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Melanie Castellari

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT (she, her)

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Oceanside, CA 92056
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Welcome, are you someone who feels like they're doing everything right on the outside, yet are struggling internally with a sense of disconnection, anxiety, or feeling stuck in a painful pattern? or maybe your a couple who has forgotten how to be friends, or an individual who feels overwhelmed by the pressure to keep it all together. What you need is a safe, compassionate space to unpack the 'why' behind the struggles and be seen without judgment. My goal isn't simply to stop a negative behavior, but to achieve a deeper transformation. Let's trade resentment for connection, and anxiety for a sense of purpose.
I specialize in helping adults navigate and heal from the effects of trauma, anxiety, & complex life transitions through many approaches including EMDR. For many clients, EMDR can accelerate the healing process, especially when talk therapy alone feels like it's not enough.
If you're ready to take the next step, I invite you to reach out. Healing is possible, and you don't have to do it alone. My team and I are just a phone call or email away.
Call or Melanie Castellari now for a free 15 minute consultation - (760) 903-5841

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Oceanside, CA 92056

(760) 903-5841

Albuquerque, NM 87104

My website
If you're ready to begin your journey toward greater well-being, fulfillment, and connection, I encourage you to schedule a session.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Coping Skills and Infidelity 
$210 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
Love on
Melanie Castellari
Let's Connect (760) 903-5841
Photo of Melanie Castellari, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Oceanside, CA 92056

(760) 903-5841

Albuquerque, NM 87104

My website
If you're ready to begin your journey toward greater well-being, fulfillment, and connection, I encourage you to schedule a session.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Coping Skills and Infidelity 
$210 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
Love on
Melanie Castellari

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $210
  • Couple Sessions $210
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Apple Cash, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Venmo, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Anthem
  • BCBS of MA
  • Blue Cross
  • Blue Shield
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Carelon Behavioral Health
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Empire Blue Cross Blue Shield
  • Health Net
  • Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield
  • Independence Blue Cross
  • Kaiser (Out-of-Network)
  • Magellan
  • Medicare
  • MHNet Behavioral Health
  • Molina Healthcare
  • Optum
  • Oscar Health
  • Oxford
  • Providence
  • Quest Behavioral Health
  • Sentara Health Plans
  • TriWest
  • United Medical Resources (UMR)
  • United Medicare Advantage
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • western health advantage
  • Out of Network
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Don't let financial concerns hold you back from seeking support. We offer a sliding scale, accept most insurance plans, and are committed to working with you to find a solution that fits your needs. Your well-being is our priority.
Photo of Melanie Castellari, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Melanie Castellari
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 903-5841
"
Don't let financial concerns hold you back from seeking support. We offer a sliding scale, accept most insurance plans, and are committed to working with you to find a solution that fits your needs. Your well-being is our priority.
Photo of Melanie Castellari, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Melanie Castellari
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 903-5841

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 96660 Melanie Castellari
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 24 years
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from Mike Staver Certified Coach
  • Certificate from Clinical Supervision - CAMFT
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As a licensed therapist in California, New Mexico, and Virginia, I bring over 20 years of experience working with couples, individuals, and families. This diverse background has given me the opportunity to support clients across various stages of life and cultural contexts.
Photo of Melanie Castellari, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Melanie Castellari
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 903-5841
"
As a licensed therapist in California, New Mexico, and Virginia, I bring over 20 years of experience working with couples, individuals, and families. This diverse background has given me the opportunity to support clients across various stages of life and cultural contexts.
Photo of Melanie Castellari, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Melanie Castellari
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 903-5841

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Sex Therapy
  • Coping Skills
  • Infidelity

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Adoption
  • Alcohol Use
  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Body Image
  • Cancer
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Dissociative Disorders (DID)
  • Dual Diagnosis
  • Eating Disorders
  • Family Conflict
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • Infertility
  • LGBTQ+
  • Mood Disorders
  • Personality Disorders
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Self Esteem
  • Self-Harming
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Substance Use
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I enjoy creating a safe nurturing environment free from distractions in a safe place to be yourself. No topic is off bounds, meeting people where they are and helping them to get where they need to be.
Photo of Melanie Castellari, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Melanie Castellari
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 903-5841
"
I enjoy creating a safe nurturing environment free from distractions in a safe place to be yourself. No topic is off bounds, meeting people where they are and helping them to get where they need to be.
Photo of Melanie Castellari, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Melanie Castellari
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 903-5841

2 Endorsements

Theresa C Rodriguez
Theresa C Rodriguez
Marriage & Family TherapistCADCLMFT
I highly recommend Melanie Castellari. Her rare blend of sharp insight and deep compassion allows her to navigate complexity with grace, empowering clients to achieve lasting change. Any individual, couple, or family is truly fortunate to work with her.
Eileen Lopez
Eileen Lopez
Associate Clinical Social WorkerACSW
I confidently endorse my colleague, Melanie Castellari, LMFT. Her therapeutic expertise, strong ethical foundation, & commitment to client well-being are second to none. She consistently demonstrates a sophisticated understanding of relational dynamic.

Client Focus

Age

Children (6 to 10)
Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Age

Children (6 to 10)
Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Attachment-based
  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Eclectic
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Person-Centered
  • Play Therapy
  • Psychodynamic
  • Rational Emotive Behavior (REBT)
  • Somatic
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Embark on a therapeutic journey with me, where your comfort is paramount, and your growth is our shared success.
Photo of Melanie Castellari, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Melanie Castellari
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 903-5841
"
Embark on a therapeutic journey with me, where your comfort is paramount, and your growth is our shared success.
Photo of Melanie Castellari, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Melanie Castellari
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 903-5841

Location

Primary Location

Oceanside, CA 92056

(760) 903-5841

Additional Location

Albuquerque, NM 87104

(760) 903-5841
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If you're ready to begin your journey toward greater well-being, fulfillment, and connection, I encourage you to schedule a session.
Photo of Melanie Castellari, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Melanie Castellari
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (760) 903-5841
"
If you're ready to begin your journey toward greater well-being, fulfillment, and connection, I encourage you to schedule a session.
Photo of Melanie Castellari, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Melanie Castellari
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (760) 903-5841