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Couples Therapy With Sonjia
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11233  (Online Only)
Welcome! I'm Sonjia Smith, LMFT, a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist ready to empower you on your healing journey. With a Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy from Long Island University Brooklyn, I specialize in helping individuals, couples, and families aged 13 and above.   If you're dealing with emotional reactivity, anger issues, or a history of intimate partner violence in your relationship, you're not alone. I provide a safe, supportive space to help you transform conflict into healthier, happier connections.
Welcome! I'm Sonjia Smith, LMFT, a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist ready to empower you on your healing journey. With a Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy from Long Island University Brooklyn, I specialize in helping individuals, couples, and families aged 13 and above.   If you're dealing with emotional reactivity, anger issues, or a history of intimate partner violence in your relationship, you're not alone. I provide a safe, supportive space to help you transform conflict into healthier, happier connections.
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Applied Behavioral Sciences
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11209
Participant's resolve legal, child welfare, employment, family and marital problems.
The team of doctors therapists & counselors & ABS have decades of experience developing and leading healthcare and social service programs throughout New York and surrounding tri state areas. The clinicians at ABS have helped many 10's of thousands of people overcome extreme impulsive behaviors such as impulsive anger, impulsive aggression, impulsive sexual behavior, impulsive eating, impulsive shopping, impulsive gambling, domestic violence. Your therapy is held in strict confidence.
Participant's resolve legal, child welfare, employment, family and marital problems.
The team of doctors therapists & counselors & ABS have decades of experience developing and leading healthcare and social service programs throughout New York and surrounding tri state areas. The clinicians at ABS have helped many 10's of thousands of people overcome extreme impulsive behaviors such as impulsive anger, impulsive aggression, impulsive sexual behavior, impulsive eating, impulsive shopping, impulsive gambling, domestic violence. Your therapy is held in strict confidence.
(347) 625-8753 View (347) 625-8753
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Elisheva Eliach
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11213  (Online Only)
I specialize in offering treatment regarding issues around anxiety, depression, trauma, spiritual trauma, existential- spiritual longing, relationship conflicts, parenting issues, and marital and couples counseling.
Are you looking for the kind of therapeutic work that efficiently gets to the core of what's going on for you, and powerfully facilitates lasting, holistic healing, change, and transformation? With over ten years of counseling experience, my work is holistic-depth work. I am trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, which is a powerful and transformative evidence-based model of psychotherapy, as well as mind-body psychosomatic therapies, couples counseling, and Jungian depth psychotherapy.
I specialize in offering treatment regarding issues around anxiety, depression, trauma, spiritual trauma, existential- spiritual longing, relationship conflicts, parenting issues, and marital and couples counseling.
Are you looking for the kind of therapeutic work that efficiently gets to the core of what's going on for you, and powerfully facilitates lasting, holistic healing, change, and transformation? With over ten years of counseling experience, my work is holistic-depth work. I am trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, which is a powerful and transformative evidence-based model of psychotherapy, as well as mind-body psychosomatic therapies, couples counseling, and Jungian depth psychotherapy.
(347) 970-8711 View (347) 970-8711
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Pamela Jane Beck
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11201
Also, family dynamics, marriage and divorce are frequent themes.
I’ve been a practicing licensed psychologist for more than 40 years, helping people become the best versions of themselves. I believe talking to a non judgmental professional who understands your problems can help you gain perspectives on issues that may seem overwhelming and hopeless. I think the key to success is developing a strong relationship with the therapist so that we become a team. Together I help you help yourself; lead a happier, wiser and more fulfilling life. And i participate actively during our session so that therapy becomes a warm and safe environment to grow in all the ways you desire. .
Also, family dynamics, marriage and divorce are frequent themes.
I’ve been a practicing licensed psychologist for more than 40 years, helping people become the best versions of themselves. I believe talking to a non judgmental professional who understands your problems can help you gain perspectives on issues that may seem overwhelming and hopeless. I think the key to success is developing a strong relationship with the therapist so that we become a team. Together I help you help yourself; lead a happier, wiser and more fulfilling life. And i participate actively during our session so that therapy becomes a warm and safe environment to grow in all the ways you desire. .
(929) 203-8980 View (929) 203-8980
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Michael Fischman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, MSW, LCSW-R, CGP, CAMS-I
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11201
As an Individual, Group and Marital therapist I diagnose the problem and set the means for resolution.
Hello and welcome to my profile. By now I would assume that you've read several profiles on the "Psychology Today" site and by this point they are probably all sounding astonishingly similar. That's got to be frustrating. I hope that the following information concerning my practice doesn't have the same effect. Let me be brief: I work with a multitude of issues and problems that relate to: couples, anxiety, depression and anger management. I also work with addictions including eating disorders. My approach can help you work through unconscious conflict (repeating patterns again and again without understanding why) as well as compulsive behaviors such as drinking, thought ruminating and habitual behaviors that are difficult to control.I can help you 'evolve' out of your particular problem. I am supportive and reality based while I can always find humor in the worst and the best of times. Together we can turn this all around and get you to where you want to be.
As an Individual, Group and Marital therapist I diagnose the problem and set the means for resolution.
Hello and welcome to my profile. By now I would assume that you've read several profiles on the "Psychology Today" site and by this point they are probably all sounding astonishingly similar. That's got to be frustrating. I hope that the following information concerning my practice doesn't have the same effect. Let me be brief: I work with a multitude of issues and problems that relate to: couples, anxiety, depression and anger management. I also work with addictions including eating disorders. My approach can help you work through unconscious conflict (repeating patterns again and again without understanding why) as well as compulsive behaviors such as drinking, thought ruminating and habitual behaviors that are difficult to control.I can help you 'evolve' out of your particular problem. I am supportive and reality based while I can always find humor in the worst and the best of times. Together we can turn this all around and get you to where you want to be.
(917) 725-5173 View (917) 725-5173
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Doreen Ziva David
Counselor, CCMHC, LMHC, NCC, NYMHCA, APA
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11223
I am a Certified Clinical Licensed Mental Health Counselor. I am an individual, family and marriage therapist. My vast experience includes working with children and adults. My therapy style is collaborative: cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), relaxation therapy, positive psychotherapy and talk therapy. I am passionate about helping my clients better their lives and I am fully committed to helping them get through their difficulties. I am easy to talk to and I am very insightful. I am very solution oriented and direct about bringing changes and helping my clients address their issues. Out of network insurance accepted: client gets reimbursed.
I am a Certified Clinical Licensed Mental Health Counselor. I am an individual, family and marriage therapist. My vast experience includes working with children and adults. My therapy style is collaborative: cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), relaxation therapy, positive psychotherapy and talk therapy. I am passionate about helping my clients better their lives and I am fully committed to helping them get through their difficulties. I am easy to talk to and I am very insightful. I am very solution oriented and direct about bringing changes and helping my clients address their issues. Out of network insurance accepted: client gets reimbursed.
(347) 826-0621 View (347) 826-0621
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Daniel DiTieri
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11201
I received my training at Sacred Heart University, followed by a graduate degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Mercy College.
Have you wondered if your child or teen would benefit from therapy? I offer a complimentary consultation to discuss any questions you may have. As a senior therapist at GreenwichPsychology Group, I enjoy working with children and adolescents that may be struggling with anxiety, depression, ADHD, behavioral or family issues. You can talk to me about anything; nothing will surprise me. I am accessible to parents and easy to talk to. I focus on your child, recognize their strengths, and develop tools to become their own therapist by learning how to deal with challenges. Children often feel better early on in treatment.
I received my training at Sacred Heart University, followed by a graduate degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Mercy College.
Have you wondered if your child or teen would benefit from therapy? I offer a complimentary consultation to discuss any questions you may have. As a senior therapist at GreenwichPsychology Group, I enjoy working with children and adolescents that may be struggling with anxiety, depression, ADHD, behavioral or family issues. You can talk to me about anything; nothing will surprise me. I am accessible to parents and easy to talk to. I focus on your child, recognize their strengths, and develop tools to become their own therapist by learning how to deal with challenges. Children often feel better early on in treatment.
(332) 262-6829 View (332) 262-6829
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New Patterns Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11235  (Online Only)
I am certified in energy medicine and am a quantum healer. Energy medicine helps with physical problems/emotional psychological problems. I have expertise in various conditions such as depression, grief, anxiety disorders, family, behavioral problems in children and teens.My specialty is in the areas of relationships, trauma, behavior modification ,self perception,body image,life transitions such as marriage/divorce.I have a passion for goal oriented therapy and strive to guide my patients towards a clearer mental state and a more comfortable day to day life.I am dedicated to providing patients with a healthier and happier life.
I am certified in energy medicine and am a quantum healer. Energy medicine helps with physical problems/emotional psychological problems. I have expertise in various conditions such as depression, grief, anxiety disorders, family, behavioral problems in children and teens.My specialty is in the areas of relationships, trauma, behavior modification ,self perception,body image,life transitions such as marriage/divorce.I have a passion for goal oriented therapy and strive to guide my patients towards a clearer mental state and a more comfortable day to day life.I am dedicated to providing patients with a healthier and happier life.
(646) 490-1624 View (646) 490-1624
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Ezra Feinberg, PsyD
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11211
Through careful listening and an empathic, honest approach I can help you feel better about yourself and your life. You may feel stuck in a job or relationship. You may want more from life but not know how to get it. You may be struggling with with the difficulties of parenthood or marriage. I can help with artistic, creative, or intellectual struggles, body issues, sexual problems, substance issues, imbalances of life and work, impulse control, past trauma, or even just a general lack of inspiration or motivation in life.
Through careful listening and an empathic, honest approach I can help you feel better about yourself and your life. You may feel stuck in a job or relationship. You may want more from life but not know how to get it. You may be struggling with with the difficulties of parenthood or marriage. I can help with artistic, creative, or intellectual struggles, body issues, sexual problems, substance issues, imbalances of life and work, impulse control, past trauma, or even just a general lack of inspiration or motivation in life.
(917) 284-6325 View (917) 284-6325
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John Lampen
MA, LMFT, BCaBA
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11206  (Online Only)
My mission as a Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT) is to empower individuals, couples, and families facing anxiety, depression, and relationship issues. With diverse experiences, I've assisted clients in navigating various challenges, witnessing the transformative impact of talk therapy. Being part of clients' journeys towards positive change fills me with pride and reinforces my commitment to helping them lead fulfilling lives.
My mission as a Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT) is to empower individuals, couples, and families facing anxiety, depression, and relationship issues. With diverse experiences, I've assisted clients in navigating various challenges, witnessing the transformative impact of talk therapy. Being part of clients' journeys towards positive change fills me with pride and reinforces my commitment to helping them lead fulfilling lives.
(929) 577-4073 View (929) 577-4073
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Applied Behavioral Sciences
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11209
Participant's resolve legal, child welfare, employment, family and marital problems.
The doctors, therapists and counselors at Applied Behavioral Sciences have decades of experience developing and leading health care and social service programs. They has helped 10's of thousands of people overcome extreme impulsive behaviors such as impulsive anger, impulsive aggression, impulsive sexual behavior, impulsive eating, impulsive shopping, impulsive gambling, domestic violence.
Participant's resolve legal, child welfare, employment, family and marital problems.
The doctors, therapists and counselors at Applied Behavioral Sciences have decades of experience developing and leading health care and social service programs. They has helped 10's of thousands of people overcome extreme impulsive behaviors such as impulsive anger, impulsive aggression, impulsive sexual behavior, impulsive eating, impulsive shopping, impulsive gambling, domestic violence.
(929) 552-0633 View (929) 552-0633
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MHG13 Behavioral Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSM
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11202  (Online Only)
Mr. Garson LCSW pledges to treat each clients from NJ or Fla. w/ the utmost: dignity, respect, & professionalism. The clients that gain the most benefit from his 'therapeutic style', are typically: motivated to change, intelligent, willing to take an honest look at themselves &/or their situation/s, somewhat spiritually oriented, and are teachable. Mr. Garson is especially gifted, dealing w/ issues, such as: Addiction & Recovery, Grief & Loss, Anxiety, Depression, Mood Disorders, Couple's / Marital Therapy, Parenting, & Adjustment Disorders. All therapy is via "HIPPA-compliant Tele-Therapy", 1st 20 min. consult, is free.
Mr. Garson LCSW pledges to treat each clients from NJ or Fla. w/ the utmost: dignity, respect, & professionalism. The clients that gain the most benefit from his 'therapeutic style', are typically: motivated to change, intelligent, willing to take an honest look at themselves &/or their situation/s, somewhat spiritually oriented, and are teachable. Mr. Garson is especially gifted, dealing w/ issues, such as: Addiction & Recovery, Grief & Loss, Anxiety, Depression, Mood Disorders, Couple's / Marital Therapy, Parenting, & Adjustment Disorders. All therapy is via "HIPPA-compliant Tele-Therapy", 1st 20 min. consult, is free.
(305) 882-9810 View (305) 882-9810
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Dr. Gretchen Sofocleous
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11211
Life long secrets? Sexual abuse? Relationship issues, interested in trying the Gottman Method? Sex & Porn addiction? Youth sexual behavior problems? Shame spiral, depression, anxiety? You’re desperate for relief but nothing helps. Abuse nightmares & flashbacks are spinning out of control. You’re concerned about your spouse or child's sexuality- but don’t know how to help. How do you get your relationship back on track? Do you stay or leave your marriage? Feeling hopeless? Longing for peace? These are specialty areas I have successfully helped clients with for 23 years, in addition to my work with anxiety and mood disorders.
Life long secrets? Sexual abuse? Relationship issues, interested in trying the Gottman Method? Sex & Porn addiction? Youth sexual behavior problems? Shame spiral, depression, anxiety? You’re desperate for relief but nothing helps. Abuse nightmares & flashbacks are spinning out of control. You’re concerned about your spouse or child's sexuality- but don’t know how to help. How do you get your relationship back on track? Do you stay or leave your marriage? Feeling hopeless? Longing for peace? These are specialty areas I have successfully helped clients with for 23 years, in addition to my work with anxiety and mood disorders.
(347) 644-2984 View (347) 644-2984
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Tri State Counseling and MediatIon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSWR, LCSW
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11215
In adults, clients with domestic violence,marital/relations problems, Schizophrenia or anxiety, depression.
Trained in CBT, prefer to use a rational living approach with behavior modification and assist the client. Use DBT, CBT, Behavioral approach in Psychotherapy to achieve practical results, measurable and beneficial to the client. Short term treatment focus on result oriented approach with focus on cognitive or insight or behavioral modification is my style. Specialist in children, work with families and a fair mix of all age groups. I accept major health insurances & accept private pay. ANGER MANAGEMENT, AUTISM, ADHD, MOOD DISORDERS, ANXIETY SUBSTANCE ABUSE, ALCOHOL DOMESTIC RELATIONS/VIOLENCE ISSUES AND FORENSIC EVALUATIONS HANDLED AS WELL.
In adults, clients with domestic violence,marital/relations problems, Schizophrenia or anxiety, depression.
Trained in CBT, prefer to use a rational living approach with behavior modification and assist the client. Use DBT, CBT, Behavioral approach in Psychotherapy to achieve practical results, measurable and beneficial to the client. Short term treatment focus on result oriented approach with focus on cognitive or insight or behavioral modification is my style. Specialist in children, work with families and a fair mix of all age groups. I accept major health insurances & accept private pay. ANGER MANAGEMENT, AUTISM, ADHD, MOOD DISORDERS, ANXIETY SUBSTANCE ABUSE, ALCOHOL DOMESTIC RELATIONS/VIOLENCE ISSUES AND FORENSIC EVALUATIONS HANDLED AS WELL.
(646) 600-5137 View (646) 600-5137
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Charlene Baudet
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11242
Hi! I'm Charlene, and I'll keep this nice and short for you since I also know what it's like to be scrolling through psychtoday on the hunt for a new therapist but overwhelmed by your options. In not so many words, I'm a French-Moroccan licensed mental health counselor specialized in LGBTQ+ health and wellness. I am trained and experienced in the Harm Reduction Psychotherapy to also help clients with any substance use/misuse/and/or abuse reach their goals. Using a person-centered approach I am here to help you reach your goals and thrive in your day to day life.
Hi! I'm Charlene, and I'll keep this nice and short for you since I also know what it's like to be scrolling through psychtoday on the hunt for a new therapist but overwhelmed by your options. In not so many words, I'm a French-Moroccan licensed mental health counselor specialized in LGBTQ+ health and wellness. I am trained and experienced in the Harm Reduction Psychotherapy to also help clients with any substance use/misuse/and/or abuse reach their goals. Using a person-centered approach I am here to help you reach your goals and thrive in your day to day life.
(347) 970-5677 View (347) 970-5677
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Margaret Fields (Wellnite)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11208  (Online Only)
The decision to enter into therapy can be overwhelming but finding a connection to the right therapist can change your life. I believe that the foundation of the therapeutic process is built on rapport. I understand that being vulnerable and sharing areas of your life can be difficult, and I am here to make that easier for you by collaborating with you to reach your desired goals. My style has been described as the antithesis of a note scratching, cliché, therapist.
The decision to enter into therapy can be overwhelming but finding a connection to the right therapist can change your life. I believe that the foundation of the therapeutic process is built on rapport. I understand that being vulnerable and sharing areas of your life can be difficult, and I am here to make that easier for you by collaborating with you to reach your desired goals. My style has been described as the antithesis of a note scratching, cliché, therapist.
(929) 383-7668 View (929) 383-7668
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John Menaker
Psychologist, MA, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11201
Most people come to therapy with a specific symptom or problem, which they hope to change. It may be a particular fear such as a fear of flying or of speaking up in groups; it may be a more general, distressing, feeling of depression or loneliness, or it may be a pattern of behavior that is disruptive - a pattern such as a tendency to be hypercritical, a difficulty in taking initiative or an inability to keep one's own needs and wishes firmly in mind.
Most people come to therapy with a specific symptom or problem, which they hope to change. It may be a particular fear such as a fear of flying or of speaking up in groups; it may be a more general, distressing, feeling of depression or loneliness, or it may be a pattern of behavior that is disruptive - a pattern such as a tendency to be hypercritical, a difficulty in taking initiative or an inability to keep one's own needs and wishes firmly in mind.
(917) 693-4873 View (917) 693-4873
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Eddie Simcha
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11235
I work with young adults dealing with anxiety, depression, identify confusion, and relationship issues. Many of my clients work on improving confidence, self-esteem and skills and tools to help deal with life stressors.
I work with young adults dealing with anxiety, depression, identify confusion, and relationship issues. Many of my clients work on improving confidence, self-esteem and skills and tools to help deal with life stressors.
(718) 878-6828 View (718) 878-6828
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Steven Gordon
Counselor, MHC, MSEd, BS
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11215  (Online Only)
My approach is a supportive, interactive one that aims to help people better understand their thoughts, feelings, and relationships. Ultimately my goal is to establish a collaborative dialogue that offers a safe place to examine current challenges alongside past formative experiences.
My approach is a supportive, interactive one that aims to help people better understand their thoughts, feelings, and relationships. Ultimately my goal is to establish a collaborative dialogue that offers a safe place to examine current challenges alongside past formative experiences.
(917) 877-0218 View (917) 877-0218
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Marie Mercado
Psychologist, PsyD, MS
Verified Verified
14 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11222
Clinical psychologist and native NYer located in north BK. I know how hard it is to find an active and mindful therapist who truly appreciates your troubles and your strengths, and who can also help you make effective life changes. Based upon your needs, I work to get you unstuck and feeling empowered, resilient, healthy and strong. My integrative style is effective for adults and couples coping with neurodivergence, relationship and identity issues, difficult life circumstances, alt and non-traditional lifestyles, transitions, and familial difficulties. While I may not be accepting new clients, my practice is! bkintegrative.com
Clinical psychologist and native NYer located in north BK. I know how hard it is to find an active and mindful therapist who truly appreciates your troubles and your strengths, and who can also help you make effective life changes. Based upon your needs, I work to get you unstuck and feeling empowered, resilient, healthy and strong. My integrative style is effective for adults and couples coping with neurodivergence, relationship and identity issues, difficult life circumstances, alt and non-traditional lifestyles, transitions, and familial difficulties. While I may not be accepting new clients, my practice is! bkintegrative.com
(929) 543-5536 View (929) 543-5536
Marriage Counseling Therapists

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.