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Rule and Associates, Child/Family Specialists
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98225
We offer a full spectrum of parenting and family support for all types of families. We believe that healthy families create strong communities and with the right support, families, children and their communities can thrive. Parenting and marriage doesn’t come with an instruction book, but our experienced and professional, outcomes-based support professionals can be by your side to meet you right where you are at on your journey. We have a diverse, but small group of licensed mental health professionals and family support specialists to help you every step of the way.
We offer a full spectrum of parenting and family support for all types of families. We believe that healthy families create strong communities and with the right support, families, children and their communities can thrive. Parenting and marriage doesn’t come with an instruction book, but our experienced and professional, outcomes-based support professionals can be by your side to meet you right where you are at on your journey. We have a diverse, but small group of licensed mental health professionals and family support specialists to help you every step of the way.
(360) 734-0615 View (360) 734-0615
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Dick Mattila
Marriage & Family Therapist, MDiv, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellingham, WA 98226
I like helping couples resolve issues of communication, conflict management, emotional reconnection, sexual dysfunction, marriage counseling and affair recovery.
Do you want a fresh outlook? Are you looking for a new perspective? Do you want change that offers realistic hope? I have been privileged over the past 20 plus years of helping people address change. We all want to avoid addressing personal change. In many ways it is like musical chairs: We cling as long as possible to the perceived "safe" place that we already know, refusing to loosen our grip until we feel sure another safe place awaits. Together we will work to establish attainable goals that are best suited for your life.
I like helping couples resolve issues of communication, conflict management, emotional reconnection, sexual dysfunction, marriage counseling and affair recovery.
Do you want a fresh outlook? Are you looking for a new perspective? Do you want change that offers realistic hope? I have been privileged over the past 20 plus years of helping people address change. We all want to avoid addressing personal change. In many ways it is like musical chairs: We cling as long as possible to the perceived "safe" place that we already know, refusing to loosen our grip until we feel sure another safe place awaits. Together we will work to establish attainable goals that are best suited for your life.
(360) 328-7262 View (360) 328-7262
Photo of Mike Black Counseling Services, Marriage & Family Therapist in Bellingham, WA
Mike Black Counseling Services
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98225
Waitlist for new clients
I have extensive experience as a school counselor, drug alcohol counselor and in my private practice helping adolescence navigate and work through issues regarding anxiety, school struggles and family conflict. I also assist and give parents skills in raising teens. My Masters Degree is in marriage counseling. My primary focus with married couples is a family systems and Gottman method approach which is researched based approaches to help couples work toward reconciliation by overcoming resentment and better communication in marriage. Lastly, I have close to 10 years experience working in inpatient drug and alcohol treatment.
I have extensive experience as a school counselor, drug alcohol counselor and in my private practice helping adolescence navigate and work through issues regarding anxiety, school struggles and family conflict. I also assist and give parents skills in raising teens. My Masters Degree is in marriage counseling. My primary focus with married couples is a family systems and Gottman method approach which is researched based approaches to help couples work toward reconciliation by overcoming resentment and better communication in marriage. Lastly, I have close to 10 years experience working in inpatient drug and alcohol treatment.
(360) 663-4494 View (360) 663-4494
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Nicholas J Evans
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, AAC, SUDP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellingham, WA 98225
I have been trained by the Gottman Institute for couples counseling and use those methods to help couples develop healthy, fulfilling connections in both marital and pre-marital relationships.
Did you know that a majority of Americans experience a mental health crisis at some point in their life? We all face challenges in life that set us back and sometimes those challenges can push us towards negative thought cycles that prolong our suffering. I specialize in a strengths-based, person-centered approach using cognitive behavioral therapy that helps my clients learn to challenge their own automatic thought patterns in a way that frees them to create the future they desire rather than be a slave to automatic thinking. I believe in a collaborative approach to therapy where we work together as a team.
I have been trained by the Gottman Institute for couples counseling and use those methods to help couples develop healthy, fulfilling connections in both marital and pre-marital relationships.
Did you know that a majority of Americans experience a mental health crisis at some point in their life? We all face challenges in life that set us back and sometimes those challenges can push us towards negative thought cycles that prolong our suffering. I specialize in a strengths-based, person-centered approach using cognitive behavioral therapy that helps my clients learn to challenge their own automatic thought patterns in a way that frees them to create the future they desire rather than be a slave to automatic thinking. I believe in a collaborative approach to therapy where we work together as a team.
(360) 276-9673 View (360) 276-9673
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Marilene Silva
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, SUDP
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98225
Mental health counseling for individuals, couples, and families. Trauma recovery. Narcissistic/ power and control relationship abuse. Immigration psychological evaluations for Hardship, Cancelation of Removal, U Visa, Substance Abuse, VAWA, and others. Services offered in Spanish, Portuguese, and English
Mental health counseling for individuals, couples, and families. Trauma recovery. Narcissistic/ power and control relationship abuse. Immigration psychological evaluations for Hardship, Cancelation of Removal, U Visa, Substance Abuse, VAWA, and others. Services offered in Spanish, Portuguese, and English
(360) 526-8652 View (360) 526-8652
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Joseph Gottfried
Counselor, MA, LMHC, LCPC
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98229
Do you want more from counselling than just talking things out? Perhaps you would you like to bring your spirituality to counseling as a simpler, easier way to become free from painful feelings and relationships. In this counseling approach you not only find a safe place to be heard and work out problems, but you also find ways to change troubling patterns from the inside out. Through powerful yet gentle methods alongside inner prayer/ intention, you can resolve the root causes of personal problems like anxiety, loss, feeling stuck, depression, chronic illness, hard relationships, lack of meaning or purpose, trauma & addiction.
Do you want more from counselling than just talking things out? Perhaps you would you like to bring your spirituality to counseling as a simpler, easier way to become free from painful feelings and relationships. In this counseling approach you not only find a safe place to be heard and work out problems, but you also find ways to change troubling patterns from the inside out. Through powerful yet gentle methods alongside inner prayer/ intention, you can resolve the root causes of personal problems like anxiety, loss, feeling stuck, depression, chronic illness, hard relationships, lack of meaning or purpose, trauma & addiction.
(360) 295-2870 View (360) 295-2870
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Bryn Knapp
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98225
Waitlist for new clients
My passion is in working with teens and young adults who have had to navigate parental divorce, loss, family conflicts, struggles with anxiety and depression, and healing from abusive relationships. The relationships we have throughout life can cause pain, but relationships also have the power to bring healing to those areas of our hearts and minds that have been damaged. This is why a therapeutic relationship is so impactful and why my approach to therapy is relational and collaborative.
My passion is in working with teens and young adults who have had to navigate parental divorce, loss, family conflicts, struggles with anxiety and depression, and healing from abusive relationships. The relationships we have throughout life can cause pain, but relationships also have the power to bring healing to those areas of our hearts and minds that have been damaged. This is why a therapeutic relationship is so impactful and why my approach to therapy is relational and collaborative.
(360) 230-5448 View (360) 230-5448
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Kirsten Van Wingerden
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Bellingham, WA 98225
Waitlist for new clients
Does it feel like something just isn't quite right in life? Oftentimes, we can feel burnt out by the expectations and pressures from our lives. I work with teens, adults and couples living with anxiety, PTSD (C-PTSD), depression, perfectionism, challenging parent relationships and ongoing life stressors. We can work together to heal these symptoms and understand the root of your pain to find freedom in your true self. Together, we seek to have a deeper connection to your life that is compassionate and promotes agency in order to restore and create safe relationships with others.
Does it feel like something just isn't quite right in life? Oftentimes, we can feel burnt out by the expectations and pressures from our lives. I work with teens, adults and couples living with anxiety, PTSD (C-PTSD), depression, perfectionism, challenging parent relationships and ongoing life stressors. We can work together to heal these symptoms and understand the root of your pain to find freedom in your true self. Together, we seek to have a deeper connection to your life that is compassionate and promotes agency in order to restore and create safe relationships with others.
(360) 968-6969 View (360) 968-6969
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Sears Taylor
Counselor, MA, MBA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98229
I’m very experienced with trauma and can resolve its effects very quickly I also am very effective with addiction problems
I’m very experienced with trauma and can resolve its effects very quickly I also am very effective with addiction problems
(360) 526-0074 View (360) 526-0074
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Jeff King
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellingham, WA 98226  (Online Only)
I am glad you are seeking help. That means you are responding to the healing voice inside and have started the journey already. If you are experiencing depression, anxiety, grief and loss, trauma of any kind, relationship issues, working through cultural identity, racial-environmental oppression, past spiritual abuse, I am willing to work with you to get to the source of the difficulty and find healing.
I am glad you are seeking help. That means you are responding to the healing voice inside and have started the journey already. If you are experiencing depression, anxiety, grief and loss, trauma of any kind, relationship issues, working through cultural identity, racial-environmental oppression, past spiritual abuse, I am willing to work with you to get to the source of the difficulty and find healing.
(360) 549-8006 View (360) 549-8006
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Amanda Shannon
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CMHS, DDMHS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellingham, WA 98225
There is a gap between the way you wish life would be and the reality of life. Anxiety and Depression are just overwhelming and it makes it hard to connect to loved ones, get daily tasks done, and think clearly. You notice yourself feeling so disconnected. And you are finding it hard to have the drive to get things done. Where is the joy in life? You remember enjoying things but now everyday is just gray. You want to be able to feel like the Real You again! Not hidden by anxiety and depression.
There is a gap between the way you wish life would be and the reality of life. Anxiety and Depression are just overwhelming and it makes it hard to connect to loved ones, get daily tasks done, and think clearly. You notice yourself feeling so disconnected. And you are finding it hard to have the drive to get things done. Where is the joy in life? You remember enjoying things but now everyday is just gray. You want to be able to feel like the Real You again! Not hidden by anxiety and depression.
(360) 205-9973 View (360) 205-9973
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Kristen Hagin
Counselor, LIMHP, LMHC
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98229  (Online Only)
Hello! My name is Kristen. I am licensed in Nebraska, Iowa, Washington, and Florida. I provide therapy through a secure online therapy platform. Thank you for reaching out and exploring what therapy options are available to you. I enjoy working with young adults to older adults with a variety of concerns and problems. I am passionate about helping people who are going through life changes, grief, relationship conflict, anxiety concerns, and parenting challenges. It is important to feel like you have a trusted adult in your corner, and I look forward to being that person.
Hello! My name is Kristen. I am licensed in Nebraska, Iowa, Washington, and Florida. I provide therapy through a secure online therapy platform. Thank you for reaching out and exploring what therapy options are available to you. I enjoy working with young adults to older adults with a variety of concerns and problems. I am passionate about helping people who are going through life changes, grief, relationship conflict, anxiety concerns, and parenting challenges. It is important to feel like you have a trusted adult in your corner, and I look forward to being that person.
(308) 470-4214 View (308) 470-4214
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Neupathway (Louis Poeltl)
Counselor, LPC, LMHC, SUDP
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98226
Accepting New Patients, same week availability................................... Louis Poeltl Ed.S, NCC, C-DBT, LMHC, LPC is a clinical mental health counselor with over 15 years of experience providing therapeutic services to diverse populations, including children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. With a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and an Education Specialist Degree in Family Counseling, Louis is especially suited to incorporate clients’ familial and cultural backgrounds to uncover negative internalized beliefs that are holding back clients from living their best lives now.
Accepting New Patients, same week availability................................... Louis Poeltl Ed.S, NCC, C-DBT, LMHC, LPC is a clinical mental health counselor with over 15 years of experience providing therapeutic services to diverse populations, including children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. With a Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling and an Education Specialist Degree in Family Counseling, Louis is especially suited to incorporate clients’ familial and cultural backgrounds to uncover negative internalized beliefs that are holding back clients from living their best lives now.
(425) 541-8958 View (425) 541-8958
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Emilee Draney
Marriage & Family Therapist Intern
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98225
Currently accepting new clients. Life can be messy, traumatic, and hard; however, people are resilient and capable. Humans are complex and relationships can be a roller-coaster, but through it all, there is beauty found within the journey of life. Our sessions will be a place of warmth, compassion, connection, and authenticity where you will be validated and understood. I will meet you right where you are. Together, we will process through your story.
Currently accepting new clients. Life can be messy, traumatic, and hard; however, people are resilient and capable. Humans are complex and relationships can be a roller-coaster, but through it all, there is beauty found within the journey of life. Our sessions will be a place of warmth, compassion, connection, and authenticity where you will be validated and understood. I will meet you right where you are. Together, we will process through your story.
(360) 526-8763 View (360) 526-8763
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GracePoint Counseling
Counselor, MS, LMHC, NCC, CCATP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bellingham, WA 98225  (Online Only)
All too often, people find themselves in the valleys of life with no apparent way out. Life’s issues have created obstacles that block and cover the path. These issues drag you down and disrupt your relationships and quality of life. I believe that the potential and desire to grow lies in each of us, and by identifying and building on your strengths, you will be able to move forward, past your obstacles, and toward your goals. My job is to walk with you and help you find the tools that can clear your path so you can continue your journey as a healthier and more content individual.
All too often, people find themselves in the valleys of life with no apparent way out. Life’s issues have created obstacles that block and cover the path. These issues drag you down and disrupt your relationships and quality of life. I believe that the potential and desire to grow lies in each of us, and by identifying and building on your strengths, you will be able to move forward, past your obstacles, and toward your goals. My job is to walk with you and help you find the tools that can clear your path so you can continue your journey as a healthier and more content individual.
(360) 320-6711 View (360) 320-6711
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Mary Vargas
Counselor, MS, MSW, LMHCA, LSWAIC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellingham, WA 98225  (Online Only)
I have experience working with children, adolescents, couples, single parents, and the elderly. I also have experience that includes, but is not limited to, grief and loss, domestic violence, substance abuse, and career counseling. I prefer to use the humanistic and strengths-based approach but can change the therapy approach to fit your needs.
I have experience working with children, adolescents, couples, single parents, and the elderly. I also have experience that includes, but is not limited to, grief and loss, domestic violence, substance abuse, and career counseling. I prefer to use the humanistic and strengths-based approach but can change the therapy approach to fit your needs.
(360) 774-4162 View (360) 774-4162
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Erin Welsh
Counselor, MA, LMHC, EMDR, C-PD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Bellingham, WA 98225
At Hope Clinic Behavioral Health, my approach is based on a person-centered and cognitive-behavioral therapy philosophy of care as I work with individuals, couples, and youth in need of support. Together we outline approaches that best match your needs and goals. I strive to use my experience, and honest and open style of communication to act as a positive support to help you establish and fulfill therapeutic and life goals, providing psychotherapy in accordance with an evidence-based practice recovery model. If you're a couple reaching out for support, I will work with you to encourage a deeper connection and accountability.
At Hope Clinic Behavioral Health, my approach is based on a person-centered and cognitive-behavioral therapy philosophy of care as I work with individuals, couples, and youth in need of support. Together we outline approaches that best match your needs and goals. I strive to use my experience, and honest and open style of communication to act as a positive support to help you establish and fulfill therapeutic and life goals, providing psychotherapy in accordance with an evidence-based practice recovery model. If you're a couple reaching out for support, I will work with you to encourage a deeper connection and accountability.
(360) 202-3605 View (360) 202-3605
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Christopher Brown
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
Bellingham, WA 98229  (Online Only)
Are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed? Too reactive toward others? Is your mind racing when you need it to slow down? Struggling to perform at your best? Sleep issues? These are common signs of someone with unresolved stress or trauma. The good news is I have tools to help you change toward healing, growth, and optimal performance. I can help you overcome the impacts of stress and trauma, achieving the life you know you’re capable of.
Are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed? Too reactive toward others? Is your mind racing when you need it to slow down? Struggling to perform at your best? Sleep issues? These are common signs of someone with unresolved stress or trauma. The good news is I have tools to help you change toward healing, growth, and optimal performance. I can help you overcome the impacts of stress and trauma, achieving the life you know you’re capable of.
(206) 672-9578 View (206) 672-9578
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Karyn Andriesen
Counselor, MA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Bellingham, WA 98226  (Online Only)
Sometimes in life we all need a “companion on the journey,” someone to partner with us and help make sense of our experience, ease our pain, and support our goals. As a therapist, I am committed to providing a safe environment where individuals can identify their strengths, recognize unhelpful patterns, and live into their goals. Working from an integrative, client-centered approach, I seek to support individuals wherever they are on their journey and my approach is holistic, collaborative, and non-judgmental. I value cultural humility and look forward to working with people of all backgrounds, identities, and walks of life.
Sometimes in life we all need a “companion on the journey,” someone to partner with us and help make sense of our experience, ease our pain, and support our goals. As a therapist, I am committed to providing a safe environment where individuals can identify their strengths, recognize unhelpful patterns, and live into their goals. Working from an integrative, client-centered approach, I seek to support individuals wherever they are on their journey and my approach is holistic, collaborative, and non-judgmental. I value cultural humility and look forward to working with people of all backgrounds, identities, and walks of life.
(206) 752-3471 View (206) 752-3471
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Amanda M Allen
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Bellingham, WA 98225
Not accepting new clients
Some of my areas of focus include: marriage, relationship issues, adolescents, woman's issues, trust issues, life transitions, and spirituality.
I embrace the theory that people are not defined by their problems, but their problems are external of them. Through this strength-based approach, I believe a person can be empowered to take control of their life. By exploring one's psychology, culture, system, and spirituality I believe one will find the strength within themselves to change.
Some of my areas of focus include: marriage, relationship issues, adolescents, woman's issues, trust issues, life transitions, and spirituality.
I embrace the theory that people are not defined by their problems, but their problems are external of them. Through this strength-based approach, I believe a person can be empowered to take control of their life. By exploring one's psychology, culture, system, and spirituality I believe one will find the strength within themselves to change.
(360) 323-4013 View (360) 323-4013
Marriage Counseling Therapists

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.