Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW (she, her)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
8 Endorsed
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Parenting, major life transitions, or navigating ADHD can leave you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, and unsure of who you are anymore. You might be holding it all together on the outside, but inside you're burnt out, scattered, or stuck in old patterns. You want to feel more present, more grounded, and more like yourself—not just a version of who others need you to be. You’re craving clarity, self-compassion, and support that actually fits your life. Therapy can help you unmask, reconnect, and move forward in a way that honors your needs. I also support couples in navigating the challenges of parenthood together.
I offer neurodivergent-affirming, non-pathologizing therapy for those navigating ADHD, burnout, parenting, identity shifts, and major life transitions. I approach therapy with warmth, directness, and deep respect for your lived experience. Your challenges are not personal failures—they're responses to real pressure, disconnection, or unmet needs.
Together, we’ll work on cultivating deeper connection, self-acceptance, resilience, and effective communication. Reach out today to find the support you deserve. In our sessions, you’ll discover a space to unmask, strengthen trust in yourself and others, and build a life or relationship that truly reflects who you are—not who you’ve been told to be.
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $200
- Couple Sessions $200
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Insurance
- Medi-Cal
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / 120967 Supervised by Ali Vogt, LMFT (California / 47693) Katelyn Vandever
- In Practice for 3 years
- Attended Widener University, MSW, Graduated 2023
- Degree/Diploma from Hunter College BA in Psychology / 2019
- Degree/Diploma from Hunter College BS in Nutrition / 2012
Pre-Licensed Professional: Katelyn Vandever
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455
Specialties and Expertise
Expertise
- ADHD
- Anxiety
- Codependency
- Depression
- Divorce
- Grief
- Infertility
- LGBTQ+
- Life Transitions
- Parenting
- Peer Relationships
- Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Stress
- Trauma and PTSD
- Women's Issues
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455
8 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Family / Marital
- Humanistic
- Integrative
- Interpersonal
- Narrative
- Person-Centered
- Psychodynamic
- Relational
- Strength-Based
Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 466-8455
Location
Additional Location
Big Life Change Therapy
Larkspur Landing Circle
Larkspur, CA 94939
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Messy Parenting Therapy - Katelyn Vandever
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 466-8455