across all areas of life.
You're someone who feels like there’s more to life, yet you're stuck—whether it’s in relationships, self-doubt, or a desire for deeper meaning. You want to feel empowered, aligned with your purpose, and create lasting change. Your goals are to connect with your authentic self, heal from past trauma, and embrace a life of fulfillment and growth. You’re seeking a holistic approach to your healing that incorporates mind, body, and spirit, recognizing that true wellness requires harmony across all areas of life.
Making the decision to change your life can be scary. I'm dedicated to helping others work through difficult choices and helping them move their lives in a positive direction. I want to help you discover patterns and behaviors that have been holding you back, and build skills to make your life better in the future. I use an intersectional trans-inclusive feminist lens and use an eclectic combination of CBT, DBT, Motivational Interviewing, and Behavioral Therapy to help solve problems. Making the decision to seek treatment is the first step. I would love to help you make your life one worth living!
Making the decision to change your life can be scary. I'm dedicated to helping others work through difficult choices and helping them move their lives in a positive direction. I want to help you discover patterns and behaviors that have been holding you back, and build skills to make your life better in the future. I use an intersectional trans-inclusive feminist lens and use an eclectic combination of CBT, DBT, Motivational Interviewing, and Behavioral Therapy to help solve problems. Making the decision to seek treatment is the first step. I would love to help you make your life one worth living!
I am trained to work with culturally diverse populations and alternative relationship structures (with a specialty in ENM/CNM/ Polyamory).
Using client-centered skills, I orient from existential, interpersonal process, & strengths-based therapies. When working with relationships, I pull techniques from emotionally focused therapy, attachment theory, meaning-making, & Gottman.
I have completed Level 1 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy & utilize Gottman Method techniques in some areas.
I am trained to work with culturally diverse populations and alternative relationship structures (with a specialty in ENM/CNM/ Polyamory).
Using client-centered skills, I orient from existential, interpersonal process, & strengths-based therapies. When working with relationships, I pull techniques from emotionally focused therapy, attachment theory, meaning-making, & Gottman.
I have completed Level 1 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy & utilize Gottman Method techniques in some areas.
Maybe you’re exploring your LGBTQ+ identity or polyamorous relationship style, and simply seeking a space where you can be fully yourself.
My approach is rooted in specialized expertise. I hold a Body Trust certification, which underscores my commitment to liberating body and mind and dismantling systemic oppression. My practice extends to individuals navigating the complexities of ADHD, autism, LGBTQ+ issues, and polyamorous relationships.
Maybe you’re exploring your LGBTQ+ identity or polyamorous relationship style, and simply seeking a space where you can be fully yourself.
My approach is rooted in specialized expertise. I hold a Body Trust certification, which underscores my commitment to liberating body and mind and dismantling systemic oppression. My practice extends to individuals navigating the complexities of ADHD, autism, LGBTQ+ issues, and polyamorous relationships.
Life stuff is welcome here! Are you navigating relationship troubles, ADHD, anxiety, neurodivergence, or stress? My clients often know there's something not quite right but aren't sure where to start. I especially enjoy working with people who are trying to balance work and managing chronic illnesses, fellow healthcare workers, and teachers. LGBTQ+ clients are enthusiastically welcomed. I really like working with people who are exploring IFS. If you're looking for help, you're welcome here!
Life stuff is welcome here! Are you navigating relationship troubles, ADHD, anxiety, neurodivergence, or stress? My clients often know there's something not quite right but aren't sure where to start. I especially enjoy working with people who are trying to balance work and managing chronic illnesses, fellow healthcare workers, and teachers. LGBTQ+ clients are enthusiastically welcomed. I really like working with people who are exploring IFS. If you're looking for help, you're welcome here!
As a member of the LGBTQ+ community and someone with extensive knowledge in polyamory and consensual non-monogamy (CNM) / Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and alternative lifestyles, Alexa offers affirming, knowledgeable support for people exploring their identity, sexuality, and relationships, with compassion and genuine support.
Life is stressful, beautiful, unpredictable and you don’t have to do it alone. Alexa is a trauma informed therapist who blends real world experience, empathy, and clinical training to walk alongside you. With a masters in Social Work from Grand Valley State University and a background in nonprofit and corporate spaces, Alexa shows up as more than a therapist. She is a teammate, sounding board, and a steady presence. Whether you’re navigating transitions, carrying old wounds, or feeling emotionally stuck, together you will explore what growth and healing can look like on your terms without judgement.
As a member of the LGBTQ+ community and someone with extensive knowledge in polyamory and consensual non-monogamy (CNM) / Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and alternative lifestyles, Alexa offers affirming, knowledgeable support for people exploring their identity, sexuality, and relationships, with compassion and genuine support.
Life is stressful, beautiful, unpredictable and you don’t have to do it alone. Alexa is a trauma informed therapist who blends real world experience, empathy, and clinical training to walk alongside you. With a masters in Social Work from Grand Valley State University and a background in nonprofit and corporate spaces, Alexa shows up as more than a therapist. She is a teammate, sounding board, and a steady presence. Whether you’re navigating transitions, carrying old wounds, or feeling emotionally stuck, together you will explore what growth and healing can look like on your terms without judgement.
I serve members of the LGBTQIA+/Queer community, couples and families, inclusive of many relationship structures including non-monogamy and polyamory.
My therapeutic approach is client centered, empowerment focused and collaborative. My goal is to meet you where you are at, and support you in creating a roadmap for where you would like to be. Therapy with me is a co-created space where your lived experience is the guidebook for our work together.
I serve members of the LGBTQIA+/Queer community, couples and families, inclusive of many relationship structures including non-monogamy and polyamory.
My therapeutic approach is client centered, empowerment focused and collaborative. My goal is to meet you where you are at, and support you in creating a roadmap for where you would like to be. Therapy with me is a co-created space where your lived experience is the guidebook for our work together.
Are you feeling lost, overwhelmed, or like you’re facing life’s challenges all on your own? Whether it’s struggles with self-acceptance, relationships, executive dysfunction, grief, or navigating big life changes, it can feel exhausting to carry it all by yourself. But reaching out for support is such a brave step, and therapy can be a powerful way to find healing and clarity. Starting therapy might feel intimidating, and that’s okay—it’s a meaningful act of self-care and growth. By showing up here, you’ve already taken a big step forward, and I’d be honored to walk with you on your journey.
Are you feeling lost, overwhelmed, or like you’re facing life’s challenges all on your own? Whether it’s struggles with self-acceptance, relationships, executive dysfunction, grief, or navigating big life changes, it can feel exhausting to carry it all by yourself. But reaching out for support is such a brave step, and therapy can be a powerful way to find healing and clarity. Starting therapy might feel intimidating, and that’s okay—it’s a meaningful act of self-care and growth. By showing up here, you’ve already taken a big step forward, and I’d be honored to walk with you on your journey.
You deserve a good therapist. I work with people who are ready to pause, reconnect with themselves, and discover meaningful ways to engage in life with greater clarity and intention. Looking for a therapist you can connect to? Do you feel disconnected from yourself, struggling with feeling down, or yearning for more authentic living? Maybe you're managing anxiety, processing past trauma, navigating major transitions, or feeling like you've lost your sense of purpose. I can support you to explore your personal growth, understand your inner world, or build deeper connections.
You deserve a good therapist. I work with people who are ready to pause, reconnect with themselves, and discover meaningful ways to engage in life with greater clarity and intention. Looking for a therapist you can connect to? Do you feel disconnected from yourself, struggling with feeling down, or yearning for more authentic living? Maybe you're managing anxiety, processing past trauma, navigating major transitions, or feeling like you've lost your sense of purpose. I can support you to explore your personal growth, understand your inner world, or build deeper connections.
I work with teenagers and adults on processing difficult experiences and emotions, using an empathetic and warm approach. I utilize several types of modalities, including Cognitive Behavioral, Internal Family Systems, and Somatic therapies. I have experience treating trauma with all demographics, as well as managing stress and anxiety of everyday life. Whatever you may be struggling with, I would love to work together on helping you become an expert in your own life!
I work with teenagers and adults on processing difficult experiences and emotions, using an empathetic and warm approach. I utilize several types of modalities, including Cognitive Behavioral, Internal Family Systems, and Somatic therapies. I have experience treating trauma with all demographics, as well as managing stress and anxiety of everyday life. Whatever you may be struggling with, I would love to work together on helping you become an expert in your own life!
Axel Francisco Hettinger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Grand Rapids, MI 49503
Waitlist for new clients
Axel Hettinger (he/him) specializes in client-focused therapeutic techniques. His work incorporates the arts and any special interests clients may have. Axel is a queer therapist who strives to create a welcoming, affirming and warm environment for all clients, and specifically works with LGBTQIA+ clients seeking gender-affirming care. For several years he’s worked with adolescents as a counselor, mentor, and community organizer. Axel is a regular collaborator and facilitator with the Grand Rapids Pride Center and speaks at Universities and schools to promote cultural understanding of underserved communities.
Axel Hettinger (he/him) specializes in client-focused therapeutic techniques. His work incorporates the arts and any special interests clients may have. Axel is a queer therapist who strives to create a welcoming, affirming and warm environment for all clients, and specifically works with LGBTQIA+ clients seeking gender-affirming care. For several years he’s worked with adolescents as a counselor, mentor, and community organizer. Axel is a regular collaborator and facilitator with the Grand Rapids Pride Center and speaks at Universities and schools to promote cultural understanding of underserved communities.
Rocker Health LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, Ph.D, NCC, LPC, LMHC, LCPC
Grand Rapids, MI 49503
At Rocker Health, we believe that mental wellness is a journey that deserves compassion, understanding, and personalized support. Our commitment to breaking the stigma surrounding mental health is at the forefront of everything we do. We understand that each individual's experience with mental health is unique, and we strive to create a welcoming environment where individuals feel safe and empowered to share their stories. Our mission is to provide a rock-solid foundation for our clients, guiding them toward a more fulfilling and balanced life.
At Rocker Health, we believe that mental wellness is a journey that deserves compassion, understanding, and personalized support. Our commitment to breaking the stigma surrounding mental health is at the forefront of everything we do. We understand that each individual's experience with mental health is unique, and we strive to create a welcoming environment where individuals feel safe and empowered to share their stories. Our mission is to provide a rock-solid foundation for our clients, guiding them toward a more fulfilling and balanced life.
Hilary Johnson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CAADC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
You are the expert of your own life. This is the basic belief that guides my therapeutic practice. My role as a therapist is to help each client identify and understand their own behaviors in a better light, and to develop tools that empower them to take control of their own lives. Everyone has the ability to change and grow, and that change is best facilitated with structured support. Together, we will identify your goals for therapy and work towards them. I welcome clients of all backgrounds, beliefs, abilities, genders, sexualities and identities.
You are the expert of your own life. This is the basic belief that guides my therapeutic practice. My role as a therapist is to help each client identify and understand their own behaviors in a better light, and to develop tools that empower them to take control of their own lives. Everyone has the ability to change and grow, and that change is best facilitated with structured support. Together, we will identify your goals for therapy and work towards them. I welcome clients of all backgrounds, beliefs, abilities, genders, sexualities and identities.
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Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specializing in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialize in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.
When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counseling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counseling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.
How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.