Sexual Addiction Therapists in Allegan County, MI

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Matthew Mulder
Counselor, MA, LPC
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in walking with individual's who are struggling with pornography addiction or other forms of unwanted sexual behavior. I also walk with individuals who have experienced the horrors of sexual, physical, emotional or spiritual abuse and the stress that often follows. And I have a heart for journeying with individual's who are grieving and those who are struggling with questions of identity and spirituality.
I specialize in walking with individual's who are struggling with pornography addiction or other forms of unwanted sexual behavior. I also walk with individuals who have experienced the horrors of sexual, physical, emotional or spiritual abuse and the stress that often follows. And I have a heart for journeying with individual's who are grieving and those who are struggling with questions of identity and spirituality.
(616) 303-4763 View (616) 303-4763
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Mark Smaller
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD
Douglas, MI 49406
As a psychoanalyst with 40+ years of experience working with adults, adolescents, children, parents, and couples, individuals often to come see me when they have reached the limit of how families, parents, friends, teachers, and colleagues can help. People with whom I have worked have taught me how being understood and responded to regarding interpersonal concerns, conflicts, and crises, can help them move forward in their lives. Just as with chronic physical pain, no one deserves to live with chronic emotional pain. Therapy, as I practice it, is based upon a collaborative effort to alleviate such pain and move forward.
As a psychoanalyst with 40+ years of experience working with adults, adolescents, children, parents, and couples, individuals often to come see me when they have reached the limit of how families, parents, friends, teachers, and colleagues can help. People with whom I have worked have taught me how being understood and responded to regarding interpersonal concerns, conflicts, and crises, can help them move forward in their lives. Just as with chronic physical pain, no one deserves to live with chronic emotional pain. Therapy, as I practice it, is based upon a collaborative effort to alleviate such pain and move forward.
(312) 548-1276 View (312) 548-1276
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Konfara Counseling and Supervision
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
People enter into a counseling relationship when nothing else seems to be working. Although most people soon make comments such as, “(Counseling) was a lot better than I thought it would be”, few people seek counseling as a first option. More often we seek out techniques that either help us to temporarily avoid (e.g., media, social networking) our anxiety, or we seek temporary shots of pleasure (e.g., alcohol, food, pornography) that make us feel good for a short time. Soon enough we realize that all of these things leave us feeling more hollow and lonely, and that is when we start thinking about counseling.
People enter into a counseling relationship when nothing else seems to be working. Although most people soon make comments such as, “(Counseling) was a lot better than I thought it would be”, few people seek counseling as a first option. More often we seek out techniques that either help us to temporarily avoid (e.g., media, social networking) our anxiety, or we seek temporary shots of pleasure (e.g., alcohol, food, pornography) that make us feel good for a short time. Soon enough we realize that all of these things leave us feeling more hollow and lonely, and that is when we start thinking about counseling.
(616) 310-4614 View (616) 310-4614
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Suzanne Meinke
Counselor, LPC, LMFT, CAADC, NCC
10 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Finding the right person to talk to and connect with can be stressful, but it should be easy. My goal is to help you reach your goals in a comfortable, warm, and supportive environment; free from judgment and personal agendas. I'm a very real person, and encourage you to be your authentic self, F bombs and all! It's important for us to have a collaborative relationship where you feel free to share your thoughts, feelings, and opinions and make the changes that will improve your life. I am passionate about what I do, and look forward to helping you to free yourself from personal conflicts and stressors. Email for a quicker response.
Finding the right person to talk to and connect with can be stressful, but it should be easy. My goal is to help you reach your goals in a comfortable, warm, and supportive environment; free from judgment and personal agendas. I'm a very real person, and encourage you to be your authentic self, F bombs and all! It's important for us to have a collaborative relationship where you feel free to share your thoughts, feelings, and opinions and make the changes that will improve your life. I am passionate about what I do, and look forward to helping you to free yourself from personal conflicts and stressors. Email for a quicker response.
(269) 503-8883 View (269) 503-8883
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Cambron Bryce McCutcheon
Limited Licensed Psychologist, MS, CAADC
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I offer a uniquely warm and engaging environment that fosters positive growth and change in your life.
I offer a uniquely warm and engaging environment that fosters positive growth and change in your life.
(269) 215-5656 View (269) 215-5656

Online Therapists

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Tony Bordenkircher
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT
Holland, MI 49423
I also specialize in the assessment and treatment of Sexual Addiction.
Many of my clients seek counseling to help resolve a volatile situation or crisis in a key relationship, whether with a spouse or partner, family member, friend, or colleague at work. They find that working with the problem in a structured, therapeutic environment can open up new possibilities for resolution.
I also specialize in the assessment and treatment of Sexual Addiction.
Many of my clients seek counseling to help resolve a volatile situation or crisis in a key relationship, whether with a spouse or partner, family member, friend, or colleague at work. They find that working with the problem in a structured, therapeutic environment can open up new possibilities for resolution.
(616) 420-2579 View (616) 420-2579
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Sacred Space Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
8 Endorsed
Grand Haven, MI 49417
Whether that's reclamation from purity culture, dismantling limiting beliefs, growth in embodiment, breaking free from shame, recovery from sexual trauma, sexual addiction, sexual anorexia, betrayal trauma, infidelity, and getting to the root of sexual concerns to heal underlying shame, fear, and grief.
My therapy approach is holistic (exploring issues of the body, heart, and soul) and relationally-focused. I view the therapy process as a relationship that holds up a mirror for you, gives you a space to feel seen, heard and known, meets you with curiosity and compassion and encourages honesty and authenticity, most importantly with yourself.
Whether that's reclamation from purity culture, dismantling limiting beliefs, growth in embodiment, breaking free from shame, recovery from sexual trauma, sexual addiction, sexual anorexia, betrayal trauma, infidelity, and getting to the root of sexual concerns to heal underlying shame, fear, and grief.
My therapy approach is holistic (exploring issues of the body, heart, and soul) and relationally-focused. I view the therapy process as a relationship that holds up a mirror for you, gives you a space to feel seen, heard and known, meets you with curiosity and compassion and encourages honesty and authenticity, most importantly with yourself.
(616) 414-4748 View (616) 414-4748
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Nile H Khabeiry
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
1 Endorsed
Kalamazoo, MI 49009
I specialize in substance abuse, codependency, sexual addiction (including sexual offender therapy), depression and anxiety.
I believe that people do have the ability to change but often need a little help to reach their goals. I have been successful working with clients who are struggling with addictions, interactions with the legal system, family issues, as well as childhood trauma. I have a common sense, reality based approach that is easy for clients to relate to and am flexible by using several therapeutic theories to help my clients achieve their goals.
I specialize in substance abuse, codependency, sexual addiction (including sexual offender therapy), depression and anxiety.
I believe that people do have the ability to change but often need a little help to reach their goals. I have been successful working with clients who are struggling with addictions, interactions with the legal system, family issues, as well as childhood trauma. I have a common sense, reality based approach that is easy for clients to relate to and am flexible by using several therapeutic theories to help my clients achieve their goals.
(269) 580-8199 View (269) 580-8199
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Jamie LaFontsee
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LLMFT, LLPC
2 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49508
2023 training via AAMFT; OCSB Model of Sexual Addiction, Sexual Assault without Bias, & Advanced Look at Polyamory & Kink Lifestyles in Therapy & More
Does something feel off? Do you feel like you're getting by okay but need a little something? Therapy might be just the right tool to get you back to your full functioning self again. Sometimes life makes us carry way more than we can handle (although we rarely admit it) and that load takes a burden on us emotionally, physically, and mentally. It affects our relationships at work, home, and even our sex lives! It's not YOU, it's LIFE! My Specific areas of interest include marital conflict, divorce and/or remarriage, Infidelity, sex addiction, grief/loss, and more. If your LIFE is weighing you down, let's talk.
2023 training via AAMFT; OCSB Model of Sexual Addiction, Sexual Assault without Bias, & Advanced Look at Polyamory & Kink Lifestyles in Therapy & More
Does something feel off? Do you feel like you're getting by okay but need a little something? Therapy might be just the right tool to get you back to your full functioning self again. Sometimes life makes us carry way more than we can handle (although we rarely admit it) and that load takes a burden on us emotionally, physically, and mentally. It affects our relationships at work, home, and even our sex lives! It's not YOU, it's LIFE! My Specific areas of interest include marital conflict, divorce and/or remarriage, Infidelity, sex addiction, grief/loss, and more. If your LIFE is weighing you down, let's talk.
(616) 557-7924 View (616) 557-7924
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Kelly Ibarra Emdr Sex Porn Betrayal Infidelity
Licensed Professional Counselor, EMDR, CSAT, EFT ACS, LPC, SCL
4 Endorsed
Byron Center, MI 49315
As a previous partner of 14 years to an individual recovering from sexual addiction, I know this space personally and professionally.
I know you're "fine, totally fine, absolutely fine"...but just in case you're a little "not fine", I'm here to help. Maybe you are here because people whom you’ve naturally turned to for care and protection have hurt you in some way. Or maybe you're here because you have found yourself unable to honor the commitments and promises that you have made to yourself; or those whom you love. It takes time to allow the reality behind our symptoms to reveal themselves. All your parts are welcomed here. Treatment can help you feel more present in the moment, in control of your world, compassionate towards yourself, and understood.
As a previous partner of 14 years to an individual recovering from sexual addiction, I know this space personally and professionally.
I know you're "fine, totally fine, absolutely fine"...but just in case you're a little "not fine", I'm here to help. Maybe you are here because people whom you’ve naturally turned to for care and protection have hurt you in some way. Or maybe you're here because you have found yourself unable to honor the commitments and promises that you have made to yourself; or those whom you love. It takes time to allow the reality behind our symptoms to reveal themselves. All your parts are welcomed here. Treatment can help you feel more present in the moment, in control of your world, compassionate towards yourself, and understood.
(616) 323-9826 View (616) 323-9826
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Ray Brandon
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LLC, CSAT, NCC
5 Endorsed
Kalamazoo, MI 49009
This process ensures that ASAT/CSATs like me are experts in sexual addiction therapy, allowing me to support you better.
The relationships that matter most in our lives are often the ones that feel most difficult. Many clients come to me feeling "stuck" in their connections with a spouse or family member. They’re searching for guidance on building stronger bonds, nurturing closeness, and navigating conflict more effectively.
This process ensures that ASAT/CSATs like me are experts in sexual addiction therapy, allowing me to support you better.
The relationships that matter most in our lives are often the ones that feel most difficult. Many clients come to me feeling "stuck" in their connections with a spouse or family member. They’re searching for guidance on building stronger bonds, nurturing closeness, and navigating conflict more effectively.
(269) 280-2114 View (269) 280-2114
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Susan Jongekryg Lmsw Csat
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CSAT
2 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49546
Many suffer from childhood sexual abuse, betrayal trauma, or sexual addiction.
EMDR-trained, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), IFS-informed
Many suffer from childhood sexual abuse, betrayal trauma, or sexual addiction.
EMDR-trained, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), IFS-informed
(616) 678-2083 View (616) 678-2083
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Lacey Twardowski
Limited Licensed Psychologist, MA, LLP
1 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49503
My specialties include ADHD, sex therapy, partner connectedness, sexual addiction, OCD, hormonal therapy and guidance, as well as anxiety and depression.
My therapeutic practice is distinct in its approach, combining deep intentionality with a commitment to human empowerment through education. I believe that knowledge is power, and it’s my mission to help clients understand the “why” behind their behaviors to unlock their potential for rapid transformation. I use evidence-based, person-centered cognitive behavioral techniques to help clients rewire their thoughts and behaviors. By exploring the science behind their patterns, clients gain the tools to take control of their minds and make lasting change.
My specialties include ADHD, sex therapy, partner connectedness, sexual addiction, OCD, hormonal therapy and guidance, as well as anxiety and depression.
My therapeutic practice is distinct in its approach, combining deep intentionality with a commitment to human empowerment through education. I believe that knowledge is power, and it’s my mission to help clients understand the “why” behind their behaviors to unlock their potential for rapid transformation. I use evidence-based, person-centered cognitive behavioral techniques to help clients rewire their thoughts and behaviors. By exploring the science behind their patterns, clients gain the tools to take control of their minds and make lasting change.
(269) 330-2544 View (269) 330-2544
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Jose Gonzalez II
Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
3 Endorsed
Berrien Springs, MI 49103
Do you feel like even after everything you do, you’re still "not enough"? Maybe you've tried for years and years to get your sexual behaviors under control, or maybe you just recently realized how out-of-control your sexual behaviors truly are. Whether you've finally decided for yourself that you’re tired of being controlled by your sexual drive; or whether you’re partner is worried about you, now’s the time to empower yourself to get better. Don’t let your relationship continue to suffer, or hang in the balance, invest in yourself and finally make the change you’ve always wanted to make.
Do you feel like even after everything you do, you’re still "not enough"? Maybe you've tried for years and years to get your sexual behaviors under control, or maybe you just recently realized how out-of-control your sexual behaviors truly are. Whether you've finally decided for yourself that you’re tired of being controlled by your sexual drive; or whether you’re partner is worried about you, now’s the time to empower yourself to get better. Don’t let your relationship continue to suffer, or hang in the balance, invest in yourself and finally make the change you’ve always wanted to make.
(269) 466-6530 View (269) 466-6530
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Shameka Nicole Jones
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Lansing, MI 48906
Hello. I have a passion for transforming challenging life issues with compassion, self-awareness and self love. My primary areas of interest include adolescents and adults who have difficulties with depression, anxiety, self-esteem and managing day to day stress. I also have experience working with adults who have a history of substance abuse. I believe that therapy is an influential journey that requires a partnership between both client and therapist. I incorporate a mindfulness approach to treatment and utilize acceptance and change strategies to help you reach your goals.
Hello. I have a passion for transforming challenging life issues with compassion, self-awareness and self love. My primary areas of interest include adolescents and adults who have difficulties with depression, anxiety, self-esteem and managing day to day stress. I also have experience working with adults who have a history of substance abuse. I believe that therapy is an influential journey that requires a partnership between both client and therapist. I incorporate a mindfulness approach to treatment and utilize acceptance and change strategies to help you reach your goals.
(517) 715-8491 View (517) 715-8491
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Emma R Bess
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Mount Pleasant, MI 48858
Note- please call Hyacinth Services directly to schedule. Therapy can be a scary concept for some, but you have taken the first step to work toward becoming your best-self and finding your meaning and purpose. Maneuvering through your daily life is not always easy and there will be bumps along the way, and I'm here to help you overcome these in order to move forward to live a fulfilling life.
Note- please call Hyacinth Services directly to schedule. Therapy can be a scary concept for some, but you have taken the first step to work toward becoming your best-self and finding your meaning and purpose. Maneuvering through your daily life is not always easy and there will be bumps along the way, and I'm here to help you overcome these in order to move forward to live a fulfilling life.
(989) 408-7587 View (989) 408-7587
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Rodney Crainer
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CAADC
Grand Rapids, MI 49525
The clients I with which I work best are those interested in a balance of exploration and practical solutions. I have heard it said that "the past does not matter except for the ways in which it impacts the present." I promise I will not dive into the depths just to seem deep as much as I promise not to stay cozy and comfortable if that is feeding an unhealthy status quo. I have no hang-ups about what a person's background is or how they present. I only look to help a person define for themselves "a life worth living" and then figure out how to have it.
The clients I with which I work best are those interested in a balance of exploration and practical solutions. I have heard it said that "the past does not matter except for the ways in which it impacts the present." I promise I will not dive into the depths just to seem deep as much as I promise not to stay cozy and comfortable if that is feeding an unhealthy status quo. I have no hang-ups about what a person's background is or how they present. I only look to help a person define for themselves "a life worth living" and then figure out how to have it.
(616) 741-3760 View (616) 741-3760
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Lake House Counseling, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, ACSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I provide individual EMDR therapy and IFS Informed EMDR for ages 18 and up. I specialize in trauma/PTSD. mood disorders, including anxiety and depression, adjustment transitions and transitions, including vocational/academic stressors, relationship distress and healing from narcissistic abuse.
I provide individual EMDR therapy and IFS Informed EMDR for ages 18 and up. I specialize in trauma/PTSD. mood disorders, including anxiety and depression, adjustment transitions and transitions, including vocational/academic stressors, relationship distress and healing from narcissistic abuse.
(517) 236-8006 View (517) 236-8006
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Life Support LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
1 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49525
Miguel has had diverse and well-rounded experiences throughout his career including an working with at risk youth through a juvenile court setting, work within a juvenile detention center that housed adolescents struggling with mental illness. Miguel has been in the therapeutic field since 2004, having 15 years of experience in group and individual therapy assisting those in need of developing coping skills for various life stressors (depression, anger, relationship issues, etc.). Miguel is also experienced in working with relationship difficulties including issues around pornogorphy.
Miguel has had diverse and well-rounded experiences throughout his career including an working with at risk youth through a juvenile court setting, work within a juvenile detention center that housed adolescents struggling with mental illness. Miguel has been in the therapeutic field since 2004, having 15 years of experience in group and individual therapy assisting those in need of developing coping skills for various life stressors (depression, anger, relationship issues, etc.). Miguel is also experienced in working with relationship difficulties including issues around pornogorphy.
(616) 244-2248 View (616) 244-2248
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The Wellness Institute of Michigan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, ACSW
Okemos, MI 48864
If you would like help with issues regarding daily life, work, family, blended families, academics, life decisions, gender identity we can help. If you have feelings of fatigue, worry, and being overwhelmed we can assist you. We operate a group practice with several therapists in three locations. In your initial call to us we listen carefully to understand what your needs are and then match you with the best method of treatment and therapist to help you. We understand that calling for counseling is an important choice and offer excellent customer service to facilitate the process. We provide highly professional services in a peaceful setting.
If you would like help with issues regarding daily life, work, family, blended families, academics, life decisions, gender identity we can help. If you have feelings of fatigue, worry, and being overwhelmed we can assist you. We operate a group practice with several therapists in three locations. In your initial call to us we listen carefully to understand what your needs are and then match you with the best method of treatment and therapist to help you. We understand that calling for counseling is an important choice and offer excellent customer service to facilitate the process. We provide highly professional services in a peaceful setting.
(517) 536-1142 View (517) 536-1142

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Sexual Addiction Therapists

When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?

People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.

What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?

Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.

How long does therapy take for sex addiction?

Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.

What if sex addiction is left untreated?

Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.