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Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
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Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever

Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW (she, her)

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8 Endorsed
822 D Street, San Rafael, CA 94901
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Available both in-person and online
822 D Street San Rafael, CA 94901
Let's Connect (415) 466-8455
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Parenting, major life transitions, or navigating ADHD can leave you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, and unsure of who you are anymore. You might be holding it all together on the outside, but inside you're burnt out, scattered, or stuck in old patterns. You want to feel more present, more grounded, and more like yourself—not just a version of who others need you to be. You’re craving clarity, self-compassion, and support that actually fits your life. Therapy can help you unmask, reconnect, and move forward in a way that honors your needs. I also support couples in navigating the challenges of parenthood together.
I offer neurodivergent-affirming, non-pathologizing therapy for those navigating ADHD, burnout, parenting, identity shifts, and major life transitions. I approach therapy with warmth, directness, and deep respect for your lived experience. Your challenges are not personal failures—they're responses to real pressure, disconnection, or unmet needs.
Together, we’ll work on cultivating deeper connection, self-acceptance, resilience, and effective communication. Reach out today to find the support you deserve. In our sessions, you’ll discover a space to unmask, strengthen trust in yourself and others, and build a life or relationship that truly reflects who you are—not who you’ve been told to be.
Call or Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever now for a free 15 minute consultation - (415) 466-8455

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

822 D Street

San Rafael, CA 94901 map

(415) 466-8455

Big Life Change Therapy

Larkspur Landing Circle

Larkspur, CA 94939 map

Website
I see clients virtually across CA and in person (50 mins) in downtown San Rafael.
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (415) 466-8455
Photo of Katelyn Vandever - Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever, Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

822 D Street

San Rafael, CA 94901 map

(415) 466-8455

Big Life Change Therapy

Larkspur Landing Circle

Larkspur, CA 94939 map

Website
I see clients virtually across CA and in person (50 mins) in downtown San Rafael.
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $200
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Insurance

  • Medi-Cal
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We accept Medi-Cal (Partnership Health Plan) with no copay. For other insurance, we provide superbills for reimbursement. Payment due at each session via credit/debit/HSA card. Please contact us with any fee, billing, or insurance-related questions.
Photo of Katelyn Vandever - Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever, Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455
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We accept Medi-Cal (Partnership Health Plan) with no copay. For other insurance, we provide superbills for reimbursement. Payment due at each session via credit/debit/HSA card. Please contact us with any fee, billing, or insurance-related questions.
Photo of Katelyn Vandever - Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever, Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455

Qualifications

    Pre-Licensed Professional: Katelyn Vandever

  • Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / 120967 Supervised by Ali Vogt, LMFT (California / 47693) Katelyn Vandever
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 3 years
  • Attended Widener University, MSW, Graduated 2023
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from Hunter College BA in Psychology / 2019
  • Degree/Diploma from Hunter College BS in Nutrition / 2012
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As an Associate Clinical Social Worker with an MSW & bachelor's degrees in Psychology and Nutrition, I provide integrative, holistic psychotherapy. Combining insights from each discipline, I support clients in addressing diverse needs and building resilience, helping them create meaning and balance.
Photo of Katelyn Vandever - Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever, Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455
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As an Associate Clinical Social Worker with an MSW & bachelor's degrees in Psychology and Nutrition, I provide integrative, holistic psychotherapy. Combining insights from each discipline, I support clients in addressing diverse needs and building resilience, helping them create meaning and balance.
Photo of Katelyn Vandever - Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever, Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Grief
  • Infertility
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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I work with parents feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck in repetitive conflicts. In our initial sessions, we'll explore the core challenges and create a personalized plan to address them. Many clients experience a renewed sense of connection and balance within the first month, with ongoing improvements as we build a supportive and authentic family dynamic together.
Photo of Katelyn Vandever - Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever, Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455
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I work with parents feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck in repetitive conflicts. In our initial sessions, we'll explore the core challenges and create a personalized plan to address them. Many clients experience a renewed sense of connection and balance within the first month, with ongoing improvements as we build a supportive and authentic family dynamic together.
Photo of Katelyn Vandever - Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever, Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455

8 Endorsements

Ashlyn Acikalin
Ashlyn Acikalin
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFTAPCC
Katelyn's compassionate and empowering approach makes her a fantastic therapist. Her ability to offer heartfelt support while encouraging clients to discover their own strengths fosters both healing and personal growth. I highly recommend her!
Erin McQueen
Erin McQueen
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Katelyn is a warm, playful, and creative therapist! Her experience and training in both social work and the performing arts provides a wonderful blend of evidence-based and experiential treatment offerings fostering rich authenticity and connection.
Jenny Werba
Jenny Werba
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTAPCCPMH-C
Katelyn is a skilled and compassionate clinician. She brings to her client interactions authenticity and a high level of attunement, creating an environment of insight and growth for clients.
Lucy O'Dwyer
Lucy O'Dwyer
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Katelyn is dynamic and direct. If you are looking for compassion from an authentic space, Katelyn is the therapist for you. Katelyn meets clients where they are at and helps them move through whatever is keeping them stuck.
Ali Vogt
Ali Vogt
Marriage & Family TherapistMFT
Katelyn provides a compassionate approach, skillfully following her clients' leads to uncover meaningful insights. She specializes in supporting neurodivergent new parents, helping both parents and baby thrive.
Frances Cameron
Frances Cameron
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAMBAAMFT
Katelyn is a compassionate, authentic therapist who helps clients feel truly seen and accepted. Her warm, attuned presence creates a safe space for healing, growth, and embracing your true self.
Rachael Silard
Rachael Silard
Associate Professional Clincal CounselorAPCCAMFT
Katelyn has a kind, authentic and non-judgmental presence. She's easy to talk to and naturally creates a sense of safety and ease. Her passion for helping people explore neurodivergence & ADHD shines through in all of her work - I highly recommend her.
Kerynne O'Malley
Kerynne O'Malley
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFTRN
It is a joy to work alongside Katelyn. I find her humble, curious, and authentic. She cares deeply for her clients and meets them just where they are. Her dedication and experience in supporting those with ADHD is valuable and inspiring.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Family / Marital
  • Humanistic
  • Integrative
  • Interpersonal
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Strength-Based
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I offer neurodivergent-affirming, integrative therapy focused on each client's unique experience. Using psychodynamic methods, we explore underlying patterns, while humanistic principles guide us toward self-acceptance and authentic growth. My approach values the neurodiverse experience fostering resilience, insight, and meaningful change that aligns with each individual's strengths and values.
Photo of Katelyn Vandever - Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever, Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455
"
I offer neurodivergent-affirming, integrative therapy focused on each client's unique experience. Using psychodynamic methods, we explore underlying patterns, while humanistic principles guide us toward self-acceptance and authentic growth. My approach values the neurodiverse experience fostering resilience, insight, and meaningful change that aligns with each individual's strengths and values.
Photo of Katelyn Vandever - Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever, Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455

Location

Primary Location

822 D Street

San Rafael, CA 94901

(415) 466-8455

Additional Location

Big Life Change Therapy

Larkspur Landing Circle

Larkspur, CA 94939

(415) 466-8455
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I see clients virtually across CA and in person (50 mins) in downtown San Rafael.
Photo of Katelyn Vandever - Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever, Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 466-8455
"
I see clients virtually across CA and in person (50 mins) in downtown San Rafael.
Photo of Katelyn Vandever - Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever, Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 466-8455