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Melissa Lally

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT (she, her)

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San Diego, CA 92108
Saturday & Sunday Teletherapy - heal from home. Do you look "fine" on the outside but feel tired, numb, or stuck on the inside? Do you stay busy just to avoid feeling? If you're a trauma survivor, a woman healing from a hard childhood or relationship, or someone worn out from overthinking, anxiety, or family stress, you're not alone. Many people come to us after talk therapy didn't quite get to the root of things. They're tired of just surviving and ready to feel like themselves again. What you have been through matters and healing is possible. You don't need it all figured out - just bring yourself and we'll take it from there.
Our approach blends proven trauma therapies with real, honest connection. We use methods that help your mind and body process emotional pain that talk alone can miss, so healing goes deeper than just talking things through. Sessions include steady, judgment-free support, honesty, and humor when it fits.
You don't have to carry this on your own. Healing isn't about erasing your past - it's about no longer being ruled by it. If you're exhausted from pushing through life alone and ready for something different, we'd be honored to walk with you, one step at a time.
Call or Melissa Lally now for a free 15 minute consultation - (619) 330-5345

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Diego, CA 92108

(619) 330-5345

Escondido, CA 92027

My website
I offer telehealth therapy sessions all day Saturday & Sunday and weekday afternoons allowing you to schedule around work or school.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Childhood Trauma and Anxiety 
$99 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (619) 330-5345
Photo of Melissa Lally, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Diego, CA 92108

(619) 330-5345

Escondido, CA 92027

My website
I offer telehealth therapy sessions all day Saturday & Sunday and weekday afternoons allowing you to schedule around work or school.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Childhood Trauma and Anxiety 
$99 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $99
  • Couple Sessions $150
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Allied Benefit Systems
  • Blue Shield
  • CA Medicare South
  • EAP ComPsych
  • EAP Samata
  • EAP Telus
  • Medi-Cal
  • Optum
  • Sharp Health Plan
  • UnitedHealthcare / Optum EAP
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Our practice is in network with Aetna, Allied Benefit Systems, Optum, Sharp Health Plan, United Healthcare, and as of 10/1/26 Blue Shield Promise (Medi-Cal). Reach out with any questions, we're happy to work with you to keep therapy affordable.
Photo of Melissa Lally, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Melissa Lally
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 330-5345
"
Our practice is in network with Aetna, Allied Benefit Systems, Optum, Sharp Health Plan, United Healthcare, and as of 10/1/26 Blue Shield Promise (Medi-Cal). Reach out with any questions, we're happy to work with you to keep therapy affordable.
Photo of Melissa Lally, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Melissa Lally
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 330-5345

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / 163557 Supervised by Erin Randoll (California / 93805) Melissa Anne Lally
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from The University of Texas at Austin MBA / 2012
  • Degree/Diploma from University of Southern California EdD in Organizational Change & Leadership / 2024
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Melissa is EMDR and Brainspotting trained and combines Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectic Behavior Therapy, and Internal Family Systems to help clients process trauma, shift limiting beliefs, and strengthen their resilience.
Photo of Melissa Lally, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Melissa Lally
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 330-5345
"
Melissa is EMDR and Brainspotting trained and combines Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectic Behavior Therapy, and Internal Family Systems to help clients process trauma, shift limiting beliefs, and strengthen their resilience.
Photo of Melissa Lally, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Melissa Lally
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 330-5345

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Childhood Trauma
  • Anxiety

Expertise

  • Anger Management
  • Career Counseling
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Domestic Violence
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • Infidelity
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Neurodivergence
  • Peer Relationships
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Relationship Issues
  • School Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Stress
  • Women's Issues
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Do you feel stuck, but not sure why? Maybe trauma still lingers, or anxiety has a grip on your days. You don't need answers before we start. Together, we'll get clear on your goals, then build on your strengths while adding new tools. You'll leave sessions feeling lighter, calmer, and a little more like yourself again.
Photo of Melissa Lally, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Melissa Lally
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 330-5345
"
Do you feel stuck, but not sure why? Maybe trauma still lingers, or anxiety has a grip on your days. You don't need answers before we start. Together, we'll get clear on your goals, then build on your strengths while adding new tools. You'll leave sessions feeling lighter, calmer, and a little more like yourself again.
Photo of Melissa Lally, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Melissa Lally
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 330-5345

3 Endorsements

Jacky Holland
Jacky Holland
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
Mel is a colleague of mine and is very experienced in trauma-informed therapy. There's a reason why her clients have stayed with her over long periods of time. She's an excellent, knowledgeable, and compassionate therapist. I highly recommend her.
Nadya Carolina Cogar
Nadya Carolina Cogar
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
Melissa is empathetic and nonjudgmental by nature, and intentional in the way she supports her clients. Her clinical strength, warmth, authenticity, and dedication help clients feel safe enough to heal, grow, and better understand themselves.
Kerstyn Ludlow
Kerstyn Ludlow
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateLAMFTMS
Mel is one of those therapists that just get it. She beautifully balances compassion with a growth mindset to help you feel fully supported in your growth. She embodies "trauma-informed" therapy and I would happily trust her with anyone needing support.

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Immuno-disorders
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Immuno-disorders
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Brainspotting
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • EMDR
  • Feminist
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Parts Work
  • Positive Psychology
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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Our work goes beyond just talking. Trauma lives in the body, not just the mind, so we use tools like EMDR and Brainspotting to help your nervous system process and let go of what's been stuck. We also use parts work to help you understand and make peace with the different sides of yourself.
Photo of Melissa Lally, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Melissa Lally
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 330-5345
"
Our work goes beyond just talking. Trauma lives in the body, not just the mind, so we use tools like EMDR and Brainspotting to help your nervous system process and let go of what's been stuck. We also use parts work to help you understand and make peace with the different sides of yourself.
Photo of Melissa Lally, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Melissa Lally
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (619) 330-5345

Location

Primary Location

San Diego, CA 92108

(619) 330-5345

Additional Location

Escondido, CA 92027

(619) 330-5345

Nearby Areas

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I offer telehealth therapy sessions all day Saturday & Sunday and weekday afternoons allowing you to schedule around work or school.
Photo of Melissa Lally, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Melissa Lally
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (619) 330-5345
"
I offer telehealth therapy sessions all day Saturday & Sunday and weekday afternoons allowing you to schedule around work or school.
Photo of Melissa Lally, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Melissa Lally
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (619) 330-5345