Sexual Addiction Therapists in Gardiner, ME
I’m an eccentric, depth‑oriented therapist who blends radical honesty with a warm, grounded presence. I work with the unconscious, the body, and the patterns you’ve carried for years—often without realizing it. My approach is deeply trauma‑informed and somatically attuned, helping you understand how your story lives in both mind and body. If you’ve ever felt “too much” or misunderstood, this is a space where your complexity is welcomed and your truth can finally breathe.
I’m an eccentric, depth‑oriented therapist who blends radical honesty with a warm, grounded presence. I work with the unconscious, the body, and the patterns you’ve carried for years—often without realizing it. My approach is deeply trauma‑informed and somatically attuned, helping you understand how your story lives in both mind and body. If you’ve ever felt “too much” or misunderstood, this is a space where your complexity is welcomed and your truth can finally breathe.
My ideal client is someone curious about their inner world, even if ambivalent about change.They may struggle with anxiety, depression, or repeating life patterns, and need both practical coping skills and insight into the beliefs that keep them stuck. Their goals often include breaking cycles, improving relationships, and building confidence in making intentional choices.Motivation helps, but I also value clients willing to be challenged when resistance arises.Homework and practice are essential, extending progress beyond sessions. Together we examine problematic patterns and explore the shadow, aiming for authentic, lasting change
My ideal client is someone curious about their inner world, even if ambivalent about change.They may struggle with anxiety, depression, or repeating life patterns, and need both practical coping skills and insight into the beliefs that keep them stuck. Their goals often include breaking cycles, improving relationships, and building confidence in making intentional choices.Motivation helps, but I also value clients willing to be challenged when resistance arises.Homework and practice are essential, extending progress beyond sessions. Together we examine problematic patterns and explore the shadow, aiming for authentic, lasting change
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You might be feeling caught in a cycle you can’t seem to break—whether that’s compulsive sexual behavior, pornography use, or the deep pain of betrayal in a relationship. Maybe trust has been shattered, leaving you questioning your worth, your reality, or your future. You may feel stuck between wanting relief and not knowing where to start, or worried that no one will truly understand. Many people want clarity, healing, and reconnection—with themselves and with others—but feel overwhelmed, ashamed, or uncertain about how to get there. At the core, you’re looking for honesty, safety, and a way forward that works.
You might be feeling caught in a cycle you can’t seem to break—whether that’s compulsive sexual behavior, pornography use, or the deep pain of betrayal in a relationship. Maybe trust has been shattered, leaving you questioning your worth, your reality, or your future. You may feel stuck between wanting relief and not knowing where to start, or worried that no one will truly understand. Many people want clarity, healing, and reconnection—with themselves and with others—but feel overwhelmed, ashamed, or uncertain about how to get there. At the core, you’re looking for honesty, safety, and a way forward that works.
Empowering Your Journey to Mental Well-Being I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with over ten years of experience assisting individuals and couples in navigating difficult times. I believe deeply in the power of personal autonomy and self-determination. My mission is to assist you in attaining optimal mental health, emotional well-being, and personal empowerment.
Empowering Your Journey to Mental Well-Being I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with over ten years of experience assisting individuals and couples in navigating difficult times. I believe deeply in the power of personal autonomy and self-determination. My mission is to assist you in attaining optimal mental health, emotional well-being, and personal empowerment.
Change can be tough, and sometimes it feels like life is throwing you a curveball you didn't see coming. My ideal client is someone who has carried heavy expectations, invisible burdens, or constant pressure and is ready to pause, breathe, and simply be. I specialize in helping teens, young adults, adults, and seniors find their footing during challenging transitions. You won't find fancy therapy terms or complicated coping skills here. Instead, we'll focus on practical, real-life strategies that fit your day-to-day routine.
Change can be tough, and sometimes it feels like life is throwing you a curveball you didn't see coming. My ideal client is someone who has carried heavy expectations, invisible burdens, or constant pressure and is ready to pause, breathe, and simply be. I specialize in helping teens, young adults, adults, and seniors find their footing during challenging transitions. You won't find fancy therapy terms or complicated coping skills here. Instead, we'll focus on practical, real-life strategies that fit your day-to-day routine.
Are you struggling with pornography or sexual compulsivity? Is secrecy, broken trust or loss of intimacy hurting your relationship? Or maybe you’re not in crisis, but you know your marriage could be stronger, more connected, more alive? You’re not alone–we have been through these issues personally and know what it’s like. I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Hunter is a Certified Mentor Coach in long-term recovery. Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
Are you struggling with pornography or sexual compulsivity? Is secrecy, broken trust or loss of intimacy hurting your relationship? Or maybe you’re not in crisis, but you know your marriage could be stronger, more connected, more alive? You’re not alone–we have been through these issues personally and know what it’s like. I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Hunter is a Certified Mentor Coach in long-term recovery. Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
I specialize in individual and couples counseling with veterans, first responders and individuals with problematic sexual behaviors/addictions. For individuals struggling with problematic sexual behaviors and addictions, I help them identify the root needs that are met through sex, porn, masturbation, infidelity or other undesired sexual behaviors as well as build skills. I work with Maine Department of Corrections to provide sex offense specific counseling to meet needs of probation or deferred dispositions. I also provide Psychosexual Risk Assessments for juveniles and adults who are required by the court or probation to have one.
I specialize in individual and couples counseling with veterans, first responders and individuals with problematic sexual behaviors/addictions. For individuals struggling with problematic sexual behaviors and addictions, I help them identify the root needs that are met through sex, porn, masturbation, infidelity or other undesired sexual behaviors as well as build skills. I work with Maine Department of Corrections to provide sex offense specific counseling to meet needs of probation or deferred dispositions. I also provide Psychosexual Risk Assessments for juveniles and adults who are required by the court or probation to have one.
I specialize in helping men who struggle with isolation, feelings of anxiety and depression, blocks to intimacy, addiction to pornography, lack of male friends, a feeling of being lost or without a deep sense of purpose, or feeling numb and disconnected from life. As men, we are socialized to keep everything to ourselves, which makes it hard for us to admit when we're lonely, hurting, and in need of support. Many of us grew up with fathers that were absent, abusive, or detached from us emotionally, leaving us without a respectable model of masculinity and without much direction in life.
I specialize in helping men who struggle with isolation, feelings of anxiety and depression, blocks to intimacy, addiction to pornography, lack of male friends, a feeling of being lost or without a deep sense of purpose, or feeling numb and disconnected from life. As men, we are socialized to keep everything to ourselves, which makes it hard for us to admit when we're lonely, hurting, and in need of support. Many of us grew up with fathers that were absent, abusive, or detached from us emotionally, leaving us without a respectable model of masculinity and without much direction in life.
Are you struggling with pornography or sexual compulsivity? Is secrecy, broken trust or loss of intimacy hurting your relationship? Or maybe you’re not in crisis, but you know your marriage could be stronger, more connected, more alive? You’re not alone–we have been through these issues personally and know what it’s like. I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Hunter is a Certified Mentor Coach in long-term recovery. Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
Are you struggling with pornography or sexual compulsivity? Is secrecy, broken trust or loss of intimacy hurting your relationship? Or maybe you’re not in crisis, but you know your marriage could be stronger, more connected, more alive? You’re not alone–we have been through these issues personally and know what it’s like. I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Hunter is a Certified Mentor Coach in long-term recovery. Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
My name is Charles, and my areas of focus are Trauma, Couples Counseling, Anxiety, Depression, Porn, Sex Addiction, betrayal, and infedility. Are you feeling stuck in conflict, disconnection in your relationship, or maybe behavioral patterns that feel out of control? Or maybe trapped in cycles of anxiety, self-doubt, and lack of purpose? Imagine freeing yourself from the pain of the past and rebuilding trust, balance, and meaning. I invite you to take this journey with me—to create a beautiful, authentic, and purposeful life.
My name is Charles, and my areas of focus are Trauma, Couples Counseling, Anxiety, Depression, Porn, Sex Addiction, betrayal, and infedility. Are you feeling stuck in conflict, disconnection in your relationship, or maybe behavioral patterns that feel out of control? Or maybe trapped in cycles of anxiety, self-doubt, and lack of purpose? Imagine freeing yourself from the pain of the past and rebuilding trust, balance, and meaning. I invite you to take this journey with me—to create a beautiful, authentic, and purposeful life.
Most people don’t come to therapy because they don’t understand what’s wrong. They come because they keep ending up in the same place, even when they’re trying not to. Maybe it’s the same argument with your partner, the same anxiety loop in your head, or the same moment where you shut down, react, avoid, or do something you regret. You may be insightful and self-aware, yet still feel stuck. That’s where we start.
I’m a good fit for clients who want a therapist who will be compassionate and engaged, but who will also help name patterns clearly instead of only validating them
Most people don’t come to therapy because they don’t understand what’s wrong. They come because they keep ending up in the same place, even when they’re trying not to. Maybe it’s the same argument with your partner, the same anxiety loop in your head, or the same moment where you shut down, react, avoid, or do something you regret. You may be insightful and self-aware, yet still feel stuck. That’s where we start.
I’m a good fit for clients who want a therapist who will be compassionate and engaged, but who will also help name patterns clearly instead of only validating them
In long term committed relationships we all long to feel seen and known. Couples in distress often say they are having a “communication” problem but it’s actually a “connection” problem. That’s because the normal rhythm in relationships from infancy on involves rupture & repair. Couples in distress typically struggle with too much rupture/disconnection and too little or no repair. The result is either chronic unproductive conflict or distance & isolation. It's from this place that people turn away from each other and engage in addictions & affairs, making it more challenging, but not impossible, to rediscover intimacy & connection.
In long term committed relationships we all long to feel seen and known. Couples in distress often say they are having a “communication” problem but it’s actually a “connection” problem. That’s because the normal rhythm in relationships from infancy on involves rupture & repair. Couples in distress typically struggle with too much rupture/disconnection and too little or no repair. The result is either chronic unproductive conflict or distance & isolation. It's from this place that people turn away from each other and engage in addictions & affairs, making it more challenging, but not impossible, to rediscover intimacy & connection.
I work with individuals facing anxiety, trauma, and emotional overwhelm who want deeper healing beyond symptom relief. Many come after talk therapy falls short. Using art and expressive therapies, we help release stored emotions, process experiences, and reconnect with their authentic self.
I work with individuals facing anxiety, trauma, and emotional overwhelm who want deeper healing beyond symptom relief. Many come after talk therapy falls short. Using art and expressive therapies, we help release stored emotions, process experiences, and reconnect with their authentic self.
Recent name change from Robyn Belcher. I enjoy working with people to help them reach their potential. Many people live through difficult experiences which tend to negatively impact them and stunt their ability to move forward. My goal is to help you overcome these obstacles to help you flourish. Whether it is anxiety, depression, anger or fear, I will work on determining what the underlying cause of the distress is. Counseling does not have to be long term. Many of my clients have had success over a short period of time in counseling annd others have needed long term support.
Recent name change from Robyn Belcher. I enjoy working with people to help them reach their potential. Many people live through difficult experiences which tend to negatively impact them and stunt their ability to move forward. My goal is to help you overcome these obstacles to help you flourish. Whether it is anxiety, depression, anger or fear, I will work on determining what the underlying cause of the distress is. Counseling does not have to be long term. Many of my clients have had success over a short period of time in counseling annd others have needed long term support.
With more than fifteen years of clinical experience, I work with individuals, couples, and families seeking clarity, stability, and a stronger sense of self. My areas of specialty include addiction recovery, trauma, relationship challenges, and identity development. Whether you’re navigating a major life transition, healing from old wounds, or trying to rebuild trust in yourself or others, I provide a grounded, collaborative space to work through it.
I support clients from all backgrounds—straight, LGBTQIA+, monogamous, non-monogamous, and everything in between. What matters most is your willingness to show up as you are.
With more than fifteen years of clinical experience, I work with individuals, couples, and families seeking clarity, stability, and a stronger sense of self. My areas of specialty include addiction recovery, trauma, relationship challenges, and identity development. Whether you’re navigating a major life transition, healing from old wounds, or trying to rebuild trust in yourself or others, I provide a grounded, collaborative space to work through it.
I support clients from all backgrounds—straight, LGBTQIA+, monogamous, non-monogamous, and everything in between. What matters most is your willingness to show up as you are.
I believe that one of the bravest things you can do is begin to understand your own story and use this understanding to create the life you deserve. I meet people where they are at. What does this mean? Our focus of work on therapy will be based on your goals and the approach that will work best for you. I utilize a variety of approaches, including cognitive behavior therapy, somatic skills, mindfulness, and distress tolerance.
I believe that one of the bravest things you can do is begin to understand your own story and use this understanding to create the life you deserve. I meet people where they are at. What does this mean? Our focus of work on therapy will be based on your goals and the approach that will work best for you. I utilize a variety of approaches, including cognitive behavior therapy, somatic skills, mindfulness, and distress tolerance.
I am a "regular guy" kind of therapist. I don't wear a tie, but I have been known to sport a fedora or other stylish hat and am accompanied by two noisy corgis. I bring 36 years of experience to the counseling relationship. I strive to empower my clients to make positive changes in their lives. My ideal clients are those individuals who want to work from a strengths-based perspective to improve their quality of life. I don't like to see people stuck in a "sick" or "victim" role because that is the narrative that was given to them early in life. Let's work together to write your own story, one with the happiest ending yet to come!
I am a "regular guy" kind of therapist. I don't wear a tie, but I have been known to sport a fedora or other stylish hat and am accompanied by two noisy corgis. I bring 36 years of experience to the counseling relationship. I strive to empower my clients to make positive changes in their lives. My ideal clients are those individuals who want to work from a strengths-based perspective to improve their quality of life. I don't like to see people stuck in a "sick" or "victim" role because that is the narrative that was given to them early in life. Let's work together to write your own story, one with the happiest ending yet to come!
I enjoy working with patients that want to move beyond the cookie cutter structure of many types of therapies in order to increase insight, improve adaptive coping, increasing holistic health, and are motivated for change. My sessions tend to be more conversational and dynamic, where the client isn't just talking to a grey wall and I'm not monologuing at them. Although I provide some structure, I allow for the flexibility that life demands and as additional stressor may arise. I have extensively worked with male individuals that have experienced multiple types of trauma, including combat, sexual, and childhood.
I enjoy working with patients that want to move beyond the cookie cutter structure of many types of therapies in order to increase insight, improve adaptive coping, increasing holistic health, and are motivated for change. My sessions tend to be more conversational and dynamic, where the client isn't just talking to a grey wall and I'm not monologuing at them. Although I provide some structure, I allow for the flexibility that life demands and as additional stressor may arise. I have extensively worked with male individuals that have experienced multiple types of trauma, including combat, sexual, and childhood.
Feeling exhausted by repetitive thoughts or stuck in patterns that just aren’t working anymore? You’re not alone—and together, we we can help you feel more grounded, confident, and back in control. In our work, you’ll gain practical tools to manage anxiety, improve your mood, navigate challenges, and improve your relationships effectively. At the same time, we’ll explore the deeper patterns that may be holding you back—so the changes you make actually last. My approach is warm, collaborative, and tailored to you.
Feeling exhausted by repetitive thoughts or stuck in patterns that just aren’t working anymore? You’re not alone—and together, we we can help you feel more grounded, confident, and back in control. In our work, you’ll gain practical tools to manage anxiety, improve your mood, navigate challenges, and improve your relationships effectively. At the same time, we’ll explore the deeper patterns that may be holding you back—so the changes you make actually last. My approach is warm, collaborative, and tailored to you.
I help individuals and couples who feel stuck in painful relationship patterns, anxiety, emotional disconnection, betrayal, or life transitions. Many of my clients are high-functioning on the outside but overwhelmed internally, struggling to communicate, rebuild trust, manage conflict, or feel secure in their relationships. Through compassionate, collaborative therapy, I help clients better understand themselves, strengthen emotional connection, develop healthier coping patterns, and move towards more fulfilling, authentic relationships and lives.
I help individuals and couples who feel stuck in painful relationship patterns, anxiety, emotional disconnection, betrayal, or life transitions. Many of my clients are high-functioning on the outside but overwhelmed internally, struggling to communicate, rebuild trust, manage conflict, or feel secure in their relationships. Through compassionate, collaborative therapy, I help clients better understand themselves, strengthen emotional connection, develop healthier coping patterns, and move towards more fulfilling, authentic relationships and lives.
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Sexual Addiction Therapists
When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?
People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.
What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?
Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.
How long does therapy take for sex addiction?
Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.
What if sex addiction is left untreated?
Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.