Montclair
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Matthew Sidler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Photo of Matthew Sidler, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST

Matthew Sidler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST (he, him)

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1 Endorsed
75 Midland Ave, Montclair, NJ 07042
Not accepting new clients
(973) 532-2132
Let's Connect (973) 532-2132
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Despite being wired for connection, we often find ourselves "winging it" in relationships. Many of us didn't get the relationship blueprint we needed. This can often lead to a frustrating cycle filled with misunderstandings and loneliness. Sexual desire and fulfillment can easily suffer as a result. As an AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist and trained relationship therapist, I help clients gain the clarity and confidence needed to effectively navigate these obstacles. While I welcome all clients, I am particularly passionate about offering a safe and affirming space for those in the LGBTQIA+ community.
My couples and individuals want to see meaningful change in their lives, and they are ready to put in the work. With that, I often describe my style as "caringly confrontational." I provide a validating and nonjudgmental space while directly calling clients in if something is getting in the way of connection, intimacy, or sexual fulfillment.
Taking the first step toward therapy can feel intimidating. I wholeheartedly believe that you need to find a therapist you feel comfortable with for therapy to be helpful. With that, I encourage you to reach out today for a brief consultation to see if I could be a good fit for your therapy needs.
Call or Matthew Sidler now for a free 15 minute consultation - (973) 532-2132

My Practice at a Glance

Currently unable to accept new clients

75 Midland Ave

Montclair, NJ 07042 map

 (973) 532-2132
I am available in person at my office in Bloomfield, NJ, as well as virtually across the state of New Jersey. Some evening availability.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Sex Therapy and LGBTQ+ 
$175 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.
Matthew Sidler
Let's Connect (973) 532-2132
Photo of Matthew Sidler, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST

My Practice at a Glance

Currently unable to accept new clients

75 Midland Ave

Montclair, NJ 07042 map

 (973) 532-2132
I am available in person at my office in Bloomfield, NJ, as well as virtually across the state of New Jersey. Some evening availability.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Sex Therapy and LGBTQ+ 
$175 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.
Matthew Sidler

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $175
  • Couple Sessions $200

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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My practice is self-pay/out-of-network, and my session rates for couples therapy are $200 per 50-minute session or $300 per 80-minute session. For individual therapy, my rate is $175 per 50-minute session, and I can provide you with a statement for reimbursement if you have out-of-network benefits.
Photo of Matthew Sidler, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Matthew Sidler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (973) 532-2132
"
My practice is self-pay/out-of-network, and my session rates for couples therapy are $200 per 50-minute session or $300 per 80-minute session. For individual therapy, my rate is $175 per 50-minute session, and I can provide you with a statement for reimbursement if you have out-of-network benefits.
Photo of Matthew Sidler, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Matthew Sidler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (973) 532-2132

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New Jersey / 44SC06068200 Matthew Sidler

    • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 7 years
  • Attended Florida Atlantic University, MSW
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I am a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). I have completed Level 1 & Level 2 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, as well as training in Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy.
Photo of Matthew Sidler, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Matthew Sidler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (973) 532-2132
"
I am a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). I have completed Level 1 & Level 2 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, as well as training in Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy.
Photo of Matthew Sidler, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Matthew Sidler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (973) 532-2132

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Sex Therapy
  • LGBTQ+

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Peer Relationships
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Stress
  • Transgender
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My primary focus as a therapist is working with sex and relationships. I help couples establish new communication patterns in session to navigate conflict and disconnection to increase intimacy and joy. Individually, I help clients work through sexual and relational challenges to feel more connected to self and others.
Photo of Matthew Sidler, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Matthew Sidler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (973) 532-2132
"
My primary focus as a therapist is working with sex and relationships. I help couples establish new communication patterns in session to navigate conflict and disconnection to increase intimacy and joy. Individually, I help clients work through sexual and relational challenges to feel more connected to self and others.
Photo of Matthew Sidler, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Matthew Sidler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (973) 532-2132

Endorsement

Ieva Gates
Ieva Gates
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, CST, CHT
Matthew is incredibly knowledgeable and skilled in navigating the complexities of sexual and relational dynamics. His nonjudgmental and affirming attitude has helped many couples feel comfortable exploring difficult topics.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
HIV / AIDS Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Non-Binary Allied , 
Queer Allied , 
Racial Justice Allied , 
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
HIV / AIDS Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Non-Binary Allied , 
Queer Allied , 
Racial Justice Allied , 
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Couples Counseling
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family Systems
  • Gottman Method
  • Person-Centered
  • Relational
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
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Matthew Sidler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (973) 532-2132
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Matthew Sidler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (973) 532-2132

Location

Primary Location

75 Midland Ave

Montclair, NJ 07042

(973) 532-2132

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I am available in person at my office in Bloomfield, NJ, as well as virtually across the state of New Jersey. Some evening availability.
Photo of Matthew Sidler, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Matthew Sidler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Call for a free consultation now - (973) 532-2132
"
I am available in person at my office in Bloomfield, NJ, as well as virtually across the state of New Jersey. Some evening availability.
Photo of Matthew Sidler, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Matthew Sidler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Call for a free consultation now - (973) 532-2132