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Doug Hoover @ SOAR Counseling and Consulting, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
Trained in many marriage and pre-marriage counseling programs over many years, I found what cracks the code to living well with self and others.
Everyone who cares deserves to be happy. Life is also full of ups and downs. This is especially true when it comes to relationships. Sometimes, we push through the struggles and eventually feel some relief. But other times we can feel stuck, repeating patterns or habits that get us nowhere or keep us in a rut. Anger or distancing from one another often replaces the love and closeness we want and deserve in our relationships. If you want to be happy again, or just be a better you, I am here for you.
Trained in many marriage and pre-marriage counseling programs over many years, I found what cracks the code to living well with self and others.
Everyone who cares deserves to be happy. Life is also full of ups and downs. This is especially true when it comes to relationships. Sometimes, we push through the struggles and eventually feel some relief. But other times we can feel stuck, repeating patterns or habits that get us nowhere or keep us in a rut. Anger or distancing from one another often replaces the love and closeness we want and deserve in our relationships. If you want to be happy again, or just be a better you, I am here for you.
(910) 565-9317 View (910) 565-9317
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Traci Lee Kaiser
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD, Veteran
Verified Verified
Southern Pines, NC 28387  (Online Only)
I specialize in Trauma-focused work, occupational stress, mood disorders, family (parenting and marital) stress, difficult life changes, and all things Anxiety.
Change is hard, but worth it. Clients can expect an empathic and caring, but no-nonsense, approach to tackling issues. I specialize in Military/Veteran issues, anxiety and trauma treatment to clients residing anywhere in TX, NC & AK. No travel required! I provide a non-judgmental atmosphere that enables frank, honest discussions that promote change. I have a good history with clients seeking out initial care as well as those who have been unsuccessful with other therapists. I do not accept insurance, as I believe care should be authentic and person-centered without coding or billing guidelines dictating care.
I specialize in Trauma-focused work, occupational stress, mood disorders, family (parenting and marital) stress, difficult life changes, and all things Anxiety.
Change is hard, but worth it. Clients can expect an empathic and caring, but no-nonsense, approach to tackling issues. I specialize in Military/Veteran issues, anxiety and trauma treatment to clients residing anywhere in TX, NC & AK. No travel required! I provide a non-judgmental atmosphere that enables frank, honest discussions that promote change. I have a good history with clients seeking out initial care as well as those who have been unsuccessful with other therapists. I do not accept insurance, as I believe care should be authentic and person-centered without coding or billing guidelines dictating care.
(979) 491-9875 View (979) 491-9875
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Kardia Counseling & Consulting, PLLC
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, NCC, LCAS, AADC, LMHC, LCMHC-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southern Pines, NC 28387  (Online Only)
CLINICAL FOCUS: Deployment Challenges Addictive Disorders Family Dynamics Marital Issues Grief & Loss School Difficulties Depression Anxiety Adjustment Disorders PTSD PSYCHO-EDUCATION FOCUS: Adjustment Parenting Relapse Prevention Reintegration Child Development Teacher Mentoring Forgiveness.
Kardia Counseling & Consulting began with the idea that the healing process is as much about what you feel and think as it is HOW you think about your feelings; the notion that healing, at its core is the repairing of our soul; to be done respectfully, compassionately and with conscious intention. The realignment of our innermost "being-ness" with that of our true nature could indeed recenter and heal us; that our deepest desires for internal peace, blissful coexistence with loved ones and even the contemplation of true happiness is within our reach.
CLINICAL FOCUS: Deployment Challenges Addictive Disorders Family Dynamics Marital Issues Grief & Loss School Difficulties Depression Anxiety Adjustment Disorders PTSD PSYCHO-EDUCATION FOCUS: Adjustment Parenting Relapse Prevention Reintegration Child Development Teacher Mentoring Forgiveness.
Kardia Counseling & Consulting began with the idea that the healing process is as much about what you feel and think as it is HOW you think about your feelings; the notion that healing, at its core is the repairing of our soul; to be done respectfully, compassionately and with conscious intention. The realignment of our innermost "being-ness" with that of our true nature could indeed recenter and heal us; that our deepest desires for internal peace, blissful coexistence with loved ones and even the contemplation of true happiness is within our reach.
(910) 722-1062 View (910) 722-1062
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Tricia Kendrick Buttkus
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southern Pines, NC 28387  (Online Only)
She specializes in treating anxiety, depression, behavioral and learning difficulties, parenting, self esteem, empowerment, loneliness and other peer related issues,childhood traumas, shame, marital conflict and conquering major life adjustments/transitions.
Tricia believes in being hands on interactive with her clients, and does not utilize passive listening. She understands most importantly, that although your pain and experiences may be similar to someone else, that no two people are alike, therefore, the degree to which it effects you is unique and personal to yourself. She is compassionate and her goal is to empower you to get back in touch with your needs, and find effective / healthy ways to get your core needs met. Tricia believes in treating the whole person, as it is the most successful way to achieve life long happiness within yourself, and your relationships.
She specializes in treating anxiety, depression, behavioral and learning difficulties, parenting, self esteem, empowerment, loneliness and other peer related issues,childhood traumas, shame, marital conflict and conquering major life adjustments/transitions.
Tricia believes in being hands on interactive with her clients, and does not utilize passive listening. She understands most importantly, that although your pain and experiences may be similar to someone else, that no two people are alike, therefore, the degree to which it effects you is unique and personal to yourself. She is compassionate and her goal is to empower you to get back in touch with your needs, and find effective / healthy ways to get your core needs met. Tricia believes in treating the whole person, as it is the most successful way to achieve life long happiness within yourself, and your relationships.
(714) 482-6686 View (714) 482-6686
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Donald Sanders
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, MA, MDiv
Verified Verified
Southern Pines, NC 28387  (Online Only)
I am also a Certified Prepare/Enrich Facilitator that can help prepare couples for marriage and enrich the lives of married couples.
I believe that everyone may experience unfortunate circumstances during their lifetime. When this happens, we may need a helping hand in managing our difficulties. It takes a brave person to ask for assistance but this is the first step in the healing process. If you would like for me to be that helping hand, please contact me. I offer Tele-Counseling at various times in order to meet the busy schedules that many people have in their lives. Please feel free to email me and request an appointment.
I am also a Certified Prepare/Enrich Facilitator that can help prepare couples for marriage and enrich the lives of married couples.
I believe that everyone may experience unfortunate circumstances during their lifetime. When this happens, we may need a helping hand in managing our difficulties. It takes a brave person to ask for assistance but this is the first step in the healing process. If you would like for me to be that helping hand, please contact me. I offer Tele-Counseling at various times in order to meet the busy schedules that many people have in their lives. Please feel free to email me and request an appointment.
(919) 726-0353 View (919) 726-0353
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Nicole Sutton LCSW, LCAS, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LCAS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Stressors come in many forms: family issues, relationship struggles, grief and loss, addiction, health problems, just to name a few. Often, these create conflicts – internal and external – and confusion about who we are, what we stand for, and what our life priorities are. My approach is designed to help clients disentangle these conflicts and to make sense of the confusion. During this process, clients learn about self-validation, finding a stable sense of identity and self, effective communication in relationships with others and oneself, creating healthy boundaries, and reducing stress.
Stressors come in many forms: family issues, relationship struggles, grief and loss, addiction, health problems, just to name a few. Often, these create conflicts – internal and external – and confusion about who we are, what we stand for, and what our life priorities are. My approach is designed to help clients disentangle these conflicts and to make sense of the confusion. During this process, clients learn about self-validation, finding a stable sense of identity and self, effective communication in relationships with others and oneself, creating healthy boundaries, and reducing stress.
(910) 387-1423 View (910) 387-1423
Photo of Denise Frutchey, Psychologist in 28387, NC
Denise Frutchey
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
I have been a licensed clinical psychologist for over 35 years. I have devoted my career to working with clients of all ages who come to me with some form of emotional distress or problems in living. I help them to understand the cause of their pain, educate about the importance of healthy boundaries and guide them to find relief and workable solutions. To this end I use family of origin therapy, psychodynamic therapy, cognitive-behavioral therapy and EMDR. I address such concerns as anxiety and depression, panic, trauma, self-esteem and couples and family conflict.
I have been a licensed clinical psychologist for over 35 years. I have devoted my career to working with clients of all ages who come to me with some form of emotional distress or problems in living. I help them to understand the cause of their pain, educate about the importance of healthy boundaries and guide them to find relief and workable solutions. To this end I use family of origin therapy, psychodynamic therapy, cognitive-behavioral therapy and EMDR. I address such concerns as anxiety and depression, panic, trauma, self-esteem and couples and family conflict.
(910) 601-3351 View (910) 601-3351
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Jessica Moretz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSWA
Verified Verified
Now accepting new clients! Are you tired of feeling stuck? Do you imagine having someone you can process your feelings with that will help you navigate challenging emotions? I appreciate partnering with clients to empower them as they navigate difficult transitions and challenges in life.
Now accepting new clients! Are you tired of feeling stuck? Do you imagine having someone you can process your feelings with that will help you navigate challenging emotions? I appreciate partnering with clients to empower them as they navigate difficult transitions and challenges in life.
(910) 460-3921 View (910) 460-3921
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Carolina Counseling Services - Southern Pines, NC
Counselor, LCMHCS
Verified Verified
Life can be challenging, therapy can help. Our independently contracted therapists work with couples, adults, teens and children to get to where they want to be. We contract with friendly, experienced, licensed clinicians with different specialties who are able to help. Our Southern Pines and Pinehurst offices are warm and welcoming, allowing you to feel at home when meeting with your therapist. Please visit the website for detailed information on how we may assist you: www.CarolinaCounselingServices.com.
Life can be challenging, therapy can help. Our independently contracted therapists work with couples, adults, teens and children to get to where they want to be. We contract with friendly, experienced, licensed clinicians with different specialties who are able to help. Our Southern Pines and Pinehurst offices are warm and welcoming, allowing you to feel at home when meeting with your therapist. Please visit the website for detailed information on how we may assist you: www.CarolinaCounselingServices.com.
(910) 725-6336 View (910) 725-6336
Photo of Healing Reflections Pllc, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 28387, NC
Healing Reflections Pllc
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
There are many reasons and life situations that move us toward seeking out therapy but making that decision to take the first step toward healing, for most clients, can be uncertain and often anxiety provoking. It's important for the therapists at Healing Reflections to create a compassionate and collaborative space to begin building a therapeutic relationship based on feelings of safety and a sense of trust helping clients to heal wounds, discover their purpose and feel more alive. Immediate Openings for new clients!
There are many reasons and life situations that move us toward seeking out therapy but making that decision to take the first step toward healing, for most clients, can be uncertain and often anxiety provoking. It's important for the therapists at Healing Reflections to create a compassionate and collaborative space to begin building a therapeutic relationship based on feelings of safety and a sense of trust helping clients to heal wounds, discover their purpose and feel more alive. Immediate Openings for new clients!
(910) 541-5380 View (910) 541-5380
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Norma Moody Faulk
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC, LCAS
Verified Verified
Having the life you want is absolutely possible. Relationships improve when people learn better communication skills - i.e. Learning to speak so you are heard, and listen to understand - better communication skills will improve your quality of life. It's not that complicated. We all need somewhere to stay, somewhere to go, something to do and someone to love. If key parts of your life are missing or not working, let's get together and create a plan just for you. Email me today to get the ball rolling. See you Soon!
Having the life you want is absolutely possible. Relationships improve when people learn better communication skills - i.e. Learning to speak so you are heard, and listen to understand - better communication skills will improve your quality of life. It's not that complicated. We all need somewhere to stay, somewhere to go, something to do and someone to love. If key parts of your life are missing or not working, let's get together and create a plan just for you. Email me today to get the ball rolling. See you Soon!
(910) 363-2507 View (910) 363-2507
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Lauren Blackburn
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Beginning therapy can sometimes feel uncomfortable, but it doesn't have to be! With the right therapist, it can be a casual and enjoyable experience, building trust and safety so that you know that you can share what is most on your mind and resolve the concerns that keep you from functioning at your best.
Beginning therapy can sometimes feel uncomfortable, but it doesn't have to be! With the right therapist, it can be a casual and enjoyable experience, building trust and safety so that you know that you can share what is most on your mind and resolve the concerns that keep you from functioning at your best.
(910) 725-6336 View (910) 725-6336
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Play Therapy of the Pines, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LCMHC, RPT-S™
Verified Verified
Waitlist for new clients
We like to consider ourselves play connoisseurs! Dr. Megan (owner) is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and a Registered Play Therapist, and Kayla is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Both Dr. Megan and Kayla have advanced training in different play therapy modalities and truly specialize in working with children. They believe in empowering children to make their own choices, take responsibility, and assert their autonomy by engaging in an accepting, safe, and trusting therapeutic relationship. Our office is designed for kids with adults in mind! :)
We like to consider ourselves play connoisseurs! Dr. Megan (owner) is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and a Registered Play Therapist, and Kayla is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Both Dr. Megan and Kayla have advanced training in different play therapy modalities and truly specialize in working with children. They believe in empowering children to make their own choices, take responsibility, and assert their autonomy by engaging in an accepting, safe, and trusting therapeutic relationship. Our office is designed for kids with adults in mind! :)
(910) 446-1650 View (910) 446-1650
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Tracy Goldberg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
If you are looking for someone who can help you resolve concerns in a nonjudgmental environment, I am available to assist you! I enjoy working with children, adolescents and their families. I also enjoy working with adults and couples. I like to help examine your difficulties and provide new insight into situations that may assist you or your family member (s) in making changes.
If you are looking for someone who can help you resolve concerns in a nonjudgmental environment, I am available to assist you! I enjoy working with children, adolescents and their families. I also enjoy working with adults and couples. I like to help examine your difficulties and provide new insight into situations that may assist you or your family member (s) in making changes.
(910) 725-6336 View (910) 725-6336
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Jill Yang, LCMHC, NCC, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHC, NCC, PLLC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southern Pines, NC 28387  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Are you having issues with a difficult person? Are you tired of fighting and endless discussions? Do you have difficulty communicating your feelings. Do you suffer from anxiety or depression and it's impacting your relationships. Do you lack the motivation to make real changes in your life? Are you an empty nester and unsure how to move forward? Is your work and leisure time out of balance? Then let's talk because I can help.
Are you having issues with a difficult person? Are you tired of fighting and endless discussions? Do you have difficulty communicating your feelings. Do you suffer from anxiety or depression and it's impacting your relationships. Do you lack the motivation to make real changes in your life? Are you an empty nester and unsure how to move forward? Is your work and leisure time out of balance? Then let's talk because I can help.
(910) 714-9037 View (910) 714-9037
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Moriah Willis
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, MEd, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
Southern Pines, NC 28387  (Online Only)
Are you feeling hopeless? Overwhelmed? Anxious? Maybe you are fearful of the future or struggling with the past. Have you experienced trauma that you desperately wish to heal from? My goal is to help you find the strength and purpose you need to reduce these feelings long-term. You want to get your life back, and I want to help!
Are you feeling hopeless? Overwhelmed? Anxious? Maybe you are fearful of the future or struggling with the past. Have you experienced trauma that you desperately wish to heal from? My goal is to help you find the strength and purpose you need to reduce these feelings long-term. You want to get your life back, and I want to help!
(910) 841-2039 View (910) 841-2039
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Sara R. Byrd
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Life can be challenging, with many twists and turns along the way. We may even find that events and circumstances in life are not what we expected or are out of our control. In those times, we seek to find strength and encouragement to endure and perhaps even rebuild. I believe that everyone has the potential to rise above their circumstances, no matter what they may encounter. We can turn disappointment, hurt, or pain into learning experiences that help us grow.
Life can be challenging, with many twists and turns along the way. We may even find that events and circumstances in life are not what we expected or are out of our control. In those times, we seek to find strength and encouragement to endure and perhaps even rebuild. I believe that everyone has the potential to rise above their circumstances, no matter what they may encounter. We can turn disappointment, hurt, or pain into learning experiences that help us grow.
(910) 504-9276 View (910) 504-9276
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Rose Yarborough
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPCS, JSOTS, CATP
Verified Verified
If going to a traditional office for therapy and medication management doesn't appeal to you, there is another option. Harley Grace Farm & Counseling Center combines evidence based mental health treatment with a non-traditional setting. Both therapy and medication management is offered. Therapy is designed to meet your individual needs; you can take a walk on the farm's trails, utilize activities with horses to actually practice new skills necessary to meet your goals or select one of the seating areas on the farm. The farm is a safe place of acceptance, growth & healing as we are all deserving of happiness & second chances.
If going to a traditional office for therapy and medication management doesn't appeal to you, there is another option. Harley Grace Farm & Counseling Center combines evidence based mental health treatment with a non-traditional setting. Both therapy and medication management is offered. Therapy is designed to meet your individual needs; you can take a walk on the farm's trails, utilize activities with horses to actually practice new skills necessary to meet your goals or select one of the seating areas on the farm. The farm is a safe place of acceptance, growth & healing as we are all deserving of happiness & second chances.
(910) 585-9074 View (910) 585-9074
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Roilene Williamson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
I believe that it is essential to incorporate the client’s strengths, culture, and worldview when developing and refining treatment. I use an integrative therapy approach that is rooted in Person-Centered, Attachment Theory, Strengths-Based, and Cognitive-Behavioral modalities. I am passionate about providing clients with a comfortable space to explore, refine, and develop tools and strategies that can benefit their present and future selves.
I believe that it is essential to incorporate the client’s strengths, culture, and worldview when developing and refining treatment. I use an integrative therapy approach that is rooted in Person-Centered, Attachment Theory, Strengths-Based, and Cognitive-Behavioral modalities. I am passionate about providing clients with a comfortable space to explore, refine, and develop tools and strategies that can benefit their present and future selves.
(910) 302-3774 View (910) 302-3774
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All-American Counseling, Wellness and Consulting
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, BSW, C-SWHC, C-ASWCM
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Clinicians have ties and connections to the military, veterans, LEOs, first responders and surrounding areas for: Cumberland, Moore, Harnett, Robinson, New Hanover, Forsyth and Lee, NC counties. Our contracted clinicians provide a wide range of services and specialties. We appreciate the opportunity to be of help and look forward to all of us working together. Bobette Smith, LCSW, owner, is military connected and a Fayettevillian. Experience with: Service Members and families, first responders, children, adolescents, adults, geriatrics, families, small groups, intensive outpatient groups and clinical inpatient hospital care.
Clinicians have ties and connections to the military, veterans, LEOs, first responders and surrounding areas for: Cumberland, Moore, Harnett, Robinson, New Hanover, Forsyth and Lee, NC counties. Our contracted clinicians provide a wide range of services and specialties. We appreciate the opportunity to be of help and look forward to all of us working together. Bobette Smith, LCSW, owner, is military connected and a Fayettevillian. Experience with: Service Members and families, first responders, children, adolescents, adults, geriatrics, families, small groups, intensive outpatient groups and clinical inpatient hospital care.
(833) 846-3463 View (833) 846-3463

Marriage Counseling Therapists

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.