Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Gorham, ME

Cecile Jane Velilla
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
You don't have to navigate this alone. I specialize in helping individuals who have experienced domestic violence rebuild trust, regain autonomy, and rediscover their voice. Whether you're processing past trauma or untangling present dynamics, I provide a warm, empowering space where healing becomes possible. In addition to trauma-focused work, I’m passionate about supporting adults who feel stuck, anxious, or uncertain about changing life circumstances. Life can often throw a curveball and make things feel chaotic.
You don't have to navigate this alone. I specialize in helping individuals who have experienced domestic violence rebuild trust, regain autonomy, and rediscover their voice. Whether you're processing past trauma or untangling present dynamics, I provide a warm, empowering space where healing becomes possible. In addition to trauma-focused work, I’m passionate about supporting adults who feel stuck, anxious, or uncertain about changing life circumstances. Life can often throw a curveball and make things feel chaotic.
(207) 389-7370 View (207) 389-7370
Dr. Echo Dixon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW
Serves Area
I currently do not have openings and do not have a waitlist. The world is currently facing unprecedented challenges that can cause an immense amount of mental health stress. I specialize in coercive control, narcissistic abuse, and covert abuse. I have training in CBT and DBT, specializing in understanding behavioral reactions and urges. Please get in touch with me to discuss the treatment that matches your emotional, mental, and financial needs.
I currently do not have openings and do not have a waitlist. The world is currently facing unprecedented challenges that can cause an immense amount of mental health stress. I specialize in coercive control, narcissistic abuse, and covert abuse. I have training in CBT and DBT, specializing in understanding behavioral reactions and urges. Please get in touch with me to discuss the treatment that matches your emotional, mental, and financial needs.
(207) 245-1476 View (207) 245-1476
Dawn Blake
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
My name is Dawn Blake, and I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). I tend to take a relaxed approach to therapy, meeting you where you find yourself currently. When it comes to focus areas of practice, I use a wide variety - Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Strengths-Based / Solution - Focused, and Narrative Therapy - I consider myself to have an eclectic style and use what I have at my disposal. I work well with a variety of ages and populations, from children to the elderly, to those struggling with co-occurring disorders and life changes, anxiety and schizophrenia. All are welcome.
My name is Dawn Blake, and I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). I tend to take a relaxed approach to therapy, meeting you where you find yourself currently. When it comes to focus areas of practice, I use a wide variety - Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Strengths-Based / Solution - Focused, and Narrative Therapy - I consider myself to have an eclectic style and use what I have at my disposal. I work well with a variety of ages and populations, from children to the elderly, to those struggling with co-occurring disorders and life changes, anxiety and schizophrenia. All are welcome.
(207) 389-7040 View (207) 389-7040

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Deb Horton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
5 Endorsed
Serves Area
I work with people navigating life’s many challenges, whether that’s personal or professional growth, managing depression or anxiety, coping with caregiving or chronic illness, processing grief, exploring gender or sexual identity, or navigating polyamory, consensual non-monogamy, kink, or sex work.
I am a licensed therapist in New Hampshire, Maine, Massachusetts, Oklahoma, and Vermont, and I provide LGBTQIA-affirming therapy for individuals and couples. My approach is collaborative and grounded in the belief that you are the expert in your own experience. Seeking therapy often comes during times of stress, change, or uncertainty and taking that first step can be difficult. I offer a supportive, nonjudgmental space to explore what’s happening in your life and find solutions that fit you. Together, we’ll identify your goals and build on your strengths, helping you heal, grow, and move toward the life you want.
I work with people navigating life’s many challenges, whether that’s personal or professional growth, managing depression or anxiety, coping with caregiving or chronic illness, processing grief, exploring gender or sexual identity, or navigating polyamory, consensual non-monogamy, kink, or sex work.
I am a licensed therapist in New Hampshire, Maine, Massachusetts, Oklahoma, and Vermont, and I provide LGBTQIA-affirming therapy for individuals and couples. My approach is collaborative and grounded in the belief that you are the expert in your own experience. Seeking therapy often comes during times of stress, change, or uncertainty and taking that first step can be difficult. I offer a supportive, nonjudgmental space to explore what’s happening in your life and find solutions that fit you. Together, we’ll identify your goals and build on your strengths, helping you heal, grow, and move toward the life you want.
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Jacinda L Jackson
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Serving New Hampshire and Maine (telehealth available). Has traditional therapy felt limited or left you wanting more? I blend evidence-based approaches (IFS, ACT, CBT) with creative exploration to bring depth, meaning, and lasting impact to your healing. With 15+ years as a licensed counselor and over 30 years in the arts, I offer a safe, supportive space where therapy adapts to your unique needs and goals. I specialize in helping clients connect authentically with themselves and others, explore their deeper purpose, and feel empowered to create positive, sustainable change.
Serving New Hampshire and Maine (telehealth available). Has traditional therapy felt limited or left you wanting more? I blend evidence-based approaches (IFS, ACT, CBT) with creative exploration to bring depth, meaning, and lasting impact to your healing. With 15+ years as a licensed counselor and over 30 years in the arts, I offer a safe, supportive space where therapy adapts to your unique needs and goals. I specialize in helping clients connect authentically with themselves and others, explore their deeper purpose, and feel empowered to create positive, sustainable change.
(603) 856-5737 View (603) 856-5737
Dana Guth
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCPC-c
3 Endorsed
Portland, ME 04102
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome! I support individuals & couples seeking a deeper sense of connection, ease, and joy. Many of my clients struggle with anxiety, loneliness, self-esteem wounds, relationship issues, or questions around gender/sexuality. Others have a hard time living in the present or tapping into their emotions. Therapy is an opportunity to face these challenges - & experience new ways of being - in a safe, nonjudgmental environment.
Welcome! I support individuals & couples seeking a deeper sense of connection, ease, and joy. Many of my clients struggle with anxiety, loneliness, self-esteem wounds, relationship issues, or questions around gender/sexuality. Others have a hard time living in the present or tapping into their emotions. Therapy is an opportunity to face these challenges - & experience new ways of being - in a safe, nonjudgmental environment.
(855) 532-6845 View (855) 532-6845
Shannon Pedersen
Counselor, MA, LCPC-C
Falmouth, ME 04105
I am also sex-positive, BDSM & kink-allied, and an LGBTQIA+ ally.
I work with individuals and couples facing a variety of challenges and experiences. I am passionate about creating safe, supportive spaces for clients in all walks of life to encourage growth and positive change. With a focus on collaboration, I firmly believe that a strong therapeutic relationship is one of the best ways for a client to achieve a positive outcome from therapy. Overall, I have a warm, affirmative, and direct approach to therapy. I use kindness, honesty, and understanding to build rapport with my clients.
I am also sex-positive, BDSM & kink-allied, and an LGBTQIA+ ally.
I work with individuals and couples facing a variety of challenges and experiences. I am passionate about creating safe, supportive spaces for clients in all walks of life to encourage growth and positive change. With a focus on collaboration, I firmly believe that a strong therapeutic relationship is one of the best ways for a client to achieve a positive outcome from therapy. Overall, I have a warm, affirmative, and direct approach to therapy. I use kindness, honesty, and understanding to build rapport with my clients.
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Chantel Cote
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Springvale, ME 04083
You don’t need to have everything figured out to start therapy; you just need to be ready for something to feel different. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, anxious, stuck, disconnected, or hard on yourself, you’re not alone. We can talk about anxiety, perfectionism, identity, boundaries, self-esteem, life transitions, family dynamics, dating, friendships, and all the parts of you that show up day to day. Whether you’re navigating the intensity of adolescence or the complexities of adulthood, therapy can be a space for curiosity and choice. No shame. No fixing. Just support for becoming who you want to be.
You don’t need to have everything figured out to start therapy; you just need to be ready for something to feel different. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, anxious, stuck, disconnected, or hard on yourself, you’re not alone. We can talk about anxiety, perfectionism, identity, boundaries, self-esteem, life transitions, family dynamics, dating, friendships, and all the parts of you that show up day to day. Whether you’re navigating the intensity of adolescence or the complexities of adulthood, therapy can be a space for curiosity and choice. No shame. No fixing. Just support for becoming who you want to be.
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Colleen E. Clark
Counselor, LCPC, NCC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Colleen Clark is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and practicing therapist in Portland, Maine. Her approach to counseling integrates classical therapeutic approaches, mindfulness and artistic modalities. Colleen believes strongly that any therapeutic relationship in which the therapist is held up as an expert is innately flawed. You are the expert on you. In sessions, Colleen will work with you to build a relationship built on mutual respect and trust, and seek to create a safe and nurturing space in which you can uncover and listen to your own intrinsic wisdom.
Colleen Clark is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and practicing therapist in Portland, Maine. Her approach to counseling integrates classical therapeutic approaches, mindfulness and artistic modalities. Colleen believes strongly that any therapeutic relationship in which the therapist is held up as an expert is innately flawed. You are the expert on you. In sessions, Colleen will work with you to build a relationship built on mutual respect and trust, and seek to create a safe and nurturing space in which you can uncover and listen to your own intrinsic wisdom.
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Nicole Mevs-Martin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
2 Endorsed
South Portland, ME 04106
You deserve a space where you don't have to explain, hide, or apologize for who you are. I work with LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent adults who are tired of masking, people-pleasing, and carrying the weight of anxiety, shame, or past trauma. Using a blend of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), somatic therapy, and mindfulness, I help clients reconnect with their bodies, process emotions, strengthen boundaries, and build self-trust. With nearly 20 years of experience working with diverse clients in California, Maine, and Pennsylvania, I provide an affirming space to help you live more authentically.
You deserve a space where you don't have to explain, hide, or apologize for who you are. I work with LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent adults who are tired of masking, people-pleasing, and carrying the weight of anxiety, shame, or past trauma. Using a blend of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), somatic therapy, and mindfulness, I help clients reconnect with their bodies, process emotions, strengthen boundaries, and build self-trust. With nearly 20 years of experience working with diverse clients in California, Maine, and Pennsylvania, I provide an affirming space to help you live more authentically.
(207) 803-5968 View (207) 803-5968
Liz Mack
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
South Portland, ME 04106
My aim is for you to feel a shift is underway from our very first session. Unlike traditional talk therapy which relies on historical narrative, we will work with what is going on for you today, moment to moment, with care and precision. In my 10 years of private practice, I have seen incredible transformations working with individuals, couples, and families who have spent years -often decades- struggling to adapt to environments that do not serve them. Together, we can build a more integrated sense of self and a greater capacity to live the full life you deserve. If insight hasn't been enough, there's another way.
My aim is for you to feel a shift is underway from our very first session. Unlike traditional talk therapy which relies on historical narrative, we will work with what is going on for you today, moment to moment, with care and precision. In my 10 years of private practice, I have seen incredible transformations working with individuals, couples, and families who have spent years -often decades- struggling to adapt to environments that do not serve them. Together, we can build a more integrated sense of self and a greater capacity to live the full life you deserve. If insight hasn't been enough, there's another way.
(207) 204-3629 View (207) 204-3629
Grace Guerrette Plummer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Yarmouth, ME 04096
Hi. I am Grace. My efforts are consistently to help people grow and heal. Though I have many clinical interests and a lot of training, I tend to best support people who are moving through transitions. Affairs, job loss, pregnancy, divorce, marriage, illness, death, etc. I do this by being a gentle, present human while I engage others in unraveling old, futile patterns. I have a lot of energy for my work and have watched for 15 years how the right therapist at the right time can help a person or couple shift and change in enormous ways. Additionally, I am running groups for people in stepmother roles and for women with ADHD symptoms.
Hi. I am Grace. My efforts are consistently to help people grow and heal. Though I have many clinical interests and a lot of training, I tend to best support people who are moving through transitions. Affairs, job loss, pregnancy, divorce, marriage, illness, death, etc. I do this by being a gentle, present human while I engage others in unraveling old, futile patterns. I have a lot of energy for my work and have watched for 15 years how the right therapist at the right time can help a person or couple shift and change in enormous ways. Additionally, I am running groups for people in stepmother roles and for women with ADHD symptoms.
(207) 477-6970 View (207) 477-6970
Katlyn P Nolan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, MCAP, CCTP, QS
2 Endorsed
Online Only
My practice is a place for those who seek refuge from stigma, which includes but is not limited to, LGBTQ+, kink, ethical non monogamy, and sex worker communities.
Welcome! I believe therapy is a place to heal from past hurts, learn healthy behaviors, and recognize the strength you have to feel whole. Living with anxiety, depression, trauma, PTSD, and relationship issues can leave you feeling isolated. There is hope for healing, change, and growth!
My practice is a place for those who seek refuge from stigma, which includes but is not limited to, LGBTQ+, kink, ethical non monogamy, and sex worker communities.
Welcome! I believe therapy is a place to heal from past hurts, learn healthy behaviors, and recognize the strength you have to feel whole. Living with anxiety, depression, trauma, PTSD, and relationship issues can leave you feeling isolated. There is hope for healing, change, and growth!
(207) 705-5413 View (207) 705-5413
Warrior of the Heart Psychotherapy
Counselor, MA, LCPC
4 Endorsed
Windham, ME 04062
I specialize in helping men who struggle with isolation, feelings of anxiety and depression, blocks to intimacy, addiction to pornography, lack of male friends, a feeling of being lost or without a deep sense of purpose, or feeling numb and disconnected from life. As men, we are socialized to keep everything to ourselves, which makes it hard for us to admit when we're lonely, hurting, and in need of support. Many of us grew up with fathers that were absent, abusive, or detached emotionally, leaving us without a respectable model of masculinity and without much direction in life.
I specialize in helping men who struggle with isolation, feelings of anxiety and depression, blocks to intimacy, addiction to pornography, lack of male friends, a feeling of being lost or without a deep sense of purpose, or feeling numb and disconnected from life. As men, we are socialized to keep everything to ourselves, which makes it hard for us to admit when we're lonely, hurting, and in need of support. Many of us grew up with fathers that were absent, abusive, or detached emotionally, leaving us without a respectable model of masculinity and without much direction in life.
(207) 769-5145 View (207) 769-5145
Elena Bahar
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST
3 Endorsed
Online Only
I welcome LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, kink/BDSM, and consensually non-monogamous clients.
Has sex become stressful, distant, painful, or difficult to talk about? You may be dealing with mismatched desire, low desire, erectile or orgasm concerns, sexual anxiety, shame, the effects of trauma, or a loss of emotional and physical connection. I help individuals and couples understand what is happening, reduce pressure and avoidance, and build a more satisfying relationship with sexuality and one another. I also work with clients navigating compulsive sexual behavior, infidelity, relationship conflict, identity concerns, anxiety, and life transitions.
I welcome LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, kink/BDSM, and consensually non-monogamous clients.
Has sex become stressful, distant, painful, or difficult to talk about? You may be dealing with mismatched desire, low desire, erectile or orgasm concerns, sexual anxiety, shame, the effects of trauma, or a loss of emotional and physical connection. I help individuals and couples understand what is happening, reduce pressure and avoidance, and build a more satisfying relationship with sexuality and one another. I also work with clients navigating compulsive sexual behavior, infidelity, relationship conflict, identity concerns, anxiety, and life transitions.
(207) 501-5652 View (207) 501-5652
Catherine E Cooper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Life is hard, especially in this cultural climate, & it may feel uncommonly off-balance. It can be a little less hard when you prioritize yourself & take care of your mental health. My practice is anchored in social justice, with the acknowledgement that societal conditions influence our experiences & feelings. Using a humanistic approach, I tailor the work to your goals & personality, but have been successful integrating CBT, Psychodynamic, Family Systems & mindfulness modalities. You are the expert in your own life; I am here to provide empathy & support as we untangle the issues that matter to you.
Life is hard, especially in this cultural climate, & it may feel uncommonly off-balance. It can be a little less hard when you prioritize yourself & take care of your mental health. My practice is anchored in social justice, with the acknowledgement that societal conditions influence our experiences & feelings. Using a humanistic approach, I tailor the work to your goals & personality, but have been successful integrating CBT, Psychodynamic, Family Systems & mindfulness modalities. You are the expert in your own life; I am here to provide empathy & support as we untangle the issues that matter to you.
(617) 390-8131 View (617) 390-8131
Harleigh Dawson
Counselor, LCPC
1 Endorsed
Portland, ME 04103
Hi, I'm Harleigh! I am the owner and clinical therapist of Alpinist Mental Health, LLC in Portland, Maine. I created the space to provide accessible, welcoming care to adults experiencing adversities that interfere with their ability to live the life they want, or just wanting a space to process the chaos of the world we live in. I welcome all to my practice and specialize in working with women and the LGBTQIA+ population.
Hi, I'm Harleigh! I am the owner and clinical therapist of Alpinist Mental Health, LLC in Portland, Maine. I created the space to provide accessible, welcoming care to adults experiencing adversities that interfere with their ability to live the life they want, or just wanting a space to process the chaos of the world we live in. I welcome all to my practice and specialize in working with women and the LGBTQIA+ population.
(207) 803-5686 View (207) 803-5686
Tonya A Guyton-Thompson
Counselor, MA, LCPC, LPC, LCMHC
2 Endorsed
Portland, ME 04101
Do you find yourself repeating the same patterns, choosing partners, spouses, and friends that yield the same results? Do you find yourself feeling "childlike" in circumstances in your life and wonder "what is this all about?" I'd like to help you. I can help you learn to take responsibility for your life and learn to "grow yourself back up."
Do you find yourself repeating the same patterns, choosing partners, spouses, and friends that yield the same results? Do you find yourself feeling "childlike" in circumstances in your life and wonder "what is this all about?" I'd like to help you. I can help you learn to take responsibility for your life and learn to "grow yourself back up."
(207) 420-2104 View (207) 420-2104
Abigail Harris
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW-cc
Portland, ME 04103
You do not have to have everything figured out before starting therapy. Many of the people I work with come in feeling overwhelmed, anxious, burned out, emotionally disconnected, or simply tired of carrying things alone. Some are processing trauma, exploring identity, navigating relationships, or adjusting to major life changes.
You do not have to have everything figured out before starting therapy. Many of the people I work with come in feeling overwhelmed, anxious, burned out, emotionally disconnected, or simply tired of carrying things alone. Some are processing trauma, exploring identity, navigating relationships, or adjusting to major life changes.
(207) 275-6158 View (207) 275-6158
Juleen Ann Chiaradonna
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW
Online Only
Are you tired of feeling trapped? Do you feel like you don’t fit in anywhere—including therapy? Welcome; I'm a therapist who doesn’t fit in here either. I don’t believe in offering "coping skills" for triggers, I believe in eliminating your need to be triggered in the first place. And I believe that what you think your problems are, are likely not your actual problems.
Are you tired of feeling trapped? Do you feel like you don’t fit in anywhere—including therapy? Welcome; I'm a therapist who doesn’t fit in here either. I don’t believe in offering "coping skills" for triggers, I believe in eliminating your need to be triggered in the first place. And I believe that what you think your problems are, are likely not your actual problems.
(603) 387-4388 View (603) 387-4388

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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.