Emotionally Focused Therapists in Grand Rapids, MI
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Kelly Ibarra Certified Sex Addiction Therapist
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA LPC, CSAT, EFT ACS, EFT, SCL, EMDR
Verified
Verified
She is a CSAT & is trained in Somatic EMDR &
EFT
.
If you are here, I imagine that people whom you’ve naturally turned to for care and protection, have hurt or neglected you in some way. Or maybe you have found yourself unable to honor the commitments and promises that you have made to yourself or those whom you love. It takes time and patience to allow the reality behind your symptoms to reveal themselves. On the outside people may see the product of your emotional brain hijacking your life. Every new encounter seems to be contaminated by the past. However, on the inside there is a story of unresolved pain that is leaving you feeling powerless, alone, guilty, or not enough.
Not accepting new clients

Krista Lynn Kopchick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CST
Verified
Verified
My additional training in Sexual Health,
Emotionally Focused
Therapy, Internal Family Systems, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, and Interpersonal Neurobiology impacts my approach with clients and the journey toward health and wholeness.
Conflict infiltrates much of our day to day lives - in communities, workplaces, relationships, and even within ourselves. Sometimes we avoid conflict by running away, exacerbate it by fighting, or get overwhelmed, disconnect, and shut down. We survive. These survival instincts impact our inner parts and our interpersonal relationships. I desire to help people get to know their complex inner parts, reconnect and integrate their minds and bodies, and bring healing to relationships. As a therapist, I get to witness people transform, move from surviving to thriving, and learn how to embrace living mindfully. It is an honor.
Waitlist for new clients

Sharon Depcinski Certified Sex Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CST
Verified
4 Endorsed
Verified
4 Endorsed
She has expertise in issues related to sexuality and aging, LGBTQIA+ related concerns, alternative relationships, relationship difficulties, and sexual health and uses an
EFT
model.
Sharon has been a licensed clinical social worker for 24 years. She has a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology and Family Life/Human Sexuality from Central Michigan University and a Master’s Degree in Clinical Social Work from Michigan State University. She completed a supervised clinical training program at the Loyola University Outpatient Sexual Dysfunction Clinic, holds a certificate in Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan and is an AASECT certified sex therapist (The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors & Therapists), which includes over 200 hours of post-graduate education and consultation.

Susie Kim-VanderGriend
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified
Verified
I have specialized training in
EFT
, EMDR(for trauma), CBT, & PMAD.
Life can be complicated with challenging experiences, thoughts and feelings and it is important to know you are not alone. As a therapist, I strive to provide a secure space for you to engage in a non-judgmental, collaborative relationship. I believe in the strength and healing power that resides in the core of each person. In whatever challenges you are facing, I seek to come alongside you in the therapy space to facilitate healing and growth. I trust that together, we can work to make sense of what is happening - now and in the past to lead more empowered and fulfilled lives.

Melanie Szucs
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LPC, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Depending on your particular needs and experiences, I draw from several different treatment models, including
Emotionally Focused
Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, and client-centered therapy.
Our lives are stories and we all want them to be stories worth telling, that give us hope. Maybe you long to rewrite the story you are living. I believe everyone has the ability to change their story. Whether you are a couple, a family, or an individual, you can have hope. I desire to walk alongside you in your struggles and help you to forge a new path. Sometimes all it takes is a listening ear; sometimes it takes long, hard work. But you have the choice-to step out in courage and to start writing a new story.

Catherine A VanDeWege
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CAADC
Verified
Verified
I love learning new therapeutic strategies to help my clients such as
EFT
, the preferred treatment for PTSD and emotional pain.
My therapeutic intervention is looking at the past as necessary in making changes for the future. I'm certain that any unwanted behavior can be unlocked by recognizing the purpose or wanted outcome for said behavior and my passion is helping you identify that unmet need and make healthy changes. I enjoy working with clients that are willing to do things outside of the therapeutic office setting such as writing, art, and/or practicing skills learned, and then reporting back in session the helpfulness of each strategy.
Waitlist for new clients

Amanda Walker
Limited Licensed Psychologist, MA, LLP, CAADC
Verified
Verified
I utilize an integrated approach of therapeutic models, including Cognitive Behavioral therapy (CBT), Solution Focused Therapy (SFT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (
EFT
), and Gottman Method Couples; Therapy.
I view therapy as a collaborate space where it is safe to share life’s difficulties. I find joy in working together to learn to cope with stressors and develop healthy habits for better managing relationships, mental health concerns, and whatever situation might be important in that moment. I enjoy working with adults and couples. My primary areas of expertise include treating mood disorders such as depression and anxiety, as well as working with adjustment disorders and substance use disorders. Therapy is about helping people through situational life stressors or relationship conflicts.
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Elise Waugh
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Verified
Verified
I earned my Master of Social Work from the University of Southern California and am trained in evidence-based interventions like CBT, Mindfulness-based Stress Reduction, and
Emotionally Focused
Therapy.
Just as we sometimes need help caring for physical aches and pains, sometimes we need help improving our mental health. I am passionate about helping others look inward to learn more about themselves and connect with their inner voice through the power of therapy. At its heart, therapy is as powerful as what you put into it. Being vulnerable can often feel daunting, but by working together, my goal is to help you build the confidence you need to bravely take the reins when you feel like the life you want is just out of reach.

Amanda Worst
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
I work with couples and have extensive training in
Emotionally Focused
Therapy (
EFT
), as well as Levels 1 and 2 training in the Gottman Method.
Sometimes life brings challenges that leave us standing in need of additional support. You may find yourself surviving anxiety, hurt in relationship, grieved by loss, or trying to find footing in a life transition. You may desire a safe space to lament, to ask questions, to learn you are not alone, and to build upon your strengths. I will partner with you, as you work to understand and address the challenges before you.
Office is near:
Grand Rapids, MI 49546 & Online
Waitlist for new clients

Cheryl L. Cooper
Counselor, MA, LPC, LMFT
Verified
Verified
When working with couples and families, I primarily use
Emotionally Focused
Therapy (
EFT
) and Gottman Method Therapy.
We all face challenges, but we don't need to face them alone. When you struggle with relationship issues, depression/anxiety, or other personal crises, you may feel alone, stuck, and helpless. As your therapist, I will come alongside you and help you to move forward with a greater sense of well-being and empowerment.

Vanessa Benaway
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LLMFT, RYT
Verified
Verified
Oftentimes, the impacts of past pain leave us feeling drained, overwhelmed and confused about our path forward. We can lack a sense of self-worth, after being hurt by the very people who were supposed to take care of us. I help clients reconnect to their inner power to reparent and restore lost parts of themselves. On this journey, I guide clients in reawakening their naturally empowered, vibrant selves. I specialize in working with adults, couples, teens and families seeking healing, connection, and change both inside of themselves and within their closest relationships.
Waitlist for new clients

Janelle LeBlanc
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified
Verified
Hey there! Sometimes we just need someone to be in our corner and remind us that we are not alone. Life can be really hard to navigate and even harder when we experience any level of grief, harm, mental illness or trauma. My goal is to be present with you, just as you are with no expectation to be anything other than yourself. I provide a non-judgmental space where all parts of you are honored and can be expressed. I am here to be on your team as you navigate through the healing process.

Ray Brandon
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LLC, NCC
Verified
Verified
Using several approaches,
EFT
, Gottman, and CBT I help clients move forward.
The most important relationships in our lives sometimes feel like they are the most difficult. Clients that come to me are feeling "stuck" in their relationships with a marriage partner, or family member. They come asking how they can be better connected, feel closer and reduce conflict.

Raina LaGrand
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, MPH, CYT
Verified
6 Endorsed
Verified
6 Endorsed
My approach to therapy integrates body-based methods including Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, along with Parts Work/Internal Family Systems, Art,
Emotionally Focused
Therapy, and the Gottman Method.
I help multiracial people and interracial couples build relationships where they can be their full selves. Trauma (whether personal or intergenerational) can cause you to forget who you are, be ashamed about who you are, and feel that you have to hide parts of who you are in order to belong and be loved. But the relationships you choose are opportunities to embody authenticity in ways that might not have been available to you in the past. I deeply believe that therapy is not about what needs to be fixed, but rather uncovering what wisdom already lies within and practicing how to harness it.

Sarah K Parks-Pittman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CHT
Verified
6 Endorsed
Verified
6 Endorsed
We are living in strange and challenging times. I am currently offering online telehealth appointments for your convenience and safety. Working together, we can find ways to cope creatively with life's many challenges. My work is inspired by each individual client’s unique potential for wholeness. I enjoy working with individuals on issues of gender, sexuality, relationships, intimacy, spirituality, wellness and authenticity. I am LGBTQIA+ friendly & aware. My other areas of competence include anxiety, depression, grief, and adjustment to life transitions.
Not accepting new clients

Hannah Allen-Miller
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
You have a story, and it makes sense that you feel, believe, act and react as you do. Change and growth rarely occur in anything that resembles a straight line and being mean to yourself really does not help. If you want to believe these statements but are finding it difficult, I would love an opportunity to meet with you. I am a fully licensed psychologist and enjoy working with adolescents and adults with a wide range of concerns. I believe that therapy occurs within a partnership where together we will make educated decisions about how to approach your goals based on your specific life circumstances, needs, values, and strengths.
Not accepting new clients

Jennifer Kreft
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, MA
Verified
Verified
At times life can be overwhelming and it is difficult to know where to turn for help. Circumstances may seem out of control and do not make sense. Seeking support from a compassionate therapist can be useful. As a therapist I take into account the whole person and help you through your concerns. I offer a non-judgmental, supportive environment for you to express your full experience. I want you to feel safe knowing that you are being listened to and valued. Together, we can process, develop coping methods, and grow your inner strength to face what challenges have caused you to feel distress or concern. Note: See my COVID19 message.

Jessica Roberts
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LLMFT
Verified
Verified
Loneliness, fear, and worry are powerful feelings that can keep us disconnected from those around us. You might notice yourself thinking “things have to change” or “I can’t do this anymore.” Perhaps you feel like you’ve tried everything and are exhausted from the effort; you’ve tried to talk to others but walk away feeling misunderstood and lonely. It could even be that the fear of sharing your story and experiences feels overwhelming. Counseling is an opportunity to experience the opposite; it’s a space to connect with someone who listens without judgment or distraction.

Krystal LaCoy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MMFC/T, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Trying to figure out which therapist is right for you? I’ve been there...knowing you want counseling, but not knowing where to start. It can be an intimidating time, worrying if your problem is too big or if there’s even hope. During our first session, my goal is to get to know you and create a plan together. I have a passion for working with couples and helping them find healing within their most cherished relationship. In our work together, I help couples find the patterns in their relationship they want to change and create a new way forward. A fulfilling relationship includes being able to be seen and heard by your partner.

Andy Eastham
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified
Verified
I like to combine the truths of Scripture with the latest research in psychology and neuroscience. I believe mindfulness training is a powerful way to allow the body to heal itself while allowing us to experience Christ in a powerful way. He is the Healer, but we often don't know how to use the resources we naturally have. Learning how to rest is a powerful practice to learn. Allow me to partner with you.
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Emotionally Focused Therapists
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.