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Melissa L. Paul

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW (she, her)

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Brooklyn, NY 11231
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Available both in-person and online
Brooklyn, NY 11231
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From the outside, you holds everything together. The mental load, the emotional labor of your relationships, the pressure to always be perfect. It doesn't leave much room to check in with yourself. And yet underneath all of it there's a low hum of anxiety you can't quite explain, a fear that if you stop holding everything together something important will fall apart. A fear that you've put everything into your relationships and lost yourself in the process of caring for everyone else.In our work together, we slow things down so you can feel more confident, present, and connected to the people that matter most.
We’ll explore how you learned to connect, handle conflict, and take up space in relationships, and where those patterns began. I draw on relational and psychodynamic approaches, and use EMDR when something feels stuck that talking cannot reach. Together we notice what happens in real time so you can understand old patterns and begin responding differently.
You don't have to have everything figured out before reaching out. Many people start therapy simply knowing something doesn't feel right and wanting a place to understand it. If you have been the one holding everything together for a long time and you are ready for a space that is entirely yours, a free 15-minute consultation is a low pressure place to start
Call or Melissa L. Paul now for a free 15 minute consultation - (917) 746-4207

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Brooklyn, NY 11231

(917) 746-4207

68 Jay Street

Brooklyn, NY 11201 map

My website
I am available virtually and in person. I work with individuals and couples trying to deepen their relationships and feel connected.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Anxiety and Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum 
I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.
Melissa L. Paul
Let's Connect (917) 746-4207
Photo of Melissa L. Paul, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Brooklyn, NY 11231

(917) 746-4207

68 Jay Street

Brooklyn, NY 11201 map

My website
I am available virtually and in person. I work with individuals and couples trying to deepen their relationships and feel connected.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Anxiety and Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum 
I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.
Melissa L. Paul

Finances

Fees

  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Venmo, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Anthem
  • Blue Care Network
  • Blue Cross
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Carelon Behavioral Health
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Empire Blue Cross Blue Shield
  • Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield
  • Optum
  • Oxford
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Wellfleet
  • Out of Network
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We are out of network with all major insurance companies and offer a superbill to be submitted to insurance. We are offering a sliding scale rate at this time. Please reach out to learn more.
Photo of Melissa L. Paul, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa L. Paul
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 746-4207
"
We are out of network with all major insurance companies and offer a superbill to be submitted to insurance. We are offering a sliding scale rate at this time. Please reach out to learn more.
Photo of Melissa L. Paul, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa L. Paul
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 746-4207

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 0169735 Melissa L. Paul
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 14 years
  • Attended New York University
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from Ackerman Institute for The Family 2018
  • Certificate from Personal Transformation Institution (PTI) -EMDR 2023
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I have trained at The Ackerman Institute, Personal Transformation Institute and received credentials to be a certified Intuitive Eating Counselor. In addition to his, I am constantly learning, reading and enrolling in continued education to expand my knowledge base for clients.
Photo of Melissa L. Paul, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa L. Paul
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 746-4207
"
I have trained at The Ackerman Institute, Personal Transformation Institute and received credentials to be a certified Intuitive Eating Counselor. In addition to his, I am constantly learning, reading and enrolling in continued education to expand my knowledge base for clients.
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Melissa L. Paul
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 746-4207

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Anxiety
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum

Expertise

  • Body Image
  • Caregivers
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Eating Disorders
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infertility
  • Infidelity
  • LGBTQ+
  • Marital and Premarital
  • matrescence
  • Parenting
  • Self Esteem
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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As a relational therapist, my goal is to help you feel more connected to the things that matter to you most. Healing starts with connection, to ourselves and those we love, and I would be happy to join you in that work together.
Photo of Melissa L. Paul, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa L. Paul
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 746-4207
"
As a relational therapist, my goal is to help you feel more connected to the things that matter to you most. Healing starts with connection, to ourselves and those we love, and I would be happy to join you in that work together.
Photo of Melissa L. Paul, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa L. Paul
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 746-4207

9 Endorsements

Denisha Smith
Denisha Smith
Licensed Professional CounselorLCPCSEP
I highly recommend Melissa as a compassionate and skilled clinician. She has a gift for supporting women and couples through the challenges of relationships and life transitions. Her approach creates a safe, welcoming space for clients.
Nadia Fiorita, Holistic Anxiety Therapist
Nadia Fiorita, Holistic Anxiety Therapist
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSWCWMC
I wholeheartedly endorse Melissa as a compassionate and skilled therapist who specializes in helping women navigate relationships, dating, and emotional wellbeing. She brings a blend of clinical expertise and genuine empathy to every session!
Jalyse Stewart
Jalyse Stewart
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMA
Melissa helps women navigate dating, relationships, and couples challenges with warmth and insight. Her inviting, supportive approach empowers clients to heal, grow, and build deeper emotional connections. I highly recommend her!
Briana Roberts, PhD, LMFT- Identity Specialist
Briana Roberts, PhD, LMFT- Identity Specialist
Marriage & Family TherapistPhDLMFT
Melissa is a warm, insightful therapist who helps navigate dating, relationships, and couples work with clarity and confidence. Her approach is empowering, compassionate, and grounded in real, lasting change. I would highly recommend!
Jennifer Strehle Somatic/Trauma LMFT Therapist
Jennifer Strehle Somatic/Trauma LMFT Therapist
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT146538
I wholeheartedly recommend Melissa. Her compassion, skill, and dedication make her an exceptional clinician who creates a safe and supportive space for women and couples facing life's transitions.
Olivia Lavelle: EMDR + People-Pleasing
Olivia Lavelle: EMDR + People-Pleasing
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSWEMDRPPSC
Melissa is such a warm and intuitive therapist. She creates a grounded space where women and couples feel genuinely seen and supported. Her approach to relationships is thoughtful, empowering, and emotionally safe she helps clients understand themselves.
Dr. Marissa Geary - Anxiety, Grief, Relationships
Dr. Marissa Geary - Anxiety, Grief, Relationships
PsychologistPsyDMA
I highly recommend Melissa for individuals and couples seeking support with relationship issues and family conflict. She is insightful, and addresses each client's unique needs and goals. Melissa is highly skilled at fostering healthy communication skills!
Anna Steidl- Parent Support• Trauma • Somatic Work
Anna Steidl- Parent Support• Trauma • Somatic Work
Licensed Professional Clinical CounselorMALPCCCCTP
Melissa brings warmth and care to her work with individuals and couples. She helps clients explore emotions, repair relational wounds, and reconnect with themselves and others. Her thoughtful approach supports deeper understanding and lasting connection.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Couples Therapy
  • EMDR
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Gottman Method
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
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I am a relational therapist so I am always curious on how our challenges are impacting our relationship to self and others. I believe in collaborative therapy where we work together to make therapy work for you. I have extensive training in couples and trauma work.
Photo of Melissa L. Paul, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa L. Paul
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 746-4207
"
I am a relational therapist so I am always curious on how our challenges are impacting our relationship to self and others. I believe in collaborative therapy where we work together to make therapy work for you. I have extensive training in couples and trauma work.
Photo of Melissa L. Paul, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa L. Paul
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 746-4207

Location

Primary Location

Brooklyn, NY 11231

(917) 746-4207

Additional Location

68 Jay Street

Brooklyn, NY 11201

(917) 746-4207

Group Practice

MLP Therapy Group
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I am available virtually and in person. I work with individuals and couples trying to deepen their relationships and feel connected.
Photo of Melissa L. Paul, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa L. Paul
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (917) 746-4207
"
I am available virtually and in person. I work with individuals and couples trying to deepen their relationships and feel connected.
Photo of Melissa L. Paul, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Melissa L. Paul
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (917) 746-4207