Mary Engelstatter

Psychologist, PhD

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Mary Engelstatter

Psychologist, PhD (she, her)

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12 Endorsed

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Available both in-person and online

Wilmington, NC 28405

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Do you ever feel like you are putting on a happy face to get through the day, only to come home, exhausted, angry, or just tired of faking it? Are you ready to try to take the next step but have spent so long feeling like a burden that speaking about your problems seems almost impossible? Starting therapy can be frightening and, for a lot of us, talking about our feelings isn't easy. That's ok. (Seriously!) I want you to know that it's normal to feel nervous at first but that it can be worth it to get your life back. We will work together towards helping you live a better life - however that may be defined for you.

The tools that you will gain from therapy will help you feel more in control. We will work together to address issues that may be worsening day-to-day strain - whether it be anxiety, negative thoughts, difficulty with attention and concentration, or processing through past trauma. I welcome the real you and want to get to know your authentic self.

I believe that the therapeutic relationship is the most important factor in effective change and have witnessed this firsthand - which is why I feel that our time together is a privilege. I feel honored that you have chosen to stop and consider me as a therapist and very much look forward to meeting and working with you!

Take the first step to help. Call or Email Mary Engelstatter now - (910) 718-9947

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Maritime Psychological Services

Wilmington, NC 28405

(910) 718-9947

My website

I offer therapy sessions online via video and in-person at our office in Wilmington, NC. I am available Mondays through Fridays.

I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, ADHD and Anxiety

$150 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and families

Welcome - and thank you for taking a few minutes to learn more about me! My hope is that you will feel comfortable and safe in therapy.

Let's Connect (910) 718-9947

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Maritime Psychological Services

Wilmington, NC 28405

(910) 718-9947

My website

I offer therapy sessions online via video and in-person at our office in Wilmington, NC. I am available Mondays through Fridays.

I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, ADHD and Anxiety

$150 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and families

Welcome - and thank you for taking a few minutes to learn more about me! My hope is that you will feel comfortable and safe in therapy.

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $150
Couple Sessions $175

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

Aetna
BlueCross and BlueShield
Certified OON with Tricare
Meritain Health

I am in-network with BCBS of NC as well as Aetna. I am an out of network certified Tricare provider and can treat Tricare Select without a referral and Tricare Prime with a referral. I am happy to provide a superbill to help with possible insurance reimbursement.

Mary Engelstatter

Psychologist, PhD

Email me or call with questions - (910) 718-9947

Mary Engelstatter

Psychologist, PhD

Email me or call with questions - (910) 718-9947

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of North Carolina / 4748 Mary Engelstatter

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 24 years

Additional Credentials

Membership with NC Psychological Association

Membership with PSYPACT

I have over 20 years of experience in the mental health field.

Mary Engelstatter

Psychologist, PhD

Email me or call with questions - (910) 718-9947

I have over 20 years of experience in the mental health field.

Mary Engelstatter

Psychologist, PhD

Email me or call with questions - (910) 718-9947

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Trauma and PTSD
ADHD
Anxiety

Expertise

Autism
Bipolar Disorder
Body Image
Cancer
Child
Chronic Pain
Codependency
Coping Skills
Depression
Divorce
Education and Learning Disabilities
Emotional Disturbance
Intellectual Disability
Life Transitions
Marital and Premarital
Military and Military Dependents Stressors
Mood Disorders
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Oppositional Defiance (ODD)
Personality Disorders
Polyamory & ENM
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Sleep or Insomnia
Testing and Evaluation
Veterans

I specialize in supporting individuals who have experienced trauma, struggle with focus and attention, feel anxious or depressed, experience mood fluctuations, or identify as perfectionists. I also have extensive experience working with military service members and their families, and I understand the unique challenges that come with military life. My approach is collaborative and compassionate.

Mary Engelstatter

Psychologist, PhD

Email me or call with questions - (910) 718-9947

Mary Engelstatter

Psychologist, PhD

Email me or call with questions - (910) 718-9947

12 Endorsements

Kim Bolen McGrew

Psychological Associate, MA, LPA, HSP-PA, LCAS

Mary is a genuinely kind and compassionate therapist. Her empathetic approach is infused with warmth and humor. She is proficient at conducting evaluations, psychological testing, and providing evidence-based psychotherapy. I highly recommend her!

Nova Swanstrom

Psychological Associate, MA, LPA

I have known Dr. Mary Engelstatter for well over a decade. One of the kindest people I have had the pleasure of meeting. Accepting and affirming diversity.

Elizabeth Lara

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Mary is a skillful and caring clinician. She is very thorough in her psychological testing and uses evidence-based psychotherapy to help her clients reach their optimal level of functioning. She has a way of helping her clients feel comfortable and safe.

Kelly Lehman

Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MEd, LCMHC , LMHC

Mary is extremely warm, compassionate, authentic, and down to earth. This coupled with her knowledge and years of experience makes her an amazing therapist. She provides a nonjudgmental space to heal, and makes therapy fun with her use of humor,

Eula Marie Crippen

Psychologist, PhD

Mary has this beautiful way of listening that is soothing and uplifting at the same time. She fully sees you, hears you, resonates with you. When you're with her, you know you matter. And this feeling stays with you long after you've parted ways.

Jonathan Marmorstein

Psychological Associate, LPA, HSP

Dr, Mary is a compassionate and professional therapist. She is a wonderful listener and can help make a real difference in your life.

Robin Jones

Psychologist, PhD

Mary is an intelligent provider with a warm and welcoming personality. As a former classmate and colleague, I have confidence in Mary and her approach. I would, without reservation, refer clients to her.

Amy Neal

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSWA

Dr. Engelstatter cares immensely for her clients and does her utmost to help them thrive using a competent and friendly approach.

Krista Lee Puente

Psychologist, PsyD

Mary is a compassionate psychologist who advocates for her clients. Dr. Mary Engelstatter is Psypact accredited and has completed Safe Zone training. She provides psychological assessments, and therapy in a caring and supportive manner.

Nina Hayhurst-Chacon

Psychological Associate, MA, LPA

Warm and personable, Mary really connects with her clients while providing effective treatment. Strongly recommend her as a clinician.

Dr. Heather Mivshek

Psychologist, PhD

I've known Dr. Engelstatter for over 20 years. She is an exceptional clinician-deeply compassionate, highly skilled, and genuinely invested in her clients. I trust her completely and give my strongest recommendation without hesitation.

Aiereal Lloyd

Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, MSN, PMHNP, PMH-C

I have referred patients to them and truly appreciate their thorough, thoughtful, and clinically informed approach.

Client Focus

Age

Children (6 to 10) ,

Preteen ,

Teen ,

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

Immuno-disorders ,

Intersex Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Little Person Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Single Parent ,

Transgender Allied

Age

Children (6 to 10) ,

Preteen ,

Teen ,

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

Immuno-disorders ,

Intersex Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Little Person Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Single Parent ,

Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Compassion Focused
Emotionally Focused
Family / Marital
Motivational Interviewing
Person-Centered
Play Therapy
Positive Psychology
Psychological Testing and Evaluation
Reality Therapy
Relational
Trauma Focused

I am trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), a research-based approach that helps people identify and shift unhelpful thinking patterns and behaviors. My work is rooted in the belief that growth happens when we feel safe and seen. Clients often describe me as warm, non-judgmental, and encouraging. I also believe therapy doesn't have to be heavy all the time—humor and laughter are welcome!

Mary Engelstatter

Psychologist, PhD

Email me or call with questions - (910) 718-9947

Mary Engelstatter

Psychologist, PhD

Email me or call with questions - (910) 718-9947

Location

Primary Location

Maritime Psychological Services

Wilmington, NC 28405

(910) 718-9947

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I offer therapy sessions online via video and in-person at our office in Wilmington, NC. I am available Mondays through Fridays.

Mary Engelstatter

Psychologist, PhD

Take the first step to help. Call now - (910) 718-9947

I offer therapy sessions online via video and in-person at our office in Wilmington, NC. I am available Mondays through Fridays.

Mary Engelstatter

Psychologist, PhD

Take the first step to help. Call now - (910) 718-9947

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