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Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
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Matthew Wettlaufer

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART

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Palm Desert, CA 92211
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Very often the clients I work with are individuals seeking to heal childhood trauma. I also work with clients struggling with codependency issues in relationships with spouses, friends and family. I've been a caregiver to a spouse with cancer and a mother with Alzheimer's so I can support you in caregiving. I can also be an added support to clients who are already in recovery doing 12 step work. And I often work with clients experiencing life transitions.
I can offer ART (accelerated resolution therapy, a more condensed form of EMDR) for PTSD reduction; psychodynamic approaches (inner child work) to heal past childhood wounds; CBT and DBT strategies for reducing anxiety and depression; and journaling and art therapies for life changes.
Please reach out to me by way of email, tell me what is bringing you to therapy.
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My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Palm Desert, CA 92211

I offer online sessions, both talk therapy and ART (accelerated resolution therapy), for cash pay clients.
I specialize in Codependency, Life Transitions and Anxiety 
$125 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 
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My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Palm Desert, CA 92211

I offer online sessions, both talk therapy and ART (accelerated resolution therapy), for cash pay clients.
I specialize in Codependency, Life Transitions and Anxiety 
$125 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $125

Payment Methods

Venmo

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Anthem
  • Kaiser (Out-of-Network)
  • Oscar Health
  • Oxford
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
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I accept cash pay clients directly, but if you have insurance I can refer you to an online platform that I work with to see if they will accept your coverage.
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Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
with questions.
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I accept cash pay clients directly, but if you have insurance I can refer you to an online platform that I work with to see if they will accept your coverage.
Photo of Matthew Wettlaufer, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
with questions.

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 147660 Matthew Wettlaufer
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 4 years
  • Attended Brandman University, MA Psychology, Graduated 2021
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from University of Kassel, Germany PhD Philosophy / 2007
  • Degree/Diploma from San Diego State University MA Philosophy / 1998
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I have worked for 4 years as a therapist. I'm a licensed LMFT in California and I am trained and certified in ART (trauma reduction therapy). I've worked with children, veterans, clients in substance abuse treatment, as well as clients dealing with life transitions, anxiety, and depression.
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Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
with questions.
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I have worked for 4 years as a therapist. I'm a licensed LMFT in California and I am trained and certified in ART (trauma reduction therapy). I've worked with children, veterans, clients in substance abuse treatment, as well as clients dealing with life transitions, anxiety, and depression.
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Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
with questions.

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Codependency
  • Life Transitions
  • Anxiety

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Alcohol Use
  • Asperger's Syndrome
  • Caregivers
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Existential crisis
  • Grief
  • LGBTQ+
  • Men's Issues
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Peer Relationships
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • School Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Spirituality
  • Substance Use
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I can help you with life transitions, mild to moderate anxiety and depression, codependency issues, trauma reduction, and support in 12 step recovery. Depending on the issue we can use talk therapy or ART. In talk therapy I utilize techniques from CBT, DBT, psychodynamic, Gestalt, and solution-focused therapies.
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Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
with questions.
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I can help you with life transitions, mild to moderate anxiety and depression, codependency issues, trauma reduction, and support in 12 step recovery. Depending on the issue we can use talk therapy or ART. In talk therapy I utilize techniques from CBT, DBT, psychodynamic, Gestalt, and solution-focused therapies.
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Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
with questions.

Endorsement

Charlie Nesbitt
Charlie Nesbitt
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
He is an amazing man! So skilled and kind.

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Lesbian Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

I also speak

Spanish

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Lesbian Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

I also speak

Spanish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • ART (Accelerated Resolution Therapy)
  • Art Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • Existential
  • Family Systems
  • Gestalt
  • Play Therapy
  • Psychodynamic
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
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I use CBT and DBT for anxiety and depression reduction, I also use ART or accelerated resolution therapy for trauma and the resolution of PTSD symptoms. Some trauma, depression, and anxiety are rooted in childhood experiences, so I will often bring in interventions from psychodynamic theory to address family of origin issues.
Photo of Matthew Wettlaufer, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
with questions.
"
I use CBT and DBT for anxiety and depression reduction, I also use ART or accelerated resolution therapy for trauma and the resolution of PTSD symptoms. Some trauma, depression, and anxiety are rooted in childhood experiences, so I will often bring in interventions from psychodynamic theory to address family of origin issues.
Photo of Matthew Wettlaufer, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
with questions.

Location

Primary Location

Palm Desert, CA 92211

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I offer online sessions, both talk therapy and ART (accelerated resolution therapy), for cash pay clients.
Photo of Matthew Wettlaufer, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
"
I offer online sessions, both talk therapy and ART (accelerated resolution therapy), for cash pay clients.
Photo of Matthew Wettlaufer, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART