Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Windham, ME
I specialize in helping men who struggle with isolation, feelings of anxiety and depression, blocks to intimacy, addiction to pornography, lack of male friends, a feeling of being lost or without a deep sense of purpose, or feeling numb and disconnected from life. As men, we are socialized to keep everything to ourselves, which makes it hard for us to admit when we're lonely, hurting, and in need of support. Many of us grew up with fathers that were absent, abusive, or detached emotionally, leaving us without a respectable model of masculinity and without much direction in life.
I specialize in helping men who struggle with isolation, feelings of anxiety and depression, blocks to intimacy, addiction to pornography, lack of male friends, a feeling of being lost or without a deep sense of purpose, or feeling numb and disconnected from life. As men, we are socialized to keep everything to ourselves, which makes it hard for us to admit when we're lonely, hurting, and in need of support. Many of us grew up with fathers that were absent, abusive, or detached emotionally, leaving us without a respectable model of masculinity and without much direction in life.
Struggling to find a therapist who gets it?! I have a passion for working with Creatives, Queers, Misfits, and those deemed “Too Much” or “Overly Sensitive”. Feeling stuck, lost, teary, distant, numb, cranky, sad, or stressed?! Self-discovery and change is possible when one has the opportunity to feel connected with their therapist and both commit to the process. I am committed to a safe space, free of judgement, and familiar with all the ways the experience of difference can take a toll in one’s life. Providing Telehealth state-wide in California and Maine.
Struggling to find a therapist who gets it?! I have a passion for working with Creatives, Queers, Misfits, and those deemed “Too Much” or “Overly Sensitive”. Feeling stuck, lost, teary, distant, numb, cranky, sad, or stressed?! Self-discovery and change is possible when one has the opportunity to feel connected with their therapist and both commit to the process. I am committed to a safe space, free of judgement, and familiar with all the ways the experience of difference can take a toll in one’s life. Providing Telehealth state-wide in California and Maine.
My name is Dawn Blake, and I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). I tend to take a relaxed approach to therapy, meeting you where you find yourself currently. When it comes to focus areas of practice, I use a wide variety - Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Strengths-Based / Solution - Focused, and Narrative Therapy - I consider myself to have an eclectic style and use what I have at my disposal. I work well with a variety of ages and populations, from children to the elderly, to those struggling with co-occurring disorders and life changes, anxiety and schizophrenia. All are welcome.
My name is Dawn Blake, and I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). I tend to take a relaxed approach to therapy, meeting you where you find yourself currently. When it comes to focus areas of practice, I use a wide variety - Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Strengths-Based / Solution - Focused, and Narrative Therapy - I consider myself to have an eclectic style and use what I have at my disposal. I work well with a variety of ages and populations, from children to the elderly, to those struggling with co-occurring disorders and life changes, anxiety and schizophrenia. All are welcome.
Hi there! Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. In counseling, it is important to feel supported and safe in the space you are doing therapy, and I am hopeful to be the provider who can provide this to you. My goal is to work in collaboration with you to improve your relationship with yourself and others. When you decide to do counseling with me, you will have a guide who is open-minded, understanding, direct, and supportive.
Hi there! Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. In counseling, it is important to feel supported and safe in the space you are doing therapy, and I am hopeful to be the provider who can provide this to you. My goal is to work in collaboration with you to improve your relationship with yourself and others. When you decide to do counseling with me, you will have a guide who is open-minded, understanding, direct, and supportive.
I see the development of relationships with my clients as the most important element of therapeutic work. From there, with growing trust and a common goal, all things seem possible. I use a variety of other evidence-based practices including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Person-Centered Therapy and Psychodynamic Therapy to help my clients get what they want from their therapeutic work.
I see the development of relationships with my clients as the most important element of therapeutic work. From there, with growing trust and a common goal, all things seem possible. I use a variety of other evidence-based practices including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Person-Centered Therapy and Psychodynamic Therapy to help my clients get what they want from their therapeutic work.
Feeling stuck, sad, angry, anxious, numb? Feeling like things just aren't working out or your not living your potential? In our sessions, I can help you gain understanding, resolve problems, improve communication, deepen relationships, and experience a more fulfilling life.
Feeling stuck, sad, angry, anxious, numb? Feeling like things just aren't working out or your not living your potential? In our sessions, I can help you gain understanding, resolve problems, improve communication, deepen relationships, and experience a more fulfilling life.
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I work with people navigating life’s many challenges, whether that’s personal or professional growth, managing depression or anxiety, coping with caregiving or chronic illness, processing grief, exploring gender or sexual identity, or navigating polyamory, consensual non-monogamy, kink, or sex work.
I am a licensed therapist in New Hampshire, Maine, Massachusetts, Oklahoma, and Vermont, and I provide LGBTQIA-affirming therapy for individuals and couples. My approach is collaborative and grounded in the belief that you are the expert in your own experience.
Seeking therapy often comes during times of stress, change, or uncertainty and taking that first step can be difficult. I offer a supportive, nonjudgmental space to explore what’s happening in your life and find solutions that fit you.
Together, we’ll identify your goals and build on your strengths, helping you heal, grow, and move toward the life you want.
I work with people navigating life’s many challenges, whether that’s personal or professional growth, managing depression or anxiety, coping with caregiving or chronic illness, processing grief, exploring gender or sexual identity, or navigating polyamory, consensual non-monogamy, kink, or sex work.
I am a licensed therapist in New Hampshire, Maine, Massachusetts, Oklahoma, and Vermont, and I provide LGBTQIA-affirming therapy for individuals and couples. My approach is collaborative and grounded in the belief that you are the expert in your own experience.
Seeking therapy often comes during times of stress, change, or uncertainty and taking that first step can be difficult. I offer a supportive, nonjudgmental space to explore what’s happening in your life and find solutions that fit you.
Together, we’ll identify your goals and build on your strengths, helping you heal, grow, and move toward the life you want.
My name is Benjamin Ward, I am a clinically licensed in social worker (LCSW) with specialized training as a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP). My practice is built on the belief that true healing is holistic. I provide integrative telehealth therapy to guide adults and seniors in understanding and uniting their mental, emotional, and physical well-being.
My name is Benjamin Ward, I am a clinically licensed in social worker (LCSW) with specialized training as a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP). My practice is built on the belief that true healing is holistic. I provide integrative telehealth therapy to guide adults and seniors in understanding and uniting their mental, emotional, and physical well-being.
Please visit my website (www.emily-walsh.com) for information about me and my practice.
Please visit my website (www.emily-walsh.com) for information about me and my practice.
My practice is rooted in presence, care, and the belief that healing happens when we are fully seen—especially in the places we’ve had to hide to survive. As Black queer therapist with lived experience navigating religious abuse, racial violence, trauma, addiction, and grief, I bring a rare depth of compassion to my work. Many of my clients are people who may be struggling with emotional intensity, trauma, anxiety, depression, substance use, or grief. My therapeutic approach blends Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), somatic mindfulness, and psychodynamic.
My practice is rooted in presence, care, and the belief that healing happens when we are fully seen—especially in the places we’ve had to hide to survive. As Black queer therapist with lived experience navigating religious abuse, racial violence, trauma, addiction, and grief, I bring a rare depth of compassion to my work. Many of my clients are people who may be struggling with emotional intensity, trauma, anxiety, depression, substance use, or grief. My therapeutic approach blends Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), somatic mindfulness, and psychodynamic.
I work with adults of all ages who need a safe and consistent place to heal from trauma, manage pain and stress more effectively, and learn skills and new ways of being that lead to feeling calmer and more confident when facing life’s demands. I help with processing traumatic events, major changes or life transitions, significant losses, and other life events that rock our stability and challenge our sense of the world and who we are in it. The trauma-informed work I do helps build clarity and understanding around your life, its impact, and your needs, leaving a lot more space to breathe, and heal when needed.
I work with adults of all ages who need a safe and consistent place to heal from trauma, manage pain and stress more effectively, and learn skills and new ways of being that lead to feeling calmer and more confident when facing life’s demands. I help with processing traumatic events, major changes or life transitions, significant losses, and other life events that rock our stability and challenge our sense of the world and who we are in it. The trauma-informed work I do helps build clarity and understanding around your life, its impact, and your needs, leaving a lot more space to breathe, and heal when needed.
Do you find yourself putting the needs of others before your own, only to feel exhausted or resentful? Does it feel difficult to know what you want or how you feel in the moment?For many people, prioritizing the needs and feelings of others began early in life and has continued into adulthood, often leading to symptoms of anxiety and depression. I work with clients to identify and better understand how these patterns are showing up in adulthood, reconnect with feelings and needs, learn to communicate more assertively, and build healthier, more balanced relationships without being overwhelmed by guilt.
Do you find yourself putting the needs of others before your own, only to feel exhausted or resentful? Does it feel difficult to know what you want or how you feel in the moment?For many people, prioritizing the needs and feelings of others began early in life and has continued into adulthood, often leading to symptoms of anxiety and depression. I work with clients to identify and better understand how these patterns are showing up in adulthood, reconnect with feelings and needs, learn to communicate more assertively, and build healthier, more balanced relationships without being overwhelmed by guilt.
So many of us have been cut off from our bodies, creativity, and exploring or expressing our authentic selves. I’m passionate about helping you revive those connections so you can live more of the life you want. Doing that often isn’t easy, but it can be so worth it, and you deserve access to your full aliveness. My goal is to create a space where you can explore your diverse experiences and fully welcome all aspects of your multifaceted self. Whether you're looking to feel more connected and resourced, heal from trauma, shift patterns, or reclaim your voice, creativity, or agency, I'd love to support you.
So many of us have been cut off from our bodies, creativity, and exploring or expressing our authentic selves. I’m passionate about helping you revive those connections so you can live more of the life you want. Doing that often isn’t easy, but it can be so worth it, and you deserve access to your full aliveness. My goal is to create a space where you can explore your diverse experiences and fully welcome all aspects of your multifaceted self. Whether you're looking to feel more connected and resourced, heal from trauma, shift patterns, or reclaim your voice, creativity, or agency, I'd love to support you.
I'm glad you are here. Please read on to see if we might be a good fit. Please note I only have two openings: Tues biweekly 9:30am; Thurs biweekly 5:30pm. Many people come to therapy feeling weighed down by relationship struggles, anxious thoughts, self-doubt, or the lingering effects of past trauma. I support young adults as they navigate life transitions, discover their voice, and build self-trust. I am currently pursuing certification in Sex Therapy and welcome conversations around sexuality. Together, we'll uncover your strengths, ease self-doubt, and move toward a life with more clarity, confidence, and fulfillment.
I'm glad you are here. Please read on to see if we might be a good fit. Please note I only have two openings: Tues biweekly 9:30am; Thurs biweekly 5:30pm. Many people come to therapy feeling weighed down by relationship struggles, anxious thoughts, self-doubt, or the lingering effects of past trauma. I support young adults as they navigate life transitions, discover their voice, and build self-trust. I am currently pursuing certification in Sex Therapy and welcome conversations around sexuality. Together, we'll uncover your strengths, ease self-doubt, and move toward a life with more clarity, confidence, and fulfillment.
My clients often seek relief from anxiety, depression, ADHD, substance misuse, grief, or struggles adapting to life changes. Some wonder if they experience autism, or what to make of a recent diagnosis. The therapeutic space we create together becomes a safe—if not always comfortable—place to explore what's worked before, what you'd like to change, and what that change can look like or mean for you. I am honored to work with you, and learn about your personal journey and goals. I have experience with a wide range of clients including military veterans and first responders, creative professionals, students, and the LGBTQ+ community.
My clients often seek relief from anxiety, depression, ADHD, substance misuse, grief, or struggles adapting to life changes. Some wonder if they experience autism, or what to make of a recent diagnosis. The therapeutic space we create together becomes a safe—if not always comfortable—place to explore what's worked before, what you'd like to change, and what that change can look like or mean for you. I am honored to work with you, and learn about your personal journey and goals. I have experience with a wide range of clients including military veterans and first responders, creative professionals, students, and the LGBTQ+ community.
Are you tired of feeling trapped? Do you feel like you don’t fit in anywhere—including therapy? Welcome; I'm a therapist who doesn’t fit in here either. I don’t believe in offering "coping skills" for triggers, I believe in eliminating your need to be triggered in the first place. And I believe that what you think your problems are, are likely not your actual problems.
Are you tired of feeling trapped? Do you feel like you don’t fit in anywhere—including therapy? Welcome; I'm a therapist who doesn’t fit in here either. I don’t believe in offering "coping skills" for triggers, I believe in eliminating your need to be triggered in the first place. And I believe that what you think your problems are, are likely not your actual problems.
The Coastal Institute has immediate openings for individual therapy, family therapy, couples counseling, and parent coaching. I have expertise in attachment trauma and it's utility as a frame to address parenting challenges and fractured families. With couples I use Crucible & Gottman frames to address issues with intimacy and communication. I am also an expert in the diagnosis and treatment of personality disorders. I work with my clients to understand what lead to their challenges, and create a plan to address their unique needs. I use Mentalization Based Therapy (MBT) in addition to other methods of treatment.
The Coastal Institute has immediate openings for individual therapy, family therapy, couples counseling, and parent coaching. I have expertise in attachment trauma and it's utility as a frame to address parenting challenges and fractured families. With couples I use Crucible & Gottman frames to address issues with intimacy and communication. I am also an expert in the diagnosis and treatment of personality disorders. I work with my clients to understand what lead to their challenges, and create a plan to address their unique needs. I use Mentalization Based Therapy (MBT) in addition to other methods of treatment.
I also am experienced in treating hoarding disorder, phobias, trauma, PTSD, and sex therapy for individuals navigating shame, identity, kink, or sexual compulsivity concerns.
Choosing a new therapist can be intimidating. Maybe you've spent years wondering if what goes on in your head is something a therapist has ever heard of before. Maybe you've had thoughts so disturbing you fear you could never share them. Maybe you've been in therapy that helped a little but never quite touched the thing you actually came in for. OCD is one of the most misunderstood conditions out there, and many people who have it spend years not getting the right treatment. If any of that sounds familiar, you're in the right place.
I also am experienced in treating hoarding disorder, phobias, trauma, PTSD, and sex therapy for individuals navigating shame, identity, kink, or sexual compulsivity concerns.
Choosing a new therapist can be intimidating. Maybe you've spent years wondering if what goes on in your head is something a therapist has ever heard of before. Maybe you've had thoughts so disturbing you fear you could never share them. Maybe you've been in therapy that helped a little but never quite touched the thing you actually came in for. OCD is one of the most misunderstood conditions out there, and many people who have it spend years not getting the right treatment. If any of that sounds familiar, you're in the right place.
Summer is considered by many the most beautiful season here in Maine. At the same time, this time of year can intensify expectations that we be happy, active, and social. It's not unlike the pressure we sometimes feel around holidays or anniversaries. As lovely as it is, summer in Maine can also demand a lot of us. There might be less empathy available if you're experiencing this time differently for any reason. Feeling at odds with the prevailing energy can be lonely, but no one can live in Vacationland of the mind all the time.
Summer is considered by many the most beautiful season here in Maine. At the same time, this time of year can intensify expectations that we be happy, active, and social. It's not unlike the pressure we sometimes feel around holidays or anniversaries. As lovely as it is, summer in Maine can also demand a lot of us. There might be less empathy available if you're experiencing this time differently for any reason. Feeling at odds with the prevailing energy can be lonely, but no one can live in Vacationland of the mind all the time.
Everyone's journey is unique, so I integrate a variety of modalities into my clinical practice to provide strategies that best meet your individual needs and style. I offer the tools of breath, body, mind, and narrative, to teach you to respond rather than to react. Through mind-body therapy practices along with the spirit of curiosity and creativity, I can help you gain greater clarity in your present life and cultivate more compassion towards yourself and others. Our work will be collaborative. I believe that connection and mutual understanding best promotes healing.
Everyone's journey is unique, so I integrate a variety of modalities into my clinical practice to provide strategies that best meet your individual needs and style. I offer the tools of breath, body, mind, and narrative, to teach you to respond rather than to react. Through mind-body therapy practices along with the spirit of curiosity and creativity, I can help you gain greater clarity in your present life and cultivate more compassion towards yourself and others. Our work will be collaborative. I believe that connection and mutual understanding best promotes healing.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.