Marriage Counseling Therapists in Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI

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Joanne Bautista
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96814
I have enjoyed over 20 years of working with a diverse range of clients of all ages, addressing multiple needs in various settings. While creating a safe and supportive environment, my work with clients is collaborative; assisting clients to feel empowered and inspired to face challenges and embrace change, helping clients define their meaning of recovery, and developing goals specific to clients' needs. Areas of focus include: Life transitions such as marriage, family planning, new career, retirement, death; relationship issues, military family challenges, trauma, anxiety and mood disorders.
I have enjoyed over 20 years of working with a diverse range of clients of all ages, addressing multiple needs in various settings. While creating a safe and supportive environment, my work with clients is collaborative; assisting clients to feel empowered and inspired to face challenges and embrace change, helping clients define their meaning of recovery, and developing goals specific to clients' needs. Areas of focus include: Life transitions such as marriage, family planning, new career, retirement, death; relationship issues, military family challenges, trauma, anxiety and mood disorders.
(808) 518-4864 View (808) 518-4864
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Julia Sanderson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSCP, NCC, LMHC, LMFT
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96814
I am a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist and Mental Health Counselor with over 18 years of experience working in the mental health field in Honolulu, Hawaii. I strive to help individuals, couples and families to make positive changes by improving their quality of life, creating and achieving their personal goals, ultimately achieving their fulfillments in life.
I am a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist and Mental Health Counselor with over 18 years of experience working in the mental health field in Honolulu, Hawaii. I strive to help individuals, couples and families to make positive changes by improving their quality of life, creating and achieving their personal goals, ultimately achieving their fulfillments in life.
(808) 427-0491 View (808) 427-0491
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Jina Uyeda
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96814  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I am wholistic, systems based, Licensed Marriage and Family therapist and Certified Substance Abuse Counselor. I am fluent in Korean. I provide Substance Abuse Assessments and early intervention education. I work with families, couples, individuals and children. I have experience working with trauma, depression, dual diagnosis, children with autism, ADHD, and ADD.I have training in play therapy, EMDR, Gottman methods and mindfulness based treatment modalities. I have also worked as a domestic violence advocate for the Navy and worked with military families.
I am wholistic, systems based, Licensed Marriage and Family therapist and Certified Substance Abuse Counselor. I am fluent in Korean. I provide Substance Abuse Assessments and early intervention education. I work with families, couples, individuals and children. I have experience working with trauma, depression, dual diagnosis, children with autism, ADHD, and ADD.I have training in play therapy, EMDR, Gottman methods and mindfulness based treatment modalities. I have also worked as a domestic violence advocate for the Navy and worked with military families.
(808) 425-9811 View (808) 425-9811
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Ne'e Imua Counseling LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96814  (Online Only)
Licensed Marriage and Family therapist working with individuals, couples, and families.
*Accepting new clients* "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them." -Dr. Maya Angelou. We have all experienced feeling “stuck” in our lives at some point. Whether it be in school, work, personal relationships and family, it’s difficult sometimes not knowing how to move forward. Feeling stuck is more a circumstance and doesn't have to be a choice. Together we can make necessary changes to build a healthier and better life.
Licensed Marriage and Family therapist working with individuals, couples, and families.
*Accepting new clients* "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them." -Dr. Maya Angelou. We have all experienced feeling “stuck” in our lives at some point. Whether it be in school, work, personal relationships and family, it’s difficult sometimes not knowing how to move forward. Feeling stuck is more a circumstance and doesn't have to be a choice. Together we can make necessary changes to build a healthier and better life.
(808) 650-7586 View (808) 650-7586
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Alyssa Yonehiro
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96814
Life takes us for turns we don't expect and sometimes we’re able to get through them, but in other times, we can become stuck. We may feel overwhelmed at work, in our marriage, or in other relationships. Perhaps, there are difficulties with a teenager at home or maybe there are feelings of sadness or anxiousness. When life brings us to this point, reaching out for help is a courageous first step toward change. Entering therapy can provide clarity to the confusion and is a safe place to explore alternative avenues toward an improved quality of life.
Life takes us for turns we don't expect and sometimes we’re able to get through them, but in other times, we can become stuck. We may feel overwhelmed at work, in our marriage, or in other relationships. Perhaps, there are difficulties with a teenager at home or maybe there are feelings of sadness or anxiousness. When life brings us to this point, reaching out for help is a courageous first step toward change. Entering therapy can provide clarity to the confusion and is a safe place to explore alternative avenues toward an improved quality of life.
(808) 518-3304 View (808) 518-3304
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Kali Ikemoto
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96814
Aloha! Life likes to throw curve balls at us, throwing different challenges when we least expect them. Working through these challenges is not always easy when you are alone. Let me help you and your 'ohana grow together and be more vital than ever. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I have more than 15 years of experience working within the home, school, clinic-based, and community-based settings, ranging from individual, family, and couples counseling.
Aloha! Life likes to throw curve balls at us, throwing different challenges when we least expect them. Working through these challenges is not always easy when you are alone. Let me help you and your 'ohana grow together and be more vital than ever. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I have more than 15 years of experience working within the home, school, clinic-based, and community-based settings, ranging from individual, family, and couples counseling.
(808) 201-2651 View (808) 201-2651
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Duncan Therapy Services LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96826  (Online Only)
Aloha! I am licensed marriage and family therapist Bridget Duncan and I have excellent counseling abilities as well as an instinctive grasp of interpersonal familial dynamics, which has helped my clients get a deeper understanding of their behaviors and progress toward their therapeutic goals My approach to therapy begins with providing clients with a secure and healthy environment in which they may explore their difficulties without fear of criticism. The theoretical methods that I employ are determined by the clients I work with and their presenting issues.
Aloha! I am licensed marriage and family therapist Bridget Duncan and I have excellent counseling abilities as well as an instinctive grasp of interpersonal familial dynamics, which has helped my clients get a deeper understanding of their behaviors and progress toward their therapeutic goals My approach to therapy begins with providing clients with a secure and healthy environment in which they may explore their difficulties without fear of criticism. The theoretical methods that I employ are determined by the clients I work with and their presenting issues.
(808) 374-5107 View (808) 374-5107
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Elizabeth Anderson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, MBSR, Therapy, Teacher
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96815
Aloha, I welcome your call or email. I am a licensed Marriage and Family therapist and have been working with clients for over 20 years in the field of mind & body wellness, Clinical Hypnotherapy, CBT, DBT, Wellness Counseling and Mindfulness. The combination of blended talk therapy, with other healing modalities provide additional resources for my clients and patients. Somatic therapy, Timeline Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, incorporated with traditional therapy help you to release anxiety, stress or unwanted thoughts and reset your intentions to live mindfully and stay present. I work with individuals, couples, and famiIies.
Aloha, I welcome your call or email. I am a licensed Marriage and Family therapist and have been working with clients for over 20 years in the field of mind & body wellness, Clinical Hypnotherapy, CBT, DBT, Wellness Counseling and Mindfulness. The combination of blended talk therapy, with other healing modalities provide additional resources for my clients and patients. Somatic therapy, Timeline Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, incorporated with traditional therapy help you to release anxiety, stress or unwanted thoughts and reset your intentions to live mindfully and stay present. I work with individuals, couples, and famiIies.
(808) 207-9804 View (808) 207-9804
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Krzystof Chin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, MAMFT
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96814  (Online Only)
As a marriage and family therapist, I provide therapeutic services to a range of clients, from those struggling with intimate partner conflict to navigating the obstacles of co-parenting. I approach each individual, couple, or family with compassion and excel to establish a caring, collaborative and welcoming environment with consideration for one's cultural background, sexual orientation, and life experiences.
As a marriage and family therapist, I provide therapeutic services to a range of clients, from those struggling with intimate partner conflict to navigating the obstacles of co-parenting. I approach each individual, couple, or family with compassion and excel to establish a caring, collaborative and welcoming environment with consideration for one's cultural background, sexual orientation, and life experiences.
(808) 207-8410 View (808) 207-8410
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Cindy S Ellington
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA , LMFT
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96814
I have given marriage seminars and workshops in the last few years to improve communication skills, conflict resolution, and regain the friendship and intimacy in the relationship.
By creating a safe environment, I seek to understand each person, their unique story and to bring about health, fulfillment and support. I believe every individual, couple and family has a story they bring into therapy that includes not only their situation at hand, but a personal, family and diverse experiential history. My approach in therapy is tailored toward the uniqueness of each person. Together, we will work towards facilitating more self-understanding, more effective ways of handling life challenges, and strengthening relationships with others.
I have given marriage seminars and workshops in the last few years to improve communication skills, conflict resolution, and regain the friendship and intimacy in the relationship.
By creating a safe environment, I seek to understand each person, their unique story and to bring about health, fulfillment and support. I believe every individual, couple and family has a story they bring into therapy that includes not only their situation at hand, but a personal, family and diverse experiential history. My approach in therapy is tailored toward the uniqueness of each person. Together, we will work towards facilitating more self-understanding, more effective ways of handling life challenges, and strengthening relationships with others.
(808) 202-6620 View (808) 202-6620
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Rowena Santos Laiño
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96814  (Online Only)
Is your marriage in trouble or is your blended family just too hard? You can learn better ways of communicating, build intimacy, and trust.
Are you struggling with depression, anxiety, or difficulties in your relationships? Do you have trouble sleeping, lose your temper easily, or frequently feel irritable? Have you experienced trauma or PTSD? In therapy, you can learn practical coping skills that will help thrive and address the problems that you face. We will build out from your strengths and focus on developing solutions that work for your life and your circumstances. We will choose the best evidence-based treatments that can help you meet your goals. You can build lifelong skills for living better and gain insight into what powers your challenges.
Is your marriage in trouble or is your blended family just too hard? You can learn better ways of communicating, build intimacy, and trust.
Are you struggling with depression, anxiety, or difficulties in your relationships? Do you have trouble sleeping, lose your temper easily, or frequently feel irritable? Have you experienced trauma or PTSD? In therapy, you can learn practical coping skills that will help thrive and address the problems that you face. We will build out from your strengths and focus on developing solutions that work for your life and your circumstances. We will choose the best evidence-based treatments that can help you meet your goals. You can build lifelong skills for living better and gain insight into what powers your challenges.
(702) 706-1125 View (702) 706-1125
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Barbara Mullen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96801
I have been a Marriage and Family Therapist for 30 years, 20 of them in Hawaii.
I think therapy is a process, a journey. It's important to have a comfortable traveling companion, one who listens carefully without judgment and with whom you feel safe and nurtured as you explore those issues that are keeping you from being your whole, authentic, and joyful self. I work with individuals, couples and families who are seeking growth and connection in both their inner lives and in relationships. I have extensive experience treating sexual abuse, loss, depression, anxiety, and trauma.
I have been a Marriage and Family Therapist for 30 years, 20 of them in Hawaii.
I think therapy is a process, a journey. It's important to have a comfortable traveling companion, one who listens carefully without judgment and with whom you feel safe and nurtured as you explore those issues that are keeping you from being your whole, authentic, and joyful self. I work with individuals, couples and families who are seeking growth and connection in both their inner lives and in relationships. I have extensive experience treating sexual abuse, loss, depression, anxiety, and trauma.
(808) 419-7269 View (808) 419-7269
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Dawn Baxter
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSCP, LMFT, CSAC, ICADC
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96801
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with experience treating individuals, couples, families and groups.
I believe in a holistic, solution-focused, behavioral, systemic approach to therapy that addresses mind, body and soul to achieve clear goals in therapy. I will allow you to process in an environment that promotes safety. Should you chose to work with me we will collaborate to address areas of your life that keep you stuck and get you to a place of self-esteem and acceptance. My specialties include but are not limited to: Depression, PTSD, anxiety, OCD, childhood/adult trauma, sex abuse, relationship problems, low self-esteem, addiction issues and any other concerns keeping you from living life to your full potential.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with experience treating individuals, couples, families and groups.
I believe in a holistic, solution-focused, behavioral, systemic approach to therapy that addresses mind, body and soul to achieve clear goals in therapy. I will allow you to process in an environment that promotes safety. Should you chose to work with me we will collaborate to address areas of your life that keep you stuck and get you to a place of self-esteem and acceptance. My specialties include but are not limited to: Depression, PTSD, anxiety, OCD, childhood/adult trauma, sex abuse, relationship problems, low self-esteem, addiction issues and any other concerns keeping you from living life to your full potential.
(808) 419-3801 View (808) 419-3801
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Alicia C. Banda
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, CHT
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96801
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Heart Centered Hypnotherapist, I currently work with individuals, couples, children, adolescents and families, using a variety of therapeutic and educational techniques, including Heart Centered Hypnotherapy to release the boundaries that may limit their lives.
Do you believe you can experience optimal joy and live your limitless potential? Let's work together to release overwhelming feelings such as anger, guilt, sadness, jealousy, trauma and anxiety to enable you to live your life to the fullest.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Heart Centered Hypnotherapist, I currently work with individuals, couples, children, adolescents and families, using a variety of therapeutic and educational techniques, including Heart Centered Hypnotherapy to release the boundaries that may limit their lives.
Do you believe you can experience optimal joy and live your limitless potential? Let's work together to release overwhelming feelings such as anger, guilt, sadness, jealousy, trauma and anxiety to enable you to live your life to the fullest.
(808) 518-6883 View (808) 518-6883
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Brian R Lim
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96801
Life, with all it's joys, is also filled with challenges. Whether with our marriage, our children, and/or other personal issues, we all sometimes feel a loss at how to cope with these struggles. I offer a safe environment, where together, we can work through these issues and find the grace to heal and change. I believe healthy change and healing first starts with the individual and I can help you to begin this process today!
Life, with all it's joys, is also filled with challenges. Whether with our marriage, our children, and/or other personal issues, we all sometimes feel a loss at how to cope with these struggles. I offer a safe environment, where together, we can work through these issues and find the grace to heal and change. I believe healthy change and healing first starts with the individual and I can help you to begin this process today!
(855) 338-4173 View (855) 338-4173
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Megan Heinsohn
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, CSAC
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96814
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Substance Abuse Counselor. I have over 10 years of experience working with children, adolescents, and adults that have experienced severe trauma, grief, depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, addiction and many other mental health conditions. I offer support for you to find coping skills to manage anxiety, depression, addiction, and other behavioral concerns. I provide a safe and comfortable environment for you to express your feelings and to utilize all of your strengths on your journey to meet your full potential.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Substance Abuse Counselor. I have over 10 years of experience working with children, adolescents, and adults that have experienced severe trauma, grief, depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, addiction and many other mental health conditions. I offer support for you to find coping skills to manage anxiety, depression, addiction, and other behavioral concerns. I provide a safe and comfortable environment for you to express your feelings and to utilize all of your strengths on your journey to meet your full potential.
(808) 419-3092 View (808) 419-3092
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Teresa Lathrop
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96801
I have lived and worked in Hawaii for over 30 years, first working on Kauai, and for the past 25 years on Oahu. I am the first clinically licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State. I specialize in relationship counseling, but have significant experience and expertise in helping those with depression, anxiety, trauma recovery, and parent-adolescent issues. I see individuals, couples, and families in treatment. I am a teacher and supervisor of those studying to become marriage and family therapists. I teach Marriage and Family Therapy at the University of Hawaii.
I have lived and worked in Hawaii for over 30 years, first working on Kauai, and for the past 25 years on Oahu. I am the first clinically licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State. I specialize in relationship counseling, but have significant experience and expertise in helping those with depression, anxiety, trauma recovery, and parent-adolescent issues. I see individuals, couples, and families in treatment. I am a teacher and supervisor of those studying to become marriage and family therapists. I teach Marriage and Family Therapy at the University of Hawaii.
(808) 495-0192 View (808) 495-0192
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Big Island Health Clinic, INC.
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96801  (Online Only)
Akoni & Josephine are Licensed Marriage & Family Therapists (LMFT).
Big Island Health Clinic is committed to providing treatment that is Culturally Competent & Trauma Informed. Collectively we provide individual and family therapy for all ages. There are 3 therapists to choose from. Elvina Nartatez's areas of specialties include anger management & PTSD. Josephine Volpe is a certified substance abuse, anger management and Hospice counselor. Akoni Kanaele provides treatment for behavioral & anxiety disorders.
Akoni & Josephine are Licensed Marriage & Family Therapists (LMFT).
Big Island Health Clinic is committed to providing treatment that is Culturally Competent & Trauma Informed. Collectively we provide individual and family therapy for all ages. There are 3 therapists to choose from. Elvina Nartatez's areas of specialties include anger management & PTSD. Josephine Volpe is a certified substance abuse, anger management and Hospice counselor. Akoni Kanaele provides treatment for behavioral & anxiety disorders.
(808) 518-2648 View (808) 518-2648
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Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, QMHP
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96814
Therapy focuses on individual empowerment, being inspired to face life's challenges, and to be able to embrace change. My name is Jocelyn G. Cordero, and I'm a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Psychotherapist with experience in working with a diversity of people. I provide a multicultural perspective to therapy through a warm approach offering guidance, support, insight, and hope for improving overall life situation.
Therapy focuses on individual empowerment, being inspired to face life's challenges, and to be able to embrace change. My name is Jocelyn G. Cordero, and I'm a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Psychotherapist with experience in working with a diversity of people. I provide a multicultural perspective to therapy through a warm approach offering guidance, support, insight, and hope for improving overall life situation.
(808) 201-2269 View (808) 201-2269
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David M. Nabea
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Ala Moana-Kakaako, Honolulu, HI 96801  (Online Only)
Being human is hard! Living in the current world with all its complexities is even harder; thus, the need to talk to someone at some point, about something, has become inevitable. All our sessions are conducted via Telehealth while maintaining the nurture, care, professionalism and the listening ear you need in order to help resolve the presenting issues - be they marital, parental or individual. I have a very specific interest in couples but also enjoy treating mood disorders using an amalgamation of evidence-based modalities and inner child work for certain presentations. Either way, the client drives the process.
Being human is hard! Living in the current world with all its complexities is even harder; thus, the need to talk to someone at some point, about something, has become inevitable. All our sessions are conducted via Telehealth while maintaining the nurture, care, professionalism and the listening ear you need in order to help resolve the presenting issues - be they marital, parental or individual. I have a very specific interest in couples but also enjoy treating mood disorders using an amalgamation of evidence-based modalities and inner child work for certain presentations. Either way, the client drives the process.
(808) 698-7725 View (808) 698-7725

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Marriage Counseling Therapists

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.