Megan Bathen-Gonzalez, Couples & Relational Trauma

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

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Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

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Maybe it's the same dynamic playing out in your relationship again, the fight that somehow isn't really about what started it. You can see it happening, you know where it's going, and you still can't stop it. You say yes when you mean no and lie awake resenting yourself for it. You're the one who overexplains or braces for things to fall apart even when nothing's wrong. Maybe trust got broken and you don't know how to rebuild it, or you feel more like roommates. You would never speak to someone you love the way you speak to yourself, and yet the voice doesn't stop, and neither does the cycle with the person across from you.

I work with couples untangling the same repeated fight, rebuilding trust after infidelity, reconnecting after growing distant, or deciding whether to stay or go. I work with individuals carrying anxiety, a harsh inner critic, or relational trauma from a family that didn't feel safe. We trace it to where it started, so old reactions stop running the show.

You don't have to have it figured out to reach out. If something here resonated, that's enough. I offer a free 15-minute consultation. No pressure, just a conversation to see if this feels right. You deserve a space where all of you, and all of what you're carrying with someone else, is welcome.

Call or Email Megan Bathen-Gonzalez, Couples & Relational Trauma now for a free 15 minute consultation - (408) 341-9146

Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Los Gatos, CA 95032

(408) 341-9146

Saratoga, CA 95070

Website

Helping individuals and couples untangle old patterns and actually shift them, not just understand them.

I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Relationship Issues and Marital and Premarital

$230 Per Session

I see individuals and couples

You can see the pattern. You just can't stop it yet. That's where we start.

Megan Bathen-Gonzalez, Couples & Relational Trauma

Let's Connect (408) 341-9146

Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Los Gatos, CA 95032

(408) 341-9146

Saratoga, CA 95070

Website

Helping individuals and couples untangle old patterns and actually shift them, not just understand them.

I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Relationship Issues and Marital and Premarital

$230 Per Session

I see individuals and couples

You can see the pattern. You just can't stop it yet. That's where we start.

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $230
Couple Sessions $260
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

Out of Network

I am an out of network provider. PPO clients are welcome to request a superbill for potential out-of-network reimbursement. You might be able to get reimbursed for out-of-network therapy-Check here: mentaya.co/b/meganbathen-gonzalezpsychotherapy

Megan Bathen-Gonzalez, Couples & Relational Trauma

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 341-9146

Megan Bathen-Gonzalez, Couples & Relational Trauma

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 341-9146

Qualifications

Marriage & Family Therapist: Megan Bathen-Gonzalez

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 150616 Megan Bathen-Gonzalez

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 6 years

Attended Pepperdine University, Masters, Graduated 2021

Additional Credentials

License: BBS LMFT 150616

Megan Bathen-Gonzalez, Couples & Relational Trauma

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. Email or (408) 341-9146

Megan Bathen-Gonzalez, Couples & Relational Trauma

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. Email or (408) 341-9146

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Trauma and PTSD
Relationship Issues
Marital and Premarital

Expertise

Anxiety
Infidelity
Self Esteem

The patterns keeping you stuck usually trace back further than you think. Whether it's anxiety, relationship conflict, trauma, or family wounds, we get to the root. Treatment is tailored to you, but expect real conversation, honest reflection, and gradual but lasting shifts. Most clients leave feeling more grounded, more connected, and finally like themselves again.

Megan Bathen-Gonzalez, Couples & Relational Trauma

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 341-9146

Megan Bathen-Gonzalez, Couples & Relational Trauma

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 341-9146

37 Endorsements

Kelsey Weiss

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Megan is very warm and approachable. She has expertise working with individuals, couples and families. She is skilled at helping people cope with a variety of concerns, as well as understand deeper patterns in their relationships. I highly recommend her!

Dr. Elizabeth Gordon — Anxiety and Eating Recovery

Psychologist, PsyD

Megan is a fantastic clinician, bringing both compassion and skill to her work with couples, families, and individuals looking to heal from trauma, anxiety, and challenging relationship dynamics. I highly recommend working with her!

Jenna Bekier- Grief. Divorce. Break Ups. Parts Work

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Megan offers a meaningful therapeutic experience for her clients who are looking to explore their relationship patterns & attachment wounds. Her use of IFS and other somatic, trauma informed techniques set her apart as an expert. I highly recommend Megan!

Postpartum & Hormonal Therapist -Talor Hawkins

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW

Megan creates a warm, grounded space where clients can explore attachment patterns, trauma, and the stories that shape their lives. Her integrative approach blends somatic awareness, mindfulness, and deep compassion to support meaningful, lasting change.

Kellie Boyle, EMDR, Trauma, Mid Life

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC

I highly recommend Megan for anyone going through life transitions, wanting to feel more connected, or couples struggling in their relationship. Her expertise in somatic awareness, IFS, and mindfulness are key components in helping her clients heal.

Princess Spikes

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, LCSW

I highly recommend Megan. Their expertise in couples therapy, trauma, anxiety, attachment, and relationship patterns helps clients gain insight, strengthen connections, and create meaningful, lasting change.

Caroline Tudor-- Couples, Anxiety, Substance Use

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

Megan is a kind, thoughtful, experienced therapist who is deeply invest in her client's well-being. Her energy is warm and kind, making people feel immediately comfortable to open up and do the hard work of healing. I highly recommend her.

Amanda Werdann - BPD & Trauma Specialist

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW

Megan helps individuals and couples understand the deeper patterns shaping their relationships. She brings an attachment-focused approach and supports clients in healing from trauma, reducing anxiety, and building more secure relationships. I recommend her

Keri Baker - Self-Esteem & Body Image Therapist

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, QS, CIEC

Highly recommend Megan for couples and individuals ready to understand why they keep ending up in the same place. She shines with of trauma, anxiety, and attachment, helping you rewrite the relationship patterns that have been running the show

The DBT Center of Pennsylvania- Erin O'Brien

Licensed Professional Counselor, MPhil, LPC, LBC-DBT

Megan's skillset in healing attachment wounds, identifying behavioral patterns, and processing trauma is expansive and impressive. She utilizes practices like IFS, mindfulness, and somatic awareness to provide you with observable change and improvement.

Jane Slomski- Anxiety, Young Adults & Life Changes

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW

Megan's warm and person-centered approach to therapy helps clients go deeper and really get to the root of their difficulties, so that change can happen. She combines attachment and IFS interventions with genuine, healing therapeutic relationships.

Emily Dillon:Therapy for Anxiety, Burnout & Stress

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PPSC

Megan is a knowledgable and caring clinician specializing in attachment wounds, relationship patterns, and trauma recovery, helping clients gain insight into longstanding dynamics and create healthier, more fulfilling connections.

Kindra Westercamp, Couples Therapist

Psychologist, PhD

I endorse Megan as a skilled clinician for couples struggling with disconnection/conflict as well as for clients weighted down with anxious, spiraling thoughts. Her approach weaves together attachment science and somatic awareness.

Sara Moss - Anxiety, Trauma & Somatic Therapy

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT

Megan helps individuals and couples heal from trauma, anxiety, and attachment wounds that affect their relationships. Her warm, insightful approach helps clients understand relationship patterns, build deeper connection, and create lasting change.

Christina Arceri, ADHD & Disordered Eating

Counselor, LMHC-D, LPC

I highly recommend Megan for anyone exhausted by people-pleasing and deep self-criticism. She helps clients trace the root of these patterns, break reactive cycles, and safely build a kinder relationship with themselves.

Best Life Counseling Services Postpartum Therapist

Counselor, MS, LPCC

Megan creates a warm, supportive space where clients feel safe exploring anxiety, relationship challenges, and past wounds. Her compassionate approach helps people gain insight, strengthen connections, and move toward lasting, meaningful change.

Cassandra Kandah

Psychologist, MS, PhD, LCP

This marriage and family therapist, helps exhausted high achievers break painful relationship cycles, set boundaries without guilt, and quiet relentless self-criticism so they can feel connected, grounded, and genuinely good enough in their lives.

Angie Yemma, Perfectionist Therapist

MS, LCAT, BC-DMT

Megan is a warm and compassionate therapist who helps clients heal from anxiety, trauma, emotionally immature family dynamics, and people-pleasing. Her thoughtful approach fosters self-trust, healthier relationships, and lasting emotional growth.

A Haven To Put It Down Jocelyn Jarman

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW

Megan provides compassionate, evidence-based therapy for anxiety and trauma. She creates a safe, supportive space where clients can process difficult experiences, build resilience, and develop practical tools to heal and move forward with confidence.

Jennifer Hodges, Therapy for Burnout

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S

Megan offers a warm, insightful space for clients feeling exhausted by people-pleasing, self-criticism, and relationship patterns. She helps clients understand where old coping began and move toward stronger boundaries and self-trust.

Jenn Frake- Anxiety Therapy

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, RYT

Megan is an outstanding therapist. Her compassionate, expert approach to treating anxiety and relationship challenges empowers clients to achieve lasting growth. I confidently recommend her.

Hugh Pinnock - Couples Therapist

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Megan is wonderful and compassionate! She wil help you feel ready to take on your goals and help you feel energized along the way! Highly recommended!

Shariyfa-Overthinking People Pleasing Self Worth

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Megan helps couples rebuild trust, heal after infidelity, and strengthen their relationship. Her compassionate approach creates a safe space for honest conversations, deeper connection, and lasting change.

Another Day Psychology: Leticia Tye, LPCC, LMHC

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC, LMHC, PMH-C

Megan provides compassionate, effective therapy for individuals and couples navigating communication, trust, and relationship challenges. Her warm, collaborative approach helps clients build stronger, healthier connections. I highly recommend her!

Emily Soen, Trauma Therapist

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSWAIC

Megan is a warm and compassionate clinician, helping individuals and couples decipher old patterns and actually shift them. She creates a tailored, specific approach that will meet your unique goals, assisting you in getting to the root of your patterns.

Nikah Chevalier-Amy, Healing the 'Strong Ones'

Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC

Megan helps couples rebuild trust after infidelity, communicate honestly, and gain real relationship clarity. From premarital counseling to deep repair work, she serves individuals, couples, and families across California. Highly recommend!

Jessica EMDR, Trauma & Life Transitions Therapist

Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC

Megan has a remarkable ability to help clients understand the deeper patterns that shape their relationships and sense of self. She creates a compassionate, nonjudgmental space where people feel safe enough to explore long-standing cycles of self-criticism

Elyse Gardner, LPCA, Somatic Therapist

Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, LPCA, LPCC

Megan helps individuals and couples untangle the patterns that keep replaying, especially the ones rooted in overexplaining and people-pleasing. Her attachment and somatic approach gets to the root, not just the surface. Highly recommend her.

Therapy For Burnout in High-Achieving Women

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LAC, PMH-C

Megan is one of my go-to referrals for people in California. If you're struggling with people pleasing in your relationships, she will gently support you through patterns that leave you self-sacrificing and resentful.

Koalani Lahr, Postpartum & Anxiety Therapist

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

Megan provides compassionate therapy for individuals and couples navigating trauma, anxiety, relationship patterns, and attachment concerns. Her warm, collaborative approach helps clients feel supported as they heal, grow, and build stronger connections.

Georgina Kasih

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Megan is exceptionally skilled in her ability to help individuals and couples explore attachment wounds and break cycles of conflict. She creates a profoundly safe and attuned environment where clients can rebuild trust after deep disconnection.

Dr. Kenesha Mitchell Grief, Anxiety, OCD Therapy

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Megan is a compassionate therapist who helps couples navigate relational trauma and attachment challenges. Her warm, supportive approach helps clients understand patterns, strengthen emotional connection, and build healthier, more secure relationships.

DeJa Jovon: Sex & Relationship Therapy

Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, LCPC

Megan specializes in relational trauma and attachment work, helping couples navigate complex relationship dynamics with compassion and insight. She creates space for healing, deeper connection, and understanding. She is a clinician I highly recommend!

Hector Saavedra, Late-Diagnosed ADHD Therapist

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, M.S.

I recommend working with Megan if you are looking for a couple's therapist to help you work through relational trauma and rebuild trust and connection with your partner. Megan's attachment-informed and direct approach has helped many couples reconnect.

Keisha Libbrecht, Anxiety & Relationship Therapist

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Megan is someone I trust with couples who feel stuck in the same painful patterns. She brings warmth, honesty, and skill to couples therapy and relational trauma, helping partners rebuild trust and feel safe and connected again.

Sarah Mireles Therapy

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC, MA, CLC

Megan is an amazing clinician! I trust sending my clients to her for relational and couples therapy. She does a great job working with individuals and couples heal their unhealthy attachments and healing after a relationship rupture.

Sabiha Zaman, Anxiety Therapist for BIPOC Adults

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW

Megan is truly skilled in working with individuals and couples trying to move through challenging times in their lives and heal from trauma and anxiety. Her understanding of IFS, mindfulness, and somatic awareness help clients feels seen and understood.

Client Focus

Age

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples

I also speak

Spanish

Age

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples

I also speak

Spanish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Attachment-based
Emotionally Focused
Gottman Method
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Narrative
Psychodynamic
Somatic

You won't just talk about what's wrong. We'll actually get to what's underneath it. Sessions are active, honest, and collaborative. Expect to be gently challenged, deeply heard, and to leave with more clarity than you came in with. I draw on attachment work, inner child exploration, and practical tools to help you understand your patterns and build something different.

Megan Bathen-Gonzalez, Couples & Relational Trauma

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 341-9146

Megan Bathen-Gonzalez, Couples & Relational Trauma

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (408) 341-9146