Melissa
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
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Your family doesn't look the way it used to, and you're not sure whether to fix it or grieve it. Maybe you and your partner have had some version of the same argument for three years and you're both exhausted. Maybe you love your kids and you're still completely depleted by them. Maybe your adult child has pulled away and you don't understand why. Maybe life is fine on paper and you know it could feel better. Or maybe there's no crisis exactly, just a quiet sense that you've been taking care of everyone else for so long that you've completely lost track of yourself. Generic advice from the internet just can't bridge the gap.
I'm a clinical social worker specializing in respectful parenting, estrangement, mental load, and couples work that goes beneath the argument to the fear or hurt underneath the pattern. I work with families, partners who've stopped hearing each other, and people who've spent so long taking care of everyone else that they've lost themselves.
I pay close attention to what people aren't saying. I'll ask the question you were hoping I'd skip, but I'll make it safe to actually answer it. I tell you what I actually think, even if it's not what you're expecting to hear. I care too much about the outcome to do otherwise. That's usually where things start to change.
Call or Email Melissa Stadler now for a free 15 minute consultation - (716) 321-5179
Let's Connect (716) 321-5179
Finances
Insurance
- Aetna
- Cigna and Evernorth
- Highmark
- Highmark BCBS of Western New York
- Independent Health
- Medicaid
- Optum
- Oxford
- Surest
- UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
Melissa Stadler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (716) 321-5179
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 097275 Melissa Stadler
- In Practice for 15 years
Education and Years In Practice
Melissa Stadler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (716) 321-5179
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Parenting
- Relationship Issues
- Family Conflict
Expertise
- Anxiety
- Behavioral Issues
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Divorce
- Estrangement
- Grief
- LGBTQ+
- Life Transitions
- Mental load
Melissa Stadler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (716) 321-5179
Client Focus
Age
Children (6 to 10) ,
Preteen ,
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Age
Children (6 to 10) ,
Preteen ,
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
- Attachment-based
- Compassion Focused
- Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
- Emotionally Focused
- Family Systems
- Gottman Method
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Parent-Child Interaction (PCIT)
- Play Therapy
Melissa Stadler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (716) 321-5179
Location
Nearby Areas
Melissa Stadler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (716) 321-5179