Infidelity Therapists in Frederick, MD
Well Marriage Center - Frederick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C
1 Endorsed
Frederick, MD 21702
Our counselors are trained to handle all issues such as communication, infidelity, conflict, trauma, intimacy, divorce adjustment & more.
Our ideal clients are ready to put in the time and effort and work towards a common goal with their partner. Couples counseling is our specialty and what we offer exclusively at Well Marriage Center. We have 3 licensed, specialized couples therapists in the Frederick and surrounding areas who have committed their life's work to helping couples change the trajectory of their relationship with counseling and coaching techniques that heal trust, rekindle intimacy, and increase the positive aspects of your relationship. We listen intently so you can get our thoughts, ideas, suggestions and feedback every step of the way.
Our counselors are trained to handle all issues such as communication, infidelity, conflict, trauma, intimacy, divorce adjustment & more.
Our ideal clients are ready to put in the time and effort and work towards a common goal with their partner. Couples counseling is our specialty and what we offer exclusively at Well Marriage Center. We have 3 licensed, specialized couples therapists in the Frederick and surrounding areas who have committed their life's work to helping couples change the trajectory of their relationship with counseling and coaching techniques that heal trust, rekindle intimacy, and increase the positive aspects of your relationship. We listen intently so you can get our thoughts, ideas, suggestions and feedback every step of the way.
Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, infidelity in your relationship, communication problems, or life transitions, I will support you in your journey toward personal growth.
I offer a systemic, strengths-based approach, and believe you already possess the tools needed to reach your goals. You might be wondering if a marriage & family therapist works with individuals...I certainly do! Whether working with one person or several, I view the person in the context of their relationships.
Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, infidelity in your relationship, communication problems, or life transitions, I will support you in your journey toward personal growth.
I offer a systemic, strengths-based approach, and believe you already possess the tools needed to reach your goals. You might be wondering if a marriage & family therapist works with individuals...I certainly do! Whether working with one person or several, I view the person in the context of their relationships.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples who are struggling with conflict, communication, loss, infidelity and other patterns that interfere with a healthy sense of well being.
I'm trained in EMDR, Attachment Theory, CBT, Internal Family Systems (IFS) and other evidenced based strategies. I have received extensive training in EFT (Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy) as well as the methods of John Gottman. I also specialize in treating individuals who have experienced or are trying to heal from narcissistic abuse.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples who are struggling with conflict, communication, loss, infidelity and other patterns that interfere with a healthy sense of well being.
I'm trained in EMDR, Attachment Theory, CBT, Internal Family Systems (IFS) and other evidenced based strategies. I have received extensive training in EFT (Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy) as well as the methods of John Gottman. I also specialize in treating individuals who have experienced or are trying to heal from narcissistic abuse.
I know first-hand the twists and turns life can take. I have a deep understanding of the challenges individuals, couples, families, and children face on a daily basis. Life's often overwhelming demands can result in anxiety, depression, and other unhealthy ways of managing stress. I desire to work with clients to help empower them through identifying and conquering patterns of negative thoughts and behaviors while working toward developing a healthy, balanced lifestyle that everyone deserves to have. You will be provided a safe and caring environment where you are able to learn and grow without concern of feeling judged.
I know first-hand the twists and turns life can take. I have a deep understanding of the challenges individuals, couples, families, and children face on a daily basis. Life's often overwhelming demands can result in anxiety, depression, and other unhealthy ways of managing stress. I desire to work with clients to help empower them through identifying and conquering patterns of negative thoughts and behaviors while working toward developing a healthy, balanced lifestyle that everyone deserves to have. You will be provided a safe and caring environment where you are able to learn and grow without concern of feeling judged.
At this time, I am only taking clients facing infidelity in their relationship.
1. Helping couples overcome the deleterious effects of infidelity. If an affair is impacting your relationship, I can walk you through the steps it takes to heal. An affair is a trauma that takes time and patience to heal from, but healing is possible! I will be your guide; and
At this time, I am only taking clients facing infidelity in their relationship.
1. Helping couples overcome the deleterious effects of infidelity. If an affair is impacting your relationship, I can walk you through the steps it takes to heal. An affair is a trauma that takes time and patience to heal from, but healing is possible! I will be your guide; and
"Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." (Viktor Frankl) Many of those I work with are dealing with issues of grief and loss. Others suffer from addictions and desire to embark on a recovery path, or love someone with addictions and need to learn how to take care of themselves. Many are journeying through resolving trauma, anxiety, stress or depression issues. Regardless of your pain, I am invested in your growth, emotional freedom and creating your wellness plan.
"Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." (Viktor Frankl) Many of those I work with are dealing with issues of grief and loss. Others suffer from addictions and desire to embark on a recovery path, or love someone with addictions and need to learn how to take care of themselves. Many are journeying through resolving trauma, anxiety, stress or depression issues. Regardless of your pain, I am invested in your growth, emotional freedom and creating your wellness plan.
Many people want change but oftentimes that first step is the most daunting. We can get caught up trying to make the right choice and out of fear of being wrong, make no choice at all. If you are reading this, chances are that you are seeking change for yourself or someone close to you. We all need help at some point. When it's healthy and effective, it can make the difference between meeting your goals or remaining stuck and frustrated.
Many people want change but oftentimes that first step is the most daunting. We can get caught up trying to make the right choice and out of fear of being wrong, make no choice at all. If you are reading this, chances are that you are seeking change for yourself or someone close to you. We all need help at some point. When it's healthy and effective, it can make the difference between meeting your goals or remaining stuck and frustrated.
Healing and self-growth can feel overwhelming, especially when you’ve spent so long carrying trauma, anxiety, relationship struggles, or feeling unseen by others. I work with adolescents and adults navigating trauma, PTSD, complex PTSD, anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship issues, family conflict, self-esteem concerns, cultural identity, and life transitions. I am especially passionate about supporting women and individuals who have felt misunderstood, marginalized, or disconnected from their sense of self.
Healing and self-growth can feel overwhelming, especially when you’ve spent so long carrying trauma, anxiety, relationship struggles, or feeling unseen by others. I work with adolescents and adults navigating trauma, PTSD, complex PTSD, anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship issues, family conflict, self-esteem concerns, cultural identity, and life transitions. I am especially passionate about supporting women and individuals who have felt misunderstood, marginalized, or disconnected from their sense of self.
Note: Currently accepting online clients only. This includes only residents of Maryland and Virginia. Get compassionate yet practical help! Clients gain new perspectives, from a Judeo-Christian angle. Each person will be heard. We build on strengths while recognizing work to be done. One area of expertise is helping spouses communicate without the other shutting down. Covid has left some still struggling, say with anxiety and recognizing our worth. There have been a multitude of changes and losses, as well.
Note: Currently accepting online clients only. This includes only residents of Maryland and Virginia. Get compassionate yet practical help! Clients gain new perspectives, from a Judeo-Christian angle. Each person will be heard. We build on strengths while recognizing work to be done. One area of expertise is helping spouses communicate without the other shutting down. Covid has left some still struggling, say with anxiety and recognizing our worth. There have been a multitude of changes and losses, as well.
I believe there is power and potential in all of us for healing and growth! The therapeutic relationship is a powerful tool for change. My goal is to provide a warm and engaging environment where you will feel supported and lovingly challenged, where you can strengthen your voice and work through what’s holding you back from feeling more fulfilled. I will encourage a deepening of self-awareness and self-compassion as you process old patterns, beliefs and past experiences, or as you confront fear, shame and insecurities that may be getting in the way of finding more joy and meaning in both your personal and professional lives.
I believe there is power and potential in all of us for healing and growth! The therapeutic relationship is a powerful tool for change. My goal is to provide a warm and engaging environment where you will feel supported and lovingly challenged, where you can strengthen your voice and work through what’s holding you back from feeling more fulfilled. I will encourage a deepening of self-awareness and self-compassion as you process old patterns, beliefs and past experiences, or as you confront fear, shame and insecurities that may be getting in the way of finding more joy and meaning in both your personal and professional lives.
Patricia Messina
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C
Frederick, MD 21702
Waitlist for new clients
Healing begins when you give yourself permission to stop suffering, and I believe meaningful progress is possible through courage, self-compassion, and intentional growth. Hi, I'm Patricia and I am a psychotherapist specializing in trauma, marriage & family therapy, addiction, grief counseling, depression, and anxiety.
I hold a Master of Science in Social Work from the University of Pittsburgh and a Bachelor of Science in Psychology from Slippery Rock University.
I am especially passionate about supporting those who have experienced trauma; helping clients build resilience and move toward a healthier, more fulfilling life.
Healing begins when you give yourself permission to stop suffering, and I believe meaningful progress is possible through courage, self-compassion, and intentional growth. Hi, I'm Patricia and I am a psychotherapist specializing in trauma, marriage & family therapy, addiction, grief counseling, depression, and anxiety.
I hold a Master of Science in Social Work from the University of Pittsburgh and a Bachelor of Science in Psychology from Slippery Rock University.
I am especially passionate about supporting those who have experienced trauma; helping clients build resilience and move toward a healthier, more fulfilling life.
Dagenhart Health And Wellness, LLC
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MSN, PMHNP, LCPC, CGT
Frederick, MD 21704
Our providers are experienced in a broad range of mental health issues and use a variety of therapeutic approaches to compliment the unique needs of each individual. We believe that health comes from treating the whole person. Therefore, we seek to integrate emotional, physical, and spiritual dimensions into the healing process. Our providers will tailor treatment to help meet your specific needs and not to a specific theoretical approach. Our providers will help guide you through the exploration of values, beliefs, thoughts, and feelings to promote increased awareness of self and greater sense of well-being.
Our providers are experienced in a broad range of mental health issues and use a variety of therapeutic approaches to compliment the unique needs of each individual. We believe that health comes from treating the whole person. Therefore, we seek to integrate emotional, physical, and spiritual dimensions into the healing process. Our providers will tailor treatment to help meet your specific needs and not to a specific theoretical approach. Our providers will help guide you through the exploration of values, beliefs, thoughts, and feelings to promote increased awareness of self and greater sense of well-being.
We are currently accepting new patients.
Seeking therapy is a brave step toward healing, growth, and creating the life you deserve. Whether you're struggling with past wounds, relationship challenges, self-doubt, or major life transitions, you don’t have to go through it alone.
With over 20 years of experience as a licensed social worker and life coach, I specialize in helping individuals navigate emotional healing, build self-worth, and develop healthier , more fulfilling relationships.
We are currently accepting new patients.
Seeking therapy is a brave step toward healing, growth, and creating the life you deserve. Whether you're struggling with past wounds, relationship challenges, self-doubt, or major life transitions, you don’t have to go through it alone.
With over 20 years of experience as a licensed social worker and life coach, I specialize in helping individuals navigate emotional healing, build self-worth, and develop healthier , more fulfilling relationships.
Heather Michelle Tydings
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, MSW, Coach
5 Endorsed
Frederick, MD 21704
Waitlist for new clients
Clients find me when going through periods of reinvention, transition + when they are craving an authentic life. I work with women who feel unsettled and anxious, yet crave peace & are willing to go on a truth seeking mission to find it. Many are highly sensitive humans who are ready to create their own narrative in order to live potently & vibrantly.
I believe the therapeutic process is about losing what is no longer needed rather than changing perceived flaws.
My style is direct, lively & collaborative; assisting those who want to reclaim themselves & live from their heart.
Clients find me when going through periods of reinvention, transition + when they are craving an authentic life. I work with women who feel unsettled and anxious, yet crave peace & are willing to go on a truth seeking mission to find it. Many are highly sensitive humans who are ready to create their own narrative in order to live potently & vibrantly.
I believe the therapeutic process is about losing what is no longer needed rather than changing perceived flaws.
My style is direct, lively & collaborative; assisting those who want to reclaim themselves & live from their heart.
The journey towards discovery and healing can be rewarding. The decision to seek counseling can be difficult. I am here to help. I am a social worker with over 20 years of experience. I have experience working with children and adults. I am passionate about my work and understand the importance of offering a nonjudgmental safe space for clients. We will work towards identifying your strengths to help you get to where you want to be. I will utilize a holistic approach to help equip clients with the tools needed to maintain a balanced life. I value moments when my client’s smile, thrive, or triumph over difficulties.
The journey towards discovery and healing can be rewarding. The decision to seek counseling can be difficult. I am here to help. I am a social worker with over 20 years of experience. I have experience working with children and adults. I am passionate about my work and understand the importance of offering a nonjudgmental safe space for clients. We will work towards identifying your strengths to help you get to where you want to be. I will utilize a holistic approach to help equip clients with the tools needed to maintain a balanced life. I value moments when my client’s smile, thrive, or triumph over difficulties.
Let’s be honest…
You’re not broken—you’re just tired of Googling low libido women and wondering why your body didn’t get the memo. Maybe you avoid intimacy and feel guilty, or you’re stuck in your head, unable to feel anything. You might love your partner, but intimacy issues in relationships are making things feel complicated… or just meh.
Here’s the truth: your body isn’t the problem—the pressure is. The past might be, too.
I offer sex therapy for women who are done performing and ready to reconnect with their body and desire.
Let’s be honest…
You’re not broken—you’re just tired of Googling low libido women and wondering why your body didn’t get the memo. Maybe you avoid intimacy and feel guilty, or you’re stuck in your head, unable to feel anything. You might love your partner, but intimacy issues in relationships are making things feel complicated… or just meh.
Here’s the truth: your body isn’t the problem—the pressure is. The past might be, too.
I offer sex therapy for women who are done performing and ready to reconnect with their body and desire.
I help individuals and couples with problematic sexual behaviors, addiction, and betrayal trauma using a holistic, client-centered, trauma-informed approach that integrates 12-step principles.
Things have a way of not working out the way they we thought they would. The stories of our lives begin in the families we are given with all of their foibles and experiences. Pages that become chapters of pain, trauma or loss can engulf the one that feels trapped in the narrative. After a plot twist of epic proportions, I left a 16-year career in the intelligence community and began a new chapter. I’ve had to confront the sources, rewrite the narrative, consult the author and find myself in the pages. The refinement process can be a horrific one but in the truth, freedom is found. Together, we can find healing.
I help individuals and couples with problematic sexual behaviors, addiction, and betrayal trauma using a holistic, client-centered, trauma-informed approach that integrates 12-step principles.
Things have a way of not working out the way they we thought they would. The stories of our lives begin in the families we are given with all of their foibles and experiences. Pages that become chapters of pain, trauma or loss can engulf the one that feels trapped in the narrative. After a plot twist of epic proportions, I left a 16-year career in the intelligence community and began a new chapter. I’ve had to confront the sources, rewrite the narrative, consult the author and find myself in the pages. The refinement process can be a horrific one but in the truth, freedom is found. Together, we can find healing.
Therapy is one of the best investments we can make in ourselves. While the therapeutic process is very personal and tailored to each individual, I will work closely with you to build trust so you feel supported in exploring any life challenges you are experiencing. I take a holistic approach to promote self-exploration, help you gain awareness, and support you in meeting your goals that can lead to lasting improvements extending beyond the bounds of therapy. Building on your unique strengths, I hope to inspire you to enhance your innate capacity toward healing, growth, and wellness.
Therapy is one of the best investments we can make in ourselves. While the therapeutic process is very personal and tailored to each individual, I will work closely with you to build trust so you feel supported in exploring any life challenges you are experiencing. I take a holistic approach to promote self-exploration, help you gain awareness, and support you in meeting your goals that can lead to lasting improvements extending beyond the bounds of therapy. Building on your unique strengths, I hope to inspire you to enhance your innate capacity toward healing, growth, and wellness.
Ideal clients have tried other treatments and the issue persists. My/our clients may come with anxiety, PTSD, trauma, weight, smoking, sleeping, pain, restless leg and other severe or chronic issues. I have worked with veteran issues, ms, lupus, damaged spine, fibromyalgia, fears, sleep/insomnia, medical compliance, motivation. I have multiple certifications, research and science background and apply the latest methods that produce lasting results
Ideal clients have tried other treatments and the issue persists. My/our clients may come with anxiety, PTSD, trauma, weight, smoking, sleeping, pain, restless leg and other severe or chronic issues. I have worked with veteran issues, ms, lupus, damaged spine, fibromyalgia, fears, sleep/insomnia, medical compliance, motivation. I have multiple certifications, research and science background and apply the latest methods that produce lasting results
Julie A Hanson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, LCMFT, RYT, CLC
9 Endorsed
Frederick, MD 21701
Whether you're coming in as a couple or on your own, you may be feeling stuck—overwhelmed by anxiety, weighed down by depression, or caught in painful patterns that repeat in your relationships. Maybe communication feels impossible, conflict escalates quickly, or you're longing for connection but don’t know how to get there.
I help people get to the heart of what’s really going on—beyond just the words, beyond logic—by working with the deeper systems that shape how we feel, react, and relate. Together, we’ll create space to slow down, understand your nervous system, and help you connect to what matters most in your life.
Whether you're coming in as a couple or on your own, you may be feeling stuck—overwhelmed by anxiety, weighed down by depression, or caught in painful patterns that repeat in your relationships. Maybe communication feels impossible, conflict escalates quickly, or you're longing for connection but don’t know how to get there.
I help people get to the heart of what’s really going on—beyond just the words, beyond logic—by working with the deeper systems that shape how we feel, react, and relate. Together, we’ll create space to slow down, understand your nervous system, and help you connect to what matters most in your life.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.


