Photo of Kenneth Silvestri, Marriage & Family Therapist in 07042, NJ
Kenneth Silvestri
Marriage & Family Therapist, EdD, CCH
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
As a Clinical Member of the American Association of Marriage & Family Therapists, I help families to recognize unhealthy patterns and assist them in creating solutions together.
I begin the collaboration with each person seeking my professional counsel by asking, "What is it you're not getting in your life that causes you pain?" Together, we explore the resources that will allow them to heal, change and grow. During the 30 years I have practiced psychotherapy, from a systemic or holistic perspective, I have assisted individuals, parents, couples, adolescents and caregivers to see and experience their lives differently.
As a Clinical Member of the American Association of Marriage & Family Therapists, I help families to recognize unhealthy patterns and assist them in creating solutions together.
I begin the collaboration with each person seeking my professional counsel by asking, "What is it you're not getting in your life that causes you pain?" Together, we explore the resources that will allow them to heal, change and grow. During the 30 years I have practiced psychotherapy, from a systemic or holistic perspective, I have assisted individuals, parents, couples, adolescents and caregivers to see and experience their lives differently.
(973) 928-8552 View (973) 928-8552
Photo of Golda Jewel Safren, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Golda Jewel Safren
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
You're at your wits end. Things are not okay...and haven't been in a long time. It might be your marriage, your child or a personal struggle that torments you each day. It feels like you tried lots of things already, but nothing's worked Calling a therapist is not easy but you realize you can't really do this alone. You are not sure what changes you'll have to make, or if you're really ready to make them. You want a therapist who can help you make changes in a way that feels safe. Blinded by our own habitual thinking, it is almost impossible to find a new way of being-without a guide. I work with people to help them gain insight
You're at your wits end. Things are not okay...and haven't been in a long time. It might be your marriage, your child or a personal struggle that torments you each day. It feels like you tried lots of things already, but nothing's worked Calling a therapist is not easy but you realize you can't really do this alone. You are not sure what changes you'll have to make, or if you're really ready to make them. You want a therapist who can help you make changes in a way that feels safe. Blinded by our own habitual thinking, it is almost impossible to find a new way of being-without a guide. I work with people to help them gain insight
(862) 579-4179 View (862) 579-4179
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Shanta Kerina Pamphile
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, LMHC, NCC, ACS
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
You never need to traverse this path alone. I want to acknowledge your courage in embarking on this transformative journey. I often liken my role in this therapeutic voyage to that of a co-pilot or co-author of your life story. My core mission is to empower individuals to unlock their fullest potential by navigating unresolved issues, healing from trauma, and breaking free from maladaptive patterns that have held them back from happiness.
You never need to traverse this path alone. I want to acknowledge your courage in embarking on this transformative journey. I often liken my role in this therapeutic voyage to that of a co-pilot or co-author of your life story. My core mission is to empower individuals to unlock their fullest potential by navigating unresolved issues, healing from trauma, and breaking free from maladaptive patterns that have held them back from happiness.
(973) 798-9956 View (973) 798-9956
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Joe Gandarillas
Counselor, LAC, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
Joe works with individuals and couples of all sexual orientations and creates a safe, non-judgmental, supportive, interactive, and empowering environment while working with each client to define their therapeutic goals and create a plan to achieve them. Joe is passionate about taking an integrative and holistic approach to facilitate growth and navigate healing, in which each session is personalized, collaborative, and unique to the client.
Joe works with individuals and couples of all sexual orientations and creates a safe, non-judgmental, supportive, interactive, and empowering environment while working with each client to define their therapeutic goals and create a plan to achieve them. Joe is passionate about taking an integrative and holistic approach to facilitate growth and navigate healing, in which each session is personalized, collaborative, and unique to the client.
(609) 564-1689 View (609) 564-1689
Photo of Michael P. Lepak, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Michael P. Lepak
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
If you are struggling with anxiety, depression, work issues, or relationship problems, I am here to help. I have many years of experience helping individuals and couples overcome the internal and external roadblocks that prevent them from living the life they want to lead. I can help you heal from anxiety, depression, trauma, a lack of intimacy and/or emotional connection, chronic arguing, low self-esteem and negative thought patterns. I am an empathic listener and help people identify and resolve underlying emotional patterns, thoughts, and behaviors that contribute to their current problems.
If you are struggling with anxiety, depression, work issues, or relationship problems, I am here to help. I have many years of experience helping individuals and couples overcome the internal and external roadblocks that prevent them from living the life they want to lead. I can help you heal from anxiety, depression, trauma, a lack of intimacy and/or emotional connection, chronic arguing, low self-esteem and negative thought patterns. I am an empathic listener and help people identify and resolve underlying emotional patterns, thoughts, and behaviors that contribute to their current problems.
(973) 380-0912 View (973) 380-0912
Photo of Sharon Rothbart, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Sharon Rothbart
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, RN, MSW, LCSW, LLC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
I will assist you in identifying your strengths, and to help you flourish. I appreciate people's complexities, and will help you formulate the best way to move toward your goals. I have experience supporting clients with anxieties, panic, trauma, depression, isolation, divorce, relationship and career issues, and the grief associated with illness or loss. I am an avid LGBTQ supporter and have a deep commitment to human rights and exploring the gender spectrum as part of a healthy journey in life. I also help parents understand, support and accept children who are in the process of questioning their gender.
I will assist you in identifying your strengths, and to help you flourish. I appreciate people's complexities, and will help you formulate the best way to move toward your goals. I have experience supporting clients with anxieties, panic, trauma, depression, isolation, divorce, relationship and career issues, and the grief associated with illness or loss. I am an avid LGBTQ supporter and have a deep commitment to human rights and exploring the gender spectrum as part of a healthy journey in life. I also help parents understand, support and accept children who are in the process of questioning their gender.
(973) 888-1125 View (973) 888-1125
Photo of Barbara Reese, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Barbara Reese
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CEDS-S
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
As Eating Disorder and DBT specialists we want to offer you or your loved one, the highest quality of care - Pediatric, Adolescent, and Adult. We understand the challenges that children and parents face today. Our aim is to offer support and guidance to individuals and families seeking expert and early intervention. We are committed to help you return to the path of full health. Barbara Reese is an Intensively Trained DBT Practitioner, Certified Eating Disorder Specialist-Supervisor, and is certified in both CBT-E and in Family- Based Treatment (FBT), for pediatric, adolescent, and adult eating disorders.
As Eating Disorder and DBT specialists we want to offer you or your loved one, the highest quality of care - Pediatric, Adolescent, and Adult. We understand the challenges that children and parents face today. Our aim is to offer support and guidance to individuals and families seeking expert and early intervention. We are committed to help you return to the path of full health. Barbara Reese is an Intensively Trained DBT Practitioner, Certified Eating Disorder Specialist-Supervisor, and is certified in both CBT-E and in Family- Based Treatment (FBT), for pediatric, adolescent, and adult eating disorders.
(973) 783-2292 View (973) 783-2292
Photo of Madeline Till, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Madeline Till
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Are you a talented, intelligent, person who walks around with feelings of anxiety depression and shame? Shame, that you feel underwater, that you are not living up to your potential, or that you maybe ruined what should have been a great life? My understanding of shame/resilience is at the core of my work as I believe that shame can significantly contribute to much of the stress and unhappiness we experience. Personally, having changed careers at midlife and walked a path that is unconventional, I deeply understand how shameful it can feel to believe you are an outsider.
Are you a talented, intelligent, person who walks around with feelings of anxiety depression and shame? Shame, that you feel underwater, that you are not living up to your potential, or that you maybe ruined what should have been a great life? My understanding of shame/resilience is at the core of my work as I believe that shame can significantly contribute to much of the stress and unhappiness we experience. Personally, having changed careers at midlife and walked a path that is unconventional, I deeply understand how shameful it can feel to believe you are an outsider.
(973) 512-7001 View (973) 512-7001
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Stephanie Anne Bourgeois
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker since 1997 and in private practice since 2012, I offer individual psychotherapy for adolescents and adults and also provide couples and family therapy. I offer traditional therapy as well as alternative holistic/somatic treatments such as body psychotherapy, EMDR and sandtray therapy. My work is deeply informed by a holistic mind/body/spirit approach to healing and well-being.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker since 1997 and in private practice since 2012, I offer individual psychotherapy for adolescents and adults and also provide couples and family therapy. I offer traditional therapy as well as alternative holistic/somatic treatments such as body psychotherapy, EMDR and sandtray therapy. My work is deeply informed by a holistic mind/body/spirit approach to healing and well-being.
(973) 988-4317 View (973) 988-4317
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Alein Haddad-Perez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR, SEP, NJ, NY
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Have you been in therapy for some time yet still feel stuck? Do you find yourself feeling disconnected from your body, your feelings, or the people you love? I believe that everyone has the capacity to live a happy and a fulfilling life, and I can help you get there. Regardless of how long you’ve been battling anxiety, depression, relational problems, trauma, or issues of self-esteem, I will accompany you in your healing journey with compassion and acceptance. As a trauma therapist, I rely on my knowledge of the neurobiology of trauma, Polyvagal , structural dissociation, and attachment theory to guide my interventions.
Have you been in therapy for some time yet still feel stuck? Do you find yourself feeling disconnected from your body, your feelings, or the people you love? I believe that everyone has the capacity to live a happy and a fulfilling life, and I can help you get there. Regardless of how long you’ve been battling anxiety, depression, relational problems, trauma, or issues of self-esteem, I will accompany you in your healing journey with compassion and acceptance. As a trauma therapist, I rely on my knowledge of the neurobiology of trauma, Polyvagal , structural dissociation, and attachment theory to guide my interventions.
(862) 292-4844 View (862) 292-4844
Photo of Israel Martinez, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Israel Martinez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
My group practice specializes in work with the LGBTQ+, consensually non-monogamous, and kink/BDSM communities. Are you worried that most therapists will not truly understand you or that you will have to censor yourself in therapy because of your sexual and/or gender minority status? I had these same concerns and they motivated me to become a psychotherapist who could help others like me. We will work together in a safe and relaxing environment to discover and actualize the solutions you need in order to live a more fulfilling life.
My group practice specializes in work with the LGBTQ+, consensually non-monogamous, and kink/BDSM communities. Are you worried that most therapists will not truly understand you or that you will have to censor yourself in therapy because of your sexual and/or gender minority status? I had these same concerns and they motivated me to become a psychotherapist who could help others like me. We will work together in a safe and relaxing environment to discover and actualize the solutions you need in order to live a more fulfilling life.
(862) 370-3653 View (862) 370-3653
Photo of Linda DiTullio, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Linda DiTullio
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Change and well being are possible. Relationships and circumstances of life often present challenges that overwhelm us mentally, emotionally, and physically. As a result we develop blocks in our thinking, feelings, and develop physical symptoms that cause distress and prevent us from functioning at an optimal level. I am dedicated to understanding your unique experiences and history. Together we develop a plan creating a well balanced integration between thoughts, feelings, and behavior. Development of trust and the practice of mindful awareness enables self reflection, clarity of perspective and compassionate understanding of your history as it impacts present day choices.
Change and well being are possible. Relationships and circumstances of life often present challenges that overwhelm us mentally, emotionally, and physically. As a result we develop blocks in our thinking, feelings, and develop physical symptoms that cause distress and prevent us from functioning at an optimal level. I am dedicated to understanding your unique experiences and history. Together we develop a plan creating a well balanced integration between thoughts, feelings, and behavior. Development of trust and the practice of mindful awareness enables self reflection, clarity of perspective and compassionate understanding of your history as it impacts present day choices.
(973) 821-7524 View (973) 821-7524
Photo of Kelly Zanetich, Psychologist in 07042, NJ
Kelly Zanetich
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
My priority is to create a safe, trauma-informed, LGBTQ+ affirming, culturally responsive space for you to heal and grow. I provide a mindfulness, attachment, compassion, and body-based approach that makes and holds space for all parts of you-thoughts, emotions, body, sexuality, relationships, cultural experience, and inner wisdom. I'm trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS-Level 2), Somatic Experiencing (SE), Relational Psychodynamic Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
My priority is to create a safe, trauma-informed, LGBTQ+ affirming, culturally responsive space for you to heal and grow. I provide a mindfulness, attachment, compassion, and body-based approach that makes and holds space for all parts of you-thoughts, emotions, body, sexuality, relationships, cultural experience, and inner wisdom. I'm trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS-Level 2), Somatic Experiencing (SE), Relational Psychodynamic Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
(201) 335-0454 View (201) 335-0454
Photo of Laura Holland, Licensed Professional Counselor in 07042, NJ
Laura Holland
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, ATR, EMDR
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
My goal is to support you in finding meaning and being more present in your life, utilizing a holistic approach that fits your unique strengths, needs, and culture. I am passionate about supporting teens, adults, and couples through this client-lead, goal-oriented approach. I am a counselor, art therapist, and certified in EMDR. These approaches allow me to meet a wide array of client needs, from day-to-day stress and anxiety, to the healing of deep trauma wounds or other stuck points as we expand toward your new areas of growth. Together, we will focus on your strengths to create a plan that feels supportive and achievable for you.
My goal is to support you in finding meaning and being more present in your life, utilizing a holistic approach that fits your unique strengths, needs, and culture. I am passionate about supporting teens, adults, and couples through this client-lead, goal-oriented approach. I am a counselor, art therapist, and certified in EMDR. These approaches allow me to meet a wide array of client needs, from day-to-day stress and anxiety, to the healing of deep trauma wounds or other stuck points as we expand toward your new areas of growth. Together, we will focus on your strengths to create a plan that feels supportive and achievable for you.
(973) 791-8508 View (973) 791-8508
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Abraham Sharkas
Counselor, MS, LAC, NCC
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
My ideal client is grappling with anxiety, navigating significant life adjustments, or undergoing profound personal transformations. They seek a therapy that blends PsychoSpiritual insights and Somatic practices, appreciating a culturally nuanced approach. They aim for a space of safety and deep understanding, aspiring to transform challenges into wellness and seeking a sanctuary where their journey is not only respected but celebrated.
My ideal client is grappling with anxiety, navigating significant life adjustments, or undergoing profound personal transformations. They seek a therapy that blends PsychoSpiritual insights and Somatic practices, appreciating a culturally nuanced approach. They aim for a space of safety and deep understanding, aspiring to transform challenges into wellness and seeking a sanctuary where their journey is not only respected but celebrated.
(973) 355-7852 View (973) 355-7852
Photo of Gabby Celeiro, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Gabby Celeiro
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BFA, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
We are collectively experiencing trauma due to events like the pandemic, climate change, violence in our communities, and political strife. Trauma therapy techniques can help us explore how direct or indirect challenges are impacting our lives. Together, with kindness and compassion, we will gain a deep understanding of your life experience and identify, augment, and employ your strengths to the fullest. Individual growth and stability are possible when we are willing to look at all aspects of ourselves and apply that learning and understanding when navigating our lives in the chaotic world we live in.
We are collectively experiencing trauma due to events like the pandemic, climate change, violence in our communities, and political strife. Trauma therapy techniques can help us explore how direct or indirect challenges are impacting our lives. Together, with kindness and compassion, we will gain a deep understanding of your life experience and identify, augment, and employ your strengths to the fullest. Individual growth and stability are possible when we are willing to look at all aspects of ourselves and apply that learning and understanding when navigating our lives in the chaotic world we live in.
(973) 878-0672 View (973) 878-0672
Photo of Leora Perlman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Leora Perlman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Waitlist for new clients
My work is dedicated to helping you embrace who you are in order to live a fulfilling and balanced life. I focus on developing your ability to understand the powerful connection between your mind and body. This insight facilitates a path toward healing from current and past challenges. During the course of our work, I will help you develop your "Emotional Intelligence" (understanding of what motivates feelings and actions) and acquire the tools needed to overcome barriers blocking growth and change. Once you gain these coping skills, you will find yourself open to loving relationships, living in the present and creating a more fulfilling life.
My work is dedicated to helping you embrace who you are in order to live a fulfilling and balanced life. I focus on developing your ability to understand the powerful connection between your mind and body. This insight facilitates a path toward healing from current and past challenges. During the course of our work, I will help you develop your "Emotional Intelligence" (understanding of what motivates feelings and actions) and acquire the tools needed to overcome barriers blocking growth and change. Once you gain these coping skills, you will find yourself open to loving relationships, living in the present and creating a more fulfilling life.
(646) 679-5992 View (646) 679-5992
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Debbie S Frank
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
As I reflect on my many years of practicing psychotherapy , I have found that what has been the most helpful is the authenticity of the therapeutic relationship. This is where you, the client, will learn to trust and open up about yourself. This process of self reflection will help you identify and understand the deeper parts of you. Whether your problem is self esteem, family issues, or intimacy , understanding yourself in a meaningful way will allow you to be more content in your daily living. Psychotherapy is a place where you can learn to feel better about yourself.
As I reflect on my many years of practicing psychotherapy , I have found that what has been the most helpful is the authenticity of the therapeutic relationship. This is where you, the client, will learn to trust and open up about yourself. This process of self reflection will help you identify and understand the deeper parts of you. Whether your problem is self esteem, family issues, or intimacy , understanding yourself in a meaningful way will allow you to be more content in your daily living. Psychotherapy is a place where you can learn to feel better about yourself.
(862) 210-9947 x2 View (862) 210-9947 x2
Photo of Sherree Lynn Pecci, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Sherree Lynn Pecci
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
I am a clinician who works holistically with those who wish to find clarity in their lives. I am inspired to do this work because of my own life journey. I am able to listen and understand people. I am a dedicated and compassionate worker who cares deeply for the people I treat. I have worked with people who struggle with relationship and spiritual issues, family problems, job-related issues, women's' issues, and help those who wish to improve their communication skills. I am good at helping those to learn how to ask for and get what they want in life.
I am a clinician who works holistically with those who wish to find clarity in their lives. I am inspired to do this work because of my own life journey. I am able to listen and understand people. I am a dedicated and compassionate worker who cares deeply for the people I treat. I have worked with people who struggle with relationship and spiritual issues, family problems, job-related issues, women's' issues, and help those who wish to improve their communication skills. I am good at helping those to learn how to ask for and get what they want in life.
(908) 320-4746 View (908) 320-4746
Photo of Rachel Khints, Counselor in 07042, NJ
Rachel Khints
Counselor, LMHC, MA, MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042  (Online Only)
We are intended to grow, evolve, and thrive. My role is to be one part of a healing and growth-oriented journey, - helping to clarify and navigate the struggles and problem areas that get in the way of achieving these things. I am experienced in treating a variety of problem areas including trauma, coping challenges, grief and relationship difficulties. I am also specialized in treating individuals with and affected by addiction. I work with families and couples, as well as facilitate psychotherapy and recovery groups. My approach is holistic and integrative, tailoring my interventions to meet the individual's therapeutic needs.
We are intended to grow, evolve, and thrive. My role is to be one part of a healing and growth-oriented journey, - helping to clarify and navigate the struggles and problem areas that get in the way of achieving these things. I am experienced in treating a variety of problem areas including trauma, coping challenges, grief and relationship difficulties. I am also specialized in treating individuals with and affected by addiction. I work with families and couples, as well as facilitate psychotherapy and recovery groups. My approach is holistic and integrative, tailoring my interventions to meet the individual's therapeutic needs.
(646) 762-6386 View (646) 762-6386
Marriage Counseling Therapists

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.