Infidelity Therapists in Hamilton, MI
Simkhada Mental Wellness P.L.L.C
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I have been working with individuals and families for ten years. In working as a social worker, I have experience working in schools, community mental health agencies, homeless shelters, child behavior, parenting, conflict resolution, and couples counseling.
I have been working with individuals and families for ten years. In working as a social worker, I have experience working in schools, community mental health agencies, homeless shelters, child behavior, parenting, conflict resolution, and couples counseling.
Welcome. Do you often feel anxious, stressed, or keyed up? Is it difficult to manage your worries, constantly feeling stuck in your head while wishing you could be fully present and enjoy your life to the fullest? I’d love to help make that wish a reality by providing counseling that is uniquely tailored to help you reduce, manage and heal from your anxiety symptoms. Whether you experience generalized anxiety, obsessions and compulsions, or are simply a chronic worrier, I can help!
Welcome. Do you often feel anxious, stressed, or keyed up? Is it difficult to manage your worries, constantly feeling stuck in your head while wishing you could be fully present and enjoy your life to the fullest? I’d love to help make that wish a reality by providing counseling that is uniquely tailored to help you reduce, manage and heal from your anxiety symptoms. Whether you experience generalized anxiety, obsessions and compulsions, or are simply a chronic worrier, I can help!
For the past 30 years, I have had the privilege of helping individuals achieve their goals and overcome a variety of difficulties including depression, anxiety, eating disorders, relational struggles, and life transitions. My hope is that each individual I work with will gain a better understanding of themselves and their context and also learn valuable skills to move forward towards a more fulfilling and flourishing life.
For the past 30 years, I have had the privilege of helping individuals achieve their goals and overcome a variety of difficulties including depression, anxiety, eating disorders, relational struggles, and life transitions. My hope is that each individual I work with will gain a better understanding of themselves and their context and also learn valuable skills to move forward towards a more fulfilling and flourishing life.
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I work almost exclusively with couples, who are often experiencing struggles with connection, communication, and intimacy, or struggling to recover from the consequences of a major relational betrayal.
After the fresh passion of a new or developing relationship cools, partners in marriages and committed relationships often find they experience a distancing from one another. Often this distancing results in anger and resentment toward partners. Problems which were once minor irritants now seem to be major issues which seem to always be a source of conflict and anger, or may be avoided entirely for fear of conflict. In counseling couples and families using the Gottman method, my passion is helping my clients transform their relationships and gain a new sense of optimism in their relational pursuits.
I work almost exclusively with couples, who are often experiencing struggles with connection, communication, and intimacy, or struggling to recover from the consequences of a major relational betrayal.
After the fresh passion of a new or developing relationship cools, partners in marriages and committed relationships often find they experience a distancing from one another. Often this distancing results in anger and resentment toward partners. Problems which were once minor irritants now seem to be major issues which seem to always be a source of conflict and anger, or may be avoided entirely for fear of conflict. In counseling couples and families using the Gottman method, my passion is helping my clients transform their relationships and gain a new sense of optimism in their relational pursuits.
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I am a bilingual (English/French) Licensed Psychologist, with a doctoral degree in Clinical Psychology from the University of Detroit Mercy. While some of my clinical interests include anxiety, depression, grief, romantic relationships' difficulties, questioning whether to divorce/separate or to attempt to repair a relationship, intimate partner violence, family problems, and professional/life transitions, I am also very involved in family planning difficulties, infertility/adoption, LGBTQIA+, cultural adjustment, and other diversity related issues.
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I am a bilingual (English/French) Licensed Psychologist, with a doctoral degree in Clinical Psychology from the University of Detroit Mercy. While some of my clinical interests include anxiety, depression, grief, romantic relationships' difficulties, questioning whether to divorce/separate or to attempt to repair a relationship, intimate partner violence, family problems, and professional/life transitions, I am also very involved in family planning difficulties, infertility/adoption, LGBTQIA+, cultural adjustment, and other diversity related issues.
Does communication and intimacy in your relationship feel distant and disconnected? Do you feel stuck in conflict or are you struggling with sexual concerns? Are you an individual carrying the weight of anxiety, burnout, or low self-worth? Or maybe you are a parent watching your child navigate big emotions, school stress, or social challenges and you’re unsure how to help. We understand that emotional struggles show up in many ways. You want relationships built on trust and closeness. You deserve to feel seen, heard, and whole. Whatever you're facing: pain, disconnection, or overwhelm, you don't have to face it alone. We are here.
Does communication and intimacy in your relationship feel distant and disconnected? Do you feel stuck in conflict or are you struggling with sexual concerns? Are you an individual carrying the weight of anxiety, burnout, or low self-worth? Or maybe you are a parent watching your child navigate big emotions, school stress, or social challenges and you’re unsure how to help. We understand that emotional struggles show up in many ways. You want relationships built on trust and closeness. You deserve to feel seen, heard, and whole. Whatever you're facing: pain, disconnection, or overwhelm, you don't have to face it alone. We are here.
My Specific areas of interest include marital conflict, divorce and/or remarriage, Infidelity, sex addiction, grief/loss, and more.
My therapeutic approach focuses mostly on Family Systems Theory, but my therapeutic intervention combines a variety of techniques associated with multiple theories. In our sessions, all aspects of your life – family of origin, relationship history, work, health, creative outlets, and spiritual beliefs (if desired) may need to be discussed and considered.
My Specific areas of interest include marital conflict, divorce and/or remarriage, Infidelity, sex addiction, grief/loss, and more.
My therapeutic approach focuses mostly on Family Systems Theory, but my therapeutic intervention combines a variety of techniques associated with multiple theories. In our sessions, all aspects of your life – family of origin, relationship history, work, health, creative outlets, and spiritual beliefs (if desired) may need to be discussed and considered.
Although I accept clients of any type, I have worked well with clients who have had relationship dissatisfaction, such as infidelity, anger management, domestic violence, or sexual dissatisfaction.
Many people come to therapy feeling like they’ve had to handle life on their own for far too long. Maybe you learned early how to be strong, self-reliant, or emotionally contained because support wasn’t consistently available. Even now, you might appear capable on the outside while feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure how to ask for what you need. Therapy can be a place where you finally don’t have to carry everything alone.
I work from a deeply relational and authentic approach. I believe healing happens in the context of safe connection, where you feel seen, understood, and accepted without judgment.
Although I accept clients of any type, I have worked well with clients who have had relationship dissatisfaction, such as infidelity, anger management, domestic violence, or sexual dissatisfaction.
Many people come to therapy feeling like they’ve had to handle life on their own for far too long. Maybe you learned early how to be strong, self-reliant, or emotionally contained because support wasn’t consistently available. Even now, you might appear capable on the outside while feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure how to ask for what you need. Therapy can be a place where you finally don’t have to carry everything alone.
I work from a deeply relational and authentic approach. I believe healing happens in the context of safe connection, where you feel seen, understood, and accepted without judgment.
I specialize in sex and relationship concerns including desire, infidelity, & intimacy for individuals or couples with a focus on rebuilding connection, communication, and conflict skills.
I graduated summa cum laude from University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill and with highest honors with a Masters in Counseling. I am an AASECT certified sex therapist with additional training in IFS & Gottman for couples, polyamory & ENM partners. I have a background in clinical research which assists me in teaching evidence-based techniques to my clients.
I specialize in sex and relationship concerns including desire, infidelity, & intimacy for individuals or couples with a focus on rebuilding connection, communication, and conflict skills.
I graduated summa cum laude from University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill and with highest honors with a Masters in Counseling. I am an AASECT certified sex therapist with additional training in IFS & Gottman for couples, polyamory & ENM partners. I have a background in clinical research which assists me in teaching evidence-based techniques to my clients.
Kelly Ibarra
Licensed Professional Counselor, EMDR, CSAT, EFT ACS, LPC SCL, ADHD
5 Endorsed
Byron Center, MI 49315
In a trauma informed way I specialize in human sexuality; specifically intimacy & courtship disorders that include: compulsive sexual behavior (sex, love, and porn addiction), affairs, betrayal trauma, kink, fetish, paraphilia, & toxic relational patterns.
I provide ADHD assessments. I am a Certified Sex Addiction therapist (CSAT). I am trained in providing CSAT therapeutic disclosures, sexual assessments, & delivering Patrick Carnes' 12 step model. I am a LPC, School Counselor, and an Approved Clinical Supervisor. I am trained in Somatic EMDR, GTEP, & EFT. I am also a PHD candidate in Clinical Sexology.
In a trauma informed way I specialize in human sexuality; specifically intimacy & courtship disorders that include: compulsive sexual behavior (sex, love, and porn addiction), affairs, betrayal trauma, kink, fetish, paraphilia, & toxic relational patterns.
I provide ADHD assessments. I am a Certified Sex Addiction therapist (CSAT). I am trained in providing CSAT therapeutic disclosures, sexual assessments, & delivering Patrick Carnes' 12 step model. I am a LPC, School Counselor, and an Approved Clinical Supervisor. I am trained in Somatic EMDR, GTEP, & EFT. I am also a PHD candidate in Clinical Sexology.
Have you ever wondered, "How did I get here?" If you feel lost, confused, misunderstood, if your relationships are in trouble, or if you've found yourself engaging in behaviors you don't like, I can help. Let's work together to help you to break free from the past and move toward a healthier, happier future. I offer individual and couples therapy as well as comprehensive psychological evaluations for diagnostic clarity, mental health assessments, and forensic assessments. I operate from a strength-based, judgment-free, cognitive behavioral approach.
Have you ever wondered, "How did I get here?" If you feel lost, confused, misunderstood, if your relationships are in trouble, or if you've found yourself engaging in behaviors you don't like, I can help. Let's work together to help you to break free from the past and move toward a healthier, happier future. I offer individual and couples therapy as well as comprehensive psychological evaluations for diagnostic clarity, mental health assessments, and forensic assessments. I operate from a strength-based, judgment-free, cognitive behavioral approach.
My specialty area is dealing with sexual betrayal and partner abuse.
My counseling service was created to help individual adults and couples untangle the ineffective and unhealthy patterns in life and relationships. Clients receive deep, lasting results with me because we address not just your most pressing problems, but also explore the problematic patterns in life that contributed to your current distress. I have a warm, engaging, open style that provides a trusting environment for successful therapy and change in the lives of my clients.
My specialty area is dealing with sexual betrayal and partner abuse.
My counseling service was created to help individual adults and couples untangle the ineffective and unhealthy patterns in life and relationships. Clients receive deep, lasting results with me because we address not just your most pressing problems, but also explore the problematic patterns in life that contributed to your current distress. I have a warm, engaging, open style that provides a trusting environment for successful therapy and change in the lives of my clients.
I’m an EFT certified supervisor & therapist working tirelessly to be a leading expert in the world of couples therapy. I am honored by couples who invite me into their journey, and am grateful for the privilege of walking with them through painful and difficult moments. I admire the courage it takes to intentionally move towards growth, and through the stuck places we find ourselves in.
I’m an EFT certified supervisor & therapist working tirelessly to be a leading expert in the world of couples therapy. I am honored by couples who invite me into their journey, and am grateful for the privilege of walking with them through painful and difficult moments. I admire the courage it takes to intentionally move towards growth, and through the stuck places we find ourselves in.
Susan Jongekryg Lmsw Csat
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CSAT
2 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49546
Many suffer from childhood sexual abuse, betrayal trauma, or sexual addiction.
EMDR-trained, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), IFS-informed
Many suffer from childhood sexual abuse, betrayal trauma, or sexual addiction.
EMDR-trained, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), IFS-informed
You may be feeling lost after betrayal, overwhelmed by trauma, or struggling to repair a relationship.
I specialize in betrayal trauma, deceptive sexuality, and relationship healing. My trauma-informed approach draws from the Minwalla Model, APSATS, Gottman Method, and compassionate counseling. The heart of my work is the healing power of safe, attuned connection. I offer space to process your story, rebuild trust, and shift painful patterns—helping you heal
You may be feeling lost after betrayal, overwhelmed by trauma, or struggling to repair a relationship.
I specialize in betrayal trauma, deceptive sexuality, and relationship healing. My trauma-informed approach draws from the Minwalla Model, APSATS, Gottman Method, and compassionate counseling. The heart of my work is the healing power of safe, attuned connection. I offer space to process your story, rebuild trust, and shift painful patterns—helping you heal
I work with individuals across the lifespan dealing with many of life's challenges. Everyone's goals may be different, which is why I like to approach therapy with a client-centered lens to suit each individual best. Whether it may be processing trauma, family conflict, ADHD or anxiety, my goal is to help clients manage and improve their daily lives.
I work with individuals across the lifespan dealing with many of life's challenges. Everyone's goals may be different, which is why I like to approach therapy with a client-centered lens to suit each individual best. Whether it may be processing trauma, family conflict, ADHD or anxiety, my goal is to help clients manage and improve their daily lives.
If you are reaching out for help on this platform, you have experienced some things that you have realized you need help with. Please know that this brave first step is the key to your recovery, and that you can have renewed hope that you will be able to overcome this, regardless of the blocks you have faced. I look forward to working with you.
If you are reaching out for help on this platform, you have experienced some things that you have realized you need help with. Please know that this brave first step is the key to your recovery, and that you can have renewed hope that you will be able to overcome this, regardless of the blocks you have faced. I look forward to working with you.
My work centers on a relational and structured approach for individuals and couples rooted in clear guidance, emotional insight and developing new skills. I help identify patterns that create distance and guide toward shifting cycles into healthier, more productive ways of relating. Whether I’m working with an individual or a pair, the work is always grounded in strengthening connection, reducing conflict, and building meaningful insight. I have significant experience working with individuals and couples with trauma, anxiety and going through adjustments. My experience includes military couples and partners, young families and more.
My work centers on a relational and structured approach for individuals and couples rooted in clear guidance, emotional insight and developing new skills. I help identify patterns that create distance and guide toward shifting cycles into healthier, more productive ways of relating. Whether I’m working with an individual or a pair, the work is always grounded in strengthening connection, reducing conflict, and building meaningful insight. I have significant experience working with individuals and couples with trauma, anxiety and going through adjustments. My experience includes military couples and partners, young families and more.
(As a couple or individual) - Experiencing a traumatic event, anxiety/ past pain can send you into a panic, tearful, angry, shut down. Feeling disconnected from yourself or from your partner. Stress feels so intense that sometimes it moves you to withdrawal. Or it rises into agitation: why doesn't my partner see my pain? Why did this/does this conflict/"bad thing" happen? What if it happens again? Feeling distrustful that anyone will be there for you either because you have been let down by someone before (maybe your partner) or have experienced something painful/traumatic & fear it will happen again. Feeling lonely and ignored.
(As a couple or individual) - Experiencing a traumatic event, anxiety/ past pain can send you into a panic, tearful, angry, shut down. Feeling disconnected from yourself or from your partner. Stress feels so intense that sometimes it moves you to withdrawal. Or it rises into agitation: why doesn't my partner see my pain? Why did this/does this conflict/"bad thing" happen? What if it happens again? Feeling distrustful that anyone will be there for you either because you have been let down by someone before (maybe your partner) or have experienced something painful/traumatic & fear it will happen again. Feeling lonely and ignored.
Are you feeling lost and stressed? Feeling like balancing work, relationships, and your own mental health is impossible? I believe that everyone can and should feel powerful, safe, and whole. Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for life to make us doubt our strength and potential. Family, relationships, trauma, and work stress are just a few things that can prevent us from being our authentic selves, or even from functioning throughout the day. I hope to help you navigate through whatever keeps you from feeling your best, no matter how big or small you think the barrier is.
Are you feeling lost and stressed? Feeling like balancing work, relationships, and your own mental health is impossible? I believe that everyone can and should feel powerful, safe, and whole. Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for life to make us doubt our strength and potential. Family, relationships, trauma, and work stress are just a few things that can prevent us from being our authentic selves, or even from functioning throughout the day. I hope to help you navigate through whatever keeps you from feeling your best, no matter how big or small you think the barrier is.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.