Emotionally Focused Therapists in Bethesda, MD
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Cindy Bull Crane
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW-C
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
I am a trained
Emotionally Focused
Couples (
EFT
) therapist and EMDR therapist.
If you are sitting on my couch, SOME kind of trauma or pain has touched you. Whether you are straight or gay, a teen, adult or or older adult, first responder, couple in crisis, or struggling with illness or grief, I will help you learn to better process and manage your emotions, including worry, fear, anxiety, sadness or anger to develop better coping strategies TODAY. My therapy is non-judgmental and client-focused where therapeutic goals are driven by the client's needs.

Katy Gustafson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LCPC
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
I tend to focus on
EFT
, CBT, family of origin issues, interpersonal relationships, healthy communication, psycho-education, mindfulness training, and trauma informed approaches in therapy.
Perhaps you feel sad, incapable, overwhelmed or responsible for the hardships you've suffered either personally or between other people? Is your self-understanding based on how other people think or treat you? Whatever your struggle, the first step is finding support. I know asking for help can be hard and may seem to make things worse, like your fears are real. But let me pause and remind you that your life does not have to be dictated by others or negative feelings. Finding true freedom in relationships and with yourself is really possible! You just have to take that first step, in fact you're already doing it.

Sabine Cornelius
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW, LCSW-C, LCSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I am trained in
Emotionally Focused
Couple Therapy, Intensive Short Term Dynamic Psychotherapy, and somatic experiencing to help clients (re)gain emotional stability.
I believe in clients' innate ability to heal and grow, and in helping them to tap into their inner wisdom and resources. I have worked creatively, effectively and empathically with couples and individuals struggling with relationship difficulties, painful childhood and life experiences, personal and work stress, anxiety and depression, and social isolation. I have helped clients with complex needs in a variety of settings, including inpatient psychiatry, LGBT-friendly mental health services, university student counseling, and family services. I feel passionate about my work and view therapy as a collaborative, interactive process.
Waitlist for new clients

Caryn Malkus
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LCMFT
Verified
11 Endorsed
Verified
11 Endorsed
As a relationship expert who is Certified in
Emotionally Focused
Therapy, I guide my clients to understand and change their negative patterns of behavior so they can have healthy relationships with self and others for the long haul.
As Ted Lasso says, "I promise you there is something worse out there than being sad, and that's being alone and being sad". Are you experiencing sadness, frustration, loneliness, and worry? Are you struggling with relationships? Are you caught in a negative self talk spiral? It's time to get some relief from these difficult issues and feelings. Sharing with me, I will undo your aloneness and help you gain the support and guidance you need. Whether you are an individual or couple, I can help you create new, healthy ways of interacting with your self and others so you get what you want out of life, emerging confident and connected!

Nancy Hyatt
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C
Verified
Verified
My work integrates my experience as an Advanced Imago Therapist, EMDR therapist, training in
Emotionally Focused
Therapy, HeartMath, Polyvagal Theory, Somatic Coaching and Emotional Freedom Technique.
I have been helping individuals and couples transform their lives for over 25 years. My work is holistic. We target the root causes of your distress rather than skimming the surface level of symptoms. Only when root causes are addressed can symptoms dissolve. We dive deeply into the core issues that are keeping you stuck, disconnected and dissatisfied in your life and relationships. The process is efficient, effective, respectful, safe and profound. My ideal clients are people who are passionate about healing and releasing patterns that no longer serve them.

Rebecca Whitmore
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LICSW, MEd
Verified
Verified
I use contemporary modalities based in neuroscience including; EMDR, Intensive Short Term Psychotherapy, IMAGO Couples Therapy,
Emotionally Focused
Individual Therapy, Play Therapy, Sand Therapy, Gestalt, Mindfulness, and Somatic Intervention.
We overcome difficulties, adjust to changes, and manage difficult emotions best when we do not have to go at it alone. I offer a supportive partnership to help you identify your goals and build capacity to experience joy, compassionate self regard, and healthy rewarding relationships. I have over 35 years of experience helping children, couples, adults, and parents who may be feeling stuck, alone, sad, anxious, or unable to find the forward motion to reach goals for well being. Together we can create a safe space to address difficult emotions, and identify resources and habits that support resiliency and wellness.

Reuven Rosen, LMSW - Teens, Adults, Couples
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified
5 Endorsed
Verified
5 Endorsed
We will set measurable goals and work towards them using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT),
Emotionally Focused
Family Therapy (
EFT
), and other proven tools.
Do you feel frustrated when interacting with your teen? Does she hide in her room, or is he addicted to his phone? Is there frequent tension between you and your partner? Family relationships can be HARD, but with empathetic guidance and practical tools, you can heal even the most difficult relationships. You can learn to communicate in a way that your loved ones can hear. Adolescents can learn skills to engage with parents and peers. Couples can rebuild intimacy and mutual support. Teens and adults can get unstuck from anxiety, depression, and conflict. Contact me via phone, text, or email. I am looking forward to helping!

Emilie Gomart (-Berg)
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, MSc, CSHP
Verified
Verified
She has advanced training in
EFT
(
Emotionally Focused
couple's Therapy) as well as in other relational and systemic therapies, somatic therapies (sensorimotor and somatic experiencing), Circle of Security parenting and in sex therapy.
Emilie is a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family therapist (LCMFT) and an AASECT (American Association for Sex Therapy) certified Sex Therapist. Emilie’s expertise is in working with couples and families to improve their relationships and build more meaningful and more resilient bonds with each other. She has experience working with families with a wide range of challenges. Emilie specializes in working with couples on relationship and sexual issues, including general communication issues, conflicts around parenting, sexual desire differences or the impact of an affair.

Emily Farr
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
For those seeking couples therapy, I use evidenced-based methods, including
EFT
and Gottman, to help you and your partner connect more deeply and communicate more effectively.
Invalidating experiences can teach us not to trust ourselves, which may result in feeling small, hopeless, and less than. I’m here to facilitate opportunities for you to access your inner wisdom and tap into your potential to grow and thrive. I use an interactive and engaging therapeutic process that moves beyond conventional talk therapy. Our work together is practical and collaborative: We build a safe and trusting environment so you can connect to your emotions from a place of confidence and clarity resulting in more fulfillment, ease of living, and healthy connection with yourself and others.

Judy Wang
Counselor, CPC, LCPC, RPT
Verified
Verified
I also include expressive therapies (art, sandtray), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and
EFT
techniques.
Seeking counseling services for yourself or your loved ones can be a difficult process. With so many choices, it can be hard to choose who will be best suited for you or a member of your family. As you review my website, I hope you find I am a good fit for any of your needs. I truly believe the potential for overall well-being starts and ends with trust, compassion and effective communication that facilitates growth.
Not accepting new clients

Carol Mettus LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW-C
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
I am trained in EMDR,
Emotionally Focused
Couple's Therapy, Brief and Short-Term Therapy.
Do you feel stuck suffering with anxiety and depression ?Are you dealing with a relationship, work/college issue, or going through a life change such as a divorce, recent move, or loss? Are negative feelings stopping you from living the life you want to live? If so, you are not alone in this. It is possible to change your life. I will help you to heal yourself and learn the skills to change. Change is possible and there is always Hope.

Rachel Amanda Freidus
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I am certified in IFS, I have advanced training in
Emotionally Focused
Couples Therapy (
EFT
), and basic training in IFIO (IFS couples therapy) and EMDR.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a Certified Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist, who cares deeply about helping people heal, become their best selves, achieve their goals and improve their relationships. I provide a safe, supportive and non-judgmental space, where you will feel heard, seen and accepted. As your therapist, I will collaborate with you in the work that we do together.

Quintin Talley
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCPC
Verified
Verified
I utilize a variety of clinical approaches and has studied Gottman and
Emotionally Focused
therapy models.
I work with all couples and relationships and has special interests helping couples recover from infidelity and helping couples caught in high conflict or communication breakdowns.

Dayle Sterman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C
Verified
Verified
My experience includes advanced training in couples therapy (
emotionally focused
), family therapy, solution focused therapy, trauma, addictions , and work with family members of substance abusers.
TELETHERAPY available. Are you struggling to improve feelings about yourself and your relationships? Sometimes the stresses of daily living are hard to manage. You may be struggling with anxiety, sadness, depression, addiction or grief. I can help you navigate through tough times. I offer individual and couples therapy to help you get "unstuck", find new ways to cope, & improve communication and intimacy in your relationships. In therapy you learn to overcome obstacles that interfere with happiness. We identify strengths and patterns of behavior that interfere with achieving happiness to help you enjoy life and relationships

Larry Letich
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW-C
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
In addition, I'm a certified
Emotionally Focused
Couples Therapist (
EFT
), a method proven to help mend distressed relationships and restore frayed bonds.
Are you a smart, feelingful, sometimes intense man or woman who knows you can make more of your life than you have? Are you going through a turbulent time, frustrated in your life and yourself, struggling in a relationship, knowing you're not using your talents and intelligence the way you could? Possibly adult ADHD is tripping you up in ways you don't realize. Or it could be other emotional, relational or family issues. You want someone who listens closely to what you feel and what's going on in your life and your relationships, not to "validate" you but to understand, see the whole picture and help you move forward on all levels.

Jonathan Ladd
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C
Verified
Verified
I tailor my approach to my clients' particular situations and unique personalities, drawing from: Imago Therapy (as a Certified Advanced Imago Clinician), Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Susan Johnson's
Emotionally Focused
Therapy for Couples, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, EMDR and more.
Looking for relationship help? To relieve the pain or find better ways to manage? The "secrets" of dealing skillfully with difficulties, differences and hurts, are not really secrets: you CAN learn these and many more relationship skills if you are curious, motivated and persistent. I'd like to help you: a) address and relieve your most pressing problems, b) set clear, realistic goals, and c) learn to avoid a tremendous amount of headache and heartache in the future. Our collaboration may yield a lifetime of benefits.

Ann Lee
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, MDiv, BCN
Verified
Verified
Through modalities such as talk therapies, Eagala Equine Assisted Therapy, Walk and Talk therapy, neurofeedback, and
EFT
, we work together to reach your goals.
Life is full of challenges, and some of them feel overwhelming and even impossible. This may be one of the hardest periods of your life or in the life of a child you love. PRHP supports individuals, parents, adolescents, and children in finding healing and greater functioning through mind and body therapies. Together we can work to find healing, deeper understanding and greater functionality for you and those you love. You do not have to go through this time alone. Reach out and find the support you need to heal.

Vickye Hayter
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, RN, LCMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Therapy models that influence my approach include
Emotionally Focused
Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Solution Focused Therapy.
Often we wait until we have exhausted every measure before we seek professional help. You can start on your journey to healing, reconciliation, peace, and joy today. I believe that in times of adversity and struggle, we have the greatest potential for growth. It is often hard to see clearly how the difficulties we face will lead to positive changes, so instead we lose our way and get stuck in places of frustration, despair, and resentment. The change process is a journey-sometimes long and at times short. It is a process that gives us the opportunity to discover new ways of approaching our circumstances.

Philip Kolba
Counselor, MA, LMHC, NCC
The techniques I use CBT, DBT, ACT,
EFT
, and EMDR.
Are you as fulfilled by your relationships as you deserve to be? The quality of your relationships influences your mental health and your mental health affects your relationships. By examining your life and relationships with a counselor you can increase your capacity for happiness and success. I work with hetero and LGBTQ individuals, couples, and alternative relationships. I see clients online via encrypted video calls. Online counseling means I'm accessible whenever and wherever it's convenient for you, and you can continue to see me wherever your life takes you.

Erika L Bond
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LCMFT
Verified
4 Endorsed
Verified
4 Endorsed
I have advanced training in the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT) and
Emotionally Focused
Therapy (
EFT
).
I believe healthy, trusting, connected relationships are the cornerstones of strong mental strength. Whether you’re coming in for couples counseling or individual therapy, I approach everything from a relational lens. When you feel fulfilled and empowered in your interpersonal relationships, you’re better equipped to handle the many stressors life presents.
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Emotionally Focused Therapists
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.