Infidelity Therapists in New York, NY
Robert Diamond
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10016
Perhaps you’re feeling like a broken record, yet you never feel understood by your partner. Maybe you’re walking on eggshells trying to avoid starting the next argument. Possibly, the pain of your spouse’s infidelity is making you doubt if you can ever get close again. Once a source of connection, fun, and intimacy, your sexual relationship is non-existent. As a husband and a father, I understand well the challenges of maintaining intimacy in a a long-term relationship.
Perhaps you’re feeling like a broken record, yet you never feel understood by your partner. Maybe you’re walking on eggshells trying to avoid starting the next argument. Possibly, the pain of your spouse’s infidelity is making you doubt if you can ever get close again. Once a source of connection, fun, and intimacy, your sexual relationship is non-existent. As a husband and a father, I understand well the challenges of maintaining intimacy in a a long-term relationship.
Sex Addiction, Infidelity 26 Yrs Experience Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R , SOTS
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10151
Absolute sex addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases
Absolute sex addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases
Eva Dillon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10017
I have specialized training in helping couples recover from infidelity.
Relationships and sex are not easy to talk about, so I create a safe, non-judgmental place for these rich and intimate conversations. I see clients who are struggling with intimacy issues, sexual dysfunction or pain, discrepant desire, Out of Control Sexual Behavior, concerns about dating, or navigating non-traditional relationships. I offer a sex-positive, collaborative approach and I have a special interest in eroticism and enhancing sexual experiences. I am an LGBTQ- and kink- affirmative clinician. My passion and training have been focused on helping people to connect with each other to create satisfying relationships.
I have specialized training in helping couples recover from infidelity.
Relationships and sex are not easy to talk about, so I create a safe, non-judgmental place for these rich and intimate conversations. I see clients who are struggling with intimacy issues, sexual dysfunction or pain, discrepant desire, Out of Control Sexual Behavior, concerns about dating, or navigating non-traditional relationships. I offer a sex-positive, collaborative approach and I have a special interest in eroticism and enhancing sexual experiences. I am an LGBTQ- and kink- affirmative clinician. My passion and training have been focused on helping people to connect with each other to create satisfying relationships.
Genny Finkel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10021 (Online Only)
Having hard conversations and dealing with distressing feelings does not have to be the end of your relationship. By understanding the very things that threaten our relationships, like infidelity, repetitive fights, betrayal, and not feeling seen, we can build stronger connections. Let's stop bottling it all up and actually use it to create the relationships you want. Together we can find new ways to connect, feel heard and work through the challenges keeping you stuck, in order to feel like that very important person in your life gets you.
Having hard conversations and dealing with distressing feelings does not have to be the end of your relationship. By understanding the very things that threaten our relationships, like infidelity, repetitive fights, betrayal, and not feeling seen, we can build stronger connections. Let's stop bottling it all up and actually use it to create the relationships you want. Together we can find new ways to connect, feel heard and work through the challenges keeping you stuck, in order to feel like that very important person in your life gets you.
Natasha Pasternack
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10036
I have worked extensively with individuals and couples experiencing rupture and repair from infidelity, relationship changes including separation and divorce, and changes to the family unit, such as the birth of a child or illness of a family member.
Sometimes life’s hard moments don’t pass as quickly as we wish. This can be especially felt in the context of relationships with those whom we care deeply for: the connection may begin to feel stale; communication breaks down; one person’s growth doesn’t always align with another and relational dynamics may change.
I have worked extensively with individuals and couples experiencing rupture and repair from infidelity, relationship changes including separation and divorce, and changes to the family unit, such as the birth of a child or illness of a family member.
Sometimes life’s hard moments don’t pass as quickly as we wish. This can be especially felt in the context of relationships with those whom we care deeply for: the connection may begin to feel stale; communication breaks down; one person’s growth doesn’t always align with another and relational dynamics may change.
Moshe Ratson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MBA, MA
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10016
RELATIONSHIP ENHANCEMENT and INFIDELITY is area of special expertise, while special intervention is designed particularly for INTERRACIAL & MULTI-CULTURAL RELATIONSHIPS.
My practice includes Individual, Couples Therapy, Marriage Counseling and Family Therapy as well as Life Coaching, Career Coaching as well as Executive Coaching services. My approach is solution-oriented and practical while emphasizing SOLVING PROBLEMS or REACHING GOALS. I see therapy as a process for CHANGE rather than merely an exercise in insight. My work is RESULTS oriented. I utilize a pragmatic, cutting-edge-integrative approach, which is rooted in my many years of experience as high level business executive in Fortune 500 Company.
RELATIONSHIP ENHANCEMENT and INFIDELITY is area of special expertise, while special intervention is designed particularly for INTERRACIAL & MULTI-CULTURAL RELATIONSHIPS.
My practice includes Individual, Couples Therapy, Marriage Counseling and Family Therapy as well as Life Coaching, Career Coaching as well as Executive Coaching services. My approach is solution-oriented and practical while emphasizing SOLVING PROBLEMS or REACHING GOALS. I see therapy as a process for CHANGE rather than merely an exercise in insight. My work is RESULTS oriented. I utilize a pragmatic, cutting-edge-integrative approach, which is rooted in my many years of experience as high level business executive in Fortune 500 Company.
spiral2grow
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10016
Are you struggling with your marriage or relationships? Are you facing communication challenges, power struggle and conflict? Are you facing infidelity or trust issue and wonder how to you can overcome the betrayal? Are you hurt, angry, confused, or frustrated... but yet willing to work it out and save your marriage? Life and relationship don't have to be this hard. For over 15 years I've helped individuals and couples create solid, and fulfilling relationships. If you experience difficulties and vicious dynamics or challenged by "negative" emotions, I can help you learn the necessary skill to overcome those hurdles.
Are you struggling with your marriage or relationships? Are you facing communication challenges, power struggle and conflict? Are you facing infidelity or trust issue and wonder how to you can overcome the betrayal? Are you hurt, angry, confused, or frustrated... but yet willing to work it out and save your marriage? Life and relationship don't have to be this hard. For over 15 years I've helped individuals and couples create solid, and fulfilling relationships. If you experience difficulties and vicious dynamics or challenged by "negative" emotions, I can help you learn the necessary skill to overcome those hurdles.
Linda G Beeler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10023 (Online Only)
Do you want to improve your relationship? Are you feeling anxious? Do you feel sad, alone? Are you coping with infidelity? I have helped many clients resolve their struggles in a safe supportive environment. Perhaps, I can help you. I am Linda G. Beeler who is trained as a psychodynamic psychotherapist. I have been practicing for over 25 years with patients who have a wide range of life issues. My specialty is focused on assisting clients to overcome interpersonal conflicts and understanding relationship issues. I treat individuals and couples to help them reach their fullest potential and enhance as well as enrich their lives.
Do you want to improve your relationship? Are you feeling anxious? Do you feel sad, alone? Are you coping with infidelity? I have helped many clients resolve their struggles in a safe supportive environment. Perhaps, I can help you. I am Linda G. Beeler who is trained as a psychodynamic psychotherapist. I have been practicing for over 25 years with patients who have a wide range of life issues. My specialty is focused on assisting clients to overcome interpersonal conflicts and understanding relationship issues. I treat individuals and couples to help them reach their fullest potential and enhance as well as enrich their lives.
Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10028
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
Michael J Mailloux
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW, LSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10007 (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Social Worker in New York and New Jersey, and graduated from Fordham University where I earned my master’s degree in social work. I am passionate about helping my clients get to know and navigate their inner world. I work with individuals who have struggled with addiction, anxiety, depression, and trauma. In addition, I enjoy couples work, focusing on communication, negative patterns in relational conflict, and issues of infidelity. I decided to go back to school to earn my doctoral degree in social work at Capella University.
I am a Licensed Social Worker in New York and New Jersey, and graduated from Fordham University where I earned my master’s degree in social work. I am passionate about helping my clients get to know and navigate their inner world. I work with individuals who have struggled with addiction, anxiety, depression, and trauma. In addition, I enjoy couples work, focusing on communication, negative patterns in relational conflict, and issues of infidelity. I decided to go back to school to earn my doctoral degree in social work at Capella University.
Sexual Addiction, Infidelity, Absolute Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW , SOTS
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10005
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert 26 years + 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert 26 years + 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
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Marriage & Family Therapist, MBA, MS, MFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10016
Moshe Ratson is listed in Best Marriage Therapists in New York City. Are you struggling with your relationship? Are you facing communication challenges, power struggle and conflict? Are you facing infidelity or trust issue and wonder how to you can overcome the betrayal? Are you hurt, angry, confused, or frustrated... but yet willing to work it out and save your marriage? For over 15 years I've helped individuals and couples create solid & fulfilling relationships. If you experience difficulties and vicious dynamics or challenged by "negative" emotions, I can help you learn the necessary skill to overcome those hurdles.
Moshe Ratson is listed in Best Marriage Therapists in New York City. Are you struggling with your relationship? Are you facing communication challenges, power struggle and conflict? Are you facing infidelity or trust issue and wonder how to you can overcome the betrayal? Are you hurt, angry, confused, or frustrated... but yet willing to work it out and save your marriage? For over 15 years I've helped individuals and couples create solid & fulfilling relationships. If you experience difficulties and vicious dynamics or challenged by "negative" emotions, I can help you learn the necessary skill to overcome those hurdles.
Eugene Lee
Counselor, LMHC, LPCC, MDiv
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10023 (Online Only)
I have training in partner betrayal trauma and am a CPTT candidate, who works with people struggling with their partner’s infidelity.
Are you experiencing emotional and relational difficulties, betrayal trauma, religious trauma, anxiety, depression, or struggling to process traumatic experiences or challenging relationships? Do you feel like you are lost or that your life is stuck and you are not able to experience the joy of life? Are you feeling that your world has been turned upside down and are having difficulty finding stability? If so, I would like to offer you a safe, non-judgmental, collaborative, therapeutic, and supportive space to help you overcome these issues and move towards a state of relational, emotional, mental, spiritual, and behavioral health.
I have training in partner betrayal trauma and am a CPTT candidate, who works with people struggling with their partner’s infidelity.
Are you experiencing emotional and relational difficulties, betrayal trauma, religious trauma, anxiety, depression, or struggling to process traumatic experiences or challenging relationships? Do you feel like you are lost or that your life is stuck and you are not able to experience the joy of life? Are you feeling that your world has been turned upside down and are having difficulty finding stability? If so, I would like to offer you a safe, non-judgmental, collaborative, therapeutic, and supportive space to help you overcome these issues and move towards a state of relational, emotional, mental, spiritual, and behavioral health.
Jane Greer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10022
I work with anyone dealing with any kind of problem or conflict within themselves, interpersonal, romantic, work, family, etc. The goal is to help people gain insight into the nature of their situation, as well as help them develop the skills for taking action and making changes that help them feel in control and happier. I also work with couples to help them deal with anger management, resolving betrayal and infidelity issues, and developing better communication skills (including listening skills and empathy for understanding and relating). I'm the author of five books about navigating relationships.
I work with anyone dealing with any kind of problem or conflict within themselves, interpersonal, romantic, work, family, etc. The goal is to help people gain insight into the nature of their situation, as well as help them develop the skills for taking action and making changes that help them feel in control and happier. I also work with couples to help them deal with anger management, resolving betrayal and infidelity issues, and developing better communication skills (including listening skills and empathy for understanding and relating). I'm the author of five books about navigating relationships.
Marriage Counseling & Couples Intensives
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001 (Online Only)
Are you on the verge of divorce or suffering from the aftermath of infidelity or high levels of constant conflict and disconnection? Are you no longer willing to tolerate never-ending arguments or days of silence? Perhaps you are ready to save your marriage or maybe you have doubts about staying together, but a part of you is not ready to leave. Couples Counseling or Couples Intensive may be the best emergency intervention, if you are not feeling happy, if you want to repair and rebuild trust and connection, move from anger and hurt, work through resentment, heal past experiences and get unstuck from a toxic relationship cycle.
Are you on the verge of divorce or suffering from the aftermath of infidelity or high levels of constant conflict and disconnection? Are you no longer willing to tolerate never-ending arguments or days of silence? Perhaps you are ready to save your marriage or maybe you have doubts about staying together, but a part of you is not ready to leave. Couples Counseling or Couples Intensive may be the best emergency intervention, if you are not feeling happy, if you want to repair and rebuild trust and connection, move from anger and hurt, work through resentment, heal past experiences and get unstuck from a toxic relationship cycle.
Vanessa Dine, Trauma and Sex Addiction Counseling
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW, ASAT, APTT, EMDR, trained
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10014 (Online Only)
If you are reading this, you may be seeking treatment for porn or out of control sexual behaviors. Or if you have been impacted by sexual betrayal and feeling the symptoms of PTSD then we can start the therapeutic work. I am a Licensed Master of Social Work (LMSW), Associate Sex Addiction Therapist, Associate Partner Trauma Therapist and CSAT trained. With compassion and expertise, I support individuals and couples impacted by compulsive sexual behaviors, intimacy concerns and partner betrayal.
If you are reading this, you may be seeking treatment for porn or out of control sexual behaviors. Or if you have been impacted by sexual betrayal and feeling the symptoms of PTSD then we can start the therapeutic work. I am a Licensed Master of Social Work (LMSW), Associate Sex Addiction Therapist, Associate Partner Trauma Therapist and CSAT trained. With compassion and expertise, I support individuals and couples impacted by compulsive sexual behaviors, intimacy concerns and partner betrayal.
Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
23 Endorsed
New York, NY 10165
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert 26 years + 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert 26 years + 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
Bevin Campbell
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
New York, NY 10038
Waitlist for new clients
I am a Park Slope based psychologist who helps couples with communication, escalating conflict, emotional distance, infidelity, parenting struggles, and the impact of grief and trauma. I work collaboratively with couples, creating a non-judgmental space that allows us to tackle the negative cycles that can develop over time. In my practice I also see individuals who are struggling with anxiety, depression, dissatisfaction at work, difficulties in important relationships, loneliness, grief, and trauma.
I am a Park Slope based psychologist who helps couples with communication, escalating conflict, emotional distance, infidelity, parenting struggles, and the impact of grief and trauma. I work collaboratively with couples, creating a non-judgmental space that allows us to tackle the negative cycles that can develop over time. In my practice I also see individuals who are struggling with anxiety, depression, dissatisfaction at work, difficulties in important relationships, loneliness, grief, and trauma.
Beverly Zagofsky
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LMHC, CST, AASECT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10019
Infidelity is one of the most painful therapies to work through.
My practice is devoted to Couples, Sex & Relational Therapy. All Couples experience difficulties during marriage or during long term relationships. Helping Couples work to resolve these conflicts, develop trust & reconnect is the most satisfying work that I do. We commonly address issues of trust, sexual issues, pornography, commitment, infidelity, communication, destructive patterns, stress, parenting, illness, trauma & passion. I work with couples to rekindle the spark, passion and desire that they once had and deepen a strong solid connection. Whatever you and your partners unique issues, my goal is to give you the hope and help to achieve the support & love that you both long for.
Infidelity is one of the most painful therapies to work through.
My practice is devoted to Couples, Sex & Relational Therapy. All Couples experience difficulties during marriage or during long term relationships. Helping Couples work to resolve these conflicts, develop trust & reconnect is the most satisfying work that I do. We commonly address issues of trust, sexual issues, pornography, commitment, infidelity, communication, destructive patterns, stress, parenting, illness, trauma & passion. I work with couples to rekindle the spark, passion and desire that they once had and deepen a strong solid connection. Whatever you and your partners unique issues, my goal is to give you the hope and help to achieve the support & love that you both long for.
Juliane Maxwald
Licensed Psychoanalyst, LP
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10019
I am a relationship, sex and intimacy expert whose gift is helping individuals and couples untangle and heal from the effects of trauma, addiction, infidelity and betrayal, family of origin conflicts, anxiety, depression, lack of purpose and feeling unfulfilled.
Are you struggling in your relationship or having issues related to sex and intimacy? Do you find yourself fighting more and having a hard time resolving your differences? Are you feeling more distance and worried that you are growing apart? Has there been a recent betrayal that has you in crisis? Are you in an infidelity situation that has you feeling confused, distracted or anxious? Do you or your partner struggle with unhealthy behaviors that can feel addictive (alcohol, drugs, sex, food, gambling). Do you crave more intimacy, more fun, more sexuality, more emotional connection?
I am a relationship, sex and intimacy expert whose gift is helping individuals and couples untangle and heal from the effects of trauma, addiction, infidelity and betrayal, family of origin conflicts, anxiety, depression, lack of purpose and feeling unfulfilled.
Are you struggling in your relationship or having issues related to sex and intimacy? Do you find yourself fighting more and having a hard time resolving your differences? Are you feeling more distance and worried that you are growing apart? Has there been a recent betrayal that has you in crisis? Are you in an infidelity situation that has you feeling confused, distracted or anxious? Do you or your partner struggle with unhealthy behaviors that can feel addictive (alcohol, drugs, sex, food, gambling). Do you crave more intimacy, more fun, more sexuality, more emotional connection?
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.