
Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
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Palm Desert, CA 92211
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Very often the clients I work with are individuals seeking to heal childhood trauma. I also work with clients struggling with codependency issues in relationships with spouses, friends and family. I've been a caregiver to a spouse with cancer and a mother with Alzheimer's so I can support you in caregiving. I can also be an added support to clients who are already in recovery doing 12 step work. And I often work with clients experiencing life transitions.
I can offer ART (accelerated resolution therapy, a more condensed form of EMDR) for PTSD reduction; psychodynamic approaches (inner child work) to heal past childhood wounds; CBT and DBT strategies for reducing anxiety and depression; and journaling and art therapies for life changes.
Please reach out to me by way of email, tell me what is bringing you to therapy.
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $125
Payment Methods
VenmoInsurance
- Aetna
- Anthem
- Kaiser (Out-of-Network)
- Oscar Health
- Oxford
- UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH

Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART
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Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 147660 Matthew Wettlaufer
- In Practice for 4 years
- Attended Brandman University, MA Psychology, Graduated 2021
- Degree/Diploma from University of Kassel, Germany PhD Philosophy / 2007
- Degree/Diploma from San Diego State University MA Philosophy / 1998
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Codependency
- Life Transitions
- Anxiety
Expertise
- Addiction
- Alcohol Use
- Asperger's Syndrome
- Caregivers
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Existential crisis
- Grief
- LGBTQ+
- Men's Issues
- Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
- Peer Relationships
- Racial Identity
- Relationship Issues
- School Issues
- Self Esteem
- Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
- Sexual Addiction
- Spirituality
- Substance Use
- Trauma and PTSD
Client Focus
Age
Teen ,
Adults
Participants
Individuals
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Transgender Allied
I also speak
Spanish
Age
Teen ,
Adults
Participants
Individuals
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Transgender Allied
I also speak
Spanish
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- ART (Accelerated Resolution Therapy)
- Art Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
- Existential
- Family Systems
- Gestalt
- Play Therapy
- Psychodynamic
- Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
Location
Primary Location
Palm Desert, CA 92211
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Matthew Wettlaufer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, ART