Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Cape Elizabeth, ME
Welcome! I'm licensed in ME & NY. I believe the work is to find our way back to what is already whole. My mission is to help you reshape your neural landscape and support a life of meaning and resilience. Additionally, my approach can be directive & challenge you to be courageous & confront yourself in order to unburden & heal. This can be intense work as we together invite the best version of yourself to step up & evolve, by befriending your nervous system and creating more effective patterns/beliefs & internal resources. I truly enjoy this work & bringing humor & levity to my sessions with individuals, families, couples & groups.
Welcome! I'm licensed in ME & NY. I believe the work is to find our way back to what is already whole. My mission is to help you reshape your neural landscape and support a life of meaning and resilience. Additionally, my approach can be directive & challenge you to be courageous & confront yourself in order to unburden & heal. This can be intense work as we together invite the best version of yourself to step up & evolve, by befriending your nervous system and creating more effective patterns/beliefs & internal resources. I truly enjoy this work & bringing humor & levity to my sessions with individuals, families, couples & groups.
My aim is for you to feel a shift is underway from our very first session. Unlike traditional talk therapy which relies on historical narrative, we will work with what is going on for you today, moment to moment, with care and precision.
In my 10 years of private practice, I have seen incredible transformations working with individuals, couples, and families who have spent years -often decades- struggling to adapt to environments that do not serve them. Together, we can build a more integrated sense of self and a greater capacity to live the full life you deserve.
If insight hasn't been enough, there's another way.
My aim is for you to feel a shift is underway from our very first session. Unlike traditional talk therapy which relies on historical narrative, we will work with what is going on for you today, moment to moment, with care and precision.
In my 10 years of private practice, I have seen incredible transformations working with individuals, couples, and families who have spent years -often decades- struggling to adapt to environments that do not serve them. Together, we can build a more integrated sense of self and a greater capacity to live the full life you deserve.
If insight hasn't been enough, there's another way.
Brainflow Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PMH-C
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Have you been told you are oversensitive? Too emotional? Ask too many questions? Never really fit other people's expectations? Is parenting your own ND/highly sensitive kid putting you in overwhelm? You are not broken or too much! I provide support and guidance to neurodivergent and other highly sensitive people in an affirming model. We will work together to clarify who you are and what you need, reduce emotional agitation, and establish firm, clear, & loving boundaries for real self-care.
Have you been told you are oversensitive? Too emotional? Ask too many questions? Never really fit other people's expectations? Is parenting your own ND/highly sensitive kid putting you in overwhelm? You are not broken or too much! I provide support and guidance to neurodivergent and other highly sensitive people in an affirming model. We will work together to clarify who you are and what you need, reduce emotional agitation, and establish firm, clear, & loving boundaries for real self-care.
Struggling to find a therapist who gets it?! I have a passion for working with Creatives, Queers, Misfits, and those deemed “Too Much” or “Overly Sensitive”. Feeling stuck, lost, teary, distant, numb, cranky, sad, or stressed?! Self-discovery and change is possible when one has the opportunity to feel connected with their therapist and both commit to the process. I am committed to a safe space, free of judgement, and familiar with all the ways the experience of difference can take a toll in one’s life. Providing Telehealth state-wide in California and Maine.
Struggling to find a therapist who gets it?! I have a passion for working with Creatives, Queers, Misfits, and those deemed “Too Much” or “Overly Sensitive”. Feeling stuck, lost, teary, distant, numb, cranky, sad, or stressed?! Self-discovery and change is possible when one has the opportunity to feel connected with their therapist and both commit to the process. I am committed to a safe space, free of judgement, and familiar with all the ways the experience of difference can take a toll in one’s life. Providing Telehealth state-wide in California and Maine.
Accepting new duos and individuals! I work with individuals and relationships, including romantic + non-romantic duos (i.e. friends, siblings, ex-partners). My work is trauma-/systems-informed and relational. Together, we will respond to your needs from this space, recognizing that no one approach fits all. We’ll make sense of a constellation of experiences, feelings, and thoughts, exploring their origins and contexts, protective functions, and impacts on your self and relationships. Our collaborative process enables us to gently explore past wounds, deepen reflection and curiosity, and support new ways of being to heal and grow.
Accepting new duos and individuals! I work with individuals and relationships, including romantic + non-romantic duos (i.e. friends, siblings, ex-partners). My work is trauma-/systems-informed and relational. Together, we will respond to your needs from this space, recognizing that no one approach fits all. We’ll make sense of a constellation of experiences, feelings, and thoughts, exploring their origins and contexts, protective functions, and impacts on your self and relationships. Our collaborative process enables us to gently explore past wounds, deepen reflection and curiosity, and support new ways of being to heal and grow.
The Coastal Institute has immediate openings for individual therapy, family therapy, couples counseling, and parent coaching. I have expertise in attachment trauma and it's utility as a frame to address parenting challenges and fractured families. With couples I use Crucible & Gottman frames to address issues with intimacy and communication. I am also an expert in the diagnosis and treatment of personality disorders. I work with my clients to understand what lead to their challenges, and create a plan to address their unique needs. I use Mentalization Based Therapy (MBT) in addition to other methods of treatment.
The Coastal Institute has immediate openings for individual therapy, family therapy, couples counseling, and parent coaching. I have expertise in attachment trauma and it's utility as a frame to address parenting challenges and fractured families. With couples I use Crucible & Gottman frames to address issues with intimacy and communication. I am also an expert in the diagnosis and treatment of personality disorders. I work with my clients to understand what lead to their challenges, and create a plan to address their unique needs. I use Mentalization Based Therapy (MBT) in addition to other methods of treatment.
Whether working with individuals or couples, I offer a warm, attuned space to explore patterns, relationships, and emotional experience with honesty and care. I pay close attention to what’s said, how it’s said, and how our dynamic reveals deeper layers of your experience. This experiential, relational process supports reconnection to needs, boundaries, and vitality. I work with those navigating everyday challenges as well as the lasting effects of complex or acute trauma—always grounded in authentic contact and collaborative presence.
Whether working with individuals or couples, I offer a warm, attuned space to explore patterns, relationships, and emotional experience with honesty and care. I pay close attention to what’s said, how it’s said, and how our dynamic reveals deeper layers of your experience. This experiential, relational process supports reconnection to needs, boundaries, and vitality. I work with those navigating everyday challenges as well as the lasting effects of complex or acute trauma—always grounded in authentic contact and collaborative presence.
If you are seeking a therapist who prioritizes the client relationship and creating a comfortable yet productive experience, I'd love to work together. I work with adolescents and adults who feel stuck. Whether it is because of trauma, difficult relationships, anxiety, burnout, or major life transitions, together we will work to gain clarity, reconnect with yourself, and move forward with confidence. I am down to earth, value lightness and humor, and truly find joy in my work.
I offer 30, 45, and 60 minute sessions monthly, biweekly, or weekly to allow flexibility and meet client needs.
If you are seeking a therapist who prioritizes the client relationship and creating a comfortable yet productive experience, I'd love to work together. I work with adolescents and adults who feel stuck. Whether it is because of trauma, difficult relationships, anxiety, burnout, or major life transitions, together we will work to gain clarity, reconnect with yourself, and move forward with confidence. I am down to earth, value lightness and humor, and truly find joy in my work.
I offer 30, 45, and 60 minute sessions monthly, biweekly, or weekly to allow flexibility and meet client needs.
Seeking counseling is a sign of hope. I strive to create a compassionate, grounded, and non-judgmental collaboration with you to facilitate change and help you move forward in a meaningful way. Let's tap into your strengths to get the most out of our sessions, making space for new insights and skills, and improving communication. My expertise includes helping people heal from past hurts and traumas, navigating life transitions, relationships (family, intimacy, parenting), depression, anxiety, stress reduction, conflict resolution, and grief/loss. I enjoy working with individuals and couples who are committed to growth.
Seeking counseling is a sign of hope. I strive to create a compassionate, grounded, and non-judgmental collaboration with you to facilitate change and help you move forward in a meaningful way. Let's tap into your strengths to get the most out of our sessions, making space for new insights and skills, and improving communication. My expertise includes helping people heal from past hurts and traumas, navigating life transitions, relationships (family, intimacy, parenting), depression, anxiety, stress reduction, conflict resolution, and grief/loss. I enjoy working with individuals and couples who are committed to growth.
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I work with people navigating life’s many challenges, whether that’s personal or professional growth, managing depression or anxiety, coping with caregiving or chronic illness, processing grief, exploring gender or sexual identity, or navigating polyamory, consensual non-monogamy, kink, or sex work.
I am a licensed therapist in New Hampshire, Maine, Massachusetts, Oklahoma, and Vermont, and I provide LGBTQIA-affirming therapy for individuals and couples. My approach is collaborative and grounded in the belief that you are the expert in your own experience.
Seeking therapy often comes during times of stress, change, or uncertainty and taking that first step can be difficult. I offer a supportive, nonjudgmental space to explore what’s happening in your life and find solutions that fit you.
Together, we’ll identify your goals and build on your strengths, helping you heal, grow, and move toward the life you want.
I work with people navigating life’s many challenges, whether that’s personal or professional growth, managing depression or anxiety, coping with caregiving or chronic illness, processing grief, exploring gender or sexual identity, or navigating polyamory, consensual non-monogamy, kink, or sex work.
I am a licensed therapist in New Hampshire, Maine, Massachusetts, Oklahoma, and Vermont, and I provide LGBTQIA-affirming therapy for individuals and couples. My approach is collaborative and grounded in the belief that you are the expert in your own experience.
Seeking therapy often comes during times of stress, change, or uncertainty and taking that first step can be difficult. I offer a supportive, nonjudgmental space to explore what’s happening in your life and find solutions that fit you.
Together, we’ll identify your goals and build on your strengths, helping you heal, grow, and move toward the life you want.
I specialize in helping men who struggle with isolation, feelings of anxiety and depression, blocks to intimacy, addiction to pornography, lack of male friends, a feeling of being lost or without a deep sense of purpose, or feeling numb and disconnected from life. As men, we are socialized to keep everything to ourselves, which makes it hard for us to admit when we're lonely, hurting, and in need of support. Many of us grew up with fathers that were absent, abusive, or detached emotionally, leaving us without a respectable model of masculinity and without much direction in life.
I specialize in helping men who struggle with isolation, feelings of anxiety and depression, blocks to intimacy, addiction to pornography, lack of male friends, a feeling of being lost or without a deep sense of purpose, or feeling numb and disconnected from life. As men, we are socialized to keep everything to ourselves, which makes it hard for us to admit when we're lonely, hurting, and in need of support. Many of us grew up with fathers that were absent, abusive, or detached emotionally, leaving us without a respectable model of masculinity and without much direction in life.
Hi, thanks for being here. My practice is a ground up approach rooted in body, soul, and mind connection. I work from a relational attachment focus first and we build from there. We learn what feels safe for you and grow that safety together. My curated style is a balance between creative processing and building skills where I will playfully and directly guide you towards healing. I offer telehealth sessions for your flexibility and convenience.
Hi, thanks for being here. My practice is a ground up approach rooted in body, soul, and mind connection. I work from a relational attachment focus first and we build from there. We learn what feels safe for you and grow that safety together. My curated style is a balance between creative processing and building skills where I will playfully and directly guide you towards healing. I offer telehealth sessions for your flexibility and convenience.
You don't have to navigate this alone. I specialize in helping individuals who have experienced domestic violence rebuild trust, regain autonomy, and rediscover their voice. Whether you're processing past trauma or untangling present dynamics, I provide a warm, empowering space where healing becomes possible.
In addition to trauma-focused work, I’m passionate about supporting adults who feel stuck, anxious, or uncertain about changing life circumstances. Life can often throw a curveball and make things feel chaotic.
You don't have to navigate this alone. I specialize in helping individuals who have experienced domestic violence rebuild trust, regain autonomy, and rediscover their voice. Whether you're processing past trauma or untangling present dynamics, I provide a warm, empowering space where healing becomes possible.
In addition to trauma-focused work, I’m passionate about supporting adults who feel stuck, anxious, or uncertain about changing life circumstances. Life can often throw a curveball and make things feel chaotic.
Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished - Lao Tzu
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Nature holds everything and everyone. It is our society that comes with rules and expectations about who we should or shouldn't be, and that can cause great harm, stress, and grief. When were you last able to slow down and feel like yourself without any pressure to do or be anything else? My office setting is a garden with some woods for rambling. Natural spaces inherently help us tune into ourselves individually and as part of a web of life. Often our bodies and minds hold the wisdom we are needing. I invite you to explore and heal in partnership with nature.
Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished - Lao Tzu
. . .
Nature holds everything and everyone. It is our society that comes with rules and expectations about who we should or shouldn't be, and that can cause great harm, stress, and grief. When were you last able to slow down and feel like yourself without any pressure to do or be anything else? My office setting is a garden with some woods for rambling. Natural spaces inherently help us tune into ourselves individually and as part of a web of life. Often our bodies and minds hold the wisdom we are needing. I invite you to explore and heal in partnership with nature.
Are you feeling stuck or struggling to feel in control of your life? Have you found yourself in a cycle of one negative relationship after the other, no matter how hard you try to break that pattern? As an anxiety & relationship therapist, I specialize in supporting adults with unhealthy relationship patterns understand why relationships leave them feeling anxious and disconnected so that they can build healthier boundaries, communicate their needs confidently, and create more secure relationships. Let's break people-pleasing & self-sabotaging behaviors together to find the relationships you've always wanted for yourself!
Are you feeling stuck or struggling to feel in control of your life? Have you found yourself in a cycle of one negative relationship after the other, no matter how hard you try to break that pattern? As an anxiety & relationship therapist, I specialize in supporting adults with unhealthy relationship patterns understand why relationships leave them feeling anxious and disconnected so that they can build healthier boundaries, communicate their needs confidently, and create more secure relationships. Let's break people-pleasing & self-sabotaging behaviors together to find the relationships you've always wanted for yourself!
Hi I’m Elizabeth (she/her).
I work with adult individuals navigating anxiety, mood challenges, trauma, relationship difficulties, and life transitions. Many of my clients are thoughtful and self-aware, yet feel overwhelmed by intense emotions, internal conflict, or patterns that keep repeating despite their efforts.
I help clients who feel emotionally overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure how to move forward. In therapy, we slow things down and explore what’s happening beneath the surface so change can emerge in a way that feels grounded and sustainable.
Hi I’m Elizabeth (she/her).
I work with adult individuals navigating anxiety, mood challenges, trauma, relationship difficulties, and life transitions. Many of my clients are thoughtful and self-aware, yet feel overwhelmed by intense emotions, internal conflict, or patterns that keep repeating despite their efforts.
I help clients who feel emotionally overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure how to move forward. In therapy, we slow things down and explore what’s happening beneath the surface so change can emerge in a way that feels grounded and sustainable.
I love working with women and gender-expansive clients who are navigating life transitions, feeling disconnected from themselves, or simply trying to make sense of everything they’re carrying. My clients may be healing from an eating disorder or struggling with body image, adjusting to the perinatal and postpartum seasons, processing trauma, or navigating anxiety, depression, and other mood concerns.
I believe therapy can be a space to slow down, feel understood, and develop a deeper sense of compassion for yourself. My goal isn’t to change who you are, but to help you understand yourself and feel more at home in your life.
I love working with women and gender-expansive clients who are navigating life transitions, feeling disconnected from themselves, or simply trying to make sense of everything they’re carrying. My clients may be healing from an eating disorder or struggling with body image, adjusting to the perinatal and postpartum seasons, processing trauma, or navigating anxiety, depression, and other mood concerns.
I believe therapy can be a space to slow down, feel understood, and develop a deeper sense of compassion for yourself. My goal isn’t to change who you are, but to help you understand yourself and feel more at home in your life.
The world is heavy right now. Whether you are navigating global exhaustion, complex trauma, or a lost sense of self, you deserve an active partner in your healing. My practice is a space for direct connection and honest reflection. I respect your ability to heal and believe that meaningful change is rooted in the quiet work of rediscovering who you are. I provide a warm, receptive environment where clinical experience meets a deeply human exchange, meeting you exactly where you are with both compassion and genuine presence. Healing isn’t about "fixing" you; it’s about gaining the confidence to live as your most integrated self.
The world is heavy right now. Whether you are navigating global exhaustion, complex trauma, or a lost sense of self, you deserve an active partner in your healing. My practice is a space for direct connection and honest reflection. I respect your ability to heal and believe that meaningful change is rooted in the quiet work of rediscovering who you are. I provide a warm, receptive environment where clinical experience meets a deeply human exchange, meeting you exactly where you are with both compassion and genuine presence. Healing isn’t about "fixing" you; it’s about gaining the confidence to live as your most integrated self.
You deserve a space where you don't have to explain, hide, or apologize for who you are. I work with LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent adults who are tired of masking, people-pleasing, and carrying the weight of anxiety, shame, or past trauma. Using a blend of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), somatic therapy, and mindfulness, I help clients reconnect with their bodies, process emotions, strengthen boundaries, and build self-trust. With nearly 20 years of experience working with diverse clients in California, Maine, and Pennsylvania, I provide an affirming space to help you live more authentically.
You deserve a space where you don't have to explain, hide, or apologize for who you are. I work with LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent adults who are tired of masking, people-pleasing, and carrying the weight of anxiety, shame, or past trauma. Using a blend of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), somatic therapy, and mindfulness, I help clients reconnect with their bodies, process emotions, strengthen boundaries, and build self-trust. With nearly 20 years of experience working with diverse clients in California, Maine, and Pennsylvania, I provide an affirming space to help you live more authentically.
Neurodivergence. Relationships. Trauma. The foundation of my work is built on the belief that all people have the inner capacity for growth & healing, activated with the right conditions: safety, curiosity, compassion, & unconditional positive regard. We’ll explore what it means to live in greater alignment with your values, your limits, and your truth. Therapy isn’t about becoming a new version of yourself, rather it's about coming home to the self you’ve always been. I work from a systemic lens, meaning I hold a deep awareness of how family dynamics, cultural narratives, and social systems shape our internal world & mental health.
Neurodivergence. Relationships. Trauma. The foundation of my work is built on the belief that all people have the inner capacity for growth & healing, activated with the right conditions: safety, curiosity, compassion, & unconditional positive regard. We’ll explore what it means to live in greater alignment with your values, your limits, and your truth. Therapy isn’t about becoming a new version of yourself, rather it's about coming home to the self you’ve always been. I work from a systemic lens, meaning I hold a deep awareness of how family dynamics, cultural narratives, and social systems shape our internal world & mental health.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.