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Melissa Stanger

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW (she, her)

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7 Endorsed
5 East 16th Street, 6th Floor, New York, NY 10003
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Available both in-person and online
5 East 16th Street 6th Floor New York, NY 10003
Let's Connect (917) 809-7125
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Our work will be a collaborative effort to understand you — why you think, feel, believe, and behave the way you do — and to help you grow personally, professionally, and relationally. I believe that the mental health symptoms we experience are a manifestation of unresolved conflicts from our past. Coping strategies, self-help books, or other exercises can result in quick relief, but if you find yourself stuck in the same cycles, you may need more. I largely practice from a “bottom-up” relational approach, working to address the symptoms at the root and create self-awareness, curiosity, insight, and long-lasting change.
I provide therapy to clients in NY, NJ and FL struggling with eating disorders; relational/attachment/intergenerational trauma; self-esteem and self-image struggles; enmeshment/codependency issues; and depression/anxiety. I use a combination of relational psychotherapy, somatic approaches, and EMDR to target the roots of these issues.
I approach therapy from a standpoint of non-judgmental curiosity and an antiracist, anti-oppressive lens. You are the expert in your own life, and I am committed to walking the path toward happiness and understanding with you. Let's make some progress together :)
Call or Melissa Stanger now for a free 15 minute consultation - (917) 809-7125

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

5 East 16th Street

6th Floor

New York, NY 10003 map

(917) 809-7125
My website
I specialize in Eating Disorders, Trauma and PTSD and Self Esteem 
$250 Per Session  
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Let's Connect (917) 809-7125
Photo of Melissa Stanger, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

5 East 16th Street

6th Floor

New York, NY 10003 map

(917) 809-7125
My website
I specialize in Eating Disorders, Trauma and PTSD and Self Esteem 
$250 Per Session  
Individual one-on-one therapy 

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $250
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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If your insurance offers out-of-network benefits I am happy to provide an invoice that you can submit to your insurance provider for reimbursement. All other sessions are private pay. I also offer sliding-scale rates based on income.
Photo of Melissa Stanger, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa Stanger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 809-7125
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If your insurance offers out-of-network benefits I am happy to provide an invoice that you can submit to your insurance provider for reimbursement. All other sessions are private pay. I also offer sliding-scale rates based on income.
Photo of Melissa Stanger, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa Stanger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 809-7125

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 095373 Melissa Stanger
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 9 years
  • Attended Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from Personal Transformation Institute (PTI) / EMDRIA Somatic- and Attachment-Focused EMDR / 2025
  • Certificate from Institute for the Psychoanalytic Study of Subjectivity (IPSS) Certificate in Psychoanalysis (in progress)
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I have 8 years of experience and training in relational psychodynamic therapy and psychoanalysis. I am also trained in EMDR and Focal Psychodynamic Therapy for anorexia (FPT-AN).
Photo of Melissa Stanger, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa Stanger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 809-7125
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I have 8 years of experience and training in relational psychodynamic therapy and psychoanalysis. I am also trained in EMDR and Focal Psychodynamic Therapy for anorexia (FPT-AN).
Photo of Melissa Stanger, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa Stanger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 809-7125

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Eating Disorders
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Self Esteem

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Body Image
  • Borderline Personality (BPD)
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Mood Disorders
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Peer Relationships
  • Personality Disorders
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Relationship Issues
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Stress
  • Transgender
  • Women's Issues
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I have extensive experience working with clients struggling with eating disorders, anxiety, depression, self-esteem and identity issues, and relational/attachment trauma. I practice using a combination of relational psychotherapy, somatic approaches, and EMDR to get to the root of these issues.
Photo of Melissa Stanger, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa Stanger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 809-7125
"
I have extensive experience working with clients struggling with eating disorders, anxiety, depression, self-esteem and identity issues, and relational/attachment trauma. I practice using a combination of relational psychotherapy, somatic approaches, and EMDR to get to the root of these issues.
Photo of Melissa Stanger, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa Stanger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 809-7125

7 Endorsements

Gabrielle Miller
Gabrielle Miller
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Melissa is a passionate and dedicated therapist who is committed to helping her clients become the best versions of themselves.
Ariel Hayat
Ariel Hayat
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSWMSWNY, NJCT, FL
Melissa is a highly attuned and trained therapist who specializes in trauma and eating disorders. She supports clients in making sense of conflicts in identity and self while offering deeper perspective and exploration. I highly recommend working with her!
Erin Mills
Erin Mills
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Melissa's compassionate, non-judgmental and committed to helping her clients achieve their goals. She approaches therapy with warmth, creativity and a sense of humor.
Jonathan 'lando' Adams
Jonathan 'lando' Adams
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSWMSWSIFI
Mel is a dynamic clinician who provides a space that encourages vulnerability, compassion, and care. They create individualized treatment plans that aid the pts in reaching their therapeutic goal(s).
Michele Quiles
Michele Quiles
MHC-LP
Melissa is a deep thinker and therapist that cares about seeing a client fully. I genuinely believe she is passionate about providing quality therapy. You will be in good hands!

Client Focus

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Religion

Jewish

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Religion

Jewish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • EMDR
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Focal Psychodynamic Therapy (FPT)
  • Interpersonal
  • Intersubjective Self Psychology (ISP)
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Somatic
  • Trauma Focused
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I help patients explore the roots of their issues, which often stem from significant, distressing, or traumatic events earlier in our lives. Together we identify patterns over time that give us clues as to how the past informs the present to create new ways of thinking, feeling, and relating.
Photo of Melissa Stanger, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa Stanger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 809-7125
"
I help patients explore the roots of their issues, which often stem from significant, distressing, or traumatic events earlier in our lives. Together we identify patterns over time that give us clues as to how the past informs the present to create new ways of thinking, feeling, and relating.
Photo of Melissa Stanger, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa Stanger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 809-7125

Location

Primary Location

5 East 16th Street

6th Floor

New York, NY 10003

(917) 809-7125
Photo of Melissa Stanger, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa Stanger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (917) 809-7125
Photo of Melissa Stanger, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa Stanger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (917) 809-7125