Margalis Fjelstad, PhD, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist in Castle Rock
Are you in relationship with someone who is unpredictable, overly intense, critical and discounting of your feelings? Would you like to understand and develop skills to deal with this "crazy-making" situation?. It's not your fault. You may be in a relationship with a borderline or narcissist. Learn effective ways to cope. Reduce your stress. Increase self-nurturing. Tune into your deepest wants and needs. Find your sense of self again. Visit my website at for more information.
My new book, "Healing From a Narcissistic Relationship: A Caretaker's Guide to Recovery, Empowerment and Transformation," is now available for pre-order from Learn what to expect and how to handle ending a relationship with a narcissist. Recover your self-esteem and emotional strength.
Do you have specific questions or want help negotiating difficult interactions with a narcissist or borderline? I'm available for phone consultations to deal with your specific needs. Send me an e-mail at and we can set up a time to talk.
Take the first step to help. Call or Email Margalis Fjelstad now - (719) 310-2482


  • Years in Practice: 20+ Years
  • School: Oregon State University
  • Year Graduated: 1978
  • License No. and State: MFT-796 Colorado


  • Avg Cost (per session): $120 - $130
Accepted Payment Methods: Discover, Mastercard, Paypal, Visa

Margalis Fjelstad's Groups

Stop Caretaking a Borderline/Narcissist

CARETAKER class--NOW ONLINE ONLY-- and available wherever you live. Go to Are you in a relationship with someone who is unpredictable, overly emotional, blaming, over-controlling and critical of you? Do you walk on eggshells? No matter how much YOU do, nothing gets better? Get out of the fog, confusion, guilt and depression. Recover your self-esteem, reconnect to your own needs, and stop caretaking this relationship. Class follows the topics in my book, "Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist".Audio Power Point slides and a downloadable WORKBOOK included.

More about this group


  • Narcissistic Personality
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem


  • Anxiety
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Life Coaching
  • Spirituality
  • Trauma and PTSD

Mental Health

  • Personality Disorders

Client Focus


  • Adults

Treatment Approach

Treatment Orientation

  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Mindfulness-based (MBCT)
  • Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT)
  • Reality Therapy
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)


  • Individuals
Last Modified: 11 Mar 2017
Margalis Fjelstad, PhD, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist in Castle Rock

Margalis Fjelstad

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT