Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Falmouth, ME

Shannon Pedersen
Counselor, MA, LCPC-C
Falmouth, ME 04105
I am also sex-positive, BDSM & kink-allied, and an LGBTQIA+ ally.
I work with individuals and couples facing a variety of challenges and experiences. I am passionate about creating safe, supportive spaces for clients in all walks of life to encourage growth and positive change. With a focus on collaboration, I firmly believe that a strong therapeutic relationship is one of the best ways for a client to achieve a positive outcome from therapy. Overall, I have a warm, affirmative, and direct approach to therapy. I use kindness, honesty, and understanding to build rapport with my clients.
I am also sex-positive, BDSM & kink-allied, and an LGBTQIA+ ally.
I work with individuals and couples facing a variety of challenges and experiences. I am passionate about creating safe, supportive spaces for clients in all walks of life to encourage growth and positive change. With a focus on collaboration, I firmly believe that a strong therapeutic relationship is one of the best ways for a client to achieve a positive outcome from therapy. Overall, I have a warm, affirmative, and direct approach to therapy. I use kindness, honesty, and understanding to build rapport with my clients.
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Brynna Pawlows
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Let’s get to the bottom of what takes your attention away from the people and things that you love. My goal as a therapist is to collaborate to give you the insight and tools needed to reach your goals. With a decade of experience working with clients experiencing trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and life changes – I am confident that psychotherapy can prompt us to discover new ways to deal with life’s difficult days.
Let’s get to the bottom of what takes your attention away from the people and things that you love. My goal as a therapist is to collaborate to give you the insight and tools needed to reach your goals. With a decade of experience working with clients experiencing trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and life changes – I am confident that psychotherapy can prompt us to discover new ways to deal with life’s difficult days.
(207) 994-5374 View (207) 994-5374
Jenna Moen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW-cc
Falmouth, ME 04105
I have a special interest in supporting LGBTQ folks, and offer a sex-positive and gender-affirming space for individuals and couples.
Welcome! I am a clinical social worker at The Family Center of Maine. Are you feeling overwhelmed by emotions that leave you exhausted? You may notice yourself repeating patterns that no longer serve you but feel difficult to change. I aim to provide a space that welcomes all parts of you, invites you to slow down and understand yourself more deeply, in order to create meaningful, lasting change. I work with teens and adults struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, relational conflict, and trauma. My approach is rooted in Internal Family Systems, Emotion Focused Therapy, and somatic and mindfulness based practices.
I have a special interest in supporting LGBTQ folks, and offer a sex-positive and gender-affirming space for individuals and couples.
Welcome! I am a clinical social worker at The Family Center of Maine. Are you feeling overwhelmed by emotions that leave you exhausted? You may notice yourself repeating patterns that no longer serve you but feel difficult to change. I aim to provide a space that welcomes all parts of you, invites you to slow down and understand yourself more deeply, in order to create meaningful, lasting change. I work with teens and adults struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, relational conflict, and trauma. My approach is rooted in Internal Family Systems, Emotion Focused Therapy, and somatic and mindfulness based practices.
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Paige Elizabeth Barker
Counselor, LCPC-C, NCC
1 Endorsed
Falmouth, ME 04105
Do you feel anxious, defeated, or disconnected while trying to navigate a world that doesn’t always feel built for you? In our work together, we can explore how self-doubt, identity challenges, and past experiences shape your present. We’ll create space to understand yourself more fully, heal from old wounds, and build a sense of empowerment and peace. Our work will honor both your individuality and the larger systems that influence your life and relationships.
Do you feel anxious, defeated, or disconnected while trying to navigate a world that doesn’t always feel built for you? In our work together, we can explore how self-doubt, identity challenges, and past experiences shape your present. We’ll create space to understand yourself more fully, heal from old wounds, and build a sense of empowerment and peace. Our work will honor both your individuality and the larger systems that influence your life and relationships.
(207) 501-8300 View (207) 501-8300
Graham Alonzo Harriman
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CPC
Online Only
As a psychotherapist I commit myself to supporting individuals and couples in their relationship, healthy intimacy, mind/body connection, depression, anxiety, and managing life with balance. I incorporate foundational health (diet, exercise, meditation, journaling) into my work with each client and seek to help each person develop inner resources for healing, and holistic health.
As a psychotherapist I commit myself to supporting individuals and couples in their relationship, healthy intimacy, mind/body connection, depression, anxiety, and managing life with balance. I incorporate foundational health (diet, exercise, meditation, journaling) into my work with each client and seek to help each person develop inner resources for healing, and holistic health.
(207) 280-6620 View (207) 280-6620
Abigail Harris
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW-cc
Falmouth, ME 04105
You do not have to have everything figured out before starting therapy. Many of the people I work with come in feeling overwhelmed, anxious, burned out, emotionally disconnected, or simply tired of carrying things alone. Some are processing trauma, exploring identity, navigating relationships, or adjusting to major life changes.
You do not have to have everything figured out before starting therapy. Many of the people I work with come in feeling overwhelmed, anxious, burned out, emotionally disconnected, or simply tired of carrying things alone. Some are processing trauma, exploring identity, navigating relationships, or adjusting to major life changes.
(207) 275-6158 View (207) 275-6158
Jen L. Collins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW, CST
Serves Area
  I support consensual non-monogamy, kink communities and am sex positive.
I believe in meeting people where they are at and helping facilitate growth with them.  I believe that people need to feel heard and valued in order to see their own solutions and be empowered to make changes for themselves.  I believe in humanity and valuing people, no matter their race, sexual orientation, religious/spiritual beliefs, gender-identity, socio-economic status, or anything else you deem important to you.  I believe in understanding and communication between people and always strive to facilitate this. I am licensed in Maine and Massachusetts.
  I support consensual non-monogamy, kink communities and am sex positive.
I believe in meeting people where they are at and helping facilitate growth with them.  I believe that people need to feel heard and valued in order to see their own solutions and be empowered to make changes for themselves.  I believe in humanity and valuing people, no matter their race, sexual orientation, religious/spiritual beliefs, gender-identity, socio-economic status, or anything else you deem important to you.  I believe in understanding and communication between people and always strive to facilitate this. I am licensed in Maine and Massachusetts.
(207) 200-7746 View (207) 200-7746
Kelly Gayle
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CADC
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
It is a big step in reaching out for support. I am so glad you did. Some of us struggle to live day to day and have even stopped dreaming. Why is dreaming left to others or childhood? If you are searching for more peace or to heal an invisible scar, you do not need to suffer or problem solve alone. I am a licensed clinical social worker whose passion for the past 30 years has been creating a safe space for the human experience that we all share. It has been my understanding that you may already have what you need and I have the privilege to be alongside you on that journey. Risks are scary but this may be a good one to take.
It is a big step in reaching out for support. I am so glad you did. Some of us struggle to live day to day and have even stopped dreaming. Why is dreaming left to others or childhood? If you are searching for more peace or to heal an invisible scar, you do not need to suffer or problem solve alone. I am a licensed clinical social worker whose passion for the past 30 years has been creating a safe space for the human experience that we all share. It has been my understanding that you may already have what you need and I have the privilege to be alongside you on that journey. Risks are scary but this may be a good one to take.
(207) 218-0430 View (207) 218-0430
Dr. Gwendolyne Tuttle
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Online Only
The Coastal Institute has immediate openings for individual therapy, family therapy, couples counseling, and parent coaching. I have expertise in attachment trauma and it's utility as a frame to address parenting challenges and fractured families. With couples I use Crucible & Gottman frames to address issues with intimacy and communication. I am also an expert in the diagnosis and treatment of personality disorders. I work with my clients to understand what lead to their challenges, and create a plan to address their unique needs. I use Mentalization Based Therapy (MBT) in addition to other methods of treatment.
The Coastal Institute has immediate openings for individual therapy, family therapy, couples counseling, and parent coaching. I have expertise in attachment trauma and it's utility as a frame to address parenting challenges and fractured families. With couples I use Crucible & Gottman frames to address issues with intimacy and communication. I am also an expert in the diagnosis and treatment of personality disorders. I work with my clients to understand what lead to their challenges, and create a plan to address their unique needs. I use Mentalization Based Therapy (MBT) in addition to other methods of treatment.
(207) 548-5137 View (207) 548-5137
Cara Kraft
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
You’re feeling stuck, maybe in the same fight with your partner, the loneliness of dating, or the grief of a breakup. You crave deeper connection but often find yourself people-pleasing, overthinking, or shutting down. You want to stop repeating old patterns and start showing up with more clarity, confidence, and emotional honesty. I specialize in couples therapy and relationship-focused individual therapy. My clients are ready to go beyond understanding why they feel stuck and begin creating lasting change in how they show up with themselves and the people they care about most.
You’re feeling stuck, maybe in the same fight with your partner, the loneliness of dating, or the grief of a breakup. You crave deeper connection but often find yourself people-pleasing, overthinking, or shutting down. You want to stop repeating old patterns and start showing up with more clarity, confidence, and emotional honesty. I specialize in couples therapy and relationship-focused individual therapy. My clients are ready to go beyond understanding why they feel stuck and begin creating lasting change in how they show up with themselves and the people they care about most.
(207) 466-6825 View (207) 466-6825
Heather Stewart Harvey
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCPC-C, NCC
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
At my core, I am curious about relationships: how they have shaped us, how we feel in them, how we can grow and change and feel better in them even after years of struggle. As adults, we often reach a point where we realize that the strategies we used to make it safely through earlier parts of our lives have run their course, leaving us feeling stuck or disconnected or just unhappy. Whether you arrive on your own or in a relationship of any type, I work to build an accepting and invigorating space for you to explore and experience ways of being that are in greater alignment with your core sense of self.
At my core, I am curious about relationships: how they have shaped us, how we feel in them, how we can grow and change and feel better in them even after years of struggle. As adults, we often reach a point where we realize that the strategies we used to make it safely through earlier parts of our lives have run their course, leaving us feeling stuck or disconnected or just unhappy. Whether you arrive on your own or in a relationship of any type, I work to build an accepting and invigorating space for you to explore and experience ways of being that are in greater alignment with your core sense of self.
(207) 220-2031 View (207) 220-2031
Adrienne J Bentsen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I'm a Gestalt & Certified Gottman Therapist with 20-yrs of experience helping others heal, grow and relate. I support individuals & couples explore barriers to connection, processing underlying trauma/loss & life transitions (parenting, death, perimenopause, betrayal). Together, we gain insight on issues related to boundaries, honesty, resentment, culture, sexuality, depression, ADHD, anxiety, etc. I provide a nonjudgmental space for open communication so we can focus on deeper unmet needs. It's each individual's choice to lean into difficulty to create meaning and intimacy, and I want to help you do this in healthy ways.
I'm a Gestalt & Certified Gottman Therapist with 20-yrs of experience helping others heal, grow and relate. I support individuals & couples explore barriers to connection, processing underlying trauma/loss & life transitions (parenting, death, perimenopause, betrayal). Together, we gain insight on issues related to boundaries, honesty, resentment, culture, sexuality, depression, ADHD, anxiety, etc. I provide a nonjudgmental space for open communication so we can focus on deeper unmet needs. It's each individual's choice to lean into difficulty to create meaning and intimacy, and I want to help you do this in healthy ways.
(207) 536-6081 View (207) 536-6081
Jennifer Wiessner Healthy Sexuality
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
I am a poly- and kink-aware therapist, and I also offer NON-therapy educational consultations on sexual health and function.
I am a Clinical SW and a certified Sex Therapist with experience in working with individuals, couples, and addressing women's issues, including infertility and illness. My primary focus is on providing sex therapy to couples and individuals facing sexuality concerns, sexual dysfunction and pain, gender identity questioning, and intimate relationship issues. I had the honor of being the only female AASECT certified Sex Therapist in the state of ME when I received my certification in 2012. We are sexual beings from birth; early messages, culture, religion, health, and past experiences can significantly impact sexuality & intimacy.
I am a poly- and kink-aware therapist, and I also offer NON-therapy educational consultations on sexual health and function.
I am a Clinical SW and a certified Sex Therapist with experience in working with individuals, couples, and addressing women's issues, including infertility and illness. My primary focus is on providing sex therapy to couples and individuals facing sexuality concerns, sexual dysfunction and pain, gender identity questioning, and intimate relationship issues. I had the honor of being the only female AASECT certified Sex Therapist in the state of ME when I received my certification in 2012. We are sexual beings from birth; early messages, culture, religion, health, and past experiences can significantly impact sexuality & intimacy.
(207) 358-4284 View (207) 358-4284
Hannah Kazilionis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Accepting new clients in September 2026, email to enquire! Let’s start you on a new path. In my individual sessions I strive to help my clients feel understood and motivated to live their best life. As a well practiced couples therapist, I enjoy supporting people reconnect with one another and overcome changes, comfortably working with traditional, non-traditional, and LGBTQ couples. With families, I help each member master healthy communication, reorganize roles, and learn to have fun with one another again.
Accepting new clients in September 2026, email to enquire! Let’s start you on a new path. In my individual sessions I strive to help my clients feel understood and motivated to live their best life. As a well practiced couples therapist, I enjoy supporting people reconnect with one another and overcome changes, comfortably working with traditional, non-traditional, and LGBTQ couples. With families, I help each member master healthy communication, reorganize roles, and learn to have fun with one another again.
(207) 200-5229 View (207) 200-5229
Katie Coleman
Counselor, MS, LCPC-c, NCC
4 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Accepting new duos and individuals! I work with individuals and relationships, including romantic + non-romantic duos (i.e. friends, siblings, ex-partners). My work is trauma-/systems-informed and relational. Together, we will respond to your needs from this space, recognizing that no one approach fits all. We’ll make sense of a constellation of experiences, feelings, and thoughts, exploring their origins and contexts, protective functions, and impacts on your self and relationships. Our collaborative process enables us to gently explore past wounds, deepen reflection and curiosity, and support new ways of being to heal and grow.
Accepting new duos and individuals! I work with individuals and relationships, including romantic + non-romantic duos (i.e. friends, siblings, ex-partners). My work is trauma-/systems-informed and relational. Together, we will respond to your needs from this space, recognizing that no one approach fits all. We’ll make sense of a constellation of experiences, feelings, and thoughts, exploring their origins and contexts, protective functions, and impacts on your self and relationships. Our collaborative process enables us to gently explore past wounds, deepen reflection and curiosity, and support new ways of being to heal and grow.
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Mary Cole
Counselor, PhD, LCPC
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hello and welcome! I'm Mary (she/they) and I offer counseling from a liberation perspective. Within my humanistic counseling modality, I'm happy to tailor sessions to your personality, situation, and needs. I take a collaborative approach focused on client empowerment, which means that you sit in the driver’s seat of your counseling experience; you are the expert in your life and it is likely that I have resources, strategies, and insight to offer from the passenger seat that will help you find the healing and growth that you deserve. We will aim to use therapeutic interventions that are accessible and supportive for you.
Hello and welcome! I'm Mary (she/they) and I offer counseling from a liberation perspective. Within my humanistic counseling modality, I'm happy to tailor sessions to your personality, situation, and needs. I take a collaborative approach focused on client empowerment, which means that you sit in the driver’s seat of your counseling experience; you are the expert in your life and it is likely that I have resources, strategies, and insight to offer from the passenger seat that will help you find the healing and growth that you deserve. We will aim to use therapeutic interventions that are accessible and supportive for you.
(207) 218-0616 View (207) 218-0616
Kara Evans
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Falmouth, ME 04105
Not accepting new clients
I will be accepting new clients in November of 2026. Whether you're experiencing anxiety, depression, unworkable substance use, or struggling to adapt to life's many changes, therapy can be a powerful tool to help navigate life's twists and turns and achieve a sense of wholeness. I work collaboratively with adults of all ages to create a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental space to experience growth, healing, and change.
I will be accepting new clients in November of 2026. Whether you're experiencing anxiety, depression, unworkable substance use, or struggling to adapt to life's many changes, therapy can be a powerful tool to help navigate life's twists and turns and achieve a sense of wholeness. I work collaboratively with adults of all ages to create a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental space to experience growth, healing, and change.
(207) 203-4686 View (207) 203-4686
Julie Blair
Counselor, LCPC-c, MS
Falmouth, ME 04105
Not accepting new clients
Hi, I'm so happy you're here! Maybe you're moving through a life transition, or feeling weighed down by anxiety or self-doubt. Maybe you're longing to feel more connected–to yourself, to others, or to the life you're trying to build. Whatever it is that brought you here, I'm glad you made it. You are the expert of your own life and experiences, and you have control over your process. It’s important to me that you feel safe and supported. Let's collaborate to create an inviting, nurturing space as you work toward meaningful, lasting change.
Hi, I'm so happy you're here! Maybe you're moving through a life transition, or feeling weighed down by anxiety or self-doubt. Maybe you're longing to feel more connected–to yourself, to others, or to the life you're trying to build. Whatever it is that brought you here, I'm glad you made it. You are the expert of your own life and experiences, and you have control over your process. It’s important to me that you feel safe and supported. Let's collaborate to create an inviting, nurturing space as you work toward meaningful, lasting change.
(207) 517-0152 View (207) 517-0152
K. Nat Granger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
5 Endorsed
Falmouth, ME 04105
Not accepting new clients
Welcome! My name is Nat, I'm a certified EMDR therapist. I offer deep compassion for individuals with PTSD, complex trauma, and dissociative disorders. I also support people with challenging experiences such as: depression, anxiety, Autism/ADHD, shame, loneliness, grief, agoraphobia, panic, OCD, binge eating, chronic pain and health issues, dysfunctional/alcoholic families, family suicide/overdose, near-death experiences, caregiver issues, domestic violence, sexual trauma, racial trauma, weight-based trauma, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, medical trauma, polyamory difficulties, religious trauma, and homeschooling trauma.
Welcome! My name is Nat, I'm a certified EMDR therapist. I offer deep compassion for individuals with PTSD, complex trauma, and dissociative disorders. I also support people with challenging experiences such as: depression, anxiety, Autism/ADHD, shame, loneliness, grief, agoraphobia, panic, OCD, binge eating, chronic pain and health issues, dysfunctional/alcoholic families, family suicide/overdose, near-death experiences, caregiver issues, domestic violence, sexual trauma, racial trauma, weight-based trauma, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, medical trauma, polyamory difficulties, religious trauma, and homeschooling trauma.
(518) 310-5133 View (518) 310-5133
Sam LeBlanc
Counselor, LCPC, NCC
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Not accepting new clients
I help women, queer folks, and neurodivergent folks who feel unhappy and stuck. I use a holistic, intersectional, and compassionate approach to counseling that acknowledges that you are the expert of your own life. The clients I work with face challenges related to neurodivergence, gender, sexuality, anxiety, depression, and trauma. I have focused my continuing education on neurodivergent affirming practice in the form of peer consultation, trainings, and self-study.
I help women, queer folks, and neurodivergent folks who feel unhappy and stuck. I use a holistic, intersectional, and compassionate approach to counseling that acknowledges that you are the expert of your own life. The clients I work with face challenges related to neurodivergence, gender, sexuality, anxiety, depression, and trauma. I have focused my continuing education on neurodivergent affirming practice in the form of peer consultation, trainings, and self-study.
(833) 351-1041 View (833) 351-1041

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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.